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  1. And this is part of why we have high rates. This job can ruin us, and it can make our life difficult from time to time too.
  2. Formerly Penelope of Mirage, and a Terb recommended Sp of 2015, I am pleased to announce I will be hitting the big city after a staggering, close to year long hiatus. I'll be arriving to entertain you in the Airport region. What's more, the stunning Camilla Lush and I will be offering Duos. on Saturday, February 13th from 2:00 pm onwards. I will be looking for playful companions for solo romps from Sunday February 14th to Tuesday February 16th At 5'7 I am a long-legged, blue-grey eyed, thin lady with 1950's curves. Let me soft skin, natural, 32D breasts, 35 inch hips and tiny waist make your jaw drop. Let my delicate hands caress your body, and my soft, feminine voice soothe away all worries and ease all tension. To book, please message me on here, or email me at [email protected]. You can also contact me over the phone at 613-714-5214. I look forward to seeing some familiar faces, and finding new partners in debauchery. Until we meet... -Chloe Summers.
  3. Just a quick update! I have secured a new phone. I'm in a much better mood,and I appreciate everyone's help :) I'll catch up on your responses tomorrow morning, as I plan to continue this with uber and wind mobile. Again, thanks for your time and suggestions, they helped me feel a lot calmed and a lot less alone. Best, -Chloe
  4. Thanks, Ice. I'll be sure to look into that. So a few updates. The website the police linked me is useless, and I need to go through my provider. Intially called Wind, and they told me the IMEI bann would be for WIND only. Customer service for the site the police gave me told me it should be on all servers for all providers. Called Wind back: Because I bought my phone with Telus, unlocked it ( yeah, spend 800 and had to pay more money to unlock the darn phone) and brought it to Wind they are unable to take my IMEI # down and help me. Look up my IMEI # on the site the police gave me and no ban was issued.
  5. I don't think it is covered in my home owners insurance, I don't recall seeing anything phone related in the small print. I never installed the app on my phone, all the device manager is telling me is my phone was last on before midnight, and that it is currently off, and has not been turned back on. Wind was not more helpful, they wanted to disable my line but seeing how I can call it, should it ever be turned on, and that it is finger print locked, I found it unnecessary. I'll take a look at all other links provided. I'll try and pressure Uber, I have sent two emails with no response, funny, they responded to my two " I left my cell in an Uber emails within five minutes'. If they won't give me the information or at least contact the people on my behalf I will not be using their services anymore.
  6. Unfortunately after a lovely date last night I took an uber, and left my cellphone in the car Within an hour I had discovered it was missing, but was unable to call as my phone was, well, lost. So, I'm currently at 'the office' and called around. My findings are: According to Android tracking, my phone was shut off within the hour I noticed it was missing, as it was last active on the 23rd. My phone is currently off. This is odd because my battery was at 80%, therefore it was impossible for it to have died within an hour. This indicated someone stole it, as they turned it off when they found it to prevent it going off in the cab, especially if the ' call your phone at top volume for 5 minutes straight function' was activated. Uber will not give me the information of the people who were in the cab ( the driver I had said four people were in after me, within that time frame). Uber also doesn't want to contact them on my behalf. The police were also useless. Completely useless. My phone is technically a lost item. They told me to go to protectyourdata.ca to put my IMEI# in and get a ban on all phone companies. Sadly, you can only search IME#'s to see if your device was stolen. You cannot report a stolen number. I tried calling several times; it appears they are either busy or closed. I called my provider, and they took my # and placed a ban- however, it only works for Wind mobile. My phone is also unlocked, and we all know what people can do with SIM cards. I'm pretty well fucked, right? And not in a good way.. If anyone has suggestions I'd greatly appreciate them.
  7. I am back! Sadly I will only be available Wednesday mornings/early afternoons for the foreseeable future. In the meantime I have all weekend to play :D I hope to see you guys then. -Chloe. ( please book via here, or email at [email protected]. Thanks lovelies. -Happy Hobbying.
