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Speaking from my Domme side <grin>....and one with quite accomplished feet/legs insofar as this sort.of thing goes.....Myself perrrrsonally I do have a number of clients who see me for such things.... and quite a lovely reputation on a widely known fetish website ;) I am much more a sensual creature than 'mean'... so my sessions. ..although tailored to exactly.what the client requires/desires... *have* to have an element.of me.in them....so that I to, enjoy myself.... fun all the way around, no matter the scene ;) I have 'topped' (provided something for the sake.of providing it) and find if it isn't something *i* enjoy....there's no point...disservice to the client, which is not.something I'm comfortable.with ;) .....and there isn't much I'm not comfortable with <grin>

kept running into people I knew.. all day... collected 11 random hugs from people at bus stops... yes, I knew them ....this time ;) hugs make for awesome days...have to say...

I came about mine... same way I came about this site actually... very 'last minute' and 'sudden'. For some years, I have conducted myself and the lovely things I get up to.. verrrrry quietly out of my place of business, using very specific methods to attract the clients I was after.... NEVER by phone (my legitimate business, so.. nope, not happening hehe) One day, I received no less than SEVEN calls on my business line, asking about massage. I have no idea who I am talking to, so I go into 'auto-pilot' and explain I am not an RMT, so if they have insurrance they are not getting their money back (so... quit asking hehe).... the gent would get flustered, and tonge-tied, and say he'd call back.. and quickly hang up... leaving me knowing exactly why they were calling, but wondering hth they got my number.... finally, one man, ridiculously perrrrrsistant in his need to see me that day.. said he was fine with no reimbursement.. and I booked him, intending on finding out wth is going on ;) He arrived in my office, and I had barely got the door closed to my room and he had removed every shred of clothing, standing there in the middle of my office hehe.. so, I knew where this was going, and the massage proceeded.. and was lovely <grin> But when I asked him how he came about hearing of me... he told me that a man was raaaving about how grrreat the massages were with me, on a website he is a member on....so he had to try for himself (also said he was very happy he did hehe) I just about lost my mind!! I found out the info (lyla.com hehe) and went to check it out for myself.. and found I had to log in as a new member.. couldn't just pop in as a guest.. and the level of anger I was feeling.. coupled with my preferrrrence to remain composed.. I wanted something in a name that reflected both my strength and my composure....a cougar, is perrrfect for that...and wanted it to be something this individual would remember.. after I sunk my clawz into him and removed a good portion of his skin <grin> so "CapitalC" to make it stick ;) ....which, incidentally, I did.. rather publicly.. <grin>...once I found the post he had put up.. a wonderful recommendation actually... but.. he had not only listed my *real name* but my business name.. the address.. the phone number... ACK! I also emailed the moderator, informing him of my complete displeasurrrre at the situation, telling him I was going to stay online until any/all traces of that information was removed from the entire site.... <grin> by the time I heard back from the mod (which was wonderfully fast, btw.. ) and saw for myself that it had been removed.. I had 7 messages in my PM box hahaha not sure if I should kiss the guy or kick him.. but.. yeah..... ;) liked it here, so ... here I stay ;) <......curls soft tail around well-muscled legs.... purrrring... content...>

<grin>.... I do what I can ;) I have soooo much information on coconut oil and all it's incredible benefits.. (and a ridiculous wealth of information on all sorts off other 'fun-foodie-type things one can use/enjoy)....but this one was specific to s3x and playing, so hehe best suited for here I thought ;) glad it was enjoyed and hopefully of some use :) Additional Comments: <grin> The article comes off like that .. largely due to it's title.. making the reason rather obvious <grin> "with a coconut oil focus".... and being this thread is *about* coconut oil and s3x/play... well....<shrug>... ;) and no, while certainly not magic.. but is almost inexhaustible in it's uses.. although, like anything else out there containing oil... it can be damaging to anything like condoms.. toys et al... and as usual, common sense (the ultimate oxy-moron hehe) should come into play...latex + *any* type of oil.. not the best combination or.. say.. you are allergic to coconut.. then.. perrrhaps not the best thing to consider.. ;)

