Wolf Knight

As a newbie I did read reco's in an effort to try to find a lady or ladies that I felt suited the type of experience that I was looking for in an encounter. So as a newbie I found them useful. Now that I have more experience with encounters as well as direct interaction with ladies here on Cerb I don't tend to rely on them much myself. However I do appreciate their value to those seeking validation that a lady is indeed a good choice for them. Therefore, I choose to write recommendations. Right now, I'm actually a little behind on my reco's but I do write them for every lady that has provided me with a wonderful experience. Everyone desires something different out of an encounter and if, as in OP's original post the client likes to maintain the fantasy that there is just one man and one woman then that's what they desire from their experience. It's not wrong it's just the fantasy they like to maintain. As has been stated, stay away from the reco's. Personally, every lady that I have met, I have had a wonderful time with and have come to respect very much. Out of my respect for her is born my wish that she be very successful in all her endeavours personal and professional. Her professional life (in this business) funds aspects of her personal life that she enjoys. Just as I want to help newbies feel comfortable in their choice of lady for their experience I want her to have clients who desire her specific particular qualities. When those two factors are in line it results in a positive experience for both parties. For me knowing that I might play some small part in the lady being financially successful while having positive client experiences makes me feel good. I'm a realist, I know that she professionally sees a number of clients however, I'm quite confident that none of her other clients are exactly like me. Therefore the encounter that I provide FOR HER is actually unique and one of a kind. She appreciates her time with me differently than she appreciates her time with her other clients. This can be a mentally grueling industry for a lady at times and if there is anything small thing that I can do to show my appreciation and make the lives of the ladies I have known better in any way I'll do it. I write Reco's, and I will continue to do so for the above reasons.

I like Nicki for many reasons but right now it's because of her smoking hot avatar!

I love this pic of Cleo's as well. The lighting is soft and sensual, you can subtly see her ink but the pic leaves you longing to see more of what lays beyond the shadows.

Are we in the same place? Because I've got sun and 25 degrees. You have to be in the east end.

I wouldn't change a thing. I'm AWESOME! (at least that's what my Mom says)

I was wondering if anyone here had any information on a Toronto SP named Shandra Morgan. She advertises as an East Indian GFE. She's in NL now but I don't believe that she's a Cerb member. Feel free to PM me with any info. I'm not a TOFTT type person so I like to have some input from those in the know. Any help is appreciated. Thanks. (Before anyone posts any stuff about issues with asking about non-cerb SP's, I see almost every Cerb lady that visits here if our schedules work out and in fact have an apt in about an hour with one) I can wait! Chuck

I always choose to send a passionate thank you as well to the lady for the pleasure of her company. I personally consider ladies I visit with to add a great deal of value to my life beyond the physical of the moment. It's a gesture that I would consider CENTRAL to a client being able to consider himself a "gentleman". Besides that, hey it's just polite etiquette.

This is something that many guys deal with in silence so I'll share my piece. I'm not that old (38) but a while back I went through a VERY stressful period in my life. Worked myself into the ground and was physically and mentally exhausted. During that period I couldn't get hard to save my life not a chance. I got checked out and due to the strain I was under everything was screwed up in my body. Long story short, that period past and I was back to a normal life and my body was back to normal but not being able to get hard during that period messed with my head. So now even though I was physically and mentally well, every time I'd engage in sex play I'd be stressed wondering if I'd be able to get hard and guess what I'd either not be able to or would loose it half way through. It continued and as expected the more I focused on it the worse I made it. Rather than spend my time focused on the extremely beautiful woman and the sensual things we were doing and enjoy them, I'd be focusing on "get an erection, get and erection, get an erection". It was a vicious circle. Seriously, I'd say I went six months without an erection. truthfully it felt very demoralizing and my SO felt like it maybe it was her, that I wasn't interested in her. I was like WTF I'm a young man who can't get it up and I was finally fed up with it. I went to the doctor and laid it all out there and it was a little uncomfortable to discuss but the Dr. told me that physically there was no reason that I shouldn't be able to achieve erection on my own but gave me some Viagra to try. The Dr. figured that if I used them to help me along, once I saw that everything still worked ok I'd get over the mental block and be fine. So that's what I did, I took the pill and had some fun with no worries about erections. I did it a few more times and everything was great and I felt like old me. Finally, I stopped the pill and what do you know, it still works! Mental block now in the past and I'm having the best sex of my life. Life's too short to waste one minute. If there is something that you can do, DO IT! Have some fun and forget the worry and stress. Good luck.

