Wolf Knight

This is a great thread and I enjoy the discussion and I feel as though I need to contribute. I was a newbie a while ago and due to my ignorance and naivety surrounding this business I was indeed filled with much of the apprehension that has been discussed. So in my state of ignorance my mind raced through all the issues that have been discussed and as Samantha noted my primary concern "at the time" was my OWN privacy and essentially being assured discretion by the companion. So I found the whole verification process unnerving the first time to say the least. However, because I had those concerns I did MY extensive research and chose to visit with an established, very experienced, well reviewed companion and felt that because that the lady had been confirmed as wonderful and trustworthy I would be "safe". In fact it was during my research I discovered CERB and actually PM'd with experienced, respected CERB members about this lady to further waylay my concerns. With that lady I provided everything that she asked for and was rewarded with a fantastic experience and friendship. Jump ahead many encounters and I have developed some great friendships with a number of amazing ladies. Some ladies I keep in contact regularly with and through these friendships I have had discussions with them about some of the things that they run into on a daily basis from prospective clients and established clients (anonymously of course). To be honest, some of the things I hear evoke feelings from extreme concern for the lady to complete disgust and anger. Although there might be many GOOD clients here on CERB that believe that the way THEY properly treat companions is the norm, I'm here to tell you that is not the case. Most of the companions that we encounter here on CERB and perhaps on other boards and sites have days filled with complete garbage from prospective clients and established clients. These ladies are not just whining to hear themselves, this stuff really happens often. Sometimes, from CERB members who we assume (given the tone of our board) should know better. These ladies have to wade through so much shit, and so many assholes day in day out just to find a couple of decent clients it's staggering. Given what I know, I can emphatically state that these companions have every reason and right to request ANY and ALL verification information necessary to make them feel comfortable with a client. Further as a friend of some ladies I would implore that they always screen clients diligently. It is solely up to the client to do HIS research to ensure that he feels comfortable with seeing a particular companion and providing the information SHE requires to make her feel comfortable. It is not for the lady to have to try to SELL/PROVE herself as trustworthy. As clients we have a multitude of sources (such as CERB and other boards) to gather information on ladies and ease our concerns over our safety and privacy. There are MANY more clients than companions, so ladies many times do not have the luxury to login to a board (like CERB) and within a few minutes obtain recommendations/reviews of clients to assess whether she should let them into her room and be intimate with that prospective client. Bottom line, choose an experienced, well reviewed/recommended lady. Research her, understand her approach and when as a client you feel comfortable that you can trust the lady, contact her and provide her whatever she wants to know make her feel comfortable seeing you. Remember, a companion doesn't need to prove her trustworthiness to you. If you don't trust her, don't see her. Simple as that! You DO have to prove your trustworthiness to her! Keep it in mind. An impatient rant from Chuck.

Go with your intuition on this one. Legit gentlemanly clients are not going to mess around with a lady and "test" her. I'm with RG, it wasn't a "test", he was asking hoping you'd say yes. A companions donation is sacred IMO, and not even up for discussion once it's relayed to the client the first time. It's a very much a "take it or leave it" type thing. Red flag him and move on to other gentleman.

As I said before I'm an animal lover and have on a number of occasions visited with companions that had pets at their incall (cats and dogs). As a lover of animals I really don't mind when animals are perhaps with us in a common area of the incall when we are just getting to know each other and chatting. I realise that as a companion who is an animal lover you will happen to have a strong affinity to your own pets and probably may not mind them being around you in any aspect of your encounter including the bedroom. As such I'm sure that some of you might take offence to a client preferring that when being intimate your pet is NOT around for that part of the encounter and trust me I understand that. However, I will be very honest, I personally do not like animals around during the intimate part of a visit with a companion and would prefer that they be kept in a kennel or another room. If as a companion this is not something you a re willing to do then it is very important that you advise the client upfront. If in the middle of an intimate part of our encounter we were interrupted by a pet inserting themselves into the play area I would probably force a laugh and try to be cordial. Inside I'd be very pissed!

