Wolf Knight

This may have been said already I'm not sure but it requires repeating if so. People who believe that pajama pants are appropriate to wear as regular pants outside the home. WTF! (I'm sorry but this drives me mad!)

Well a while back during an exchange of ideas here on Cerb an SP flatly told me that, "We don't care what you guys look like". I just laughed and thought to myself, wow that takes a really big person to not care about that". However further clarification indicated that she actually meant that this is a business transaction for the SP and as long as the client is clean, respectful and has the correct donation all is good for her. The encounters are our fantasy not the SP's and even though in our heads we'd like to think, "my god she's totally hot for me", an SP that makes you feel like the is just really good at her job. That said, I always like to try to put my best foot forward and dress to impress. First impressions are important and especially when you might only have an hour or two with the lady the sooner that she can feel comfortable around you the better. Although I know it's not the case, I like as part of my fantasy to beleieve that the SP does actually find attraction to me and actually enjoy our time together as much as I do. So putting forward what I believe to be my most attractive side physically works toward the fantasy that I'm having. In some cases that has meant three piece suits and other times it's been my fave jeans and shirt. I guess the point is to dress according to how you feel best. If you're comfortable that an SP is getting the best of you then that's the best you can offer her.

I use Nivea for Men products. For shower gel, hair and balm for shaving. They mostly smell `clean` with just a hint of cologne that you need to be very close to smell. I`ve also used the Axe and American Crew products but generally find them too strong cologne wise and just not pleasant. I try to moisturize with Aveeno daily as well.

I hardly watch TV at all but my wife loves a show called White Collar apparently one of the stars Matt Bomer is a hunk of sorts. She`s showed me pics and he`s a handsome man I suppose if you go for a ripped body and handsome face great hair type thing.

Well Nicki, my masturbation is not much of a secret. But sometimes when I`m alone driving I listen to Yanni.

I'm a bit of a peevy person in that there are a number of things that could get to me depending on the moment. Usually, it just results me shaking my head in disbelief. However, today it's people who think that S----T rolls up hill. Having to walk out of my office gather everyone into the boardroom and proceed to lecture highly educated "adults" that I am not a babysitter and should you require babysitting services you should be on the groundfloor in the day care and not around me. Further should you continue to demonstrate the requirement of babysitting someone is going home with their belongings in a box. I never even got a chance to take the first sip of my morning coffee. Perhaps that was the reason for my lack of tolerance.

Why is it....that I can't be a minute man anymore? (I wish I was kidding) "Quickies" now take a half hour and who has time for that. That's what I get I suppose for excessive masturbation as a teen. I got little Chuck wore out.

Personally, I hate texting/BBM for anything other than informal stuff like "grab some milk on the way home". However I always try to contact an SP via her preferred method and if she says that's text I'll follow her instructions (I don't want to turn her off by failing to follow simple instructions to which there have been dedicated threads and rants here on CERB:). There have been a couple of SP's that I have desired to set up an appointment with who stated their preferred method of contact as being text and after writing a absurdly long introductry text including all the required information and sending it off to the "right number" with "wishing to make an appointment" in the subject line, I wait. I wait. I wait (days). Nothing! So I assume she's too busy or not interested and move on to another provider. To send a second message feels like begging /pleading and I don't do that for anyone (not being snarky but thats just my personality). So after all that, now I find out that my genuine appointment setting got lost in the mass of junk texts with "Hi". Good god people we're not in grade three.

It's pretty simple, but people never tire of hearing how awesome they are and how much you appriciate that your life has been graced with their presence. Tell everyone that has impacted you that they have done so. This tends to have a pay-it -forward type effect too. (This is not reflected in comments like, "your hot, or I love your ass" thats just a little thoughtless and crude) However if you know that the person has gone to considerable effort to make themselves physically appealing for you saying, "My god I can't take my eyes off you. You're a vision of Aphrodite and the hottest thing I have ever seen" and genuinely meaning it will do the trick too.

I saw Gia last week in Ottawa and she was absolutely amazing. If Gia ever decides to make a trip here nobody else is going to get a chance to see her cause I'll book her for her whole visit. In any case even if she never comes to NL I recommend saving up your money and heading to Ottawa to visit her, you definately won't regret it. Additional Comments: There are a whole host of ladies that have visited in the past and some that are coming soon like in the next couple of weeks. I have been told that Roksi, an Irish lass who will be here later this week is not to be missed. Fortunately, I tend to travel a bit so I get the chance to visit other cities throughout the year and the fair ladies that make those city's home. In terms of travelling ladies, NL can be a bit expensive to get to so everyone that visits should get the warmest welcome. Since being on CERB I have such an extensive list of ladies that I would love to see but I'm uncomfortable listing anyone out. However, right now there is one lady that I'm contemplating footing the travel bill for and bringing her here just to see me for a day later this month. I want to see her under special circumstances ;) and the easyist thing I can think of is to just have her come to me. We'll see I guess. Additional Comments: I don't know if maybe if some of the ladies might be able to provide some idea on what would constitute an appropriate level of prebooking that would encourage a lady to venture our way for a visit. That way some of the guys might be able to privately communicate with each other and jointly arrange to have a lady come to NL for a nice visit with us. Just a thought.