Hey Guys, Malika is going to be making her first visit to St. John's on July 7-10. She's a fantastic lady so lets show her a great reception for her first visit. I noticed that Malika is too modest to attach her recommendation's to her ad so I'll post them here. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=M&t=19132 and http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=M&t=127717 Gentleman, book her up, I've already got my time with her arranged! Don't delay or you might end up kicking yourself. Chuck

Cristy, not to reduce you to parts but your tits are quite spectacular and fun to enjoy as well. Sorry but it just had to be said :) Chuck

Getting back to the OP's first post. He specifically mentioned the fact that it's awesome if the lady initiates the sex. I think this is universal fact. Men love women who openly display their love of sex and specifically that woman's desire to have sex with said man. To know a lady is horny for you and can't get enough of you is amazing and every mans dream. Too often it's the position where the man is reduced to begging for sex from their SO or having to go without entirely. Hence this industry. That's the amazing part about visiting with SP's many men who have felt "rejected" for a long time finally hear yes. However, if that "yes" by the SP is accompanied by apparent genuine lust for the man it takes his experience to another level. To feel wanted and desired is a powerful thing for us humans.

Peachy is so right, we're all adults here, and this is a environment safe for sexual exploration and discovery. Talk to each other. I'm sure that there will be almost nothing that you will ask an SP that she has not heard before. These ladies are professionals completely prepared to blow your mind if you'll open yourself up to it. Plus, like Peachy said SP's are not mind readers, you'll actually be making her experience with you a whole lot more enjoyable without the stresses of wondering if she's providing you the experience that you want. The SP doesn't know the things that you like best unless you communicate them to her. Believe me they only want to give you the best experience they can so that they'll get a repeat client. At first I was nervous to ask for things and lead the encounter and in the heat of the moment didn't feel right saying can we do "this" or "that". So now up front in my communication with the SP before the date I mention what I want from the experience and confirm her do's and don'ts. I prefer to lead the encounter, to give the lady the experience so to speak and with the limit's or ok'd acts set out before hand I'm completely open to take over and give her the best client experience that I can.

I don't really have something that I wanted to "ask" for but I will make an observation from my own personal experience. It's been mentioned before in this thread. I had an experience with a lady that was our second visit together (if she read's this she'll definitely know who she is). The first visit was kind of a "getting to know you" visit and quite frankly we were hot for each other, and definitely not done when I left her. For a couple of days we traded sexy, hot, passion building messages. Finally, I literally couldn't stand it any longer and had to visit with her. I knew she had an opening in her schedule and I messaged her that I was coming to her. A little while later I knocked on the door. When she opened it not a word was said (honestly there was too much heat between us at that point) we just looked at each other and I grabbed her and pinned her against the wall right inside the door. We kissed hard and the passion raged wildly. No words were spoken, just desire. We tore at each others clothes and threw them on the floor. It was a raw animal need that just had to be sated. We had very intense, mind blowing sex and never even spoke (besides a few mid orgasm curses) until it was all finished about 40min later as we lay sweating and panting against each other. It was truly one of the most remarkable sexual experiences of my life because it was so raw and needy on both our parts. So I will say this, ladies if you have a client that you've seen before and are comfortable with and want to blow his mind do this. If he contacts you for a visit tell him that you've been thinking about him hoping he would call and tell him that you're very hot for him. Build up the passion just prior to the encounter. When he shows up and you open the door just grab him and wildly go at it like you can't stand to be without him anymore. No chit chat, just be raw and needy. It'll make him feel so great to be desired in such an animalistic way. I know Cleo mentioned the donation aspect but with a client you know and trust and have seen in the past you might feel more comfortable with this. You could even do the email transfer so there is no need for cash at all. Guys if you do need to pay in cash just have it in your hand when she opens the door so that she can see it easily and know its there and then just grab you and give you the time of your life. Shit, I'm totally hot now and the lady I just talked about is not around today. Fuck that! :)