Good point Pete! Jeeze, I hope I haven't offended any of the ladies that I've posted pictures of. If I have please let me know and I ask the mod to take them down. Sometimes I just get too excited and it takes time for my common sense to catch up!

Cristy, I love dogs and have been having sex in front of them for many years :) (sometimes they are just too nosey) I personally don't mind dogs at an incall (assuming they are well tempered) at all but I would attempt to find a hotel that will allow you bring your dogs with you and will book you a Suite. That way when the playtime comes you can just simply close the doors to the bedroom and you and the client can have some fun without the dogs around. Not all clients may be comfortable with dogs either so you'll want to let the clients know in advance when you advertise that you are traveling with 2 furry companions so that nobody ends up surprised.

I've always found this picture of Emily Rushton to be very artistic and to have a magazine type quality. The use of lighting along with the pose staring longingly into the distance provides a sense of beauty but evokes a meloncholy in me. Art moves people!

Another one of my favorites is this one of Emily J. Such a simple picture with a simple pose yet so beautiful and inviting.

This pic of Gege is so sensual, I can't even stand it! Additional Comments: Love this Pic of Gia too! The softness of the light and the silhouette of her beautiful body, revealing but coy at the same time. I love the lighting in this one from Julie Wilde and well. This pic from Nathalie is beautiful, simple and soft and erotic.

Dangerous Liaisons! More than just the title. I'm all about the challenge of pure seduction and the chase including all it's erotic elements. If you know the movie then you'll know why it causes me to have a glint in my eye and a smirk on my face.

April : Fiery

I know that I'm probably in the minority on this one but I've never been able to understand the excitement of the BJ (CBJ or BBBJ). To me it's always been a bit, "Mehhh....take it or leave it" and not having one at all would not impact the enjoyment of my date in the least (I'd take DATY over BJ anyday). So given that I might not be the best person to comment at all but I'll do it anyway :) Like the OP I will specifically preface what I say with the comment that, I in no way intend to stir up another BBBJ debate. We have been down that long road and already know the different positions/sides on it. OP specifically asked about, why BBBJ or CBJ from a sensation standpoint. That's what I speak to. When it comes to covered sex acts, a lot will depend on the individual guy and his sensitivity level. Circumcised or not can play a roll in that for sure. Some guys are very sensitive and very little stimulation can result in (not necessarily premature but) early ejaculation so having a condom on can reduce sensitivity enough to prolong their experience without adversely diminishing it. Piano is right there is no way of replacing the sensation of skin on skin contact, and the heat/cool transfer as well as the energy transmission from skin to skin. A condom does significantly reduce that effect. When moving to a CBJ a lot of the sensation will have to evolve around pressure, albeit there are some condoms in the market that have come a very long way to making it feel like skin on skin. For me personally, I am circumcised and not a particularly sensitive guy (penis wise) so any time I use a condom a very large part of my experience has to come from the mental excitement and stimulation. When I'm covered even the most skilled out there could play with me until I was raw and I won't get there. That's where the GFE aspect really comes into play. If a lady is particularly skilled in making me feel like she is really there with me in the experience and not just "going through the motions" it engages me and increases my mental stimulation. When I feel like the lady is with me and actually enjoying my company it really gets me excited and very aroused and it's that aspect will bring me the most enjoyment and satisfaction. Ultimately this will make a BJ, either covered or uncovered a mind blowing experience.

Disappointment is bound so happen in an industry where there is a.client that perhaps takes their business to another supplier. I would imigane that this industry is no different. Jealousy, I'm not so sure about. If I have a lady that I frequent and we hve built a connection with I can understand that if she were to discover that I had chosen to visit with another lady instead of asking her when I know she's available then she might have some disappointment. Just as I would feel some disappointment if I knew that she had a choice between two different clients for the same time slot and she chose someone else. I think that's natural and to be expected. However, if either of us decided to make an issue of it then you have a problem and are perhaps moving into the jealously realm. I always want my chosen ladies to be successful and happy, which means they need to see a number of great clients including me. Knowing that are happy makes me happy. I would hope they would feel the same way about me as a client. As an aside I personally have such wonderful relationships (small r) with some ladies that I visit with that they actually recommend other ladies that I might like based on her knowledge of my perferences. I trust her completely and really respect that they're invested in the fact that all my encounters are great tven those that are not with then.

