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Addressing emails, dealing with an apparently attention-starved kitten (haha) Contemplating playing in the prrrrivate den today instead of my office....

What's Eating Gilbert Grape?

Need ginger ale. .....upset tummy this morning :(

Pancakes :) Syrup or fruit on top? (I adore them with butter, sugar and lemon perrrrsonally)

'touche' ;)

I did indeed enjoy wild boar... patties...ground and mixed with fresh rosemary, garlic, green onions, cracked pepper... baby potatoes/herbed gravy... garden-fresh cucumbers pickled with garden green onions, baby carrots, cranberries and lemon... and of course... my 'other' life's blood... red wine <grin>

I think this has become waaaay too serious.. granted, the *way* he phrased things could have been different... but it is what it is... and he has since been raked over the coals a number of times on the topic, so even if a brand new perrrrrson to our lovely little world happened across this thread.. I am sure they could glean enough information to form their own opinion/thoughts about the whole situation. ...and actually.. if that is how he bases who he chooses someone to spend time with.. he may indeed find out rather quickly, that those methods may not turn out to serve him well <grin> but.... this is not a place for one person to judge another... or 'bash' them.... and on the other side of the coin.. if these things make him (or anyone) more comfortable about participating in this type of activities... who are we to say he shouldn't...? This is a place where everyone has an equal opportunity to share their thoughts... and, when needed <grin>... is set straight....'educated'... All the providers who have taken part in this, have indeed stated their opinions... much the same as a few clients... and it really doesn't need to get to the point where it 'needs to be deleted'..... everyone has a right to say what's on their mind.. doesn't mean we have to like it ;) <....leaps effortlessly on well-muscled thighs.. deep into thick trees.... gone..... for now.....>

Love it!! haha that would have been so much fun! ;) I myself, used to be a bit 'concerned' in this industry, after all.. I am not a size 2.. nor am I 20... but.... what I do have has carried me through wonderful years and memorable experiences... and I whole-heartedly agree.... it does me no good to put myself out there as a 110lb 5ft nothing little thing.. so why on earth would anyone else feel they would need to lie... or... more to a point hehe.. how on earth would they (or me hehe)..explain it once we met? That is after all.. the whole idea, is it not? ;) I enjoy all forms of everything... but value honesty.. and a good attitude.. easy smile... over almost anything else just be you... tall, short, wide, thin.. hairy, bald.... glass eye... old, young, experienced, nervous, experienced....one leg.. no legs... 3 nipples...(only met one so far hehe) h3ll even a bright purple elbow sprouting from your forehead..... it's all good so long as you are genuine about it :) Thank you so much for this post hehe (would have been a blast to be a fly on that wall hehe)

....what can I say... I like my eye candy too ;)

have to say ... as 'liberal' and 'free-style' as I love that I am.. not taking precautions is just silly... on anyone's part ;)

and giggled at how silly that sounded. <grin>

falling (onto a sheet of glass no less)...and getting a rather nasty cut on my shoulder/back.... juuuust out of reach of my own arm/hand.... making it almost impossible to care for myself this is one part where living alone sucks hehe :( .....stings like nobody's business!! :(

cheeeeeeese caaaake <drool> (it's a very important food group for me hehe) as for cheese cake.. plain or fruit topping?

I am a member in verrrry good standing <grin> ...( tying, binding, grinding, groping, trampling, doting, pampering...stomping et al hehe) of a lovely community of 'kinky-folk'... and am happy to say that this is indeed just a stereotype.. and not always the reality ;) Most of us dominant types are pretty nice at heart ;) One thing a person should always remember when enjoying porn... it's generally a 'scripted' scene.. and not always reflecting what is *real* which I am sure you are aware of <grin>... I have not once entered into a scene with someone where it wasn't consensual.. fun, and enjoyable for all involved...nor would I (and for some reason, I think we've touched on this before hehe) as it is not only against my nature, being the sensually oriented creature that I am.. but a great disservice to whoever has honored me with trusting themselves to my care... ;) I do understand the physical draw to femdom... for sure <grin> but have to say, in my opinion.. that the brain... is *always* the absolute funnest place to play.. cavort.. twist and enjoy being in ;) and it doesn't always have to be through degradation/humiliation... a well-timed "grip" alongside hoarse whispers of praise or encouragement into a soft ear can send shivers through a brain and body like almost nothing else I have ever seen/experienced hehe *sometimes*....mind-games are purrrrrfectly lovely <wink>

