Amanda-Lee

Does it matter whether or not someone is charging $100 or $200 or $300 for 1 hour appointment? Does that really matter? You seem to have a issue with comparing others, OP. Do your research. If you don't like her rates and that is a turn off for you, then stop complaining and move on. Your comments are rude and degrading. You need to step back and apologize to all the SPs and MAs.You don't have the place to complain about the rates or openly complain about it. Those who you may contact whos rates are higher than what you want to pay, all the SPs and MAs now know you. It may leave a bad impression on you because of your rude and regarding post. If that is harsh, that's fine. You don't need to like me. Telling as it is.

I am sorry this has all happen to you all. When something is scheduled well in advance I either email them or text them a week before and I let them know. I do this to simply say, so X date and X time is still booked, is everything on your end okay. Once I hear back I let them know I will confirm again the day before, then the day of at a certain time and ask if that time is okay. If I am going to a outcall (only to hotels) if my transportation is late or delayed by traffic I send a text to let them know. I also let them know when I am almost to the hotel. Things do happen but we as SPs need to keep better track of when appointments are and when they are. Keeping a calendar helps me but I usually remember, even though, I have it in my calendar. I always ensure I have lots of time to get ready, meaning I won't schedule someone before. Even for outcalls, I won't schedule anyone before I need to leave. You can also ask that if it's in a calendar, but you can also confirm or ask her that you will email, call, text her at a certain date and time to confirm even the day of that way she remembers. I am sad to hear this has happened to all of you, but you can also do your part and confirm with her, tell her when you will be confirming so she knows.

It's something to ask or mention, but if you are unable to find anything in their ads or website (if they have one) then the chances are they don't have that restriction. I had a gentleman schedule a rendezvous with me and before anything happened he is like, "before we do anything, I know I asked on the phone, but are you really okay with a black man?" I explained where you come from doesn't affect me and if you walk in here green, blue, or red; it wouldn't matter to me, it doesn't define a person. He was glad because he expressed he's been insulted and thrown out of doors cause he isn't Caucasian. That isn't something to hear from another person, cause it is plain sad and heart breaking.

I like your thread LisbethNova, it really defines that we as SPs do have a life outside what we do. For the last couple of days, I've had three people keep texting me 'cause they really want to see me, during those times I was busy with my own life. They got sad and said they will try again, well those two other times, I was still busy. Reminded them to schedule a date and time. Some have gotten mad at me or when I tell them when I will be available they snobbly say, "that's too late for me. Do you ever have free time?" I find it rude and have blocked them. I have a life and if I am busy I am busy. I typically leave my work phone at home when I am out, sometimes I bring it if I have a scheduled appointment. I have my set working hour, plus I make other times available. I'm not shy in saying, "sorry, I am busy relaxing, I will be available tomorrow at X time to X time." They guilt trip me with saying, "awe I've been wanting to see you, you can't just see me?" Not the point. Not many really understand we have a life, others understand and appreciate that.

Instead of complaining about it, why aren't you simply reporting those ads if they are fake? Also, if the title has those weird letters and colour stars, why are you clicking on it? Doesn't make sense... Click on a normal title, maybe you will actually find something that is less hurtful for your eyes and you will be more happier in the end.

This is unfortunate to hear. If every gentleman searching for ladies on BP and find their photos are fake, are you reporting those ads to BP? This can help if you are being consistent and not grumble when you discover they are fake, and move on to another lady. You can also email BP those links, the IDs, maybe BP won't care but if they get enough emails maybe something can be done. Personally, I get most of my calls from BP. I don't post all the time, at most I've posted 6 times in one day, but I really only need to post between 1-3 times and from that my day is full. If you want ladies to go to your city you can always inquire them to travel to said city. I am sure she would want a booking deposit for making time to book a hotel, flight/train/bus. As long as you are nice and respectful there shouldn't be an issue in asking, the worst she can say is, "no, I am not planning to tour in that city, but I will keep your inquiry in mind. I can send you an email to let you know if I will be touring in your city."

