MickeyG

If you play the guitar and use your right hand instead of a pick, please be conscious of that when you decide to go exploring...

That's a very interesting question, actually. I believe that it's essential to be able to talk about what you'll consent to before you meet. That shouldn't ever be illegal under any circumstances. Using vague terms like GFE isn't enough - people need to be able to directly ask an SP what she's comfortable with. It's the only way. That way, everyone walks away happy.

Interesting link, Mia.

Hi all! I'm wondering...what's your opinion on pro vs. cellphone photos? Which do you prefer and why?

Amber - wowie zowie...you are one hot tamale! Don't know whether you're into the ladies, but I'll take a little bit of that anytime. Nicolette - Love the cop outfit thing! The aviator glasses - yes, yes & yes. Bellafan - I just love fantasy I suppose. Deep down, my personality is a little bit larger than life, so I guess that kind of thing IS expressing my real self. peacectryguy - Mmmm. That's what I was trying to avoid. The creep factor. I actually didn't have the whole Britney Spears pigtails/white shirt/white sock thing going on. It was really just a tartan mini. I was aware that the skirt had certain connotations though, which is why I asked. I'll probably give it away (and I know just the person to give it to). So...any of the ladies have suggestions about good brands of lipstick that won't come off? I love the full red lips look, and like I said...I don't want to leave a trace.

What's the most exciting encounter you ever had with a lady and why? I'm curious. My most exciting encounter...it's hard to make a decision, but it involved outdoor sex. I have a bit of a fetish for that. It's actually how I got started in the business - sex in the park. I can think of a few that were pretty amazing, but that's the one I keep thinking about.

Getting a young guy can be good because they're extremely enthusiastic, but older men are generally more sensual. And let's face it - they're WAY better at oral! I definitely prefer older men too. To take it a bit further, I think I'd rather have sex with myself at this age than when I was in my 20s. Once I hit 35, I kind of came into my own sexually - the rumors are true.

One guy tried to do exactly that to me, but I caught him. It really freaked me out. The whole point of this thing is that it's supposed to be consensual. When I get one of these guys, I watch them VERY closely.

You know, the schoolgirl skirt was something I felt comfortable in because I have a punk streak in me from back in the day. However, I was worried that it might look like I was trying too hard to be younger, which wasn't the case. As I said before though, I would rather go commando than wear a thong, and I've decided to retire my tall silver heels for a pair of 50s kitten heels. There's no way in heaven or hell that I'd wear those silver shoes outdoors, but the kitten heels...yes. Definitely. Going a little off topic, I also love the look of very dramatic dark red lipstick, but it's a problem because I also like to kiss. I've tried many of the 'stay put' varieties, including Hourglass (expensive), but it doesn't last if you really get into it. One of the golden rules is not to leave any evidence, so I'd appreciate any recommendations from the girls.

Really interesting replies...made me think about what makes me feel sexy, actually. The lingerie I'm wearing in the photo definitely makes me feel that way. It looks a little dom, and I can definitely be that if the occasion calls for it. I do like power suit jackets with nothing underneath. THAT makes me feel sexy. I realized that the thongs have to go. I've never liked them. In fact, I haven't been wearing underwear at all for a little while...that, to me, is sexier than a thong. I've also been trying to find a pair of 50s style panties with ruffles on the bum...not much success so far, but I haven't done a thorough search on ebay. I like wearing glasses sometimes, because there's something erotic about taking them off before you get down to it...basically, I want to look like a cross between Courtney Love and Jackie O., if that makes sense.

Guys who ask to have sex without a condom. Once...OK. You're wrapped up in the heat of the moment. Twice...NO. Three times...all of the excitement and eroticism has gone out of it for me. Those guys will try anything and it makes me damn nervous. I just don't get the logic.

If you were to book a mature lady (say late 30s - 40s), would you want her to come to the door in an outfit that made her look younger or older? Say...a schoolgirl skirt and tank & hair down VS. glasses, hair up, and a business jacket with only a bra underneath? Really eager to hear your opinions.

Hey...it's Janice here. I'm sorry - and I'd like to thank the Mod that took the time out to explain the situation. I double posted an ad, so I was SUSPENDED for a week. I had two accounts, and I guess I got a little impatient for my ad to show up. Lesson learned. So...I'm working tonight and I'm super excited because I just got a new bed moved in and it's great! As for the step-daughter...I deal in fantasy. If any of you guys out there want to play out a secret fantasy that you've never been able to tell anyone about...or maybe just something fun, I'm your gal. I'll put on a show for you with someone half my age though - someone who could in fact be my daughter. She may show up tonight. Sorry to the mods, and kisses to you. XO Janice

Hey guys and gals...I'm fairly new to Ottawa so I could use some guidance here. I used to live in Montreal and there was this great hotel for escorts. Hot tub, cool decor, mirror on the ceiling (I know that sounds cheesy, but it was pretty awesome). I'm finding it tough to find a place like that here. The ones I've been in tend to be very uptight at the front desk...plus, the decor is boring. On the other hand, I definitely don't want to book a fleabag motel. Please tell me that there is a groovy place in Ottawa to have a bit of fun! PS - This isn't an ad or my real escort name. I really need some advice who knows.

without kissing seems unnatural to me. Occasionally (VERY occasionally), I meet a guy who doesn't want to kiss and I respect that, but to me it's just a natural part of the whole experience.

Well guys...if you're curious enough you can find me today...find out for yourself! XO Janice

That's a really good question. First off, let me say that I'm not posting under my real escort name...I'm not exactly sure about how the rules work on this forum. Usually, I look at the guy and try to figure out whether he's nervous or whether he's an old hand. Some guys are totally comfortable and they know what to do. However, because I'm a 'cougar', I do get some very young guys and they're a bit unsure about who I am and whether to trust me. In that case, I touch and kiss them very gently until they start to warm up to me. With the older and more experienced guys...I just let em have it!