Each experience between an SP and each different client will result in different chemistry. Just as every client is different so is each and every encounter that occurs. I personally have had multiple encounters with some ladies many times and I can honestly say that if I were to post a recommendation based on each individual encounter with that same lady they would all read differently. Therefore it's very difficult for one client to definitively recommend an SP to another client without having a very detailed understanding of the other clients desires for an encounter. Actually, what I take from every encounter with new ladies or ladies that I have seen many time changes for every single instance. I have visited with ladies that are considered elite in this industry and who others have recommended and poured praise upon. My visit with that same lady was pleasent but for me did not contain the same wow factor that others described. Not that there was anything wrong but the chemistry was not there. Best bet when looking for an SP is to find a lady that you admire read her recommendations and maybe contact some of her recommenders privately and ask some questions pertaining to what you desire in a visit and let them advise you if they believe you'll find that in an encounter. In PM people will be a little more open in their opinions. People have said it before but bottom line is get out there have some fun and figure out what your "thing" is. Mine is a lady with brains it's now the thing I look for first. Who knew?

Glad you said this Eric. I personally know some super professional amazing SP's who don't have an official website that Mr. PurpleHaze could only dream of experiencing. For those specific SP's it's a pure function of being happily busy enough with repeat clients and client referrals with no need to go looking for clients. Also due to their life situation at the moment they prefer to maintain as low a profile as possible. So don't be too hasty in condemning those with out websites. That said, for a new SP in the business (or a travelling SP in particular)that is trying to generate lots of business with the hopes of developing that strong base of regular clientele the more exposure the better. So she should endeavour to be anywhere that a potential client might look, local ad's, national boards and a website that brings all those loose ends home to one concise place. So in the end it really depends on the individual situation for the SP.

Outside of some extreme ends of the spectrum "size doesn't matter" in terms of effectiveness if proper techniques are employed that suit the size of your manhood. Visually, there could be some impact. This is a "man issue" (not a woman issue) as old as time. Everyone should let it go and have fun with whatever they have. Play with it, use it, abuse it. Whatever floats your boat. I would never be so cold as to rely on my little guy to carry the weight of my visit with a lady I'd be afraid that he might turtle. Just like Nicki said, if a lady commented on my penis in a good way I'd just say thanks and be appreciative but in my head I'm thinking she says that to everyone. So I wouldn't put too much credence to her comment.

Honestly, to pull out a POS terminal at the beginning of a date to process the payment for debit or credit would completely ruin the GFE aspect any visit with a lady for me. With the envelope, I walk in very discretely place it on a table and both of us can forget about it and move on to the experience. With a lady that I've visited with before and I trust, I'd actually prefer to pay electronically in advance via e-mail money transfer so that no payment has to occur at the time of the date at all. (I would also have cash on me just in case we run over the prepaid time) That's just me and my preference to maintain the illusion of a "real date".

I prefer the scent of just fresh and clean on a lady no perfume at all. Similar to the last poster if I was not careful getting it all off the scent of perfume could lead to trouble. Plus I like to kiss and lick a ladies skin so scent in the mouth is not fun. However, I LOVE the scent of coconut on a ladies hair. I don't know why but it drives me mad.

