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For most of us, the main things are respectful of time/availability (don't expect that with 10 minutes notice, you are automatically going to be seen... odd perrrhaps, but has happened!), donations (do NOT haggle!)... and *read our information* before booking plllleease :) saves everyone a lot of possible aggravation ;) As a 'newbie' to either this 'hobby' <grin> or just to this site.. it is to your benefit to read through the FAQ/rules on here... some may seem mundane, but there is good info on here... same with threads pertaining to 'turn offs for a lady <grin>... 'ask a provider/hobbiest'... very valuable info for anyone really ;) As for what makes a perrrrfect session, to me, not only does being with someone you can connect with matter to me... (easy conversation, comfortable chatting, relaxing a while...) but purrrrsonally I appreciate someone who is forthcoming with details of things they enjoy (or DON'T enjoy), even if for a massage.. for the more I know about you, what your needs/desires (kinks.. wishes... even those 'secret' little things you keep in the back of your head hehe) the better equipped I am to ensure you fully enjoy yourself...and, by ensuring that you enjoy yourself.. I in turn, very much enjoy myself.. if that makes sense hehe ;) * I have recently noticed someone had said I 'try too hard'... not sure what that means exactly but hehe it's working for me, and for those who choose to see me, so...<shrug> hey, if it ain't broke.... <grin>

morning coffee *ahhhh*

Yo Yo Mah (with Kathryn Stott) - The Swan (beautiful rendition of the popular ballet piece) *sigh* ....seriously.. having a sh1t day... put this on.. close your eyes... and change your sh1t ;)

likely a hotdog/drink at an event I am heading to shortly :) (there is just *something* about vendor cart hotdogs... mmmmmnnn...) <purrrrrr>

finished up with early therapy client... getting ready to close up shop to attend an event for a few hours... enjoying my coffee... addressing emails... pondering some creative requests <grin>.... ...feeling slightly silly at my shoutbox post about a rainy day.. sun suddenly decided to show his lovely warm face ;) and... yes... as always... perrrrrrving here ;)

Dispicable Me ;)

to find a good pizza somewhere close ;)

*Totally* made my friends' day by delivering her half of the skirts we ordered... AND let her have first pick... hehe grrrrreat way to laugh over an hour in a park hehe

- Only 4 days after placing my oder for my replacement for a much-missed toy <grin> it's here!!!! - so are the skirts/pants I ordered to share with a friend! - going to dinner tonight with one of my best friends.... so far, a day-um good day I'd say ...and it's only 1pm! ;)

flatulence inhibitor: ;) fennel seeds.... chew a small amount at/after each meal... and it helps tremendously.. and/or fennel seen tea with your meals..(it's what I do for a living, so hehe figured I'd stick that in there) and h3ll yes to the cell phone crap... I wish I would have been present to see a woman ... blindly walking in a parking lot while texting...(a friend I was on the phone with, watched this, and relayed it to me...)..... she tripped on a 'speed bump' in the lot... fell face down.. purse contents spilled everywhere.... total shock on her face.. hehe *she wasn't hurt.. but man! I would have appreciated seeing that... I am from the lifetime where phones still had cords, and we do still have these wonderful little things called *answering machines*.... ;) trust me people.. you will live even if you don't have a phone in your grip or surgically applied to the side of your head ;)

I'm going to thoroughly enjoy a new burger at Stella's tonight with a wonderful female friend; grain-fed beef... slice of carmelized pineapple, coconut/avocado mayo, cilantro, Thai chilli sauce, arugula, swiss/cheddar/parmesan cheeses on a brioche bun....aaaaahh!

coffee and a purrrrrrfect, still-warm-from-the-oven ham and swiss croissant .....almost heaven <grin>

- sipping coffee... my life's blood.... - addressing emails... noting some fun requests <grin> - enjoying the 'soul-pounding' intensity of some newfound music.... - pondering some new additions to the website <grin> ...and of course... as always.. perrrrrrving around here ;)