I'm a youthful 22 y.o., I stand 4'10" with a curvy figure with lightened freckles and a fair complexion. I've been told my eyes are captivating and very attractive and unique. During our rendezvous I will show you my passionate and down-to-earth personality. Allow me to fall into your arms, together we can create warmth Upcoming Schedule: January 30-31: 10am-10pm February 1 & 2: 3pm-9pm February 4-7: 10am-10pm *Looking for a brave gentleman to join myself and another gentleman in a M-M-W experience. If this peeks your interest please follow my directions: - Contact me via e-mail with an introduction - Inquire what is required for a M-M-W - If you have any questions feel free to ask - See website for contact details Warm Hugs, Amanda-Lee

I'm a youthful 22 y.o., I stand 4'10" with a curvy figure with lightened freckles and a fair complexion. I've been told my eyes are captivating and very attractive and unique. During our rendezvous I will show you my passionate and down-to-earth personality. Allow me to fall into your arms, together we can create warmth 2016 Schedule and Select Times: Sunday - 10am-8pm Tuesday - 2pm-8pm Friday - 10am-9pm Saturday - 10am-9pm January Schedule 19-31: Sunday - 10am-8pm Tuesday - 2pm-11pm Thursday - 5pm-8pm Friday - 10am-12am Saturday - 10am-12am Screening Options: Lyla Handle (for discount) P411 Reference *unable to provide a reference or P411, I will be happy to accommodate. *Lyla members if you don't give your handle the discount doesn't apply when you arrive. *Mouth wash is available *Shower is available, I always have fresh towels Preferred411 ID: P208023 Find me on Twitter: @XoxAmandaLeeXox Warm Hugs, Amanda-Lee

As a SPs point of view who has seen a few religious clients, they address their concern to me about it. I remember one said that in his religion being intimate is healthy and it's encouraged (I really don't remember the name of the religion) others were concerned that they had done something terrible and scared their partner would find out, some believed in parts of it and were fine. Everyone is different. Some religions they practice intimate encounters differently, which I was honored to experience. It's not just religion it can also be culture and how they grew up, without having to do with religion at all.

I'm a youthful 22 y.o., I stand 4'10" with a curvy figure with lightened freckles and a fair complexion. I've been told my eyes are captivating and very attractive and unique. I am the epitome of the girl next door a sweet and seductive curvy voluptuous size. Notice for scheduling: I require between 30min-1hr notice during my working hours. Schedule and Select Times for January 6-10: Wednesday Jan. 6 - 2pm-8pm Friday Jan. 8 - 10am-9pm *Extended till midnight Saturday Jan. 9 - 10am-9pm *Extended till midnight Sunday Jan. 10 - 10am-8pm *Extended till 10pm This month only I have a special discount for 1hr30, and 1hr. *When booking provide your handle name* 120/hh 160/45min 200/1hr *Now* 180 260/1hr30 *Now* 220 2016 Schedule and Select Times: Sunday - 10am-8pm Tuesday - 2pm-8pm Friday - 10am-9pm Saturday - 10am-9pm Screening Options: Lyla Handle (for discount) P411 Reference *unable to provide a reference or P411, I will be happy to accommodate. *Lyla members if you don't give your handle the discount doesn't apply when you arrive. *Mouth wash is available *Shower is available, I always have fresh towels Valentine's Where The Roses Are Fresh Pre-booking Valentine's weekend Feb. 12-15 *Special valentine discount 1hr and 2hr. Silky Rose: 180/1hr Divulge to the Rose: 300/2hr Preferred411 ID: P208023 Find me on Twitter: @XoxAmandaLeeXox Warm Hugs, Amanda-Lee

I had signed up for Cam Girl stuff but I found it to not fit with me. It wasn't the same as what you had mentioned, it was a different site. I'm not sure but for myself I offer a free 30 minute meeting either at my place or somewhere discrete. It's to know if both parties are comfortable. I only offer one free meeting per week, or as per my schedule. I also inform them if they found they wanted to book a paid encounter when they are here to bring the amount of donation in case. (I also don't feel it is a waste of time meeting a potential client before an encounter) However, some ladies find this to be interfering with time/schedule or they don't like it. Everyone is different. It's best to inquire with them.

For those who enjoy the more finer things. I stand 4'10" with a curvy figure with lightened freckles and a fair complexion. I've been told my eyes are captivating and very attractive and unique. Screening Options: Lyla Handle (for discount) P411 Reference *unable to provide a reference or P411, I will be happy able to accommodate. *Lyla members if you don't give your handle the discount doesn't apply when you arrive. Notice for scheduling: I require between 30min-1hr notice during my working hours. Schedule and Select Times for January 6-10: Wednesday Jan. 6 - 2pm-8pm Friday Jan. 8 - 10am-9pm Saturday Jan. 9 - 10am-9pm Sunday Jan. 10 - 10am-8pm 2016 Schedule and Select Times: Sunday - 10am-8pm Tuesday - 2pm-8pm Friday - 10am-9pm Saturday - 10am-9pm Preferred411 ID: P208023 Find me on Twitter: @XoxAmandaLeeXox Warm Hugs, Amanda-Lee