hehe.. I am always an outspoken 'devil's advocate'... and firmly believe there is *never* anything wrong with voicing your own opinion... I just think this got out of hand very early on... people get too much interested in 'soap-boxing' rather than stick to a topic.. which tends to spoil things.. There have been so many things in my crazy life that I have experienced (in this industry in parrrrrticular actually) but won't go into detail with, that make me feel I am one who has a good idea of some of the things that *could* be construed as 'unsafe'.. which was why I responded in the first place ;) I have seen women shot (for not making enough money).. I have heard threats (from useless t1ts who'd rather hurt a woman than get a job of their own.. women (and a few men) forced into drug addictions in order to make them compliant.. (for same stupid reasons).. and am very glad/fortunate, that I have not once in my life, had to endure that on a personal level .... (came close to be honest.. but thankfully I have always also had very sharp clawz hehe ;) The responsibility a john has toward this industry, is fairly simple.. I think, anyway.... and still far easier for a client to 'screen'/be informed than the provider.. - watch the sites you use and the people who are on them (sketchy or no..?) - inform yourself as to signs of abuse (drugs, physical, mental) - use reasonable ways to determine whether something is for you or not (the phone thing really was strange hehe I rarely am on hand to answer a call.. just sayin...) - go with whatever head actually makes the best decision and is something you are comfortable with ;) .... as one who has continually ruffled feathers on this site (but lately, have been behaving myself hehe) you do not, and should not have to feel 'bad' about your own opinion/actions... but just be prepared for a whole lot of others to do the same ... no matter how odd they may/not be ;) after all, if we all thought exactly the same way about exactly the same things.. life would be unbearably boring.. would it not? <grin>

....wow buddy... you have a desire to be swatted? ;) I happen to be one (female) who honestly believes that the single largest minority in the entire universe.. is likely to be a white single male between the ages of 28 and 45...... and fully recognise the 'privileges' bestowed upon *some* groups of female (myself NOT being one of them... and believe me, I have been studying/learning/reading extensively on the subject the last few years... I also am aware there are people who only see the side of the coin they desire to see.... shame really... but also a fact ;) and again.. how did this go from 'ensuring someone being in control of their own situation/choices' in this industry to this bizarre p1ssing match?

a few hours of my clawz into Johnny Depp... hmmmn... purrrrrfect ;) A few uninhibited hours with favorrrite celebrity or a few uninhibited hours with favorrrrite Lyla lady?

ripe and ready for lots of action!

grounds of the St.Boniface Cathedral.... burned in a tremendous fire decades ago.. but is a lovely, almost surreal space/ruins now... and to the best of my knowledge, the Grey Nuns still live/work on the grounds/cemetary there. (If ever in Winnipeg.. it is a place to visit... definitely!!.. just an fyi hehe)

last night I enjoyed a lovely visit from a submissive friend <grin> who brought me veggies from his garden... Aside from the fun.. was a grrrreat night of relaxing, cuddling/spooning during a grrreat movie (Wolf of Wall Street).... and sharing lovely mango salsa, and introducing them to the lovely thing that is grapefruit raddlers ;)

last night was an early dinner of 'loaded potatoe soup'...munchies (chips/mango salsa) and grapefruit raddlers (baaaaad kitty lol) Tonight, I have some ground wild boar I have been wanting to play with... fresh green onions from garden, mushrooms...red wine.. rosemary.. fresh garlic... hmmn... purrrrhaps some meatballs.. and a 'picked from my porch' salad....

sipping coffee... addressing emails/requests... perrrrving this place, and getting ready to enjoy another purrrfectly lovely day in the prrrivate den ;)

currrrrious to know how this went from wondering how to ensure someone's safety..... to a p1ssing match that for some reason includes construction workers and veers waaaay off into abortion lol ...play nice children.. or I won't spank either one of you <wink>

Munchies, wine for movie night in prrrrivate den with a friend ;)

Stellamara - Persephone