Wolf Knight

Voicemail would never matter to me, you just need to more cautious in the delivery of your message. As you'd expect real voice is always better than automated, more personal. Plus hearing a persons voice for the first time and placing a voice to a picture is a little exciting in and of itself and I always get a little tingle from it.

Highlight for me came early today. My daughter turned to her mother over a bowl of Rice Krispies and said, "Mommy now that I'm 4, does that mean that I can sleep with my red thingys out like you do". I almost died laughing!

Interesting info Cristy, good to know. Personally, I peak at lunchtime everyday rain or shine!

Seriously, this happens, people try to negotiate? So I'm honoured that an amazingly beautiful woman is allowing me to enjoy her company and other people are haggling? Give me a break. If you even have to ask the price then you can't afford it! Grow up guys. Thanks for calling them out Cowboy.

Thanks, Nathalie and Cristy. Although, CERB can have its naughty erotic elements, its fun side and its business purpose I've noted that there is a real undercurrent of "community" here. There are some real and genuine people, SP's and Hobbiests who do care about and respect those that inhabit this community. My thoughts on the sensation of loneliness is the sense that there is nobody that truly cares for us and loves us in our close proximity. Someone that in a relatively short amount of time you could "hug" if you needed to as Nathalie points out. You could be surrounded by others but if you don't have that sense that they truly care for you it won't matter. Throughout my life so far I've done far more travelling than I'd like and spent too much time away from those that "care". As good as technology gets with skype and facetime etc. nothing replaces that comforting physical sensation of anothers hand placed on you or arms around you. That "safety net" that Cristy mentions, that person that you know when you have a moment of weakness will stand up and be that strength for you. I am by nature a solitary person but there is a big difference in being alone and feeling alone. I like being alone but I hate feeling alone. This is a great thread for CERB because I think that its possible that many SP's dispite all the time they spend with clients might find themselves to be more isolated mentally than other industries. For me, constantly living in a state of connected detachment could be very hard. Thanks ladies for this insight and hopefully this thread in Cerb will allow us all to share those "hugs" with those that need them. Chuck

Fortunately, I think that lady might be the exception rather than the norm. Cerb is full of posts from SP's saying that size doesn't matter (to an extent). Read Emily J's (a self professed cock lover, LOL) blog for more info about "size" she's got a full blog entry related to this. As far as sweet versus rough and good guy versus bad boy its all a matter of taste and as long as there is mutual respect thats all that matters. (sometimes soft and sweet "good guys" like it rough and tumble too;)) Notch is right, with so many awesome women here on Cerb find one that appeals to your style and taste and have fun. Chuck

To address the OP multi-orgasmic is great and I would assume that members of a community such as CERB would tend to be more sexually progressive (I have been wrong before) so the giving and receiving of pleasure should not be a foreign concept. Many of the clients that have posted here seem to appriciate giving pleasure as much as receiving which is wonderful. For someone that is inexperienced and not intuitive to body language an early orgasm could make them think "fake". My wife does take a little time and foreplay to get excited enough for an orgasm but when she's there she stays at that heightened state with multiple O's until it becomes to sensitive. For her, when she cum's she goes quiet so if I had my eyes closed and wasn't touching her it's be hard to tell. If she had a O in the first five minutes I'd get up, wipe my chin, point and say "faker". I hate fake and consider it an insult as such but I've had her fake O's for me and I mean really fake it up to see how real she could make it and I'll tell you that a guy that was not used to her would never know. Now there is a flip side as well, one of my buddies has got the other issue, his wife is hyper sensitive. She can cum in like two minutes and then is way too sensitive to touch (neither of them feel this is a good thing) because there is issues with him being able to finish. Sure there is a bj or hj but it's his wife, sometimes he'd like to cum in her. They've learned to make it work by him being pretty much ready to blow before they engage. For me, I'm confident in my pleasure inducing "techniques" but the idea of visiting with a new SP is a bit stressful. Like many of the guys posting here I'm always a guy who is focused on the ladies pleasure and in fact it's where I derive a significant portion of my pleasure. Being with a new woman and having to learn her buttons in a limited amount of time presents a bit of a learning curve and when your aware in the back of your mind that your on a clock (even if there is no clock watching) not hitting those buttons right away can be a little unsettling. For that reason I think longer appts are better with a new SP/client encounter to allow that feel you out (no pun indended) period without the pressure. For me, I feel like a little bit of a failure if the lady doesn't orgasm and receive the pleasure she deserves BUT if she faked and I knew it, I'd never visit her again because to me it'd be an insult. That might be harsh but hey thats just me!

