Wolf Knight

Well it just so happens that I have easy access to a sommelier and I'd be willing to offer you a tasting and pairing at you convenience. Perhaps at my place again? Yum! On a more to the point answer, give me a meal and I'll get you a perfect wine (my treat).

Trying to research to find a new lady to visit with on my trip to Vancouver next week as it appears that the original one I scheduled with is now MIA. God I have that last minute date feeling.

Highlight of my day? Finding out that Miss Laurence has chosen to take a more "natural" approach. I've been missing natural Sooooooo much and was wondering if I ever would experience one again. Thank you Miss Laurence for giving this man hope :)

The pleasure has been all ours!

Additional note to provide context to my original post. The OP's post specifically addressed SP's speaking ill about SP's and did not address clients discussing SP's at all. My point, (FYI...Us clients don't live in a rose coloured bubble, we talk (many times privately not on public boards) a lot more than some SP's realize and know what's going on with the SP's in our respective areas.) was only made to draw attention to the fact that there is no need for SP's to speak ill of each other in an attempt to destroy the others respective business because clients already have their fill of that from other clients(as noted some we might be able to trust some not). Additionally, from first hand experience with the embattled SP's I/we as a client know that the aggressor SP's are just in fact spouting BS. As an unintended consequence the aggressor SP just lost herself a potential client because she just ran her mouth about a lady that I and others might feel is fantastic in all regards. This has actually happened to me here in St. John's and although that aggressor SP might actually provide a wonderful experience if give the chance, she'll never get one from me because of what she did. Thanks for the utmost respect Miss Laurence. I hope I addressed your question in a straight forward manner with my honest responses. I'm not sure if you even were looking for responses though LOL. I'm not sure if this was a hijack but to put the thread back on course, SP's don't bash each other because in the end it just might be you that suffers. God I love being challenged by a beautiful smart woman (tingles) :) Cheers.

100% honesty. Smack talk by an SP about another SP (whether true or not) is a sure fire way to turn me off and make me walk the other way. Talking smack is drama and drama is NOT sexy! Period! FYI...Us clients don't live in a rose coloured bubble, we talk (many times privately not on public boards) a lot more than some SP's realize and know what's going on with the SP's in our respective areas. Running your mouth will kill your business. Don't do it. Sorry, Chuck is grumpy and playtime scheduling has been awful lately. I'm in withdrawal:(

Well Miss Rain, as requested I checked you out and just as I suspected your shape can only be defined as uniquely beautiful. Sensual, delicious and supremely magnificent in it's own Raven way. All the literary masters could write for a hundred years and still not scratch the surface of defining your body. For the right men your body is a dream, a tempest of wonder and excitement. A flawless work of art that is forever changing and evolving into a intricate patchwork of all your life experiences, polished by a graceful elegance. Yes, your body is simply and beautifully yours. ;) Well that's what I saw anyway!

Hey, Empty83 is right. His method of doubling or dividing in half is often a very quick way to have that pesky mis-posted entry jump of the page or computer screen particularly when you have a number of entries to go through. I'm not in Ottawa right now to help you in person but I'll offer any help I can via distance to help clear things up free of charge. Feel free to PM me if you like and I'll give you my email. Oh BTW...... I know that you mentioned trading services but I know there are lots of accounting tutors in Ottawa that will charge you MUCH less than your services are worth. You'll be better off to go that route IMO. Any tutor that's any good in a 1 on 1 session should be able to help you see things more clearly in 3 hours at maybe 40ish$ an hour.

Took my time and did some proper manscaping. Nuts are shaved, everything else is trimmed and buffed. Awesome, I was ready to play! Bam! I put my back out and now I can hardly move. Damn bad disc's. No position is comfortable, f##K that, playtime will have to wait.

I've enjoyed the company of with ladies as young as 19 and so far as old as 45 (only because I haven't been given the opportunity to go older). Do I have a limit? Yes, now I do and it's mid 20's and older. In my experience so far, the ladies under mid twenties have lacked a level of maturity to interact with me on a level beyond the sex that I've discovered I enjoy in my encounters. Beyond that I don't choose companions based on age I do so based on physical and emotional attraction.

Well, mine was discovering that despite my ever advancing age I have the ability to have almost no refractory period. :) After we'd (well "I") successfully finished the first round she immediately whipped off the condom and started into a BJ. Her apparent insatiable intensity and desire was so damn hot (along with fantastic oral skill) got me rock hard again literally 1 or 2 minutes after the first orgasm. Sadly, despite trying with other ladies it's never repeated the closest I been is like 15 min. I guess she was one special lady.

