Athos

Sexiest dragon ever!!!!

I just try to ensure the conversation is respectful and genuine. I really enjoy the conversations I have with the fabulous women I see. They are bright, engaging and intelligent women, and generally we have no trouble carrying on a conversation. Think of it like a first date with someone you like and want to impress. You wouldn't pry on a first date, and stay away from more sensitive personal issues. On later dates, sometimes these things get discussed, but they should be at the lady's initiative.

Classic black is good, although there may be other things I like in this pic!!

Best wishes Spud. I hope you find nothing but joy and happiness. We will certainly miss you. Good luck and safe travels!!

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Finding out how much CERB posts I need to catch up on. babe of the Day alone could take hours!!!

Internet finally hooked up again!

I leave my phone on silent in a pocket of an article of clothing that I hope is no where near my body!!! :icon_smile:

Sex is everything worthwhile ... All the senses at work. Touch, taste, sight, hearing (listening to my partners breathing change, her sighs, gasps, moans.... Is hugely erotic) and smell ... Whether it be the aroma of a seductive perfume or the smell of sex itself. And it combines these ... Taste produces touch, etc. And every time can be a different combination!!! The promise and expectation of sex, seduction and flirtation, the passion of sex itself (whether slow, gentle, and luxurious or frenzied and wild) and the warm afterglow of holding your partner in quiet tenderness. Wow!!! Can anything be better??? Porthos

I could likely make an Xmas event, but fall isn't possible sadly.

Fresh corn on the cob ... Picked this morning. Good to be home but looking forward to getting back to the Rock as soon as possible. Internet will be hooked up tomorrow. Yay!!!!

Welcome and enjoy!!! Porthos

I like to finish the date chatting, cuddling, and generally relaxing. I appreciate it if I can have a shower and not feel like I have to be out the door on the minute. Asking for a resumption of sexual activities with only 10 minutes or so left is just disrespectful. If we want the ladies to not be clockwatchers, then we have to be respectful of their time. Porthos

Hope you are feeling better soon Sophia!! Porthos

Booked an appointment, the address seemed vaguely familiar. Turned out to be a high rise condominium built above the office where my spouse worked. Different entrance and street number, but the same building. Wasn't caught, but I actually did tell the lady that I wouldn't be able to book again and why!!! Very nerve wracking going in and out. Porthos

Best wishes for a great time!!

I'm a bit like this as well. For a couple of years there was only one lady I saw, reasonably regularly. This past year, my relocation and her retirement made that impossible. So I've seen a number of new ladies, several I've already repeated with and several more i hope to. I do find that encounters with regulars do build to a different level, because of trust, familiarity, and connection. After all, the reason you repeat is the fact that there was great chemistry the first time. It is always very important, as RG points out, to remember that these are paid companions, no matter how wonderful they are as individuals. Keep some judgement and emotional distance, and if you can't then it's time to see someone new, or get a different hobby.

Hi Bigdawg I didn't think you were. In fact, I thought your post was incredibly tactful and respectful. I was just saying that if you decided to approach the lady make sure she understands you aren't blaming anyone. It can frequently be difficult, especially when talking about something this intimate, to express things so that the other person doesn't feel blamed. Porthos

Sometimes we just don't click, and sometimes it's like spontaneous combustion. I'd suggest thinking about what was disappointing. How did it fall short of your expectations. Was it a nice/good time, or was it bad. It sounds like it was fine, but not quite what you hoped for. You also have to ask yourself, given how you feel, would you book again. If you wouldn't book again, then i'd just write the experience off. Live and learn. If you would book again you have choices. Say nothing and see what the next meeting brings. This would probably be my approach. Second encounters often vary significantly from first meetings, which can have weird dynamics brought about by unfamiliarity. Or, You might want to consider contacting the lady, explaining very politely and respectfully your disappointment, and that you still would like to see her again. I'd even suggest (even if you don't believe it)that the fault might lie with you. Her response might tell you lots about whether you want to book again. But the key here is not to point fingers or lay blame, but to make it a genuine inquiry. Porthos

Lurkers may, in fact, be happy well adjusted people who have full lives and have not succumbed to CERB addiction!

Congrats my friend. Keep the wisdom coming!

Way to go Meg. Congrats!