Well, saw this thread and thought I'd contribute. I used to be a hard ass and in fact for years I was often refered to as being dead inside. I always just felt I was stoic, oh well. A few years ago my daughter was born and a switch was flipped in me and now I get goosebumps and even choaked up over all kinds of stuff. So now there are many songs that have an effect on me. Although I'm not much of a country fan, "Remember When" by Alan Jackson has given me goosebumps. Another is, "Kathy's Song" by Simon and Garfunkel it's a beautiful love song and my most favorite song to play and sing. Another is "Fields of Gold" by Sting Another is a cover, "Time after time" Eva Cassidy but I find alot of stuff by Eva haunting maybe cause she's gone. http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=SMznNlfLXP4 The last one for this post comes from the dad in me so don't laugh but it's "Butterfly fiy away" by Miley Cyrus (I danced with my daughter so many times to this song)

After lunch my little girl comes out of her playroom dressed as a princess and says, "whoever wants to be my prince put up their hand". The room was full of people including lots of little boys so I never put up my hand and continued to sip my coffee. After a few seconds I look up and she's staring right at me and says, "daddy you forgot to put up your hand". Five minutes later I'm wearing my tux waltzing around the house with her standing on my feet. As it turns out inside her little head lunch was apparently a royal ball. Highlight of my day, I'm still her prince and maybe will continue to be so for another little while :)

Sorry to the OP, this thread appears to have gone to the Dogs, Old Dog to be exact. I never found a Horse SP but let me know how you make out. In all seriousness, if your here on CERB you know that respect is the order of the day. Other than that everything stiff goes where it did before. Have fun!

Thanks RG for bringing it back. It's been a wonderful read. I've tried to approach my dates as I would any other. I'm old school I guess in that I feel the need to "court" an SP before and during our date just like I would do with any other woman. I want her to actually enjoy her time with me. It's nice to know that sometimes these little things we do actually are noticed.

I've been to strip clubs with my wife on many occations. In all cases my wife is the most "active" patron in the club. A number of the hotest moments of my life so far have been watching my wife getting dances. (she's been allowed to get away with stuff that would have me tossed out with a broken arm). Hell on a few visits my wife has had a little fun on stage herself with the stripper. In all cases, when we went home she was like an animal, once she couldn't wait and I had to pull into a parking lot on the way home for a quicky. If there is any possibility that you can ever get your wife or SO to go I highly recommend it.

If it's for your wife, let her do the searching and based on her attraction to the SP let her do the picking. It's actually her experience. If she's nervous and shy allowing her to interact with the chosen SP will help some of those walls come down and build that comfort level then she will likely not need booze to lower her inhibitions. Some SP's meet with couples but only after she's already met with the man and determined that he's a good date. Also expect that even though you might not plan to physically participate you will have to pay the couples rate. I'm in the same situation but scheduling has thus far delayed my wifes experience. Good luck to you hope it works out.

Well Deepblue the OP Tess might be able to help you with that fetish for sure.

Meg, I love to linger in the afterglow, chat and smooch while softly running my fingertips over all the ladies curves. It's a beautiful moment if the connection between the SP and client is right.

Fresh (right off the boat) tuna and swordfish (one of the beauties of living in NL and being connected) for the grill tomorrow. Paired with the right wine it's gonna be awesome!

Well as least I'm not psychologically deficient, I can sctatch that off the list of things that might be wrong with me. :)

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For years at a strictly superficial level I was an ardent "ass man" and could not help myself from checking out ladies out. I didn't have a specific preference for any size shape, if she had an ass I checked her out LOL. Although, I still do have an appriciation for all things ass the first thing I notice over that past few years is eye's. Specificly, eyes that convey a depth and kindness and a raw smoldering sensuality. Those eyes will turn me to putty. Finally, if I just see a lady from a distance and not up close its always ladies that have an air of elegance about them that catch my eye. Elegance in the sence that she carries herself with poise, confidence and a general well put togetherness.

Well Kris1972, I appalude that you really appear to specifically know what you prefer albeit for the most part on superficial level. But it's a start I guess and nobody can fault you for knowing what you're looking for . My only concern for you is that based on your criteria you have eliminated many fantastic women who are much greater than the sum of just their parts. As most of the posters after you noted I have also found that personality and a good connection are the "only" critical aspects to having a fantastic encounter with an SP. If I have "that connection" with an SP it will be irrelevant what shape she is, whether she got stretch marks or tattoos or anything else physical. So to answer the thread, "what do I look for, what's my type?". I look for intellence and wit in her posts (not just ad's although I do let ladies know if I think their ad caught my eye). I look for signs that she thinks about things and has opinions and even flaws. I try to look for a lady that is "real" and completely comfortable in her own skin whatever the colour and inked or not. When I'm doing my "looking" it's never at pictures, by the time I get to pictures I've already decided that I want to meet her. That's what I look for!

Having a positive chat with a wonderfully mature and experienced CERB lady. Thanks Angela.

Why is it......that as soon as you put away your snow shovel, car scraper or winter clothes you'll immediately have a storm the next day?