  8. I'm back! Though just for the day. Exams will be over and I am well over due to let my hair down and have some fun! Get exactly what you want for Christmas this year ;). Upscale accommodations. Limited appointments available. Book soon, before I'm gone again..... Due to the location I am looking for a couple of discreet gentlemen to spend time with. Must either have been seen by myself before, have two Sp reviews, or have a P411 account. Advance bookings require a deposit to hold the appointment due to limited space. I am also a low volume SP, so I'd like to ensure all of my appointments are met and that no one was left disappointed for nothing. Not to worry, if you cancel four hours in advance you will absolutely get your deposit back. Yes, I do have a cancellations list, just in case. Who knows, you may get lucky ;). I'm very much looking forward to the big day :D. Happy early Christmas/holidays! Pm or email me at [email protected] to book a getaway, or to have any questions answered. -Chloe.
  9. Unfortunately I'll be taking a leave of absence until November. As it stands I cannot give an exact date. I will be updating my blog and posting photos until I return, though. All my information and updates can be found here, and I will be looking to post on the announcement section as well.:http://chloe-summers.com/ Happy hobbying to all, -Chloe
  10. There has been a massive increase in requesting discounts lately, and I've found very few Sp's in several spaces that have not encountered it. We're not talking small, either. We're talking huge discounts. Something to bare in mind is this: yes, it is a business. However, we are not selling stuff we buy at wholesale to peddle through our stores, nor just offering our skills to people. We are selling our bodies, our emotions, and connections with people. We also put ourselves at great risk to do this. There are a vast amount of expenses that come with the job. We lose out on a lot, especially socially, when we do this job. We set our rates for a reason. Please respect that. Little discounts here or there? If the SP is fine with than then sure. That's their business. Long term relationship? Sure, if the SP wants to do it. Multiple hour discounts? Sure, again, depending on the SP. Please do not: -Yell at, sweat at, or insult the SP for having no discount. - Tell the SP his/her services are _________, so ___ him/her! - Tell she Sp she/he is not _____ enough or ____ enough to deserve those rates. - Tell the SP that so and so does this. Or so and so is ___ and __ and charges less, so you should too! Or, you are not as good as so and so. - Tell the SP they are unkind for charging too high. - Tell the SP they are not worth the money. - Agree to said rate, and then try to haggle in person, or conveniently forget 40$ or more ( or any amount for that matter) at home or in the car. - Bully the SP by telling them they will never get work, or enough work to survive if they keep charging what they are charging. - Tell the Sp you are doing them a favour by spending money on them. - Tell them they were ugly, or fat anyways. Myself and others have encountered all of, or even more of these behaviours. Stop. Yes, we have bills to pay like any other business owner. Yes, we should choose to model our business in ways that keep us competitive. Yes, all business owners have bills to pay, and make discounts too. But again, we are selling ourselves. We put ourselves at risk and sacrifice a lot to be here to be with you. It does not mean we don't love our jobs. Myself and others do. But it's not an easy job. It's not a well liked, open job. We are part of a social underground. Please respect who we are. Please respect what we do. Please respect what we risk and sacrifice to be with you. If you want discounts, do it respectfully and reasonably. If the fee is too high, move on. If you don't want to move on, save up the money. It should be this simple. It shouldn't be this mean. We are human beings too.
  11. Honestly, I never gave the risks much thought. Mu MD didn't feel concerned so i'm assuming it must be rare. HPV warts seem unpleasant, though liveable. My concern was the types of cancer, which increases your likelihood of death. I feel, all in all, I am happy I took the risk.
  12. I hope no one minds me adding a few more. 1) You're too beautiful to be doing this(smart was already addresses) 2) You know you're too good for this, right? It's so degrading. 3)If I could afford you I'd keep you at my house and pay for everything and you'd never have to work here again. Come on, people. Be nice and respectful to your Sp. Berlin nailed this post bang on. I hope people take it to heart.
