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Wolf Knight

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  1. Eye contact dureing orgasm wouldn't matter to me but I do enjoy a brief locking of eyes during BJ's but not constant eye contact as its not natural. I like good eye contact throughout the entire session in a natural way as it builds on the sensation of a real "experience" with a girlfriend. That means that from talking to locking eyes while in the throws of passion. I find that there is an intensityand a connection that can be found when eyes meet. I do look into a ladies eyes and often find myself looking at her lips. Lips can tell a wonderful story as you progress through a sexual encounter. That said, if I'm with a lady and her eyes are open but just blankly stareing off into the distance (like she's just waiting for this to be over) I'd just prefer to get up and leave because that's totally not what I expect from GFE. If that's how a lady feels I'd perfer that she just hide her lack of excitement by keeping her eyes closed.
  2. I forgot to mention for me the more genuine and "real" a lady is in the persona she puts forth here on cerb the more likely I am to gravitate toward her. I adore real genuine people, any sense of false or fake is a deal killer.
  3. Well looks and attraction is such a subjective thing. I guess in terms of looks some people have "types" that they tend to gravitate toward physically. I never really thought about it much other than physically I know I'm attacted when I see a lady. Since entering the world of SP's and Cerb in particular I reallise that my notion of attraction has been dramatically altered. I never look through a lady's picture albums unless I've read something that she's posted that has spoke to me in some way. Take Vanessa for example since she was your first response, a long time ago Vanessa made a post under a thread peachy posted about body image and shaming. Her post was so wonderful and hit me as so genuine and real that I just had to see what fantastic creature made such a post. At that point I already had a level of attraction to her and when I saw her pictures my attraction was confirmed and heightened. (I know, I know, its not hard Vanessa is beautiful). I guess now almost all my assessments of SP's and my attraction to them is based on their posts. That's how I decide if I would like to meet them. So looks have very little to do with it for me at this point. It's always read first, find attraction, look at pictures and have my attraction deepened. My two cents.
  4. About 2 gallons of Rickards Red and if I can still chew after that some pizza. (rough week)
  5. Why is it.....I'm a sucker for a damsel in distress. (sigh....my mother raised me too well, I can hear her in my head, "never turn your back on those in need") Stupid mom making me all conscientious! LOL
  6. Emily's right, at this time there is a shortage of rooms in St. John's however there's one new hotel scheduled to open this month and another 3 in the process of being built so hopefully that will help with the problem. Consequence of all the Oil boom, there are a lot of companies putting up employees in hotels for extended periods taking up the space. the other consequence is that prices are constantly creeping up. Definitely not cheap to live or do business here anymore. Additional Comments: Just some info that I thought I pass along that I just found out while trying to help out OP and find her a place. The brand new Fairfield Inn and Suites by Marriott will be opening for business on Tuesday May 7, 2013.
  7. 15 minutes! I know that it breaks down to a factor of cash but my Lord I consider an hour way too short! I won't even be out of my suit by the time I've got to start putting it back on. I suppose I could just haul my wiener out through the zipper and let it hang there because even if a lady is not a clock watcher I'll have a clock the size of Big Ben pounding in my head resulting in a wet noodle experience. Come on by, take the 15 min and go beat off somewhere. Then save up if you have to and have yourself a proper experience with a lady that you'll BOTH enjoy. A blunt and grumpy Chuck.
  8. I like my coffee strong with two sugar and lots of cream. I'm not particularly stuck on a special brand as long as it's strong. I like my tea with Georgiana Sweet!
  9. I'm such a fan of diversity and larger lips (or labia for Emily J) I find them to be such a turn on. Seriously, I'm getting excited just thinking about it/them. They really kick the DATY experience to the next level.
  10. These days people have a SEVEAR problem with expecting immediacy in response to texts. This is in large part to iMessage and BBM which shows if the text is delivered and read. Additionally, people are quickly forgetting to use proper communication language, punctuation and diction. Even with PM's here on CERB there is an expectation of response due to the fact that we can see if the person is logged on or the last time they were on (they are "on" why haven't they responded?). I have been known to send comments to ladies here on Cerb letting them know that I appreciated the cleverness of their ad or the thoughtfulness of a post they made. I do this because I believe that people generally like to be appreciated and have their contributions/efforts recognized. However, I usually specifically let the lady know that no response is required that my message is just a "kudo's". If a ladies preferred method of communication/appointments is text for her business then that's what it should be used for "business" not "bull shit". Seriously, my preferred method of business communication is email and if I received emails daily just saying "hi" I'd so block those senders right away. People just use common sense (I wish it actually was more common) and use ladies business communication for business purposes. If you do just want to say "hi" at least follow it up with "Hi, no need to respond but I just wanted to say I love your tats" (since Cleo was the OP). That took me 5 seconds to type! The SP will know why you messaged and you won't waste her time. I always prefer to use e-mail for my communication with ladies whenever possible so that the lady has the flexibility to respond in her own good time if a response is warranted.
  11. OP, realistically it will take a VERY strong man to be comfortable sharing his SO with others on any level. Open and honest communication as in any relationship is key if you want it to work. Personally, although I would be fine with sharing my SO with someone else sexually I'm a very protective person with the ones I love so I'm not sure if I could handle some of the issues that come with the job from a safety level. (I even worry about some of the SP's that I gotten to know hoping they're safe and treated well) As another poster noted, the only real opinions that matter are yours and the person that you might be in a relationship with. As for the being a sponge part, that can be present regardless of the industry you work in. As you would in any respect look for a guy who's got a life of his own and is not likely to be a mooch.
