Athos

The best Xmas present one could imagine for Penelope, and for everyone in the CERB extended family. Congratulations beautiful angel! The world is a little bit brighter this evening.

I would second that wish ... I'd also wish that this is the last time we ever hear of such a thing. That everyone would put their guns and weapons down, that those who are troubled and mentally ill get the help they need. That the innocent children of this world would all have the chance to grow up, and realize the joys of life! That we really could find a way to find peace on earth. The events yesterday have left me feeling depressed about the quality of humanity in this world!

Totally agree with this ... one of my best and most memorable experiences at a strip club was when I had arranged to meet one of my favourite dancers at the club and that she would spend till closing with me. No extras involved, just lot's of fun. A lot of time in the CR, time out on the floor having drinks and flirting, back to the CR. Was so much fun. And no worries, no counting, the fee had been set in advance, and no hustle from other girls. Just a great time. It might have been expensive, but less expensive than on a per dance rate, and I probably would have spent that much anyway. Porthos

I'll confess to not having read the website or articles, I'll go back and do it later. But, based on the discussion in this thread, it may be true that "nice" people can commit crimes ... but when they do they still need to be PUNISHED. There is no mitigation because you're nice all the rest of the time "except" when you commit rape. Just my .02. Porthos

Femme Fatale ... definitely. I can't watch Lauren Bacall in a movie without getting completely turned on. O.K. this probably has something to do with the fact that she was also drop dead gorgeous. School girl ... I always feel somewhat embarrassed about how big a turn on that can be. And I do love the suicide girl look. So hot! And glasses and a sexy librarian. Porthos

Decorating the Tree Mulled apple cider The smell of Christmas dinner Bing Crosby singing White Christmas Watching the Grinch on t.v. .... and as many have said ... snow! Porthos

Enjoy the holiday season ... peace on earth would come more quickly if we all just spent more time with our favourite ladies. Set aside some cash for yourself, cause nobody knows what you like and want better than your favourite SP. And rather than looking for deals, tip her extra for taking such good care of you. Porthos

I don't go to clubs very often. So when I do I always verify the price per dance with the first dancer I take to the CR. My trips are so infrequent I'm expecting one day to find that the price has gone up. After that it should be standard for all dancers at the club, unless you negotiate something different (and that would normally be a better rate for a fixed amount of time). I always, from time to time, usually after 3 or 4 dances, confirm the count. "this will be number 4 won't it". Doing that early on tells you if the girl is prone to miscounting, and the dances can be cut off. If she hasn't started miscounting, it also tells her that you're on the ball, know the count, and are keeping track. If a dancer tried to charge more than the standard fee per dance I'd definitely go to management. Good possibility she'd get canned. Unless some sort of "beyond normal service" was being delivered there is no basis for charging above the standard fee. And if more was delivered without discussion in advance (which sometimes happens), then that doesn't change the per dance fee structure, but it should change how much is tipped. Porthos

I look for a certain je ne sais quoi. I usually see it in a smile or a gleam/glimmer in the eye. That and great legs! Porthos

In the spirit of being non-judgemental I'll try to get over my own "ick" reaction. Not much in the way of sexual practices cause that reaction in me. Lots of things that don't turn me on, or that i'm not interested in, but they don't make me recoil. Incest, even consensual adult incest, is one of those. Yes, I'm a victim of my own socialization to taboo. But, having said that, I think it is probably true that so long as people are consenting adults then it's not for me to judge. Incest with children, however, is still totally wrong ... but that falls in my category of sex with children. Porthos

I've previously said in another thread that we shouldn't be judgemental about people's sexual preferences. there are, of course, exceptions. Incest, child pornography and sex with children, and sexual violence that isn't consensual. Those one's I feel fine being judgemental about. I find the mom-daughter thing more than a little icky!

Congratulations. You're posts are always enjoyable to read. Don't stop!

go into private browsing before accessing your favourite sites. Then no record should be kept. Just remember to exit private browsing when you're done. Porthos

I agree with many of the choices above. My favs are: A Christmas Carol (with Alastair Sim) It's a Wonderful Life Miracle on 34th street (original version) I also like the Bells of St. Mary's and White Christmas ... how can it be Christmas without Bing Crosby??? But of course The Grinch that Stole Christmas (original animated version) has to be part of the holiday season. It transports me to my childhood and many wonderful Christmas seasons the way nothing else can. Porthos

People who get off the escalator and then stop immediately, looking around to figure out where they need to go. Hello, the rest of us are coming up behind you with no place to go. Porthos

Chicken with white wine and basil. The key here is you sear the chicken breasts (don't use skinless) in some very hot olive oil, then fry them up nice and golden brown with fresh basil. When they are nicely browned you add a cup of white wine, some more basil, and then simmer away in the pan until the wine reduces. Once done, you take the chicken out, and stir cooked rice through the pan drippings and white wine. Best rice you'll ever taste. Serve with a vegetable of your choice (green beans tonight) along with a fresh garden salad. Porthos

congrats and keep them coming.

Yes I agree completely. And if there is one place where we should be able to express our sexuality without judgement, I would hope that it's this community. Porthos

Indeed it is very much appreciated ... fabulous job. Porthos

number 1 daughter has lost her cell phone ... again!!!

bread and milk ... the staples