Although she usually posts as available in the evenings I have seen her post with daytime availability. Actually I think that in the last week or so she had one day with availability in the afternoon. But I think that if you messaged her and mentioned that you'd like to book a visit but you're only available in the day time she might find a way to make herself available with the proper notice. I prefer day play as well and she's usually available at 5 so coming up with a reason not to be home from work until just after 6 is not hard to do. Be creative, where there's a will there's a way. Ha Ha, sure just go get yourself a "hobby" like running around Quidi Vidi Lake except just run over to her incall. Personally, I came up with some win/win alibi's. One is that I'm part of a beer tasting club who meets regularly to sample different micro brews from around the world. I head out every couple of weeks for some "sampling". Best part is, I visit a lady first, work up a thirst then go to the beer sampling and head home after smelling like beer not sex.

Cristy, thanks for that personal post. Fears? Although, not the same as yours I only have two real fears and quite superficial when put in the context of what you're referring to. I have a fear of heights and a when diving I have a fear when approaching a steep drop off of what's down there to come up from the blackness. But they are more irrational type fears. In truth I fear very little, I generally don't care about others thoughts on what I do and try to just live for myself. That gives me a lot of liberation to explore all kinds of things. Although, I'm "educated" I actually hate organized education and the notion that there is only "one way" to be educated and contribute to society. The most intelligent and well rounded man I've ever known was my grandfather and he completed grade 8 then went to work to help support his family. It was a different era when people had different priorities like just trying to survive. However, because my grandfather left school and went to work to contribute to his family his youngest brother was given the flexibility to continue schooling "supported" and actually went on to receive his PhD from Harvard. As to be expected he did develop an air of superiority about him (I guess due to the circles he moved in) however humble his beginnings. Of the two men, my grandfather was clearly far more brilliant than his brother and a voracious reader. He read everything he could get his hands on and digested every bit of it additionally he could almost recite every bit of it back to you verbatim. I guess he actually had a photographic memory it turns out. Very little "formal" schooling but he was every bit as worldly as his brother the Harvard grad. I can remember as a teenager listening to my grandfather and his brother discuss/debate world issues. My grandfather with his "rural twang" and his brother with all his proper diction and pronunciation I was astounded at how my grandfather not only held his ground in the face of superior "education" but bested it often. My grandfather was a true gentleman, worked hard and gave back to his community in what ever way he could. He was very well respected even revered and though he's long gone people still talk of him as though he was a legend of sorts. If I could choose to emulate anyone in my life it would be him. He lived true to himself and became a man others could only dream of. Just a simple fisherman and farmer! Cristy, live your own life true to only yourself. In the end when you look back on it all you'll only be answering to yourself and nobody else. Never, let anyone hold you back especially yourself.

I have to ad Malika to that list for sure!

For me it's a very life situation specific thing. During my busier more stressful times I tend to have blinders on and the issue at hand is the only thing that gets my attention. During those times my mind is consumed with "shit" and nothing else matters. Hell during the worst or most stressful times I doubt, well, actually I know that I won't even get hard. The mind is your most powerful sex organ and mine is preoccupied. Any would be too much, there is ZERO libido. (I just went through one of these) However, those times when my mind is free, sex occupies about 50% of my thought processes and like Cleo said the more I have it the more I want it. During those times I'm at least a once or twice a day person. Lucky for me I'm in this stage right now :D and I had sex, yesterday afternoon, last night, this morning and I'm planning for this evening but I might even have to masturbate before then. I know that if Savannah and I went away for a weekend where all I had to worry about was satisfying her I'd want it for sure 4 times every day maybe more. Some might be soft, slow and sensual but others would be hard fast fucking. The kind where it's spur of the moment and only lasts a few minutes but both of you are completely spent after and just collapse into each other after panting. Oh my, I think that now might be an appropriate time to go masturbate!

How come I've been regularly visiting with an amazing "retired" SP who I thought also still saw some other preretirement regular clients only for her to reveal to me that not only am I the only "client" she see's, I'm also the only guy she sees. Period. Now things are weird. So much for NSA.

You'll find some ladies with that body type here on cerb. If you want you can PM me and I'll pass along any recommendations I have. Best of luck in your search.

In my experience "open-minded" just like "GFE" means nothing. In this business many ladies will just use the "phrase of the day" in their ad's to catch a potential clients attention. NEVER make any assumptions in this business about what anything written in ad's mean. Always, communicate directly with the lady and express what you desire from your encounter and confirm that what you desire is what she provides and is comfortable with. If you choose to just take ad's at face value you might be setting yourself up for disappointment. Just as an example, a while ago I visited with a lady, last minute, "spur of the moment" and she advertised as both "GFE and open-minded". When I go there she confirmed after we entered the room that, there was no kissing, no anal play, and the service was completely safe. I could live with that so we continued. It was a completely mechanical, detached, zero eye contact session. In fact she even seemed a little put out that I lasted so long and said, "can you just cum already". LOL. Now I know for a fact that I am a fantastic client with a YMMV factor that is very high but in this case although she advertised as both open-minded and GFE I would classify my mileage factor as very low. Perhaps she was just having a bad day who knows. However, I learned that I'll never do "last minute" spur of the moment again. I'll always want to have ample opportunity to chat with the lady and convey to her what I like to experience in my sessions and have her explicitly confirm that she also enjoys all the same things from a session as I do. Communicate, communicate, communicate! FYI, you might be able to tell but I haven't had my morning coffee yet and I'm still a little short on the trigger.