...It is most certainly a good place to get opinions.. especially 'unfiltered' ones (both the good and the bad I find, are always best)... :) and yet again... as has been mentioned tons of times on here... going with what *you* feel comfortable with...following gut... doing homework... NOT only basing whether you deal with someone as to whether they have a tattoo of a name - could be their much-loved grandmother's name *I* have one on the small of my back.. a heart with a banner that turns into an arrow, pointing down my @ss <grin>.. and the 'name'on the banner.....is 'HIS' hehe love it as do people lucky enough to have seen it hehe :) ....or whether they pick up the phone asap when you call... leave a detailed msg (clients are baaaad for that!....).... as chances are good that most of us are busy, with this work, or other.. or life in general hehe and don't always rush to pick up the phone.... *that* to me also.. would scream desperation.... Nobody can tell outright and definitively whether someone is doing whatever they are doing because they 'truly' want to... although those of us ladies on here... rest assured.. are here because we love what we do ;) BP and other places.. again, can't say without an absolute doubt.... but that is where your own thoughts/feelings/gut/instincts come into play..... and nobody can do that for you, except you :) I'm not intending to come off as harsh.. but I do have a very blunt nature... hehe usually good-natured... so please don't take offence.. it's just one of those 'it is what it is' sort of scenarios and you take from i twhat you want/need... and don't worry about the rest.. **Of course, if you are ever in a situation with a woman where she appears to be 'recently' injured... frightened... or 'something' is just 'off'..... perhaps she is in need of help....and I would hope someone would ask/offer..... but I wouldn't suggest going looking for it <sketchiness>....where it isn't there <hugs>

built like a

last night, I 'enjoyed' a pot luck during a wake/celebration for a lovely friend

is now only a few days away.

don't care he's gay... guys @ss is gorgeous hehe a few places I'd happily dig my clawz into ;)

Gremlins :)

Annwn - Douce Dame Jolie

quite possibly treating myself to a Hookah/Shashi pipe set up.... miss my hookah nights with fellow dancers.. so figured.. why not start my own ;)

replenished the blood-supply..... wonderfully strong, fresh coffee ;)

Beauty and the Beast ;) (you can pick whichever one you want to be hehe I'm good at either end of this one hehe)

first off... wtf? <hugs> ;) as far as what I am doing... - sipping coffee - attempting to address all the responses to a 'request poll msg' I put out <grin> - perrrrrving sites for a hookah/Shashi set up.. may well be my next purrrrrchase ;) - enjoying the quiet of a rainy morning before clients arrive - the beginnings of yet another purrrfectly lovely day in the den ;)

I have a number of lovely tattoos... a matched set on my upper arms actually.. and panning for at least one more verrry lovely large piece on my back (next birthday present to myself hehe) and know a number of women who are literaly 'covered' in them... and they are not in any way being abused... that one I find a bit weird ... have to say ;) As far as talking on the phone with me.... hehe I normally do not.. I prefer to keep my phone for those who have already met me, or others that fall into different categories (family, friends, 'legit' business'... and I don't typically budge from that one... I do run an entire 'legit' clinic.. and being on the phone, potentially in front of a 'regular therapy' client while attempting to discuss parrrrrticulars of a s3xual nature... nooooot ever going to happen.... I do commend you on attempting to gain control over a sex addiction.. but I think you are putting far too much energy into figuring out who is being 'harmed' and who isn't...and not sure how that factors into your gaining control over your own situation ;) ... may sound cold but.. it really isn't your concern...(someone had to say it hehe)... more simply put.. and has been said already, by myself as well as others.. go with what you are comfortable with.. and not which you are not. ...and I really am curious as to how many providers you have encountered that approach your home (??) in a 'sketchy' black-windowed white van? ;) I once heard a saying that I think is the single most brilliant thing I have ever been told; "If you have a problem, and there *is* a solution.. then don't worry (after all, you *can* fix it).. If you have a problem... and there is... *noo* solution (as in no matter what you do/try/think/feel.. you cannot change/alter/fix) then... don't worry" ;) - Buddah I understand, I think, what you are getting at... and for some young (and I stress *young*) women, there *may* be the odd one who is in fact under the influence of some lazy @ss who figures he can use her as a meal ticket rather than be a man and get his own job <grin>.. but those, in this level of the industry from what I have seen/experienced anyway.. are thankfully few and far between....... ...and I fully agree with the recent comment as far as who made you think to post this in the first place... and why... meditate.. (it really does help) and if you still feel skittish on this person.. then don't see them :) ...as an aside.. and again, I 'get it'.. and i personally am not offended, but some women *might* be... at your comments regarding 'scoring points in some areas....' or 'qualifying' ;) may draw out some claws in some ladies - as competitive as some areas of this industry may be.. it isn't 'actually' a contest, just in your own mind ;)

