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enjoying wonderful music floating through my office.. still grinning from the affects of a just-finished massage ;) still tossing around which beautifully 'raw' pictures to put on the den's site.... ...and of course.. perrrrrving here ;)

purrrrsonally have never been to an all-inclusive, but would likely go for the road trip one anyway... (hedonist resort wasn't in the choices hehe)... but, I digress....toss the map... feet up on the dash... open the window and let the adventurrrre begin! So far, those have been the funnest anyway ;) Winter destination (for all you ski bunnies).. or summer destination for vacation?

Ali Farka - Amandrai ....suuuper chill blues.. lots of fun to imprrrrove belly dance to ;)

cavorting in the cacophony of flesh offered

showerhead places where <arousedly? lol> ;)

stellas coffee... and ingredients to turn an absolutely purrrrfect sugar pumpkin into wonderfully spicy, rich homemade soup

Being present in a room filled-to-standing with amazing, strong women, who represented only a miniscule porrrrtion of the many lives my recently deceased friend touched in some way.... she was amazing, and will be missed - vigils held all over the globe for her (as far away as Manchester!!) ...proof positive for me, if I didn't already believe it, that what you do in life, really does make a difference :)

cougar-clad on my lovely sofa... chilly room - left window open last night, so skin is wonderfully goosepimpled right now hehe... watching my crazy kitten, addressing emails... contemplating which purrrfectly 'bannable' (from here hehe) pictures to put up in the prrrrivate den site <wink>...... ...enjoying the fact that I can take my time this morning... and of courrrrse... perrrrrrving around here ;)

moonstone and silver ring.. to add to my 'shiny pawz' ;)

....I *think* what you are asking is has anyone had 'success' when they ask if they can massage the lady... and if you read through more than a few of the posts... hehe you definitely have your answer ;) ....unless you mean 'body slide'... and I think there are a few affirmatives ;)

I have taught tantric couples workshops over the years.. one focusing on yoni (female), the other on lingam (male)... and they are always fun... am actually being prompted by a group of friends to do another one soon... (and find it was very difficult to attempt online... hehe tried it with one couple.. didn't translate well)....but.. in the interest of this thread... I have also found that some people (boyfriends/partners)...are 'hesitant' to massage me...simply because they are not of the same skill....especially, and perrrrrhaps oddly enough, my feet - I am a certified foot reflexologist so hehe.... well let me tell you.. what I think has already been mentioned... we don't care about the *skill*! lol... what human doesn't loooove being softly/intently touched... str0ked... admired.... taken in...? short answer... NONE ;) so long as the person isn't 'pinching'/poking as a method of massage (have had that before.. was strange hehe).. it is aaaaall good :) massage away folks! After all, our skin is our largest erogenous zone... why not enjoy every single lovely millimetre of it, right? ;)

...<grin>.. nice subtle way to hint that you wouldn't mind a reco ;) and I would think/hope, my dear.. after so long of being a body worker.. you would already be able to tell/feel how your work is being translated... just by their reaction.. I know I do/can.... as I would assume.. so can most of us...even those who are brand spankin new ;) I think in my entire career, (over 30 yrs in total I suppose)... I have had very few (less than 1/2 dozen) who just 'lay there' and weren't giving any body/verbal feedback... very strange for me, but could have been nerves... only one has not returned ;) It is very nice to read however.. that what we do is being appreciated.. 'celebrated'.... but I have found over the years, that the simple fact that people continue to return to me tells me I am doing something right ;) Being told my hands are 'd@mn near better than s3x' was I think one of the funnest comments hehe..... or that I myself should be regarded as a winnipeg institution..lol..(*that* was a str0ke to my ego for sure haha and was just to me, in conversation afterward...) I made someone see a whole new color spectrum...(likely the most creative compliment so far hehe) I think just as an aside (sort of), one of the most incredible reactions I have had from someone.... and more than a few clients actually... was they simply began to cry in my arms afterward.... saying they were sorry for crying.. and they had no idea why they were... but they couldn't help it..... that, to me.... was (and is) better than any reco I have ever received.... (and to my knowledge... none of these people have ever left a reco for me.... and I'm fine with that) :) Reading a few of the replies from gents in this thread... as well as some of the laies (who do not appear to like recos from their wording).. I can however, understand why someone would be hesitant to write one... - will she be upset if I put *any* details? (which to me, would be weird if there weren't any) - will I say too much/too little? - will she become so popular I'll never see her again? (which I found cute) there were more, but... I think, if you (gents) enjoyed yourself, simply asking the lady if they mind if you post.. should be easy enough - especially after such an intimate setting.. you are friends now.. it's ok to talk about hehe If she says yes, then great, if she says thank you but no... then.. great :) I tell them I do welcome/appreciate posts, but ask that all my *real* info be left entirely out of the conversation. and that seems to be working fine for me and for those who enjoy time with me.. no matter the aspect :)

some of us are wonderfully accustomed to ;)

an astonishing variety of exciting lyla folks! ;)

rechargeable 'magic wands' <HA!>

as water balloons for outdoor fights with

to involve many

a few things I forgot on my first run to replenish <d'oh!> ;)

things just don't go according to plan.

For myself, whether giving or receiving.. it's almost the same thing.... When in the role of masseuse, with the 'rules' I have <grin> it is quite possible for me to *fully* enjoy the experience.....<and those who have seen me are definitely aware of this hehe>... and even if there is no desire/need for the client to explore me as I work.. the submissive side of me genuinely receives pleasure simply from attending to every single millimetre of their body..... as well.. with myself being honored with their putting themselves into such a vulnerable position as to be n@ked in front of me.. and *I* am in control of the encounter.. I also derive immense pleasure and feed the Domme side of me.. win, win.. win, I would say <grin> In the SP role.. and simply the way I construct things... it is almost impossible for me to not *genuinely* enjoy myself to cl1max... and again.. those that have seen me may agree.. it'd be tough for me to fake what happens lol I have to commend the mention of the fact that when a lady is 'faking' it is noticeable... always thought is *should* be. but then again.. I've never seen the point in bothering.. hehe I'm not an actress.. I am a temptress.... ;) in either aspect though... it is not always about the destination.. but rather.. the incredible fun that can be found in the journey ;)

for everything carnal

<grin>... sounds like someone else sees the erot1c possibilities in food.. myself.. I have an amazingly intimate relationship with the things I allow into my body ;) absolutely adore the sight, smell.. feel, sensations of wonderful food <grin>

<grin>.... move here ;) tonight's dinner will likely be a perrrrrfectly seared medium-rare ribeye... along with the remaining puffballs...wild onions.... baby potatoes...... salad.. and of course, my favorrrrite life's blood.. red wine... unless of course, my day changes, and I end up going out to dine ;)

I had attempted to 'revive'a few that I perrrsonally found may have some interesting possibilities <grin>... but alas... doesn't seem much interest...I think with some, I posted things right when I joined.. a few others may have some more recent, but.... *sigh* always wondered about the 'talking dirty' one (not sure if you started it) as that is something that can certainly be fun.. (I also am a writer of erotica, so hehe)...but hehe... with the censor police.. figure it may end up being not much more than a string of blacked out words ;) purrrrhaps why there is nothing in there :(

waking up to the sound off excited purrrring....in my own lovely, comfy enorrrrrmous bed... sleeping in a bit... which, after a week of being up at dawn, it was a most welcome treat...