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-addressing emails/requests/picture comments <grin> -trying to figure out if I can use my camera on my tv for chatting. or if I'm stuck using my laptop <grin> *am not a tech-savvy cat.. but I do like a challenge ;) -relaxing after treating myself to dinner -grinning (and likely blushing) after reading a lovely note from a special friend :) -enjoying watching my kitten lose his mind over the new tent & tunnel toys I picked up ;) ...and of course.....perrrrving here ;)

"Ogre" a movie I 'filled time with' last night while doing computer work... oh... my ..... gawd! my brain hurt!! sh1tty acting.... just... wow.... dumb movie ;)

Dangerous Minds ;)

chapter of our

contemplating treating myself to Y'es Buffet today... grrrrrreat food/selections... always leave a perrrrfectly happy kitty.. hehe just not sure I want to bus all that way ;) *might* possibly be 'lazy' and sear some prawns/garlic/cilantro and toss them into a salad but haven't been to Y'es in a while hehe ;) I can always do the shrimp for lunch tomorrow <grin>

cherry on top. ;) <haha.. that fit bloody perrrfect haha>

purrrhaps a larger monitor, for online fun ;)

......ummn..... wow... ...and.. just because... ummn.. yeah... <droool> a cat could lose her composure in these beauties.... aaall day ;)

fudge sundae with....

I realise being a provider and posting in here I may get flak... but I'm ok with that hehe *if* a person is post op.. and physically *is* female (or other way around I suppose) what is there to 'disclose'? If they have not got the surgery then h3ll yes they should hehe ...could easily cater to an entire clientele who are actually interested in seeing someone who is 'both' s3xes (at least anatomically hehe.....unless they don't actually plan on meeting anyone ;) *to avoid getting flagged... they could just use acronyms or something.. but I found (used to advertise on CL myself) *any* ad of that nature.. mine included... were flagged/removed all the time..a few times a day *sigh* likely from other providers who didn't want the competition ;)

celebacy is certainly *not* a 'natural' state.. not for any creature/mammal actually. And it is a long-proven medical fact that sex/sexual release is a 'need' and not always a 'want'.... the build-up of tension, stress et al... is physically/mentally, emotionally draining.. and with the release.. comes the euphoria and relaxation that is also a *need* in order to function properly. There is a massive chemical release/change when one either has s3x or masturbates.. and acts as literally a 'reset button' for your whole being....that is helpful physically as well as an incredible amount of other things.... so even if there were no more women on the planet.. yes, my dear boy...<grin> you would in fact, become h0rny again.. and again......<grin>.. and again.. you'd just handle it differently hehe As far as the priests.. yeah.. I have long been of the opinion that forcing someone into celibacy is yet another form of instilling guilt...(no offence of course)... because you are definitely going to fail.... no matter how you chose to deal with it... being human, it is almost impossible to go your entire life without any form of that sort of release. .....even if you are not conscious of it... you actually *have* 0rgasmed in your sleep.. several times before the age of 10... again.. it's a form of release that is muchly needed. And when you think about all the things a body/mind/psych goes through from age 0 to 10.. hehe it's no wonder we need some help lol Although not many mammals have s3x purely for the sake of enjoyment.... as it is largely for procreation.. it will always be a 'need' in some form or another. Quite frankly, I myself go sort of batsh1t crazy if I go a few days with no sort of release. If a person can't sleep, or is feeling particularly stressed/tense... chances are, a little 'solo time' can relieve that... as can a lovely session with a parrrtner <wink> hehe whether 'married' or not ;) ... 'marriage' to me, has been turned into something so commercial (much like almost everything else unfortunately..*sigh*....) I have never required a piece of paper to validate a relationship.... and still find it humorous/sad that *one* religion made that soooo important.. when, if they were to *actually* read the bible...(old testament) it says (and I cannot recall the chapter/verse) "...and he took her into his cave.. and made her his wife".... hehe wonder what they were doing in there? signing legally-binding marriage documents...? playing a rousing game of Parcheesi perrrrhaps...? naaah.. they were having seeeex! ;)

I make one with all three <grin> but if I *had* to pick.. homemade pumpkin.. cerrrrtainly! Pie: ice cream or whipping cream? <grin>

Beethoven :)

