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Kaoma - Lambada :)

may also lead to several episodes of

Verrrrrry well played 'Opentonew' hahaha well done (bit of a creepy picture hehe an undulating uvula but hahaha ;)

lol.. either way.. an ass is an ass is an ass.... good riddance to baaaaad rubbish!

munchies and food stuffs for my next (short) adventure away from the den...(only from saturday until monday.. don't panic luvs!) ;)

....and...<grin>.... seeing how I love a man in the kitchen...(and bathroom, bed-room, living room.. hehe.. yard...)....

....not much... too full from what feels like a week of constant snacking lol <smoked goldeye... fresh-caught fish - by yours truly!....slow-cooked ribs, drenched in bbq sauce...homemade bannock.. breads, buns.. pancakes... piles of fruits, berries... elk burgers.... bbq chicken.. not to mention all the salads.. deserts.. raw and roasted veggies... ooooh my!> ...although, I do have some wine in my fridge <grin>

.....having come to the end of one of spending time in truly one of the most amazing places this cat has ever been ...*sigh* I am already making plans to find a way to go out there a week before the rest of my group next year.. to get a much more fulfilling time out there... endless possibilities for amazement out there... and as much as I love being back in my lovely den... I ache to be out there in the forests again.. out on the lake with my rod... and nothing but eagles to keep me company.... *sigh* went to relax and watch a bit of tv.. only to discover it finally died... *sigh* noooot impressed.. was looking forward to Vincent D'Ofrio and Law & Order <drooool> hmmn.. walmart or kijiji? kijiji or walmart..? ;)

depends on the fruit, but generally in a pie ;) fresh fruit: cherries or strawberries?

Gargoyle (tacky movie, but....this is to lengthen the post lol)

....yep....*sigh*.. there is always 'one of those' in a crowd though.... I went to block him, (and have)... and noticed he has apparently been suspended.. which, I assume, made his day, seeing as that sort of appeared to be the goal... odd little man that..... <shaking head...> "We now rrrreturn you to your regularly scheduled prrrrrogramming" ;)

back to the home den briefly... in the door, clothes shed.. left in heap on the floor.... and am currently.. - exchanging one pile of clothes, for another.. and readying to leave for a second event (tomorrow until monday) - attempting to catch up on messages emails/requests - learning how to block annoying users on here <n worries folks.. already done, and it wasn't *you* ;) - fixing my tv - rendering bear fat into medicines - dealing with an affection-starved kitten - deciding whether to open the wine now or later - deciding on whether to open the prrrrrivate den for the evening <grin> or whether to call a friend <ha!> - relaxing in the aftermath of a wonderfully busy/eventful time away... 'tis good to be home :)

If any of you (gents) want an amazing toy (and yes indeed..the wi vibe is sensational)...get yourself a hitachi magic wand! Outer use only...*definitely* girls best frrriend but when applied to some wonderfully sensitive spots. .. <grin>....can be unbelievably fun for.men as well ...hehe I have two of them ;) ...added.bonus...you could always tell the.wife.you got it for the two of you ..... <wink>

<....crickets chirping in the silence that is the rush to join in....> the client has a number of rights....right to read up on..look at, perrrrusing sites and information...the right to 'yay or nay'..the right to decide what it is they are.interested in....and more.... But...my dear boy, this is not a business run like a pizza joint or a plumbing place...or a 7-11 or anything else....if anything, it can be likened to purrrrchasing something sight unseen from a want ad....all you have to go on is the information the seller wants you to have or feels you need...and ultimately it is buyer beware....obviously not the rule but...I'm also thinking you may not have much to worry about as far as *you not being able.to support the industry*...as you're certainly coming off as the wrong sort of client....with the bristling attitude....try something new. ...have a converrrrsation rather than always trying to bait and argument. This is not a thread on how to be a good escort <ha!>...it's another turning into all about you...

As to the 'not a real domme if there's cuddling et al' comment....I dote on my submissives. ....very much enjoy doing so....as they enjoy being.doted upon....and have no intention of ever denying.either myself or.them that part.of things. I've always done that....and find it rather insulting....both as a pro-domme...and one who is very much immersed in that lifestyle and.culture, to have it inferred that I'm not (or those who may be like me)...a *real* domme. Ask the man who's jaw I grip in my hand, whispering soft comforting thins to as I drive my knee.into his testicles hard enough in one shot to knock him to the.floor....if I am not real.... Or purrrrhaps the lovely little man who adores when I coo harsh words, call him names....while stuffing his @ass to the point of having him in tears....softly stroking.his hair the whole.time....if I am not *real*..... or...hehe the wonderful man who lives in new York, who sees me.when hes here...and who's every move I still control....while.referring.to him as 'My Beloved'....if I am not *real* (I could.go further hehe but....) As many different people there are out there...there are as many different dommes/subs....and dynamics.....yours or your 'idea' of how they 'should' go...is likely.just as different. Does not mean they don't exist..or aren't *real*.... yikes.... no one person should (or can) say someone is wrong to be happy or.enjoy what they are obviously excited about. As to the 'contract'....it is *not* the same.as.getting.something in writing outlining soft/hard limits....comfort. zones, expectations (from either party...not just one)....this would be what is more.known as written consent.....a *contract*...mostly.in the traditional sense....means you are *owned*....not what you have agreed.to and/or have previously.discussed insofar as how a scene is going to play out.... most experienced domme/doms would know that ;) I he is pleased.and feels.comfortable with who he has found.....then again I have to say *yay*....and enjoy all that the experience can/should bring you *both*..no matter what the dynamic ends up being. Nay-Sayers be damned ;) (Brief Internet access tonight so...hehe) <....stalks softly into dark warm trees....under millions.of stars..... gone..... for now...>