  13. I've got some free time Wednesday and am looking for a mid-week date! Snuggles, good conversation and sensual activities are in mind. Now accepting pre-bookings from fun, smart, interesting, sensual, adventurous gentlemen. If you think we'd have some fun together please PM me on here, or email me at [email protected] A lot of details have been placed on my lyla profile, please take a look and check out my photoshoot. I hope it catches your eye and revs your imagination! As a new SP, reviews can take time. As it happens two lovely, reputable gentlemen were kind enough to recommend me. :http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=217192&highlight=Chloe+Summers While emailing or PM'ing me please tell me a little about yourself, what makes a date wonderful for you, and what time you'd like to meet this Wednesday. Please note that I am a low volume Sp. Your presentation is important for my consideration. I do not provide a menu, and I do not engage in explicit messaging. If you have something very specific in mind, please ask before our date, in a respectful manner. All references to board userhandles and SP recommendations quickens my reply. For dates over 1 hour, I require a 100$ deposit sent via email money transfer. If you have to cancel our date I will have to keep the deposit, unless you cancel four hours or more in advance. I apologize for any inconvenience that may cause. I do not enjoy dates less than an hour in duration;It makes it difficult to flirt, tease, chat, and build a connection. My appetite can be voracious and I feel that mutual enjoyment emotionally and physically make the best dates. During our date feel free to share a beverage of your choice with me. Please note the bottle must be new, unopened, and more importantly shared! I am a light drinker and may have only one or two drinks, please don't be offended. Now that the nitty-gritty is out of the way, relax, unwind, and prepare yourself for a very important date ;) -Chloe.
  14. I also love the Hitachi. Glass dildos are a favourite of mine too. Hot or cold.
  15. Welp, I was going to have a calm, rational discussion with you, and explain why people have a problem with 'mennenists', it's more reasonable than you think! But it just seems you want to be flippant, make excuses, be insulting, and feel entitled to rude behaviour. It also seems like you don't want to learn anything at all and maybe change your mindset in a positive way and have better relationships. It doesn't matter how many women you have had. If you want to retire with a wife/girlfriend anywhere you should at least learn how to respect other people, and especially women. Not be obedient and all around useless, but respectful. Judging by your posts on this board you've failed to do that with little reason. I just have to say that feeling entitled to rub your body against someone else in a public space, potentially sweaty, sticky and gross, it's rude. No matter to whom, of any gender. The same with staring at someone. A glance or a check out showing attraction, appreciation is fine, sometimes it's unavoidable and happens with both genders. But staring? And feeling entitled about it?It's just rude. I've had girls do it, ugly men do it, and hot men do it. It's just creepy and disrespectful. You'd go on a bus just to bother people? Jeeze. You mentioned something along the lines of ' go ahead and be insulting'. well, I didn't want to be insulting and saw no need for it. I was simply pointing out that I was not being rude to you, so I saw no reason why you had to be rude towards me( ignoring my posts and only responding to men on the board). Your 'shove your developed world up your ass 'stuff is a pretty rude aside, and it's meaningless. All I meant was that there are issues here pertaining to women, and that it's much worse in developing countries. It had nothing to do with the economy, just cultural mindsets. There was certainly no need for any rudeness to be directed at me. Not that you' give a fuck', but I just feel badly for you now. I doubt you will make much positive change- and that's a bad thing. You seem to confuse basic respect for people with 'loosing what it means to be a man'. Finally, yeah. I'm not a fan of that proff either. That's absurd. If he truly wanted to be gender conscious he could have just picked one of each gender per question, or alternate genders with questions. It just seems like an arbitrary revenge for female oppression in the classrooms. Sure, I'm angry it happened to us, but do I really want to set us back another 10 years or so? Not really.. As someone mentioned- it's not institutionalized oppression, so there really is no need for a social movement to spring out of it. Just for people to be upset, rightfully so. As for Bill-C36, you'd be hard pressed to find any SP who is happy with said law. Everyone migrating from here to other countries just hurts the SP's here- who had nothing to do with the law. That law is not real feminism, because not only does it endanger women, it removes choice from women. Feminism should be about choices for all, so long as it doesn't hurt other people. If a woman wants to be a house wife, an engineer, or an escort, so be it. If a man wants to be a stay at home dad, a nurse, or a doctor, so be it. Please don't confuse both ideologies, lump it in the same category, and spread the idea that it's bad. It's just like liberalism and communism, and right-wing ideologies and fascism.