I appreciate when clients call to make an appointment and they ask if I would like anything (tea, coffee, chocolates, a treat for my dog, etc.) it is really nice to be asked, it feels warm and fussy. When someone asks about my dog, I always smile, if they bring something for him, I allow them to meet my dog so they can give him the treat. (typically I don't allow clients to meet my dog so if you are meeting my dog, it is a very good sign) Sometimes, I've had clients come and bring me something, it is a surprise and it's very endearing. I don't know about anyone else but I like surprises. Especially if they read somewhere that I like a certain thing (favorite flower: sunflower) and they come and surprise me with it, it is very endearing, cause then I feel special.

I've been a Sugar Baby before. There is a lot of ladies who seek this out because they are in College or University and paying for expenses are high. Typically, Sugar Daddies are businessmen who don't have time to have a real relationship because they are consumed in work. They usually want to spoil someone cause they have a lot of money. They usually request, how many meetings per month and then an allowance. It's not called anything else but allowance. The Sugar Daddy offers to pay for phone bills, rent, shopping sprees, travel, etc., you name it. Most of them are married, widowed, divorced, or separated. Some are true bachelors. It all depends on who the Sugar Daddy is and what they are willing to pay the Sugar Baby per date/gathering, weekly, bi-weekly, or monthly. It's also a mutual agreement. Some will have weekly allowances despite them having a meeting with the Sugar Baby. It's borderline Service Provider service only difference is the Sugar Daddy decides what to pay her and what the perks would be. I've had a few Sugar Daddies in the past and quite enjoyed the experience. It is very different from Service Provider to Sugar Baby and some confuse them. A Service Provider can't be like, "each meeting it's X per hour" it doesn't work that way. You meet, if you think it's a match then allowances are discussed. If the Sugar Daddy wants to meet twice a week and pays you bi-weekly of a lump sum, then that is it, even if you met once that week, it's the same amount of allowance. Everyone is different and if they want to spoil her or not or have a set allowance each week, bi-weekly, monthly; is talked about in the first meeting. Usually the Sugar Daddy asks roughly what she is looking for or wants from a Sugar Daddy. One of the hardest things to do is have that first meeting. You need to set aside everything and be open and honest. If you want X amount range per month, or weekly, address that with him. If you want clothing allowance, or something else, express it. Sometimes the Sugar Daddy is open and upfront with what they will offer you. Not everyone will match well with a Sugar Daddy or you won't match well with a Sugar Baby. It's all about preference and connection. Communication and honesty. I do miss that aspect of life. It was very interesting.

I have a towel wrapped around me. Let the mind wander. ;)

Last movie I watched was Shaun the Sheep

I don't know how petite you are looking for. But, I am 4'10" a curvy figure. Not sure what you are looking for, but I would also suggest looking in the Ottawa Escort Schedule to see if someone you like is there. Warm Hugs, Amanda-Lee

Considering the weather is now snow/ice, people will arrive late which means clients need to travel accordingly. I have a simple rule and I follow it, there will always be an hour between clients regardless of who booked first. In some cases I make it an hour and half. Considering I am low volume and dislike a client leaving, running around to ensure the next client that is due to arrive in 45 minutes then change the sheets, jump in the shower, etc., it can be this real big running around. I have clients who arrive late, it's not a huge deal, if I find out that they don't care, well, when they show up, there time will be reduced because they truly wasted my time. Keeping in mind the weather, I don't travel to said locations and if I am, it needs to be booked before and I would arrive on time. I don't want a client to say, "Yes I am at this intersection what is you address?" I will give it to them, I know how long it takes from said intersection to my place, and if I think they're having a hard time I will call, or they will call and ask for help in finding my building. With snow on the ground now, that time from said intersection I add an extra 5 minutes on to it. I've had clients call me to ask for the appointment to be at a different time because of traffic or something came up, that is fine, things happen and they called to adjust the time, I am flexible. So considering that snowfall has fallen for most of Canada already or will be happening in a few days, just adjust your travel and call. Flights get canceled, buses get delayed, trains get delayed, cars can stop and break; communicate that with the said client/provider.

Messages that are like, "Hi sexy" and then I respond and then I am asked if I do "outcalls" Turn off. That isn't the way to introduce yourself at all. Rejected within 1 minute.

