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I would like to wish @Allie Zeon a happy holiday and hopefully adventure filled New year. Here’s to 2021!

SJ isn’t too far away from you. Hopefully we’ll see you in January. I’m sure the dog will be with me. We can test the theory that he’ll get more attention than me.

Just teasing about the painting. I find it a chore personally but it’s nice when it’s all finished. I don’t think I could have done any more stupid things my first time if I visited a lady I went to the wrong room. I wandered around the hotel parking lot like a total idiot. had to call her three times to get the instructions straight (not like they were hard instructions- park in front of my door and come in when I open it] I kissed her on the lips. Still not sure if was keen on that or was too polite to tell me to knock it off. I know cowboys ride angry bulls longer than I lasted So talk about nerves that needed to be calmed! Thank God she was a kind soul. Anyway that was a few years ago. A different story these days. Of course I’m amazing now! Ha!

Yes I’ve noticed that I relax so much more after 3 or 4 sessions. That’s when some real mutual pleasure can happen. I'm not sure if the words “paint” and “excited” belong in the same sentence...

Hey @lydiahardwood I was wondering about doing an interview with someone about offering online services in these COVID times. Lots of ladies going this route and probably a steep learning curve. I was thinking of maybe someone like @Cheeky.char. I hadn’t heard of her before November and now she’s on several sites that I’ve never heard of. I also get a strong sense of her personality just from her ads and tweets so she seems pretty media savvy. Just throwing that thought out there. Thanks

Thank you Adriana for your views on this topic. Some fascinating things to discuss for sure. Can’t be said enough how clients should respectfully communicate. I know I don’t always do some of these things. Usually I’m paranoid about putting in The wrong number and reaching the wrong person so I usually keep my intro pretty brief. I have visions of “WHO THE HELL ARE YOU??” Kinds of responses because of a typo. thanks as always Lydia. I hope you get a raise or some tips with the fantastic job you do here. Your input certainly makes all the difference.

I think letting the session flow naturally is the best thing that can happen. While I understand the challenge of keeping things interesting, there’s also the fact that when you get to know an SP there’s also a level of comfort that develops and you can focus on each other’s mutual pleasure. Whereas meeting someone new, while thrilling, involves a lot of awkwardness and stumbling around to get acquainted.

We have to wait that long?? Such a tease you are @lydiahardwood

Just wondering if anyone has heard from Country Girl Katie recently? I know she was laying low in France until things died down, but she’s been pretty quiet lately both on Lyla and social media. She is a special lady and I hope she is staying safe and doing well.

I’m a big fan of Danielle’s so I thought I would try some online/long distance options. I wasn’t sure what to expect from a sexting date. I poured myself some coffee and got myself ready for a casual sexy chat. That coffee got left behind pretty fast. That was one hell of a hot session. If I was a smoker I would have lit up afterwards. Had a nap instead Danielle’s aura of sensuality and sexiness shone through even over texting. Her online content through Onlyfans and the videos she provides directly are also captivating. It may not be the preferred way to meet but during these COVID times these are good options and a great way to show support.

A big baby is what he is... A golden retriever.

I think what we can all aim for is an opportunity for chemistry to take place. And this happens with these conversations on Lyla, booking a longer time so we can chat, both client and SP looking good, that all helps to set the stage. And being attentive to details...a dog room @Allie Zeon? You don’t know how many times I was tempted to jokingly ask if I could bring the dog. But then I know the cute dog would get more attention than me!

That regular was a damn fool! Better off without him.

Oh yes, I’m sure it would fine to ask for a reference. It’s not about exclusivity. Just feels strange asking. Then again I don’t like asking people for a job reference either.

@Greenteal’s tip in using Yandex to verify pictures is really helpful in spotting the fakes. Thanks GT!

@roamingguy’s interview with @lydiahardwood had some good insights on this topic as well.

Thank you @EmilyRushton for your thoughts on this important topic. I’m frankly amazed at how few ladies I’ve met do any screening at all and i have wondered how they keep themselves safe. Having said that the first SP that I ever met did have a very large kitchen knife on a counter close by when I walked in the door. At the same time I know I would feel strange asking another lady for a reference. Still I think screening is important to do. I think it protects both the lady and the gentleman too. No scammer is going to going to ask you for a reference and proof of employer before they scam you! Tip of the hat to Lydia for another insightful interview.

What someone has to say in these Lyla discussion can also be important. I would also take a look at a lady’s Twitter page. Often get an unfiltered look at where they’re coming from and what they’re about.

Yes I’m the 50 range. Handsome too. Capricorn. 😉 Would be interesting to hear the perspective of a younger hobbiest.

Sexy is important too for sure. But so is chemistry. I’ve met several ladies who were beautiful, sexy and easy to talk to but without that sense of connection it’s not the same. So I would say that beauty and sexiness might get you through the door the first time, but the sense of connection keeps bringing people back.

I’ve met people both in and outside of the industry who practically radiate charisma. They have a caring spirit and can make you feel like you’re the most fascinating person on the planet. You just want to be around them. I’m probably not describing very well, but I’m sure the lady in TO that you mentioned, Allie has that quality. Had that impression from Lydia Hardwood as well. You can tell even just from her online postings that she is a caring person. Besides Allie I think you just have to look at yourself to answer your own question!

Yes that’s it exactly!

Glad to see you’re back Lydia! 💕 I think a sense of humour is the most important (and sexiest) thing to have! Can only laugh at the absurdity of what’s going on around us. That and to try and see the positive. It’s so easy to be high jacked by negative thoughts and emotions.

Awesome interview. Thanks for sharing @NotchJohnson. There are indeed lots of wonderful ladies here and many things to try safely and respectfully. Thanks as always Lydia. You do indeed make Lyla fun to be here.

I neglected to mention the beautiful Cassie Steele who was recently in town for several days and who is a frequent visitor. Such a sweetheart. Unforgivable omission on my part.