In terms of creativity I've thought that Emily's use of her toys to be quite cute and creative. Although I'm a little concerned about the big black one down in the left corner. Yikes! Additional Comments: Here's another one from Nathalie Lefebvre and her vintage black and white album. The cropping of the photo to just show the delicious curve of her bottom and arch of her back combine for a fantastic erotic image. Additional Comments: Another picture that I've always felt was a beautiful image was this photo of LolaCherie. The lighting is soft and natural and evokes the sense that this was a picture that was taken without her knowing. However, the smouldering sideways glance and her face framed by her arm combine for a very sensual image.

"Wake me up before you anal (go go)" Funnily enough by Wham! Additional Comments: Or alternatively: "Wake me up when anal (September) ends" Green Day Additional Comments: Because we had one Stanley Kubrick movie about I thought I'd add another. 2001: An Anal (Space) Odyssey

Thanks midnight for the thoughtful response to my questions. I appriciate the insight. I guess I just figured that the exact same reason I don't troll the nets dating sites for a hookup or go to a bar looking for a "drag off" would apply to women as well. Those options are not truly NSA and as you point out are rife with the possibility of getting a dud or worse a nut job. I do not need to pay for companioship, however I choose to because it affords me all the benefits without the hassel or potential grief. I thought the same should apply for women but if its a cultural matter that women as a rule don't feel entitled to their own satisfaction or enjoyment then I can see why it can be successful. A little bit sad though.

I know you3e right, the ability to generate constant income is definately not the same for a straight male Sp. However I'm left to ponder why? Surely, just as there are many men that desire companionship there has to be women who also desire companionship? Is it a cultural thing, that women feel it to be more of a taboo than men do? Or is it that because it's not as mainstream as other forms of SP's it's not top of mind and women don't think of it as an option to their needs? I find this interesting. Perhasps it's because I personally know a few ladies who would definately avail of this NSA option if they were aware that it was easily available.

Mothers day just past I was out shopping for jewelry and in the middle of a discussion with the clerk about what I should get and she said, "what about a pearl necklace, I'd love to get a pearl necklace for mothers day". I bust!

To respond to Gege in her original post. Others have mentioned the fact although some might, "generally" ladies don't need to source out and pay for a SEXUAL companion. However, I do believe if there was a gentleman who aside from be eye/arm candy was as debonair, educated and multifaceted as the guy you describe there quite likely could be a legitimate albeit small niche market of ladies that would avail of the service IF they were aware that it was available. Not necessarily just for sex, but for general companionship when attending social events and functions. This might be of a particular interest for single ladies in executive positions that truly don't have time or patience for dating but would like to just have a night out with a wonderful man who had the unique ability to easily fit in and meld into the setting. Speaking from personal experience (not on the same level of course) over the years I have on many occasions been asked to accompany ladies to a variety of functions where they would prefer to attend with a particular type of man. I have been asked to escort ladies to graduation events, weddings, work Christmas events and charity dinners. In those situations there was no sex on the table and I strictly agreed to be their plus one. All in all it's probably happened a dozen times and in most cases these were ladies that were not friends just merely acquaintances or a friend of a friend that preferred not to go alone. They asked, and I humbly agreed, very flattered. Bottom line is, could a lady easily get "a man" to agree to be her companion, either social or sexual for a night? Yes! Could the same lady easily get "the man Gege described" to be her companion, either social or sexual for a night? Maybe not! So if marketed right I do believe there is a place for your friend in this business particularly in large urban centers. Additional Comments: Actually, after additional thought I believe that the market might be pretty large for a man like Gege's friend. The problem lies in finding a way to make that market aware that the discrete service is available. I think that many people think of the question in terms of, would a lady like Gege avail of this service? Maybe not but quite frankly all ladies are not like Gege and would not have their choice of fantastic men like her friend. Most ladies would have access to men just like most of us hobbiests and that's no fun ;)

Good God! Just has to be camel toe! Hmmmm... the shoes are nice though! Additional Comments: She must be wearing the "Cougar Cup"!