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just noticed we seem to have forgotten a few 'obvious' places... after all, title says 'places that aren't the b3droom'... so... <grin> <inhale....and go!> front entrance... office desk....living room, dining room (floor, window ledge and table hehe).... bathroom (counter, sink, tub and floor)... stairs <grin> both to second floor and to basement....kitchen (counter, floor, top of dishwasher.....)... back porch (neighbors outside hehe)... basement floor.. top of freezer.. top of washer/dryer ....garage... car (top of and in).. van(up against and in)..... garden and our boat hehe........ There aren't many places I hadn't marked my territory ;)

Solace - Ophelia's Hands

- lounging in the prrrrivate den over coffee.. slight tinge of a hang over <grin> - addressing emails/requests - finally deciding on music pieces for a solo perrrrrformance I am doing TONIGHT (ACK!) .....and of course... perrrrrrving here ;)

Unless there is a *need* to disclose that.... why would she? don't ask.. don't tell.. works just fine I would think. In an autopac claim, I wouldn't think that would have to come into play anyway. If she's asked about her source of income, be smart.. just mention the legit one..... <shrug>.. or is she looking at suing the driver of the car she was a passenger in..? assuming they know of her 'other' job.... that may put a bit of a not-so-nice kink in the works..... and *if* they know... are they a client? <grin>.... if so hehe I wouldn't think there is a worry that her 'other' source of income would come out... as most clients, in my experience anyway.. are either married or otherwise partnered so... ;)

Back seat of cab with a new and lovely.friend ;) Stared at driver....grinning my grin...the whole.time...well...*most* of it anyway hehe

And again....I seem to feel my lovely brain required some undue.torture today....not much on TV during the day when one hates.soap operas and <ahem>..*reality* shows.....so I had Super Collier on in the background in the prrrrivate den today.....ugh!! Sooooooo horrendously bad....I can't even begin.to explain.....still shuddering.....wondering if my brain will forgive me....*sigh*

Not sure if it makes a.difference "when" a person posts...but obviously current ones will garner more attention/validity than ones from a year ago :) As to posting one when you know someone is available...hehe How do you know? ;) Most of my lovely reco's (and thank you again gents...always appreciated. ..) are left once they have seen me...within a day or so of their session. To me...that makes.sense. ...and although I realise some may find it 'silly' to post repeatedly even after the first one....at times, those can also be a tremendous help...perrrrrhaps something stuck out for.you in a more.recent.scenario. ...something was more.intense...enjoyable....et al... it's *not* something one.needs to do *every* time lol...certainly not....*that* would get a bit nuts <grin>....but.. any/all recommendations. ..on a *recommendation board* <grin>.....help...to show the provider you enjoyed yourself...and to ease the.mind of someone who may be sitting uncomfortably 'on the fence' (and after a while.of sitting there.....that post has *got* to be a bit painful hehe) On behalf of all of us ladies here....thank you...for all the reco's, lovely words...and even...at times, pointing out things that maybe could be improved upon....all of it is perrrfectly lovely and appreciated <3

Relaxing 'in my favorite state' <grin>...trying to decide on what fun gear to wear to my favorrrrite prrrrrowling club for a fetish event this evening....and whether to sport my usual head of crazy curls....orrrr flip everyone out and show up in a poker-straight, red wig heheh ...and of course....addressing emails/requests...and perrrrving this place ;)

At the end.of the day...we as providers are *only* responsible for ourselves...and like it's been mentioned, we are all different in so many ways (which makes us all perrrfectly lovely btw)...as are the things we offer, as is why we have the donations we have. I used.to be concerned with what others charged....concerned.I was asking too much...have been told I could charge considerably.more for the lovely.things I am <grin>....but I'm okay with who I am....what I enjoy with the people I enjoy it with...and really, that's all any of us can do...right? ;) And I have encountered those who 'whine' that it's too much....or wish to attempt to have me lower my donations hehe noooo thank you ....those who try telling me that 'so n so' only charges such n such....don't get far into my den....but do occasionally feel my claws ;) Just be you.....offer what you want....ask what you want and don't worry about others.....that kind of crazy nobody needs ;)

Hotel Rwanda - Horribly insightful movie... as to how silly humans still are to one another :(