B......is for bad girls with great skills!

As has been mentioned before, in the first couple of meetings with a lady I prefer to let her lead the encounter so that I can understand her style and boundaries. I hate trial and error type situations especially in this business and I'm a little concerned that being too forward with a lady you don't really know could come off as aggressive and might make the lady uncomfortable in my company. That is definitely not a tone that I want to set. I'm a natural dominant type personality and prefer to lead so after the first couple of meetings I will take the lead for the future encounters.

Thanks everyone for the great insight on this thread it's wonderful and I hope results in more educated clients that tend to adopt booking practices that work for and help visiting ladies make planned tour stops a reality. Emily, thanks for bringing up a good point as well St. John's is definitely not a last minute flight and hotel town. A flight might be possible last minute but hotel rooms are at a premium especially in the summer. If you don't have a room booked well in advance you could easily find yourself on the street.

I really don't feel guilty about very much but I do have many pleasures. A fine cuban cigar with a glass of fine cognac while sitting in front of a campfire Pretty much all candy especially ones that take me back to being a kid (bottle caps, fizz, even a fun dip). To sit there and eat like a kid with kids is fun. Baileys in my coffee Pulling a small carrot right out of the ground, washing it off and eating it. Fishing completely by myself (the serenity is great for the soul) Skinny dipping on a nice summer day in a lake.

Not to hijack BUT, Oh Miss Evans, even in jest, please don't be knocking the accountants and actuaries. As we are all aware, none of us should be painted with the broad stroke of a brush based on profession. Some of us "accountants" are actually, genuine, brilliant, handsome, sexy, fun loving, rich men who are fantastic in the bed and cook and do housework too. :) Plus I also give a killer foot rub, "no strings attached".

Over the past while I have noticed that on a number of occasions touring SP's have advertised a visit to St. John's on either CERB or EC but a few days prior to the visit date have decided to cancel. I have limited understanding of how touring SP's run their business so I am left to assume that they have not received a predetermined requisite number of firm pre-bookings to allow them to comfortably expect a profitable visit so they cancel in favor of "old faithful type locations" in other parts of country. I know that St. John's tends to be a little out of the way for touring and planning purposes so personally I am grateful any time a lady offers to put us on her schedule. In appreciation for the lady offering to visit I always choose to contact the lady (in her preferred way) soon after the announcement to welcome her and convey my desire to book an appointment with her. On several occasions in the past the SP's have not responded to my request for an appointment and ended up cancelling her visit. This leads me to believe that perhaps I'm the only one with the courtesy to try to pre-book ladies. So I'd like to get some insight into what SP's encounter in these situations and how we as clients could operate to ensure that ladies that announce visits actually end up coming here. Hopefully, by drawing attention to what ladies are expecting we might be able to encourage clients that book "last minute" to get a little more on the ball and avoid leaving Chuck disappointed. There are lots of NL clients just lurking here so please speak up!

Enjoying some mid afternoon squirting with a beautiful lady!

Seriously, I just read this thread and almost lost my mind. Way to hold your tongues people I've had to bite mine in two to avoid being kicked off CERB. I am a client and for better or worse "I" am a clock watcher. As far as 30 min appointments, I can only really see it working for me with an SP that I've already seen many times and I've got an awesome connection with. I mean, we actually both lust after each other. In that case I could probably pull off a midweek quicky (no talking just bust through the door grab her and have raw passionate sex) while waiting for my regular 1 or 2 hour appt.