Thanks for this thread and the tips and pointers. The longest dates I've done so far have been a couple of 3 hours with a few 2 hours and many one hours. One hour dates it's pretty much down to business right away. 2 hour dates have usually been 1 hour chatting and 1 hour play. the 3 hour dates have been about 1.75 social and 1.25 play. I really do enjoy the social aspect a lot and exploring that person. This might be a little old school but I really get off on the "courtship" process even with professional companions. So I've always wanted to take a lady on a date so to speak as an aspect of our encounter. That type of thing is totally out when it comes to playtime in my home town so I've been contemplating an extended dates or a overnight on my next trip. I enjoyed reading the different thoughts on this matter and know how to approach it when I do. Thanks for the contributions everyone.

Similar to Brad, I LOVE daty and I'm expressive about it. smiling at the lady and commenting on how much I am enjoying her. When it comes to BJ I guess eye contact like specific technique preferences will be a very subjective and definitely not a one size fits all thing. I personally like for the lady to periodically meet my gaze with hers but constant eye contact for me just feels a little unnatural and forced. Another thing I like when a lady is down on me is for her to meet my gaze then with a naughty grin on her face just take a long slow lick like she was licking an ice cream. Like Brad pointed out it kind of reaffirms the notion that she is into the act of giving as opposed to the feeling of bobbing up and down and going through the motions.

I couldn't agree more! That type of direction is perfect and usually nobody would take any offence to comment of that type. As a rule we (both clients and companions) just want to please each other so any direction will usually be welcomed if spoken in the proper encouraging way. Even if you're a fantastic lover and extremely adept at picking up physical cues it can be hard from one person to another to hit all the right buttons in all the right ways. I guess hence why all my best encounters have been on repeat visits. I have been with ladies that I have found very frustrating because they presented very few clues as to how I was performing. Likewise I'm sure some companions find certain clients frustrating when she's pulling out all her best moves LOL and not getting the response that she deems appropriate. It all could easily be fixed a few select words murmured into the ladies ear. Speak up guys and ladies get exactly what you want. "Ask and ye shall receive".

You're exactly right. There is no "one BJ fits all" approach and if a lady thinks this then there will surely be some disappointed men on the other side of her lips. However if you're a client that's not vocal or expressive it might be hard for a lady to please you. I'm not much of a "dirty talk" man but during a BJ it's a great opportunity to be more expressive for the lady and give her some not so subtle clues to help her help you LOL. Even maintaining the right balance between mouth and hand technique through out the duration of the BJ can be difficult for example I enjoy both hand and mouth to be soft and sloppy at the beginning with the lady using a little bit of a twisting motion with her mouth and hand on my shaft (and I'd want it to stay this way if I'd don't want to cum from BJ). However, if I'm looking for BJ to completion a little ways into the BJ I'll want her to tighten her grip a little and increase her actual suction. The whole process is an evolution that starts and finishes differently. Also eye contact, periodic eye contact is good and natural for me but constant eye contact will freak me out and will seem forced LOL.

RG, as I said I hate trial and error when it comes to sex so with a lady that I have a "different" type of relationship with (we're very playful and silly even at the intimate moments) I have actually outright asked her to critique me on my technique. In that case she "walked" me through a whole session and gave me lots of points and tips. Overall I found out I was pretty good at it LOL but did pick up a few special tricks (specifically clues to watch for when to employ certain special techniques). I'm never too good to be told and I'm not too proud to ask. Communication, communication, communication.

Like Peachy said communication is key always. Another aspect that I thought I'd comment on as an aspect of a BJ is the balls licking and sucking. With many men licking play with the sack is pleasurable. However just like woman with anal, ball sucking is usually a love it or hate it type thing. My nuts don't like pressure and sucking LOL. In fact it can cause discomfort even if a lady licks or plays with them a little too rough. I'm sure that there are guys who actually find hard sucking of the nuts enjoyable just not me. Hell, if a lady sucked on one of my nuts hard I'm pretty sure I'm going limp right after.

Midnite, I think you could be right in that providing direction to a lady is all about the delivery of the direction. For me it was more of a "Oh baby, that feels good now just a little softer and slower with your hand. Yeah that's it. Ooooh, don't be afraid to make it wet baby. Oh yeah, now slower and swirl your tongue around the head. Oh God that's so good!" (and so on, and so on as we progressed) Basically, it turned into a tailor made BJ exactly the way I like it. When it comes to sex I've never been a fan of trial and error. I like a lady to provide direction to me that will help me along my way when trying to provide her pleasure. I would be very embarrassed to know that a lady might be rolling her eyes at my technique so I'd rather she just tell me.