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*almost* as lovely as experiencing one's brain. ;)

of purrrrfect debauchery <I seem to have a 'thing' for that word... debauchery.. rather lovely word.. I think hehe>

Calendar Girls - awesome movie!! ;)

dj booth in one of my favorrrrite local clubs....washroom of same.club....both with dj ;)

Simple... <grin>...I sat on him....leaned waaaay forward so it didn't appear I was sitting there - my arms 'treading water' hehe :) Chatted casually with an elderly.gent in the hot tub ;) when I was 'done'...I just floated my body under where my head was ;) .....another one: outdoor stairway to Polo parks parade. ..my head and top half hanging out a "window" hole in the wall. ...passersby below hardly.noticed, save for.one man who stood and watched....smiling ;)

Y'es Buffet.... long wonderful day at work today.. and for some reason <grin> I find myself completely ravenous ;) buffets are always a good idea in those situations ;) (plus they actually have really good food hehe

.....<grin>... hawt tub at a local YMCA .....*while* chatting with others who were in the tub hehe ;) ....baaaad kitty ;)

seat ....NOT the very back one...(in full view public) on a greyhound bus <grin>.... full bus too! (no idea how we didn't get busted hehe) ....and, as instructed.. one place perrrrr reply, so... hehe more to come ;) <HA!>

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not to mention, emotional/mental benefits too! ;)

so far.. today... catching up with a lovely visit this morning over strong coffee and flirty conversation... and of course... elk/wild boar sausages for lunch ;)

enjoying perrrrrfectly done locally caught/made elk/wild boar/apple/honey sausages... pasta.... before going to the office for the afternoon...... mmmmmmn ....haaaapy kitty ;)

Myself, I actually ask outright. ..for information on things a perrrrson likes/dislikes....and in a manner that keeps things relaxed and comfortable...usually via emails when we start communicating. I've found.that most people, even if nervous....are considerably more.confident with a.screen between us <gein> I fancy myself a 'fantasy facilitator'...have been called that so <grin>...but if I don't get into those lovely little secret corners of your brain....hard.to 'facilitate' what I don't know ;) I'm fairly certain that most of us, given our chosen professions <grin> are fairly comfortable talking about anything....mundane or taboo <grin>...and I at least would.hope that whoever chosen to communicate with me.would feel secure.enough to really talk to me ;) .......so far...so good <wink>....with purrrrhaps one exception. ..but the individual in question has still chosen to communicate with me...and admitted that it may have been better had he.simply opened up to me :) ...and now both of us are looking forward to getting together again on a much clearer.playing field ;)

email: Do you have any openings this afternoon? my reply (within minutes of receiving the email) Yes.. I have...... open... which time works best and what is it you are wishing to enjoy with me? ..........<tumbleweed is seen bl0wing across the internet>........ UGH! I *hate* this almost more than anything else.... why....? why do people do this...? hehe almost as annoying as the 'hi'... followed by silence texts ;)

coffee....

enjoyed left over elk and baby potatoes... smothered in sour cream... mmmmnnn....

Taken ............ (too short so... 'dots'...) ;)

and a well-known medical fact - burns calories ;)

hahaha agree wholeheartedly ladies... it *is* something that should be included in the 'fun'...... but.. as one who does these fairly often... an actual 'cuddle session' is noooot the same. They are something entirely different from the cuddling that goes on (or at least.. should) after a sexual experience... The typical cuddling after s3x is a wonderful few minutes of raised endorphins.. a euphoric 'high' that comes from the activity of two bodies being so wonderfully physical... but a cuddle session is a whole other world...and is almost 'ruined' if done nude...... There is something sweet.. tender.. 'Matronly'...and, as I said earlier.. 'serene' about these types of sessions. There is NO s3x.. there is no expectation of it... just the need/requirement to be close to another human being.... it's hard to put into words.. but it really is a much more 'nurturing' environment, much different than what follows a sexual encounter... those who have experienced it may be better at defining what it is like for them.... But for me, it is sublime.....ultimate in closeness/tenderness.. and is something that is sorely lacking in almost all aspects of daily life...... The people I see (as I see both male/female regularly) for the cuddling, are not from lyla, but perrrrhaps I should pick their brains a bit.. as to what it means to them.. then maybe I might have insight from the other side. although there have been sessions where the closeness and intimacy that is achieved, is such that it has made more than a few simply cry in my arms.... a huge release.. like no other.. and *not* like the release/cuddles after s3x....from what they *have* said *sigh* and again, so blessed to be a part of that for them..

The 'silence' is one of my favorrrrite parts of these types of sessions.. truth be told :) The main reason it is done clothed (for me it is usually soft silky pj's :).. is to distinguish the difference in the session.. and is one of those things that I do not alter... far too easy to slip into a far more sensual role when nude <grin>... being the sensually oriented creature I am.... These sessions are much more for a feeling of safety.. comfort... 'no worries'.. much more so than our usual types of lovely things offered... and as for the physical/mental benefits.. it matters not whether someone is nude or wearing a parka.. that is still in effect ;) as for rates.. those I discuss with each individual, but yes it is something where being 'present' is very much required.. but that is a major part of everything I do/offer... so no difference for me there ;) the cuddling is a much more nurturing type of session.. for me... serene almost.. and a most lovely way to slip in a good nap mid-day ;)

Birthday lunch for the single most special man in my entire existence :)

I don't partake myself... (nuts enough without the help, thanks hehe).. but perrrrhaps the ladies who do advertise this.. are simply stating they are 'ok' if you do..... Granted, no provider in her right mind wants someone showing up terribly under the influence, but a shared drink or two.. or partaking in 420 together.. may in fact be a bit of a different scenario.. it is for me anyway.... time to chat, relax... it can be very nice... I don't want someone showing up who is pouring himself into my door.. now do I want to send them home that way.. but a bit to relax... seems only fitting... just my nickel....(seems odd, saying that, but.. no more pennies so....hehe)

A wonderful lunch with my amazing son.. and home just as the rain started coming down...now sitting 'cougar-clad'.. with the 'cougar-wannabe' (kitten) and watching the storm.. lovely way to spend some quiet afternoon time