Cologne is very person specific and what works for one could be awful on another. I hardly ever wear cologne these days due to all the issues with people have allergies but after testing out many I also found that Acqua di Gio by Armani works very well with my body chemistry to produce a subtle masculine scent (it drives my wife mad). Application of cologne has a lot to do with how it smells, applying it with your fingers and rubbing it can actually "crush" the scent. Also over applying is disgusting, as a rule someone should have to be within about one foot of you to smell that soft scent if they can smell it any farther away than that you've got too much on. If I'm wearing cologne I'll just spray it into the air in front of me and walk through it instead of spraying it directly on the skin which I find is too concentrated. For the past while I just use Nivea men's body wash and find the scent to be clean with just a hint of cologne and I've gotten many compliments on it.

Peachy, great thought provoking post (as always). I'm naturally a solitary person and if given a choice would take intimate one on one over group function any day. In terms of social events, I'd have no real problem attending an event in a city other than my home city. However, here's the issue in a group setting I am a completely different person than the real me. In a group social event I transform in to an outgoing person that interacts with ease with anyone depending on who I'm talking to and the vibe I get from them. It comes from years of schmoozing with business people at more events than I can even remember. It was a skill I had to develop to succeed in business and it's not the real me. If I were to meet people say at a CERB social the person that they would interact with would bear virtually no resemblance to the real me that an SP would meet one on one. One on one, the real me can do (or try to do depending on who you ask) sexy, soft and deep which can be appealing to a lady. The social me trying that would just come off as goofy. Well given my participation on CERB I don't have much of an issue interacting online and find it just light, fun and relaxing a facebook with out the shit of people sending you stupid crap. I have actually been told that the way I write is exactly how I speak so I guess more of the real me gets to shine through here and I'm fine with that. As far as maintaining some mystery goes, that doesn't really bother me to much. Mystery is fun during "the chase" but once the chase is over I'm just a normal guy with a normal life and I don't mind sharing it with the SP's I trust.

Cristy, I've thought about your post and it has some particular relevance to me so I thought I'd comment. Just as you state, there are some firmly written rules in this business and there are some unwritten rules. I have always tried to be a "by the book" type client in hopes that the lady would never feel like I was attempting to take advantage of her or her time. So in the past even if the lady was not a clock watcher I definitely was and in fact as a result I have stopped a lady mid encounter (in terms of physical acts) because my time was up and left. I was just trying to be a gentleman and respectful of the ladies time and what I had paid for but what happened was the lady was left with a WTF feeling. I am aware that my view is probably not the norm in terms of clients and I've been informed that perhaps I might be a little weird because of it. Recently, I had a visit with a lady scheduled for two hours and she was so wonderful to just be with and talk to that I forgot to be my normal clock watching self (she was definitely not) and as a result before I realized it my scheduled visit was almost over. I had thoroughly enjoyed every minute of my time talking and connecting with her and could have left the visit feeling satisfied by her company. However, I found her very attractive and desired very much to be intimate with her (she was very hot). When I mentioned to her that it was almost time for me to leave she seemed shocked that I would be willing to leave without having had any physical playtime. Although my time was up she invited me for some playtime. Quite frankly I didn't know what to do. If I stuck to my "by the book" I think that I would have insulted the lady even though I really didn't want to leave her anyway. Ultimately, I couldn't stand to walk away from such a beautiful woman offering to be with me so I took her hand and she lead me away to an amazing time. When I finally left her that evening I left completely mentally and sexually satisfied. She was a fantastic lady in every way and a true professional. I did appreciate that she was sweet enough to see me beyond my allotted time and I did offer to compensate her for it (which she declined). My only thought or caution would be if the lady choses to take liberties with her time often with her clients, then some less gentlemanly clients may start to expect "off the clock" services. That would be a terrible thing to take advantage of such a good natured lady.

I like many and I usually let the lady know that I appriciate her createive efforts. Two that come to mind right now are: Gabby Laurence she's very bright and is not afraid show it in her ad's (sapiosexual) Emily J: Emily's very simple ad's like Cock=Yum! Always catch my eye and make me smile.

Holy Fuck ! That is seriously gross. B.O. is one thing, having a shitty ass is another. I hold you ladies with a whole new level of respect and admiration.