I am listening to music and cleaning. Then after a good clean going to workout. :)

Dear Gentleman, As 2015 wraps up in the nicely set snowfall and a new 2016 arrives in a few days, my screening protocols and screening have been updated, for the comfort of yourself and myself. 2015 brought so many wonderful memories and I am looking forward to 2016 with new ones. I will be working select days and select hours in 2016 and touring cities. New Protocols for all clients: -A shower before our meeting is required. Fresh towels and soap will be available -Mouth wash will be available for you to use upon your arrival -Do not bring drugs to my place. never do it -I live in a smoke free apartment New Screening: -Email and PM for booking is required and then a phone call for confirmation -Texting please have it to a minimal -Ways that I screen: P411, references, or being generally polite if you are unable to provide the following screening methods 2016 Schedule and Select Times: Sunday - 10am-8pm Tuesday - 2pm-8pm Friday - 10am-9pm Saturday - 10am-9pm Touring: I will be touring early to mid-February. If you would like to request a city for me to visit please kindly email me. Deposit is required for pre-booked time. Unconfirmed Touring cities: Kingston, ON sometime in February Toronto, ON early Spring Summer I will be in Bracebridge, ON As 2015 comes to an end and 2016 begins for new change welcoming in yet another new year, let's share the moments together. 2015 Scheduling dates to wrap up 2015: Monday 28: 10am-10pm Tuesday 29: 10am-10pm Wednesday 30: 10am-10pm I am available for New Years night and day please schedule if you wish to have a date. Thursday 30: 10am- Friday 1: 10am-10pm Preferred411 ID: P208023 Find me on Twitter: @XoxAmandaLeeXox Warm Hugs, Amanda-Lee

This is an interesting topic. I did refuse someone because they didn't have a cell phone. The reason was I was giving out my address and then asking said client to call/text when they arrive then I give them further information; most lied and never were in the parking lot. I had a gentleman call me and flat out asked, "I don't own a cell phone is that a problem" I was ataken back because there wasn't a hello at all. I think I softly laughed under my breath because it was strange, it sounded like the said person was hiding something so I refused him. I've gotten calls where they are rude and say, "got a problem with that?" Yea, now I have a problem because you're now being rude about it. The difference between not having a phone and having a phone is you can't be rude or disrespectful, when you are it puts a bad taste for the provider. I've given my address over the phone to someone (landline/pay phone) and they arrived on time with no difficulty. I refuse to give it out over email/PM. When contacting a provider don't just dive right into it, it may seem like the best thing but really it's not. You should always greet her, ask how she is, introduce yourself, and ask what her screening/booking policies are, mention you don't have a phone and ask her how she feels about it. Being open and honest in the first email will allow it to go smoother and faster. Not sure what the other lovely ladies thoughts and opinions are for clients not having a phone.

It is a struggle to get in a sleeping schedule and it's very hard. I used to work overnights and that really screws everything up unless you know what you are doing. In that case I had a schedule for sleep. But, when I went to College I resigned from the job two months in advance, won't lie it was the most horrific transition I had to make. I ended up getting really sick from it. You go through periods where you sleep during the night you wake up at 7am or something, then maybe later in the morning you are dead tired. So you may nap but that nap isn't a nap it's 6-8 solid sleep. I had times where I woke up at 7am, went back to sleep at 10:30/11am and slept till 4-6pm. It was this constant battle. You literally need to push yourself not to fall asleep during the day and it will hurt, I developed flu like symptoms because my body was so used to sleeping at certain times of the day. At night, you go to bed at a time where your body will naturally adjust to. So, lets say you currently go to bed at 4am every morning. Go to bed at 3:30am, and then go to bed at 2am, and so on so fourth till you hit that bedtime you want to have. You are more likely to succeed that way. (that is what I did, took a lot of figuring out) during the day try not to feed into taking naps because your tired. Replace it with superfoods. Naturally I am in bed by 10pm or slightly earlier (some rare times I am up till midnight) but I always wake up between 5am-6am. I have my own personal alarm dog who wakes up and needs to use the washroom at that time and I end up doing something, before I know it it's 8am. Adjustments are hard.

Sometimes, they feel 30 minutes isn't enough and 1 hour can be too long so 45 minutes is the between time. It also is like saying, they aren't sure they would fit well with the SP so the full hour may be long, and 30 minutes might be too short.

I have a website which I've given to them. I don't have reviews and I don't ask my clients to write a review. If they want to write a review they can, but I don't say, "hey write a review for me" when they leave, I never mention it to them because during our time it never crosses my mind and I don't bother to ask them later. I would feel I am begging.