  16. I just want to avoid assumptions and be sure we are clear here. You post a controversial post on here regarding antifeminism, while seemingly forgetting that the Sp's on this site are women. You admit to having a problem with women and relationships, and have become bitter and crotchety. So instead of of talking with an SP that empathize you and wants to come to an understanding , and maybe even enhance your ability to understand women, and feminism, you decide to obly read and reply to the men's post. That.... looks really bad. Especially while making an antifemminisim post. What's more, I refrain from insulting you, I empathize with you and agree to where you are correct, and even agree with how over the top feminism is bad for everyone and paid respects to kind behaviour you have shown to women..... and in the end you decide to go LOL DIDN'T READ to my posts? You weren't indifferent enough to not post this, to debate with some of the men on the thread, and check back multiple times. As I wrote this I see bow you double backed and addressed some of what I said as I was writinf this- thank you for showing me that basic curtesy ][/b]
  17. Something I can't help but notice- clearly you keep track of this post and are invested. However, aside from replying to my initial reply, ou haven't taken the time to address anything else . I have noticed, though, that you will reapond to men, and add more of your concerns onto what they say or speak with them. This is frustrating because I've taken the time to address your concerns from a fair perspective, and be empathetic towards you, while addressing your concerns. Is there a particular reason for this?
  18. I empathize with you because I know a lot of good men, who do not hurt women and want our rights to go forwards feel the same way. It sucks. There is good feminism, and bad feminism, like everything else. The wrong way to go about it thought is to go on sites like the one you were on, it doesn't solve the problem, misses a lot of points, and encourages war between the sexes. Keep being pro-social in your actions and know that others are with you, and not all women hate men or want to penalize you for everything you do. Just make sure your approaches are correct, your gaze isn't too long, wheb a woman isn't intereated you leave her be after and don't treat her poorly, and whenen you spread your legs a bit too much, make a joke, apologize, or just close them a little more that way no one is offended. It's just curtesy. It shouldn't be about villain zing or harassment ( the leg spreading thing), it should be about mindfulness of space. Unfortunately a lot of men aren't as mindful and it's frustrating. I don't dislike you. I'm just disappointed because the sources you've been on, while validating you, invalidaate the other side ( socially and emotiobally, not logically) and can be harmful. Maybe find material that is more balanced for both gender. More importantly, don't let bigots change your good actions, and turn you into a biggot yourself. ( not saying you are now- I mean in the future. I'm trying to not let the really hateful, mysogonstic posts on certain websites bring me down as well. ) Thanks for explaining yourself fully, and taking good actions towards women in your day to day. P.s. all the big stuff is not taken care of yet, especially in the developing world, and for minorities in our world. Too many bad feminists have left them behind, and it's high time we stopped doing that. Best, -Chloe. QUOTE=oldblueeyez;695600]I want as many women working as possible, making as much money as they possibly can; the more personal income tax that's paid, the lower corporate business taxes will be! :D But I'm starting to feel like shit being a man: if I spread my legs on the bus I risk my pic being taken and shamed on the net for manspreading; if I gaze too long at a hot woman who's dressed-to-reveal, I risk being accused of eye rape; if I strike up a conversation with a woman and I don't look like Channing Tatum, I risk being accused of sexual harassment; etc.; etc. Fighting for legitimate rights is one thing, but it's starting to feel as if the pendulum's swung too far, as if feminism's conquered all the big ass stuff and all that's left to do is to make mens' lives miserable.
