Wolf Knight

Old Dog great post. Your last paragraph really applies to me too, I find that I'm drawn to these SP's. The more "real" an SP appears to me through her persona and posts here on CERB the more she appeals to me. Real people have flaws, have bad days, have opinions. Real people "feel". Sometimes you catch glimpses of an SP's "perfect imperfection" through her posts, maybe she's a little chippy and goes on a rant because someone got on her nerves. Some might say, "bitchy" , but I say awesome. I actually love when real personalities of people shine through and it always makes me smile. The best example of what appeals to me is a post made by Serena Blake last week. Her post was just a notification and apology to clients that she was taking a few days off to spend with her child because she was feeling homesick and missed her child. That one post endeared her to me tremendously. I have never met her but now I want to, it was powerful and spoke to me. An SP that was real and had emotions like the rest of us, not just an emotionless machine that served the lustful needs of her clients. I might be in the minority but since my introduction to this hobby and participation here on CERB I've found that I care less and less about the physical appearance or attributes of SP's and constantly look for those that display that embrace of "perfect imperfection". Stay imperfectly perfect ladies. Chuck

Plank-Smoked Halibut and Lobster Chowder with dill pesto. Accompanied by Trisaetum Riesling. Homemade grilled jalapeno corn bread.

I don't want to enter into this debate/discussion because I have extensively studied the psychology of selling and I can go way off on modern media and their manipulation of minds. Unfortunately, Old Dog the majority of people don't have the good sense that you think should be there. My daughter is four and unfortunately does not have the sense to realize that little girls don't have to look like princesses and barbies. Sadly they get trapped before they even know it. Not long ago my daughter came out of her play room dressed up like a princess and said, "I wish my hair was yellow (blonde) then I would be prettier". I almost cried and I'm not afraid to admit it. For her to mature through out her life under constant bombardment from all sides and come out whole on the other side will be difficult. I love to see anything that places value on the beauty that is all our own uniqueness. Thanks Emily J for the wonderful thread and points. Stay beautiful everyone (men included).

I deleted my previous post. Thanks to cat and Genevieve for the responses. I believe my newbieness caused a little bit of over excitement :) and possibly "biting off more than I could chew". For now I think that I'll defer to cats experience and heed all her advice. Again, thanks ladies. As for any further posts, you can let this thread die. Chuck

There might be other things that you could consider blowing besides my mind. Just saying! :p

Thanks Cat for the input. Actually Paradiso is on my to do list so I'll keep an eye out for the Montreal event. I can appricate the logistics involved in pulling something off like that. I'll keep it in mind.

Well while exploring the possibility of indulging in another little fantasy I was prompted to start thinking about a new one. I have a voyeuristic eye and do find viewing others engaged in sex (specifically live sex) very stimulating. Personally I'm straight and don't particularly have a desire to engage in activities with another man however have no issues being close proximity to another man while he endulges in the sensuality of another beautiful woman even my partner. Only once I have been involved in an encounter with another couple and it was essentially both couples kept the sex between their SO's. Dispite the lack of interplay it was extremely erotic to see and hear others enjoying themselves. Which bring's me to my reason for posting. I would like to further explore this aspect of sexual play a little more so I'd like to throw a thought out to the community for comment or ideas. I am planning on booking a very large suite at an Ottawa area hotel for some play of my own and thought that while I have it anyway I might be able to gather some others for some fun. I was thinking maybe 10 (maybe 12 depending on the suite but at least enough to make a good "daisy chain") people in total, 5 SP's 5 hobbiests the event would be by invite only. The SP's would be invited to participate first and based on their extensive knowledge of their clients and connection and rapport with each would extend an invitation to that client. This is so there is a good vibe in the room and no "newness" to overcome. I was thinking that it would have to be a 2 or 3 hour session and it would be planned a little ways onto the future to allow clients enough time to save up if they needed to or make travel arrangements. I don't know if this is something that has occured in the CERB community in the past but I'd like the community to comment, critique or express interest in this type of an event. I don't ever get offended so please feel free to tell me if my idea is out to lunch. Thanks, Chuck

Ok soooo......, this orginial fantasy is starting to evolve somewhat. What was initially imagined as a simple erotic affair has now evolved into potentially a full blown orgy involving potentially 5 SP's. While my ego would like to believe that I am man enough to properly service a group of beautiful vivacious women my common sense is bursting out laughing. That said, now I've got another fantasy that I start another thread on. I'm going to plan an orgy of hobbiests and SP's. Stay tuned.