I think I may go from 1-8x/week to 1-2x a day the next week or so hehe... I'll not have a male in sight for most of my trip away *sigh* and just ass a side note, ass far as 'damage' that can be caused.. in *extreme* cases of (addictive/compulsive) masturbation.. where either dry or rrrrrough activity is taking place, it *is* possible to do damage to nerve endings in your little head <grin> but is fairly rare.. and usually can be 'fixed' if left alone for a while ..depending on the extent of the damage ;) this *isn't a masturbation video, but funny as all get out, and came to mind when typing this hehe makes me laugh my @ss off every time I see it hehe ENJOY!

sold my desktop... don't have a tablet..(yet hehe) loooove my little laptops! (mind you, the one I am on now, can function as a tablet, I just preferrrr it as a laptop ;) sort of along same lines, and going off another thread actaully: e-readers or actual books? *FYI: leaving for whiteshell today, gone until September 13th, BUT, I have my schedule with me, so I am still taking bookings for my return, feel free to message/email any time! :) <...leaps effortlessly on well-muscled thighs, deep into thick trees...gone.......for now...>

relaxing with coffee... prrrrocrastinating getting dressed.. enjoying the morning quiet,making sure all is well in the prrrrivate den before I leave for the week.... seems so still here this morning for some reason.. life, is good ;) *FYI: leaving for whiteshell today, gone until September 13th, BUT, I have my schedule with me, so I am still taking bookings for my return, feel free to message/email any time! :) <...leaps effortlessly on well-muscled thighs, deep into thick trees...gone.......for now...>

coffee at favorrrrite bakery before leaving this morning *FYI: leaving for whiteshell today, gone until September 13th, BUT, I have my schedule with me, so I am still taking bookings for my return, feel free to message/email any time! :) <...leaps effortlessly on well-muscled thighs, deep into thick trees...gone.......for now...>

Valkyrie (adding this.. 'msg is too short' haha) *FYI: leaving for whiteshell today, gone until September 13th, BUT, I have my schedule with me, so I am still taking bookings for my return, feel free to message/email any time! :) <...leaps effortlessly on well-muscled thighs, deep into thick trees...gone.......for now...>

waking up earlier than planned. Sometimes that is sooo nice, sipping hot coffee... (sans clothes.. heh of course), watching the world wake up outside my window.... smell of things after it rains, kitten antics/kisses, hot showers & grrreat water pressure!, my hitachi <grin>, flirty conversations, toast & peanut butter at 2am when you can't sleep.....caring notes from friends (whether here or far), good friends that go out of their way to help you simply because they like the perrrrson you are <3 being able to spend a week on an incredible outing to places where magic really does happen! ....if I were to list *all* the things that make me happy.. hehe I'd be here typing for years :) *FYI: leaving for whiteshell today, gone until September 13th, BUT, I have my schedule with me, so I am still taking bookings for my return, feel free to message/email any time! :) <...leaps effortlessly on well-muscled thighs, deep into thick trees...gone.......for now...>

yes. <grin> wine: (hehe, yes, I'm being lazy).. red, white.. shiraz... zinfandel......?

I agree.. this is generally, a pretty decent place to let one's hair down.. so to speak ;) Myself, I consider myself bi... (dated a woman for just over a year actually), and enjoy the difference a woman offers... I find lately though (last few years) it really depends on the woman... I used to have a 'type' .. and still preferrrr a more 'alternative' looking girl (rockabilly chicks always get me grrrrowling hehe) but now it just seems more a set of circumstances, a person's vibe.. their personality... I have a woman who I have topped for a few times.. I enjoy the scenes we get into (she's much more heavily BDSM oriented than anything else hehe) and she absolutely adores me.. is a wonderful friend.. but I am not in any way shape or form, even remotely attracted to her that way..... and yet I am very good friends with a completely gay man.. who, is likely the single most gorgeous human being I have ever laid my bright blue eyes on.... and we both flirt with each other.. have spent the night together (I got to be the little spoon hehe) but that's as far as it goes... *sigh* (I have an amazingly eclectic bunch of people in my crazy life hehe) I also have an incredibly beautiful man who is a stunning cross-dresser.. who I have known for a few years.. hang out together, go to bars et al... and had no idea he *wasn't* gay.. until .. well.... <grin> I think most people, whether straight.. admittedly bi.. or bi-curious.. harbor some thought as to what it would be like...... seems only natural to me :) With myself.. and most of the people I know.. they are either poly (in long-term, fully poly relationships.. one just celebrated 13 years of marriage!) gay.. gay but straight curious (if that makes sense)... or whatever they are.. it's all good to me.. people are people.. are people.. and if I find myself attracted to them.. it mostly doesn't make a difference what is between their legs.. I'm usually more into what's between their ears ;) only thing I have no tolerance for is @ssholes ... (in the 'bad' way hehe) I do most definitely have a preference for men though.... <grin>

several 'highlights' to my day :) - got all my gear ready for my trip tomorrow - *all* domestic chores done so I can come home to a spotless den - updated/added a few more wonderful things to the online den (and got pleasant responses already hehe) - engaged in some purrrfeclty lovely conversations - was able to remain 'cougar-clad' for all but 2 hours of my day today! :) - had a good half hour belly-grabbing laughter at my kitten with his new toys (tent and a tunnel full of hanging toys hehe) he went ballistic.. too funny! all in all again, despite a sudden and most disappointing cancellation (which would have been a purrrrfect send off for my trip hehe) enjoyed a grrrrreat day in the den :) and, just as an fyi....I am literally leaping into thick forests , creeks and rock formations tomorrow morning, until September 13th... but am still accessing my email (and here when I can) and taking bookings for my return <grin>