  19. I'm very glad to hear it, and am glad you do not participate in those behaviours. It seems, at your core, that you are a good man. The issue is that behaviour is not the norm for your gender( such as relational aggression is the norm for the female gender, which workshops should be implemented for). Myself, many of my family members, friends, amd even enemies have either been raped, beaten, or controlled by a man. As a child or an adult. We all come from different SES backgrounds. I know one man who was molested by a woman as a child, and one man beaten by a girlfriend. I know 15 other people close to me, including myself who have been subjected to violent men, or men who felt they were entitled to our bodies. It doesn't mean the males suffereing did not matter- it does. It's just vastly less common. Date rape can be a very grey area, not all rape is violent. A lot of the time it's the men that didn't underatsnd it was wrong, or how coercive and guilt tripping they were. Or they didm't read the girls body language right and she was submissive and unassertive and scared. They weren't slimy cartoon villians, but unfortunately they did somwthing wrong and harmful. This should be taught in schools. It should be taught to the main perpetrator.It protects both parties. The effects on the girl are obvious, but could you imagine a poor boy of 15 ( who by biology) didn't really understand his actions, inadverdantly coerced a girl ( but not fully understanding the problem) , and realized he did it later after his brain developed more? It seems foolish to us, but at that egocentric , impervious to vulnerability age it makes sense, especially if it's not violent. That poor guy would be distraught, if he is a good person. Please don't make it personal, I can understand how you feel it is personal. I agree, not every man is bad, or a rapist, or violent. However, they all have the potential to be- media and social influence does not help matter. Especially with today's poor parenting and social 'gods' like Chris Brown. Just like all women have the potential to engage in relational aggression and push a person ( predominantly other girls) to suicide. That's why it's best to encourage pro-social behaviours at a stage where social learning and adaptation is most influencial. Just as women should be taught workshops on relational aggression- since I leads to suicide and bullying. I'm very happy you don't act in those behaviours, and hope you continue to be an example to fellow men in that regard. Whether you'd like to admit to it or not, you're a feminist in a lot of was. It shouldn't have to be a bad thing. Like any ideologY, there are extremists for both sides. Please note many of us love men, and people in general. We aren't trying to target a gender, just a behaviour. Again, we have workshops needed for women too, and I hope they are implemented soon so the world can be a better place. We all deserve it. Best, -Chloe. Additional Comments: Johnson, did your father teach you to be weak? If not, how is it teaching others to be weak? Not everyone has good parents, if the world had parents like yours there wouldn't be abuse I disagree, especially from a psychology standpojnt: school teaches pro-social behaviours, just a such as academics. School is highly influential in one's cognitive development, personality development, and social development.
  20. Excellent :) Something I would like to see are women being taught to not hit men,unless it's self defence. Just because, on average, it is not as damaging, doesn't make it right. We really need workshops for youth (both genders) on proper conflict resolution skills. Poor conflict resolution often ends in violence towards spouses and children. It's just not right. It's not 'being manly', or 'being a man'. It's not being a 'justified woman' either. Violence for anyone should be a last ditch to escape violent scenarios, not to punish, demean, or get a point across. Both of these are heart breaking, and I empathize with both sides greatly. :http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/07/09/disney-princess-domestic-abuse-saint-hoax_n_5567711.html :http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/08/11/disney-prince-domestic-violence_n_5662026.html Just remember that while violence happens on both sides roughly as often, there is more physical damage done to women, that's the difference, and why feminism is focusing on our plight first- we are more damaged from it, and have suffered severely throughout history as oppressed members. It's not that feminists don't care about men.
  21. Boys aren't being taught to be ashamed of their gender. That is nothing but the authors opinion of these 'traumatized boys'. No interviews with children, with teachers, with program co-ordinators. Nothing. True feminist ideology actually aids and supports men, which is illustrated a good portion of the comments below, written by men. Seems like an automatically very biased new source, judging by the extremely biased title. Seems like a very poor news source to me. They are not reporting what is going on, they are having someone removed from the situation spouting off their opinion on the situation. They have all these convenient quotes with no links to the original articles for these scarred children. Furthermore, did you actually read why they are doing this? Here is the only article sourced in your article about the event. This is real journalism, it explained the point, who was involved, how it was implemented. It's reporting, and it reported the effects of the