Sometimes my knees are too tender for doggie style :( Damn contact sports in my youth.

Bed of course! Please or be pleased?

While I think that the orginial intent of this thread was to let Cerbs wonderful ladies realize that they are sought after and appriciated I fear that it's possibly in poor taste. While the ladies mentioned may appriciate the stamp of approval a more appropriate venue is through reco's. Not to be a kill joy but I have issues with people being treated like objects. Is it possible that we could let this thread die? Thanks, Chuck

I'm not sure if I could or would want to compile a "list". In my limited time here on CERB I've actually been blown away by the beauty and diversity, every lady awesome in her own way. I don't have a type but I have to say that I'm a sucker for intellect and when SP's run off on a thread with some great comment it really hooks me. Also SP's that exude selfconfidence and sensuality get me hot as well. For me everytime I log into CERB I discover another amazing lady that I vow to meet eventually. Being the gallant guy I am I don't think it would be fair to list them out like mountains I want to climb and conquer. Stay awesome ladies!

Midnite, Excellent thread and points. In fact all the posters so far have made great points. It's unfortunate that you had a client say that to you and really it would have been my assumption that its a given that most clients (in my mind) should be sexually progressive by nature to result in them deciding to seek out an SP. Really, unfortunately it comes down to people being comfortable with their own sexuality and being able to verbalize that to their partner either SP or SO. Do to my personality I have always felt comfortable talking about sex and verbalizing my wants before, during and after an encounter. My wife on the other hand has always struggled with being able to say what she wants, (I've had to pry it out of her) luckily over the years she's loosened up alot almost to the other extreme (if i'm playing with her and I'm taking too long or not hitting her spots just right at that moment she'll give a little growl push my hand away and take over herself, very hot BTW). Once upon a time she'd have never done that for fear that she might offend me. For me as a partner it's very liberating knowing that her pleasure doesn't hinge on me as it allows me to enjoy and savour the monent much better. The more people realize that sex is natural (the most natural thing actually or we all wouldn't be here) the better it opens the door to a much more beautiful experience for everyone. We in western culture (specifically North America) still suffer from the view point that sex is private, taboo, you don't talk about it, keep it behind closed doors. Its unfortunate because its so freaking awesome. My last point on the subject is this, nobody can make me cum faster than I can myself and it's the same for every other woman and man on the planet. We all know our own buttons, life is better when we share those buttons with each other ;) As for instruments, I've got a Trombone that needs playing, slow, soft and drawn at first with a loud and boisterous finish.( I know how I like to be played and now so do all of you) That's a little bit of Friday morning rambling

Highlight of the day? The inlaws finally went home!

Not sure if it would freak anyone out (and I'm quite sure that it has definately happened) but would get a smile or a raised eyebrow is: Fifty Shades, a grey neck tie and a viberator. (E.L. James you are not a literary genius but thanks for the sexual liberation of many women. However I have cursed you many a night when all I wanted was to go to sleep)

A tiny(stature) man with three boxes of Trojan Magnum XL's.

Lube, enema kit, and a snorkel

Nice job on the erotic writing! Keep up the good work. I've been writing erotica for years for my wife (she loves it and it's kept things very fresh). I started out buying erotic books and reading them to my wife while she took a bath (I loved to watch her play with herself) but I bought many books and once she heard a story she had no interest in going back over it again. After a while we essentially ran out of material. So I turned to telling her stories and making them up while I went along but it was not relaxing and enjoyable for me because I always had to be "on my game" to ensure the story was properly developed and structured. I then started writing, actually using the voice recorder on my phone to record thoughts or hot scenarios as they came to me. After I'd compiled enough for a story I'd write it down and clean it up. Over the years I've accumulated many, and I've used them to get my wife excited about trying something new that I'd been thinking about. FYI to anyone who might want to try this, work on your sexy voice it can't be your own everyday voice or she'll laugh at you (I learned this the hard way but luckily recovered ;) The stories were written for her and with her permission maybe I'll share a few some time. Again Great job!