  12. Not to hijack the thread but Cristy brings up a very important point. Many of the gents posting here have indicated that the ladies pleasure is very important and I applaud that, however women ARE all "tuned" different. That's an important thing to realize when a client is putting all that pressure on himself to try to please the lady. Specifically when the end game is the lady having an orgasm. What works physically for one will not work for another. Some ladies a blessed with the ability to orgasm even at the slightest stimulation while others can take considerable time to get there. As we should be all aware achieving enjoyment through sexual contact is to a large degree a mental thing. As much as we clients would like to think that our sexual prowess is enough to compensate for our physical attributes and sex appeal and take a lady over the edge usually this is not the case. This is not to say that that the lady may not enjoy the time we spend sensually exploring her and allowing her to explore us. As much as I (and others here) would like to believe otherwise, I am not a sexy man or a lover extraordinaire. I'm a realist, with me if I don't take the time to connect with the SP on some type of emotional level first it's unlikely that I'm going to be able to make her orgasm from my physical attributes and abilities alone. (LOL, I realise that this comment may not result in SP's lining up to spend time with me) Personal story. My wife loves sex and is a sexual person, however in her younger years as much as I tried my wife took a long time to orgasm with a lot of foreplay (seriously like over an hour for sure). As someone who gained a lot of his own pleasure from her pleasure this was very frustrating for me and resulted in feelings of inadequacy. As a result I seriously studied everything I could get my hands on regarding sexual arousal and techniques to try to make myself better. However dispite the fact that she was eager, the speed at which I could make her orgasm never improved. So as a result, a love making session would often take a couple of hours. (Jump forward a few years) we have a baby. The first time we had sex after that she had multiple orgasms in like less than five minutes however my techniques had not changed. Ever since she is very orgasmic and gets there with very little stimulation at all even just rubbing her mons and holding her against me tight cam make her cum. We don't know what happened but something changed. My feelings of inadequacy vanished and I felt like a stud. Enter SP's, and I'm back to having to work at it again. Moral of story, every lady is different and might even change over time in her ability to orgasm so don't focus on the destination focus on the journey. Orgasms (male or female) are great but fleeting, connection on an emotional level tends to last and hang with you and IMHO is the most important. Have fun everyone and never suppress your enjoyment of each other.
  13. I think that the common thought and thread here is that whenever possible pleasure for "both" parties is paramount. So if as an SP or client, you feel it, enjoy it and show it. However, in reality there will be days where either party will not be at their best and that's ok. I'll be very blunt, if I'm involved with an SP and I sense that dispite my best efforts she's just not getting there on that day, at that time for whatever reason I'd just rather roll over, lay back, trace my fingers over her skin and chat. Trying to just carry on and power through for the sake of "finishing" is just embarrassing. Because I derive so much of my pleasure from the ladies pleasure I've learned that for me longer dates are my preference. That way I can have a sufficient amount of time to connect with the lady and allow the pleasure to build for both parties.
  14. My personal favorite is a little viberator bullet that can attach to a finger. Worn on the front of the finger the bullet is applied direct against the pussy/clit/anus but I always perfer to wear it on the back of the finger turning the finger into the viberator then the finger itself gets applied against the pussy/clit/anus. Vibes are great but nothing beats the sensation of skin on skin. Keeping it in batteries is a bitch though. The other is a viberating cock ring with a bullet on both the top and bottom side so she gets stimulation on both the clit and anus during intercourse.
  15. I'm so juvenile! But it is funny. http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=xCGfgnU18yk
  16. Thanks Emily for the info. I'm just concerned that if an SP is generous to be willing to come visit with me at my outcall hotel then the least I can do is choose a hotel where the SP is going to be most comfortable arriving and leaving without worry of hassel from security. DT Halifax is small so any high end hotel there will suit my needs just fine so that flexibility allows me to give the needs of the SP more consideration.
  17. Getting ready to hit the road again and I'll be heading to Halifax for meetings in a couple of weeks. I plan to indulge in a little play while I'm there. I'll be looking for outcall services but I wanted to choose a hotel that is SP friendly in the downtown. (I hoped to avoid DT hotels that might have a rep for making outcall SP's uncomfortable for whatever reason.) Any suggestions? Thanks, Chuck
  18. I don't really have a bucket list for myself as I try to live for the now and do my bucket list as soon as items go on it. I do have a bit of a bucket list "for others" of things I want to do before others die. The main one on that list right now that I'm working towards is I want to buy a villa for my parents in Barbados and a 35ft sail boat for my Dad to use while he's there. Fingers crossed, hopefully in a couple of years.
  19. Salmon fillet marinated in Mill Street maple ale, stuFfed with scallops and grilled on a sugar maple plank basted in a beer and maple syrup sauce. Served with fresh baked rosemary bread and saffron infused white wine risotto. I love being me!
  20. Been there done that enjoy youself. How should I put this, expect people of all persuasions and body types who are very comfortable with themselves. Oh also it's not all sex everywhere all the time, it just a resort where people like to be a little more free and sensual. After dark things can get steamy though. Gotta do Ricks Cafe especially at night it can be fun.
  21. Give and ye shall receive! I always try to give freely and to be honest I just can't turn off the tap of good fortune in my life. The more I give the morw I get. I wish everyone would imbrace it.
  22. Yes Gia, Gege might look good in that but you do realize that you too are one of the sexiest women to ever grace the planet. Just saying!
  23. Very sorry, my day to day use of excel is so messed up that I can't think in terms of normal stuff anymore. Thanks to webothscore for the save. If there is anything else let him know :) LOL
  24. I'm not sure I understand what you're trying to calculate. I'm sure I or someone else can help you but could you be more specific as to what you are trying to do.
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