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Reading through these, it is indeed a bit 'sad' that this *needs* to be here... but.. humans are what we are, so... Aside from some of us slightly promoting ourselves on this thread about the type of sessions we enjoy/offer...<grin>... (something which I am not going to do....) it should be a relative no-brainer that if you are seeking out a provider, you are wanting to experience something fun, relaxing.. and discrete...outside your 'normal' life/relationship... and have expectations that we will automatically respect your privacy, boundaries, wishes.. et al.... so... in having that expectation as a client.. why should it be a difficult stretch to expect that we as providers, also have boundaries, expectations.. limits.. et al...? In general, I would think that the client has the advantage.. after all, *you* are privy to all our information before you even make contact.. all the things you need to decide whether or not to proceed and contact. As far as I am concerned.. *if* you actually have rad my information (or that of another provider)... then b contacting me, that tells me, you are fine with my requests/expectations and all I offer.... so I would not ever expect someone to 'argue', badger or haggle... tsk tsk gents ;) Over the course of my long and lovely career.. I have seen many provider's websites.. blogs.. posts, ads.. and they are all extremely clear.. detailed... and for the most part, very well written, explaining etiquette, fees/donations.. all that... so it again, should be so simple it's almost redundant... read.... read... and read again.... (and please... show up as clean as possible.. from mouth to toes ;) ..stale beer, coffee... in the face, strong body odor.. or 'surprises' in intimate areas....are a sure-fire wet blanket to any scenario ;) It is supposed to be all about fun.... if a woman has gone to the trouble of creating a site where you can find all her info... do both of you a favor, and read it.. do NOT ever haggle... (whining is a MAJOR turn-off, in any situation hehe)...and if requested/required, ask/answer questions clearly and to your/her satisfaction...as should the provider if you have any yourself...... so much nicer when that happens ;) Demanding that someone bend their rules/expectations to suit you simply due to the fact that they have chosen to do this type of thing for a living... is never acceptable.... talking, inquiring, asking.. is *usually* fine, especially with those providers that just list hourly donation rates. If she says yes, then.. lovely.. if she says no.. then.. just as lovely... :) **Responding in a timely fashion is also super-high on my list of wonderful ways to be a 'good client'... if you ask for a session at a specific time...same day or whatever...keep an eye on you remail.. and when the woman replies back.. reply to her... if the time she gives is not one that works for you.. don't simply leave the message 'hanging'.. reply, letting her know it doesn't work.. that way the session isn't tentatively held for you... (happens far too often and is super annoying!)

....There are a few of us prrrrowling around <grin>

Purrrsonally, I have offered this for a very long time, but had kept it on the 'clinical' side of the rest of what I do.. rather than including it in this sort of thing.. no idea why really <grin> as yes.. it is especially lovely to spend time like this... clothed.. relaxed.. simply enjoying the non-sexual touch of another being... be they same sex or no... and being the extremely tactile being that I am <grin> I enjoy it as well.. very much. Sometimes there is talking.. sometimes just silence.. sometimes.. even sleep hehe, so for this I have taken to setting an alarm <grin> As a provider, it was a bit interesting to make clear the difference between this sort of session and the 'other'... but I have only had one person who I no longer accept to see.. as they continue to push that boundary. I understand where some may be confused.. due to all the things I enjoy providing and participating in.. but.. a session is what a session is... and if a perrrrson wants something other than a cuddle time.. they should book something other than a cuddle time ;) It is, however, one of the things that *may* appear in the fall additions on my site....another wonderfully different way to step off the planet and into my world.. for a while ;)

Infected - Oh my! fairly positive this piece of garbage is only a made for tv... but wow.. soooo bad!!! Isabella Rossellini ... that beautiful woman... must be desperate.. plays an alien who is here, with others of course, to take over the earth by infecting our water.... and actually had tentacles shoot out of her sweater( fembot style lol) and tried to strangle the 'heros' with them.. lol oh my brain!! owwwww!! such bad acting ....