After some thought, "first time" is a subjective thing. I don't feel like my first time is something that has come and gone. With so many wonderful SP's with their differences unique features I think each new time will feel like a "first" over and over again. I can't wait!

Reading a bedtime story to my 2 year old son and when I was done he rolled over and said, "Daddy you know what, you're my best friend".

All I want now is a rye and ginger with a twist of lime instead of this paint brush! BTW I've not been here all that long and I'm guessing that I've missed some pretty important info related to Old Dogs preoccupation with bacon that the rest of CERB shares in. Please enlighten me as I too share a healthy appriciation for that crispy treat :)

I was with an beautiful SP last week and overall the experience was mindblowing and one of the most amazing things to ever happen to me. I have to say that she was what only could be described as perfection and I'll be forever grateful to her. (I've told her this and reco'd the same so I'm sure she would just laugh at my next revelation) During our encounter she would make cute "pleasure sighs" (Mmmmmm) which were very endearing and I appriciated but my wife does the exact same thing in the exact same way. The first time she did it I was like, "wait a minute,is my wife here?". Luckily, it didn't really throw me at all, I love it when my wife does it too. But the tone and sound and throatiness of it was the same.

For me its always the total package. But for sure the comment about playing hair colour and style to complexion and face shape can really work to accentuate a womans beauty. For years I was an ass man but over the past few I'm all about eyes and lips as drivers of what draws me into a woman. However, not sure why but a very short pixie cut on a woman always catches my eye (in a good way). Maybe because it's because it's not a common cut. Like Pete, once my lips are laid on a womans skin her hair colour is the last thing on my mind :)

Fortunateone is spot on in all her advice, excellent job! I can appriciate where your question comes from as many guys would love to have that "stallion" factor. For me I've always been a quality over quantity type of guy (it's the journey not the destination) and have found that orgasms that result from longer drawn out (a build up) play tend to be more explosive and satisifying (plus after a proper session I'm in no shape for a second round). But to each their own!

Ive never had the fortune of meeting Emily J and I'm pretty new here so I'll have to likely embark on a cross country SP tour soon to have experience to base my comments on but, I like Emily J because she has a "look" of innocence but is very verbally naughty in her posts (very hot combination)

Hey Tess, I've tried all different bondage components over the years but it wasn't the bondage as such that I'll found got me excited it was either the loss of control and holding that edge of nervousness and excitement or the power of control. I must say that I've had lots of fun over the years but sensation play was always my favorite. My first foray was when I was 17 and I had my girlfriend all tied up and blindfolded on a bed and used a cherry popsicle and my warm breath as my tools. At that age it was very erotic. Over the years I've continued with the bondage sensation aspects but found that on a bed a person can feel you move around them and begin to anticipate so I now prefer a table (massage table) and I used a blindfold ear plugs. But after my wife and I read the Fifty Shades books and copied the whole earphones and sensations accompanied to music and timed to go with the music it really was amazing. For me I'm all about experiences so I like to try both sides equally depending on the mood. (Just a hint if people do decide to work the music into their sensation fun, I'd recommend that the Dom create the playlist independant of the Sub. That way the only notion of what might be coming for the Sub next will be when the next song starts to play. (Nine Inch Nails, "Fuck you like an animal" - as soon as it starts she always starts to tense up because she knows where the stimulation is headed (I'm smiling right now) v.s. something soft like a piano melody). Oh my, I think its time to go and work up another play list. (Oh BTW if the woman is the Sub the Doms use of Ben-wa balls can really drive her off her head especially if the table is inclined) Have fun everybody. Chuck