- addressing emails/twitters/requests - tackling 'pre-bookings' for my return from whiteshell (leaving monday!!) - enjoying coffee & lovely music - uploading new bra pictures (had fun in a change room again hehe) - cleaning my office so I have a nice tidy den when I return and of course.. as always.. perrrrving this place ;) Additional Comments: ...a mere few hours later... I am now being pleasantly shocked... the pictures I uploaded during the last post.. are already apprrrrroved! kuddos to the mod :)

May your day be purrrrrrfect! Happy birthday :)

<grin>... intestinal irrigation (like a multi-multi-muuuulti enema) and... *I* do :) ....and just to clarify <grin>... noooo.. the colonics were not part of the fun ;)

....my colonics room.... my electronic therapy room.... lab <grin>

<insert emphatic eye roll here please>... I am *really* tiring of this one..... When you message a provider, on *any* forum...asking if they have a opening relatively soon, and they pleasantly surprise you by immediately replying back that yes, they do.. and they give you times to choose from.. you reply back.. choosing one AND complimenting the provider on how fast the reply was <grin>, clarifying the session details... Provider (me) immediately replies back on the clarification.. and sets about preparations so things are purrrrfect upon your arrival........ ....show the h3ll up..... or at least let provider know you have, for whatever reason, changed your mind.... soooo not cool gents.... not at all (perrrrson in question is *still* logged in here.... very much a p1ss off, I have to say.....) as it very rarely happens with people from here... but there is very little else I hate more than someone wasting time.. mine or theirs.. what's the point..?

Myself, I have been in relationships where the person was mentally/emotionally *actually* not even there... but the sex was fun... and the other way around.. and would opt for the emotional/house/mental support over the sex any day of the week. Polyamory... the word itself.. implies an emotional connection as well as a physical one.. a loving relationship.. and for the most part.. although a certain level of friendship develops between a client and who they see.. it is not the same as with one who shares your life... so polyamory doesn't really fit in this scenario.. but.. that's just me being picky <grin> If two people have found a way to make things work, and wish, for their own reasons, to be together...then they should be.. if it's 'above-board' and honest, even better. I know several people who would be much more comfortable if their partner chose to spend time with an SP/MP.. even on a regular basis, rather than cheat... and from what they say, it is much more to do with the fear of them developing an emotional relationship with someone else... with a 'professional'.. you don't get that.. at least, not at that same level...

addressing emails/requests sipping tea.... contemplating ways of shredding a leasing company who is still billing me for equipment that hasn't worked since DECEMBER 2015!! and apparently have me stuck in a 'non-cancellable' contract...*after telling me they were sending me a label for returning it, and returning the funds I've been charged** .....hehe we shall see about that....... we shall see..... <...slowly scraping razor-sharp claws against smooth rocks... growling softly.. tail twitching...eyes intent......>

absolutely mystifies me how stupid people keep getting 'support' jobs <no offence to any techs here but man!>

Studies have shown that on average, 98% of the population masturbates... the other 2% are liars ;) (obviously a joke hehe no idea if they actually did a study...I'd parrrrrrticipate though..) ;)

Cybelle - Pentaphobe

Most of us who offer this type of activity, are quote fine with a 'mix'.. perrrsonally I think that works best in most scenes.. save for those with a definite taste for it, as well as preferrrrence ;) As for the 'contract' thing... I don't think something that 'serious' needs to be implemented between a client and their Dom/Domme.. but certainly going into great detail about expectations/limits et al.. is. Whether via email, or a formal form to fill out.. benefits anyone involved for sure.I have had several people simply say they are into 'anything'.. hehe and have to admit, I took a bit of perrrrsonal pleasure in asking them to clarify then for me.. about some very specific types of 'taboo'/bdsm things.. to which they looked at me like I was nuts and almost screamed NO hahaha so.. guess they have limits after all <grin> Contracts between submissives and dominants have been around in all sorts of forms for centuries.. even today.. formal contracts are done up, outlining the expectations of (usually) both parties (or more if poly).. the date the contract was initiated, even the date (if applicable) that it expires. I have a few friends who proudly display theirs framed on living room walls :) You might be pleasantly surprised at all the wonderful and strange things out there ;)

ginger ale and last minute things for upcoming trip