Athos

Congratulations to the beautiful redheaded Goddess that is Emily!! So very well deserved!

Congratulations. A wonderful achievement.

... Yes, and ask in a polite and respectful way. Just because we're talking about sex there's no reason to be vulgar or crude!! Being vulgar is a sure way to get ignored!

Don't be shy about asking. There's nothing you can ask for that the ladies haven't heard before. And they are quite comfortable with saying no if they aren't offering it. Better to be up front and receive the session you're looking for than to be dissapointed. I personally like going with the flow of a session and seeing what happens. So I don't have many "must haves" going in. But if something is a deal breaker for you, then definitely ask in advance. Reputable ladies will tell you if they think you'd be better off with another provider. Porthos

No flaming .... That would be extremely negative!! I agree with those who say this is a YMMV issue, even with someone who might advertise the service. My rule of thumb is to not expect it. I sometimes ask, more often don't. I always let the lady know if I think I'm going to cum during a BJ. I don't want a surprise affecting the session. I rember one of my favourites, who provided Bbbj but not cim. She made this very clear in her ads. I would see her very regularly, and every once and a while during a fabulous BJ, she would look at me, and say very slowly, do you want to cum in my mouth? It would nearly make me explode on the spot. It was so hot!! The point though, is that this was very much her initiative, and wasn't every time. In some respects it made it even better. For the OP, you really need to ask. Even if we tell you someone, they might not with you, or might not on the first date!! In which case we'll possibly have just built up false expectations on your part and put the lady in a difficult position. Porthos

If they pass laws, they could and likely would, be worse than what we have now. One of the issues that the court raises is that fact that while prostitution is legal in Canada, many of the associated activities are not. This is what effectively criminalizes many activities that would make a woman safer. The government could choose to simply make prostitution itself criminal, and this would certainly appeal to its base. It would largely be unenforceable, and I'm not even sure it would pass a Charter challenge in that it would be a gross intrusion on a sex worker's personal autonomy over their body, and it wouldn't address the concerns around safety that are raised in the case. But it wouldn't surprise me if this was under discussion in some Conservative quarters. In the meantime, if I was a provincial Attorney General I'd be instructing police forces to stop laying charges in these areas until things are sorted out. Porthos

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I'm sure this will be appealed to the Supreme Court of Canada. The court also ordered a 12 month delay before the law is invalidated, so it will be interesting to see what the feds come up with during that time.

Working at home today! A lot of work to do and the motivation to do it. Coffee in hand, I sit down at the computer, go to print something, the printer jams. Clear the jam, now the printer won't work properly. Spend over an hour sorting the problem out, and now I'm generally in a foul mood, irked by the wasted time and my motivation has been sapped! Grrrrr

Why choose ... have both

Yep!!!!!! Haven't cut myself yet!!

Sex is sweeter than chocolate! Some of the best chocolate I've ever had is here on the Island at the Newfoundland Chocolate Company. They make heavenly truffles. Porthos

I absolutely agree as well. I know full well that I could not possibly communicate in French as well as Victoria and others do in English. I remember going to a restaurant in Lisbon once, and discovered that the waitress spoke 6 languages fluently, and that it was expected that she be able to do this for the job. It left me thinking that North Americans are pretty arrogant about feeling that English is all we need to make our way in the world.

Victoria, I would very much agree and I hope you didn't take my post as implying that I consider there to be some sort of correspondence between education levels and classiness. I'd also agree that everyone makes spelling and grammar errors. I'm sometimes mortified when I look back and see mistakes I've made. I do think, however, that in advertisements it is important to try and minimize such things, especially if someone is marketing themselves as classy. But again, I agree this has nothing to do with education. Your ads, for example, speak to an elegant, refined, and very sexy lady. I could well imagine anyone wanting you on their arm for an important banquet where making the right impression is critical. That's not just about spelling and grammar, but the whole tone of the ad. In lots of cases, however, there does seem to be a very real correlation in this biz between lots of spelling and grammar errors and ads whose tone is, to put it politely, anything but classy. How we communicate says something about who we are. Finally, and I suppose this is a peeve of mine, I think we excuse bad communication skills too easily. Again, this isn't about education. I know university grads who are atrocious writers and poor spellers. I fight with my kids, sho shrug and say "I'm just not good at spelling". I also know people without high school education who can write very well. My own parents didn't have much in the way of education, but they could spell. They knew their three Rs. It's puzzling, that in a world of spell checks, online dictionaries and so many aids, that people just don't seem to think it's important. to be honest, I find it sad. This last comment is general in nature, and I want to emphasize that it is not directed at anyone, and certainly not at you Victoria. I think your post is spot on! Porthos

I keep mine trimmed and groomed as well. I also do yard work!

And to be fair, I think my post immediately prior to yours does try to answer his question.

Icebergs ... So incredible!!!

I read somewhere that a party official said that they were going to have the bus redone so voters could focus on issues rather than Danielle's huge rubber breasts. Now I think those would definitely be manmades that would be too hard!! Anyone else find themselves humming "the wheels on the bus go round and round, round and round ...... "?