...as the saying goes "can't un-see that!" <shudder>

For myself, when a person contacts me (as either a SP or MP), I very much appreciate details.. a preferred day/time you would like to be seen, and of course, what it is you are hoping to experience with me.. helps with booking .. and should be rather obvious.. but sadly is not hehe Once I reply back, I can do so with the requested time et al.. and can then get into some details about things you would enjoy having done during the session ;) ...this form of approach goes much better for someone other than simply saying 'hi' and nothing else hehe As for your other situation, you were indeed being propositioned to purchase it for her... and no, you were not wrong to break off contact with her if this is not something you feel comfortable with doing/being involved in. as you said, you did not approach her as a client for an SP.. and although I would advise in the future, if this happens again, and is not something you are looking for... simply let them know you are not a p4p kind of guy ;) As a provider of several different lovely things <grin>.. I have had clients offer to purchase things for me in lieu of the donation.. and sometimes I am in agreement.. sometimes I am not.. hehe it is largely how I came about my lovely corset and toy collection <grin>... but either way, in my case, the person I am speaking with is fully aware of the situation we are both in.... I have also been in situations where I 'met' someone online.. NOT in the context of being a provider... and I am up front with them, telling them what I do for a living... but also that being how I came across them, I am not looking to them as a client.... which is what she should have done... unless of course, she was being deceitful and trying to 'rope' you into being one... unfortunately, it happens a lot from what I have heard/seen...so gain, highly advise you to let them know (if it is a case of another forum where they have *not* advertised themselves as an SP).. you are not looking to p4p....(pay for play/purchase)

- taking my time after falling asleep again (the old 'shut the alarm off and roooooll trick) - enjoying the tickly-sting of kitten claws on my toes - stalling getting dressed - perrrrving here - addressing emails - contemplating a lovely day in the prrrrivate den instead of my office <grin>

"Soylent Green"....which is juuuust freaking sick! ;)

As a provider.. the massages I do I don't typically 'watch' a clock.. the music sets I use are 'roughly timed' for however long the session is to go.... so I don't have to be concerned... and of course, neither does the perrrson who has graced me with their presence... more often than not they are far too preoccupied with melting... <grin>.. and losing their consonants hehe Th other fun things I can get up to.. again, I am not the most stringent clock-watcher <grin> and in being such I always tell the person who's company I am in, if 'they' are crunched for time, to be sure to let me know... these sorts of sessions are not ever booked back to back .. to allow for a completely non-rushed and relaxed atmosphere...and there have been times where the conversation.. the connection, is so lovely.. the idea of 'time' sort of goes out the window ;) I often think it is 'me' that may end up infringing on 'their' time hehe but it all works out wonderfully well :)

- Grrrrreat day at work.... sent an impulse text to a far away lovely friend... and pleasantly surprised them <grin> - arriving home after a wonderful night with my drumming ladies.... to find a note from a friend waiting for me... mentioning sending me homemade cookies!!!!! ooooh yay!!!!

MFF seems to happen muuuuch more frequently *sigh* and as lovely as that can be <grin> I raise a definite paw toward MMF ;) ....cameraman/perrrrson... or participant? ;) (gee.. something tells me I already know the answer hehe)

I walked away from a job I enjoyed..but wasn't enough to support me, went behind family's back (collectively hehe) - who all but said it was a bad idea, and I would no doubt fail.....and decided to jump completely blind into what is now my absolutely purrrrfect clinic... with no money.. no credit... no support.. no idea really why I was so pulled to do this, or why I was even doing it... but so glad I did! After decades of working for others..trying to fit my funky self into their version of 'normal' <grin> of doing housecalls for therapy sessions for TWELVE YEARS!! (ACK!)... I took that totally scary plunge, and now have my own completely awesome little corner of the planet! I have taken a number of such leaps over the course of my life.. and have regretted none of them... no matter how I fared... after all, it's all the lumps and bumps we gain that shape and make us who we are right now, this second ;)

Abendruf - Elane

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Schitt's Creek - never seen it.. but loving the name ;) and anything is better than Coronation hehe.. no offence ;) Criminal Minds or Law & Order?

Enya - Althair Ar Neamh