program:http://www.dailymail.co.uk/wires/reuters/article-3161856/Male-rugby-players-tackle-sexism-UK-schools-sports-clubs.html#ixzz3fwr9Y7Wb You do realize the anti-sexting photos and sharing/posting them part of the workshops really protect young boys too, right? Considering they might be too nieve to realize the problems that can come of that? Not only psychological damage to the girl, but also criminal charges to the boy. Why is it so damaging and 'scarring' that boys should be taught to respect women, and uphold women's rights? Women are more vulnerable, on average. Substantially more are date raped, and have their nude photos blasted all over the internet by angry male partners. Yes, these issues should be addressed within the school systems. If it turns out men are the targets of a lot of that behaviour too, then of course the workshops should be co-educational. It's not to shame men, it's to mitigate behaviour done by the usual perpetrators- men. Some of the stats in here are just crap, and someone who has studied forensic psychology I will agree that yes, domestic abuse happens just as often to men as women. However, the abuse is different, and less life threatening for men. They are not 'comparable forms of violence". When women are physically abused in a relationship is often results in much more damage. I'm not saying abuse to men is appropriate, and I am very happy the anti-men abuse campaign with Disney princes were out. " The charity also found boys were more likely to say they had been sexually abused by a woman (1,722 cases) than by a man (1,651)." Yes, more likely to SAY. Maybe because they don't want to admit they were molested by a man. More likely to say does not mean they were molested by women more. I can go on and on. Honestly. http://www.telegraph.co.uk/men/thinking-man/11048972/Can-a-man-ever-truly-call-himself-a-feminist.html " I believe in not defining someone by their gender, but as an individual. But I am also a man, with a man's brain, and for whom women are a source of powerful attraction." Uh... isn't that defining himself and his cognitive function by his gender? There is a difference between gossiping about the opposite sex, and attraction, than objectification. Gushing and gossiping and lusting= good, so long as it is consensual. Objectifying= bad. Objectifying is seeing a person as an object to be used for a sole purpose, namely sex. Women, like men who have a good head on their shoulders, understand they can have fancies, crushes, and lust for a person, and see them more than just their sexual side and capabilities. They see the man or woman as a hot babe who they want to shag, and as a person who has other uses, capabilities and skills. The author of the last article doesn't seem to know the difference, and uses that as an excuse for why men cannot truly be feminists. He just doesn't get it, apparently. At least he ' knows the difference between fancying someone and sexual harassment" Well, for his "male sense and over riding male brain", I've just got to give him a whole load of credit for that, apparently. He's a hypocrite who has a hard time understanding basic concepts. While the two articles do not have the same author, it is clear they are in the same silly boat, and that this site is a really poor source of news for anything. So yes, I am disappointed. Meh!
  22. Was it really necessary to post this here? I'm really disappointed you even support this article.
  23. Please pay before. I am sorry for your experience, really I am. I've had instances where I was counting the money and noticed anywhere between 20 to 80$ was missing. Luckily this was before play. Several decided to leave or ' were going to get the rest out of the car' and vanished. it's unfair for us to be put at risk also. As mentioned on here, see verifies independent members, reviewed members, or members who have been on here for a long time with photo sets and the like No client who wants to pay afterwards will be permitted to see me, and a lot o Sp's feel the same. It's not worth the risk to us Let's keep us all safe
  24. It's hard to say whether these books changed my life; certainly gave me much to think about. 1) Awake and dreaming: Kit Pearson. Children's book. 2) Still Alice: Lisa Genova. The horror of alzheimers and the importance of autonomomy, memories, and the argument of living vs. Existing. 3) Maus: Artie Spiegelman. Several stories within a story, he presents a harrowing, honest, unembellished look at the horrors of WWII. 4) Brave New World: Aldus Huxley. A cliche dystopia, but a damn good one. The similarities between that world and our world today gives me chills. We are headed for very bad things. 5) Letters to my grandchildren: David Suzuki. The importance of preserving our natural world, as well as maintaing challenges for self growth and overcoming bigotry. 6)The man who mistook his wife for a hat: Oliver Sacs. A reminder that while case studies are fascinating, at the end of the day they are people. Fascinating, heart breaking and inspiring. 7) When the body says no: the costs of hidden stress: Dr. Gabor Mate. Stress destroys everything. 8)Scary stories to tell in the dark: Alvin Schwartz. These stories prompted my love of horror as a child. As an adult the collection of folk tales speaks of our history, societal fears, and humour amidst dark and scary things. 9) Harry Potter: J.R.R Rowling. I loved these books as a kid and still do. Always. 10) Any books on my Bryer Miggs personality type. If your type resonates strongly with you, it's really helpful to look into resources to enhance yourself.
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