I think, if the women (or men, I suppose) providing these sorts of things, go to such great lengths to be discrete, keeping things very quiet... then the least anyone else who goes to them should be expected to do... is offer the same discretion, stop blabbing your mouths off, you have no idea what devastation it may bring to someone in their private/work life.
I have wonderful friends who do just that, and have successfully for years, with nobody knowing or being harmed in any way at all... now I see names of businesses flashed all over the place.
How would it be if these women went to your wives, your friends/co-workers and told them details of your activities on here (or in the bath houses) - come on people, a bit of tact really isn't that hard to muster up
