Athos

I ate a bad salmon sandwich once and got food poisoning. I literally thought I was going to die! A horrible experience. Hope you are feeling better soon. Porthos

Getting lots done. The pile is getting smaller. And once it's small enough, I can treat myself with some playtime. Porthos

I must say that with ladies I regularly see I sort of feel like I always get the benefits of a loyalty program. If I haven't seen them in a while, sometimes it is an extra passionate welcoming, or a little treat. Truth is, as many have observed before, often the more times you see a lady, the more intense, passionate, and explosive each session gets. I remember once, with a lady I had seen probably 20 times, when the session was over we looked at each other with amazement. Both of us commented that we didn't think that it could get hotter and more intense for us. But suddenly it had. WE had gone off in a different direction, without even talking about it, and found new things about what we liked. It was WOW! I don't think it could have possibly happened that way on a first date. Maybe not even on a 5th. For me, that's the benefit of loyalty. And it's built into finding a lady you genuinely have chemistry with, and it has absolutely nothing to do with the donation. Porthos

Even covered these are gorgeous

My feeling is that this is not a great idea. One thing is that once it's advertised or becomes known, it gets hard to change your mind. What happens if, after 4 visits, you decide you don't want to see someone again. Still your right to do so of course, but now the fellow is angry because he didn't get the reduced rate session. Some guys will view the loyalty program as meaning you're obligated to see them A better way to do this is to negotiate such things one on one with regular and trusted clients. Years ago I saw one lady very regularly. Certainly several times a month, if not weekly. The fact that her incall was across the road from my office didn't help (or did depending on your perspective). After a while she suggested a different fee arrangement than she advertised. Can't remember the details now, but it saved me some money on longer encounters and certainly made me feel valued and helped keep me as a regular client. of course, this approach won't bring in new clients!! So I suppose it depends on whether you're seeking to recruit business or retain business.

Love the vintage pin up girl look

Happy birthday!! Light the sky on fire!!

Problem is that technology has totally supplanted the rules of evolutionary success. Which means we're all on a headlong slide into becoming a planet of dumb-asses! It also means that the bird in Malika's post will likely evolve into the next alpha species. Especially with that outfit!

Welcome and enjoy

Emily, I am so sorry this has happened. As others have said, first the individual in question needs to show more respect. This shouldn't happen to anyone, but when it happens to someone as wonderful as you, it's just downright unfair. It really isn't hard: --Use private browsing on whatever computer you are using --Never use your work computer --Even if you do the above, delete cookies, browsing history, etc. regularly. --Don't leave your computer on where someone can simply hit back and see the last websites you were on --Use a separate phone. If not, make sure no one else uses your phone and you control the billing statements and record of calls. My phone is my phone. No one else in my family uses it, touches it. They have their own! I also don't leave it sitting around. Even at home it is usually in my possession or in my office. --if you do have a separate phone, don't take it home! Leave it locked in your desk drawer at work, or in a filing cabinet. You only need it when hobbying. The rest of the time it can be out of sight and out of mind. --Delete browsing history on your phone, --have a separate e-mail address that doesn't automatically push to your phone. So if your partner does have your phone, and checks your e-mail, only the e-mails she's allowed to see will be there. --Delete text messages immediately after receipt. --Same goes with i-pads or other tablets. Delete, delete, delete. --don't keep escorts names and numbers in your contact list. It's really strange when there are all these names of friends and families followed by TiffanyXXX in your contacts. One of the reasons I really appreciate SPs with two names. Emily Rushton in my contact list could be anyone, and there are lots of people in my list that my SO wouldn't know. Work contacts, etc. If you do keep names and numbers in your contact list, make up a second name for your favorites along with a fake business name or some such thing to cover the trail. But frankly, better not to have them there at all. All of these things are common sense. Others might have suggestions to add. There has certainly been lots of discussion of this over the years on the board. Build a firewall between your hobby world and your real world. As you proceed always ask the question: what would happen if this became public, or what would happen if my SO found out. And the more prominent your position, the more important this must be. I'm a bit of a nobody, so really it's quite likely very few people would care. But within my immediate workplace, this would matter to some people. And certainly with my SO it would matter. At the end of the day, I truly adore the women I see. (Emily, I'm really missing seeing you in St. John's). Just as I wouldn't want my SO to be hurt, I don't want to hurt the other ladies in my life! Consideration and discretion. The two go hand in hand. Porthos

First good night's sleep in about a week. Feeling rested and actually being productive. Portho

A great example!! And I also agree Peachy, you have nothing to worry about. You probably write as well, if not better, than many current university students. Porthos

Redcar, North Yorkshire

Finally seeing the results of a project. Great feeling of accomplishment!

I like Meg because she is sexy and wise! Porthos

Insomnia last night, super busy day today, and a ton of work to do this evening. I'll likely be burning the midnight oil unless I just collapse. Feeling like I was run over by a truck.

Big hugs to you Gabby!!! Porthos

Oatmeal raisin ... Without a doubt. But I do love Peak Freens ... The one's with the jam in the center.