I know it has been said but... stupid people ....a bright red, bold, very noticeable sign says "RESERVED PARKING FOR ******** TOWING IN EFFECT " a person parks there who shouldn't be, so I call to have them towed.... the driver approaches the car as I am on the phone with the tow company and I tell them they are lucky.. they were about to get towed..... (pointing to the sign which is right at eye level if you have a face...) he looks at me and says.. no word of a lie...big dumb grin on his face.... "Oh, sorry, I'm from BC so I didn't know"...... hahaha seriously? I almost wanted to follow him to wherever he was staying and have him towed just.. just because.... lol <insert emphatic eye roll here please>

Masterbatory activity is one of my favorrrrrite of many hobbies ;) Especially on days that end in Y <grin> So many gd points brought up her.. I am often suffering from sleepless nights.. and usually a good long, right-from-the-core-of-my-being solitary play session is the best cure ;) Toys.. OH MY yes!! everyone (or most everyone) has heard the wonders of the amazing Hitachi Magic Wand.... hehe ever try it out for yourselves gents? hehe press into the frenum.. and it will change your world in 20 seconds or less hehe *AND* you could purrrrchase one and pass it off like it is a 'gift' to you and your SO... hehe enjoy it together.. and solo soooo much fun to be had! and yeah.... studies show that 98% of all humans over the age of 5 master-bate (spelled for benefit of censor police) .....the other 2% are bold-faced liars ;)

- What Dreams May come ('98) .....grrrreat movie <grin> - Real Women Have Currrrrves ('02) ;) ....'Darling Companion' ('12 - not a great movie) ....."Sexy Beast" (2000) <hehe> "Under the Same Moon" ('08) ....with thoughts for a lovely friend ;)

wild blueberry pancakes/fruit at Neechies..... and some elk meat wild boar meat.. shallots, and mushrooms... and some elk/boar/honey/rosemary sausages.. mmmn... brrrreakfast tomorrow hehe (*cannot* leave there without my meat-favs... I am a carrrrrrnivore after all hehe) ....and coffee ;)

perrrrfectly lovely repetative rounds fun and debauchery <grin>

Local elk meat, slow cooked with fresh garlic, hand-picked rosemary, mushrooms and shallots...in red wine... Kale/cucumber/cranberry salad....red wine

This sustenance, of course prrrovides energy to

keeping pawz crossed for sushi tonight :)

Enigma/Deep Forest - Return to Innocence (one of my absolute favorrrrrrite songs ever!!)

being unbelievably close, yet painfully far from an incredibly special family member who's milestone birthday is today... and not being able to be there :(

(the) Reaping - interesting concept... screws with the head hehe

brunch at a favorite local Native place of mine - fet-friends gathering to enjoy some amazing food... good conversation. (now all I have to do is 'behave' and not buy up the whole place lol)

at an event last night, ran onto a woman I had helped in my professional capacity.. received the most amazing hug.. tears, compliments from her.. I not only got 'through' to her, but made a change in/for her that she took and ran with and is doing phenomenally well now :) sooooo entirely makes my day when that happens, and I am fortunate enough to have it happen fairly often, but this was something pretty special.... (she is now proudly 72 days clean.. 'situated' and feeling/appearing more like a 'person'... f*cking lovely to have been a part of that!)

homemade cookies....(still haven't eaten them all.. and am actually *sharing*!).... rain (storms especially!).... close-quarters conversations... good wine... better food.... my new Hitachi <grin>..... kitten kisses ;)

-enjoying hot coffee paired with 'bear cookies' <grin>, listening to the lovely sounds of Stellamara fill my office, alongside the scent of incense... - addressing emails/bookings - preparing a therapy room for the eminent arrival of the days first clients.... - contemplating whether to take afternoon bookings, or attend a kinky picnic <wink> .... and of course... perrrrrving here ;)

and a good pizza, is goooood energy!

......ummn... invisible ones? ;)

Jack - looooove this movie!!

coffee :)

Very late lunch at a one event I was performing at; free vendor cart hotdogs, chips.. fruit, iced tea... followed up soon after with.. homemade beef stew, homemade bannock, homemade pickles (okay, okay.. *piles* of homemade pickles hehe)...berries, ice cream, homemade donuts... *sigh... supper was at another event this evening hehe.. full and verrrrrry content kitty at the moment..... :)

I GOT COOKIES FOR BREAKFAST!! literally... just now! a whole box of homemade cookies post delivered right to my door ;) ....and me still with coffee hehe how entirely lovely <hugs> made my day and it isn't even 10am yet :)