Athos

We live in one screwed up world. I don't understand what drives people to put others down. Is it simply a way in which some people build themselves up by tearing others down. You don't look like me, so there is something wrong with you. You don't find the same sort of woman, man, whatever, attractive, so you must be weird. It just goes on and on. This is a beautiful world, full of people who are diverse in their looks and likes. That's what makes it so amazing. We need to embrace difference ... explore it, revel in it, and enjoy it. oh ... and if it hasn't been said enough: Peachy my dear, you are beautiful ... inside and out.

Well, the title says it all. MN2's departure really sucks. Although of course I wish him all the best. But I'll really miss him. Porthos

you'll be missed MN2 ... all the best. You're a wonderful person, and I wish we'd had the chance to meet in person. Porthos

Of course, FS without a condom is just not on. As for BBBJ vs. CBJ, I'll confess that I prefer without a condom. Having said that, the fact that a lady only offers CBJ has never stopped me from seeing someone that I wanted to see. I'd also add that I've had the pleasure of some CBJs that, quite frankly, left me weak kneed and totally happy. All, in all, I'd say that yes, a condom reduces sensitivity, but not so much that sex suddenly becomes unejoyable, or that I would lose an erection. And besides, how the condom gets put on can also be a lot of fun! Porthos

Homemade baked beans, grilled sausage, nice green salad and fresh crusty bread. Porthos

Just received news that my Mother is being transferred out of hospital and back to her nursing home. The highlight, of course, is that for now she appears to be out of the woods and o.k. The downside, though, is back to the nursing home. All and all, though, I'm relieved. Hopefully life can get back to normal for a while. Porthos

An eagle ... soaring through the skies!

Have a great day ... hope you enjoy yourself Porthos

Happy Birthday to a beautiful lady Porthos

Of course there is also the issue of what would be the remedy. There is no commercial gain from utilization of either the name or the photo. There might be a case that somehow McQueen's image and reputation has been damaged, but given there can be no possible inference that this is actually THE Steve McQueen (unless he is hobbying from the grave), then I don't think that argument would get very far. At the most, there would be request to have the image and name removed, and that request would go to the Board. As RG says, I think the estate probably would have it's sights set a little higher. Porthos

Exactly, And in the larger hotels there are conferences, meeting rooms, restaurants and bars ... all of which bring people in off the street, and people that won't be immediately recognized by the front desk staff. In small hotels, with less daytime traffic, the front desk can sometimes be an issue. But in larger hotels, should never be a problem. Head to the elevator like you owned the place. Porthos

Go with an experienced provider, and explain your situation and your concerns. You won't come across like a bumbling idiot, and you'll leave feeling great about yourself. I think that since entering this lifestyle I've become more comfortable with my sexuality, developed better skills, and in general learned a lot ... both about myself and about how to please a woman. I've tried things (and enjoyed them) that 15 years ago i could never have even imagined. In some ways, if you don't feel like you're very skilled, that's a really good reason to see a professional. You'll do fine, and over time you'll do even better. And believe me, you're not going to get laughed at or made to feel badly about yourself. You'll be treated well, and develop more and more confidence. Go forth and have a great time. Porthos

Happy Birthday Cato ... hope you have a fabulous day. porthos

I do understand why this happens, but I also am somewhat mystified by it. Friendships always exist within specific contexts. I have friends at work ... people whose friendship I really value. I never see them outside of work. We don't socialize. I also have friends that I do socialize with ... some from work, some from other parts of my life. There are a number of ladies I consider friends. Some I consider very special friends. Yet that remains firmly within the context of the SP-client relationship. I'm quite happy with that ... and feel no need to look for more. And I consider it very real. no boundaries crossed. Porthos

So absolutely wonderful to see you posting Penelope. Hope you and your little man are doing well. And, just for valentines day, I've rushed out and flowers, chocolate and teddy bear are on their way to you special delivery. Porthos

I'm with Isabella ... it's Shrove Tuesday, so it's gotta be pancakes. We had fabulous blueberry pancakes, extra crispy bacon, and lots and lots of real maple syrup.

I think differing points of view are really important. I also think it's important not to feel too invested in a position. Getting the last word in doesn't matter, and there are no points for "winning" an argument. That others disagree says nothing about you, how you react to it says a lot. Porthos

It's not something I've tried, but definitely on the list of things I would like to try. In the MMF situation, it strikes me that the key is everyone being comfortable with each other. Porthos

Everyone else has said it, so there's not much point in reiterating it, but this is such a bad idea. Just get a non-sp roommate, and use the additional income to hobby. Wouldn't that be far simpler than the complications and problems that are bound to ensue in what you are proposing.

I usually expect 1-3 days. Although I have found that the surest way to ensure a response is to contact and make plans with someone else. As soon as I have those plans firmed up, the lady I was waiting on is sure to get in touch.

I'd agree with RG ... better to keep professional services separate and apart. Pay for the photos, and if he wants to hire you, he can do so after the fact. Too many complications otherwise. Porthos

My mother's health has taken another turn for the worse. So I'm here at home, driving back and forth to my sister's place to see how she is doing. Could be far worse I suppose. But, I also had to cancel a planned (and much looked forward to) trip to Montreal and an evening with a wonderful lady. Hopefully I can rescheduled sooner rather than later. Porthos