Continuing to see/hear clients wanting to be reimbursed via insurance. As a perrrrson who was looking at becoming a licensed RMT...the emense amount of time, studies, practicum...as well as the $26G it would take....hehe offering 'extras' would NEVER be worth my losing all that.....not ever...hehe good thing I'm not licensed <grin> I understand.people wanting a.good deal...and a good price....but honestly, if you have insurance.coverage, use that for 'vanilla' massages....and pay what the prrrovider of your choice for your 'fun' massage/activities is asking. There are so many providers, varying monetary levels...and.of.course, varying skill levels....and you do get what you pay for.....most times ;) I have a base.of.clients.who see me.for therapeutic massage simply because I'm good at what I do. ..they do not haggle..and they have nooooo idea the 'fun stuff' I get up to....so it is always a disappointment to see men who know precisely.what they are after. ...try to haggle . with a lady....maaaaajor turn off to what is mostly a delicious way to spend.ones time ;)

Two years schooling.....6 hrs exams...2200 hours.practicum......$26G!!...not to mention the physical work it takes to do that job...all to risk it by offering extras so some guy can get a bit of his money back.....?? Not ever.likely.to happen.... Sorry....this unicorn doesn't really.exist..although you may find some that *might*....you would be directly responsible for them losing their license....not worth it in any aspect. If you are a 'hobbiest'...then it should be no different paying to support any of your hobbies and what they may require in order for you to enjoy them...much the same as purrrrchasing model planes...train set pieces.....or travelling to conventions.... ;)

office of a doctor I used to work with..... and no, not the doctor ;) although he did happen to walk in just as I was rearranging my clothes hehe totally knew what just happened.. but was dirty-minded, just like me.. just grinned.. said nothing ;)

or later tonight.....

back yard during an amazing storm! (talk about purrrrfect energy!)

or on weekends.....

unchecked tears of joy *have* to fall ;)

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind - totally lovely mind-scr3w ;)

a long time ago... I had thought being married was important... being made to feel so special that this person wanted you for themselves forever <oh to be that young again haha nooo thanks hehe> I have since realised that a piece of paper does not denote that.. nor does it ensure that relationship will in fact, be 'forever' <grin> I have never been married.... nor do I think something like that is in the cards for myself perrrrsonally. I was asked.. once....by a wonderful man.. but later found out he asked because he 'thought he was supposed to'.. and had no personal interest in being married... ew! no thank you :) Not really single due to being set in my ways.. or too picky really (so long as you don't chew your nails.. pick at your feet... think it funny to be hurtful... think life begins/ends in front of a computer..*ugh!*.....and are not a judgemental d1ck...... and hopefully like to camp/fish, give/get massages/pampering.....we're good hehe) I think more due to my life choices.. career choice (which I do not for a second regret.. looove my life) doesn't always lend to a conventional relationship and would take someone pretty outstanding to keep up with my crazy wonderful life ;) I read somewhere that it is silly to find someone you could 'tolerate' living with.... rather than someone you'd thoroughly enjoy living it with and thanks that makes perrrrfect sense.. ;) ...and it doesn't require a piece of paper to do so... not that I would have turned down a sincere request... but hehe things are what they are... I know some who have been married now three times.. and think the old adage 'third time's a charm' definitely comes into play with them.. they are amazing together! :)

.....my office ...while others were here ;) (sort of a 'given' I suppose, but....doesn't actually happen often here hehe...)

but....absolutely nothing.... nowhere... even comes close to the incredible annoyance/inconvenience/rudeness... of a no-show and/or no confirmation back from someone... such a waste of a purrrrrfectly good session... *sigh* for all the times this is repeatedly posted about.. it really shocks me that it still happens... .. ugh! ...could have scheduled someone else.. could use the time to practice for upcoming perrrrformance saturday <grin>... enjoyed a walk outside.... but no....... wasted.... :/

....on a dining room table, during a formal dinner party ;) (and yes, there were others around hehe)

lighting incense.. putting phone away... fluffing sheets/towels <grin>... enjoying the purrrrrrfectly surreal sounds of music floating through my brain...readying for a soon-to-arrive client ;) and of course, ass always, attending to emails/requests... updating wish list <grin> and perrrrrrving this lovely place ;)

.......so.... <grin>.... does this mean you masturrrrrbate....? ;)

morning coffee... slept blissfully past my alarm, enjoyed lingering at favorrrrrite coffee shop hehe