Guess I better get my assistant to book me another trip to Ottawa for May 9.

First thing I ate today was shower muff! Not sure why, but I'm always starving for that in the morning. After that I had a coffee and granola bar enroute to the office (not quite so satisfying).

Drinking that last glorious mouthful of coffee in the cup only to get a mouthful of coffee grounds.

Lenny Kravitz covered Jimi's "Hey Joe" Here's the link to that: http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=eQ_fsA6bAZA but my song is Lenny Kravitz own song, "Black Velveteen": Awesome song and appropriate given our venue here! "Black Velveteen's cat smell's like strawberry kittens" Yeah it does, lick. Have a great day, Chuck

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Thanks Amelia, What other instruments have you mastered?

Genevieve, That does sound great. Next week when I'm up I'll pop over and take a look. However I still have one little problem to overcome, no SP in Ottawa who has come forward to offer to become the object of my affection.

Malika, Well there is quite the range from Chopin to Chopsticks! While I enjoy piano music very much the music itself is not the central part. As long as its soft and melodic it can be simple. The central part for me is watching the woman play. Seeing her her naked body poised, fingers softly stroking the keys, her head gently tilting back and forth. As she moves her hair moves and exposes the soft skin on her neck..... That's where it all becomes a bit of a blur because I have to take her, spin her around on the stool and taste her. So I guess other than a very short period at the beginning the piano will just become a prop for our romp. Chuck

Sara, you made me laugh! Humor is very sexy. Let me address one musical fantacy at a time. I just need to finish up the key'd instruments, piano then accordian (I know, accordian? But since I saw Julie Wilde holding one I've now got a thing) and I'll be moving on over to the woodwinds. I'll be in touch ;) Chuck

Yes Jerry, Mulva! W is for Wilde! (Julie) very sexy!

Miss Osgoode, Thanks for the response the one and only! I can appriciate the funny face thing when you are really into a piece (of music) but I think everyone on CERB will agree that "interesting" facial expressions are abound in sexual activities as well ;) Having any Luxury hotel in T.O. make a piano privately available at my request would not be a problem. I'll PM you to further discuss. Chuck

Old Dog, this thread is awesome. It's all legit information but I'm really glad that (although you may prefer to have it somewhere else) your tongue is planted firmly in your cheek. I've really enjoyed it so far, keep it coming. Chuck

Meg's got a good point but I'd like to add to it. When contacting an SP via email or PM be polite straight forward, follow their instructions for preferred contact methods and keep in mind that some of these ladies have alot on the go. They may not be sitting and waiting for your PM or email. Give them a chance to respond, I've been up to a week waiting for a response from some ladies due to their schedules and demands. However typically, ladies get back to you within a couple of days and many within the same day. So don't go getting all disheartened if you don't hear back from a lady right away. (I know first when I made the leap and I sent off that e-mail it was torcher waiting for that e-mail back from her but it was worth it!)

Paul, you might want to consider Emily J as a first foray into this hobby. Word on the street is that she'll blow your mind (among other things) ;)

I need a hug. Just got the news that my wife can't accompany me to Ottawa next week so getting to watch her get rubbed down by Vitto is off. Bumming very hard right now!

Rule #3 listen to antlerman's rules There is a section right on the home page for newbies with a wide number of threads with a wealth of info from Hobbiests and SP's. As Vitto suggested read it all over it'll answer everything you'll want to know. If you still have other specific questions contact a Hobbiest who's thoughts tend to mirror yours and PM them most everyone will be willing to offer advice and maybe save you some greif. Finally, respect is paramount and it can't be stressed enough. Respect for other posters, other hobbiests and most importantly SP's. The SP's here are beautiful, amazing women who are more than just the sum of their parts. Prepare to be blown away my friend! Good Luck from Chuck

A bunch of tickets to the Sen's game next Saturday! Stupid corporate obligations and smoozing. I wanted to visit with Gegefatale but expense claims for that are frowned upon :(