I preferrrrr organic-type activity.. always end up having fun no matter what but find things most enjoyable when not so preoccupied with 'plans' ;) Rainy day activity; inside working/playing, outside working/playing... inside currrrled up with a movie/book?

*IF* a lady is okay with you giving her name/contact info out to others... pleeeeease tell the person who you give the info to... that it's ok to also use YOUR name (or at least your username)... I just spent the last 45 minutes of a lovely sunny day.. trying to extract basic information from a an who claims a 'friend' gave him my email.... but was unaware of all i offer, or my website...(sketchy...) I asked the friends name.. he wouldn't give it.... I explained why I want that name.... he wouldn't give it.... several emails back and forth later.. all I get is 'Joe'..... and the man msging me still hasn't offered me *his* name... which I had asked a few times already..... (what day/time/type of session are you looking for... what is your name, and how did you come by my info... pretty basic stuff I'd think) may not agree to see him... as I pride myself on discretion and am verrrrry careful as to who has my contact info, and how they get it... so fellas.... as a favor to not only us.. but to anyone you may refer.... tell them to offer a lady your username if you aren't comfy giving your real one... 'so and so from lyla' works amazingly well ;) I do have many other fun ways to spend my day rather than pulling teeth out of rock ;) couldn't decide whether this should go in turn offs for a lady, or how to be a decent client but hehe ;)

Manscaped please ... I do not have issue with hair on a body.. just between my teeth/clawz ;) Cake/Deserts; Eaten and enjoyed OR played with and enjoyed? ;) (another possible fun request ;)

The Perrrrrrfect Storm ;)

....my life's blood.... coffee at stellas ;)

_________________ absolutely not. There used to be a school of thought that believed male 3jaculation on a regular basis... whether self or helped <grin> increased sp3rm counts.. but that has since been shut down... hehe but it's fun whether male or female.. young or old.... h*ll.. our genitals are usually our first 'toy' ;) ... and healthy regardless... -releases endorphins - relieves stress -clears the head (HA!) - and feels really freaking good.. so.... why wouldn't a perrrrrson play with themselves ;)

very true.. minuteman <grin> Although most times, being it is in a 'clinic' setting, most are a bit shy about the hello hug... I typically do enjoy one afterward... absolutely lovely, that is.. because you are right, it doesn't feel like a good-bye.. but more a 'until next time' hehe who wouldn't enjoy that? ;)

hahahaha am actually laughing at that :) thank you... always appreciate someone who makes me laugh :) Laptop for me..... (I don't have a tablet ;) now... perrrrrhaps a bit of help for me with a small 'dilemma' ;) Gents... do you preferrrr your lyla ladies 'skinned' or 'au natural'? ;)

- pondering what to do about an unusual request (*may* impact other clients hehe not in a 'bad' way... just would leave me 'different' for a while hehe) - addressing emails.. booking appointments... - enjoying lovely music floating through my office.... - preparrring sheets, fluffing towels.... readying for a lovely encounter ......multi-tasking cat ;)