Wolf Knight

When it comes to anal too much lube is almost enough. I've enjoyed anal many times and for my enjoyment the lady has to be really comfortable with it and find it pleasurable. Most of my pleasure is usually derived from the ladies pleasure so if she's only so-so about it I'm not interested. Slow and steady is the name of the game for Anal. To a certain degree it might be the taboo aspect of it but for me I actually find visually watching entry to be very erotic and that moment when the head actually "pops" in is exciting. For many ladies anal is pretty cut and dried they either like it or they hate it there's not much middle ground. Anal play should not usually start with going right for cock-in-ass. It's really something to be worked up to over time and usually the lady has to be very "warmed up" from other play. I've been told that for ladies there's a different sensation of fullness with anal and the sensation of orgasm with something in the anus is quite interesting for both males and females. Something to keep in mind there are not many asses that can take a pounding like we might be lead to believe from porn. It's better as more of a slow erotic grinding as opposed to a pounding.

This one is both guys and ladies to comment on. I've never been a huge fan of BJ's. I'm not completely sure why but I assume that it 's because I've not completely enjoyed the technique used by the lady. To a certain degree most ladies have a technique that they use and I guess that they assume that their specific technique is enjoyable given that it's been successful for them in the past. In fact some ladies I'm sure would think that they give awesome BJ's. I have had some BJ experiences that quite frankly were not only not enjoyable but actually uncomfortable and I've had to move the lady on to other activities to spare myself. However, recently in the middle of a lack luster BJ I decided to take control of the situation and provide "direction" to a lady on how to provide a BJ that I would enjoy. LOL, while she was proceeding I gave her detailed instructions on how I liked it how much pressure to use, what speed, how wet, and specific tongue techniques etc. What was a poor BJ turned in to a awesome one. I guess enjoyable BJ technique is something that is specific to each man so as a lady it might be difficult sometimes to determine what technique to employ to make it enjoyable for the man. A question I have for the ladies is would you find it rude for a man to interrupt your BJ technique by providing direction to you on how you should provide one to him? Also, gents can feel free to comment on their BJ experiences and perhaps some techniques that they preferred to others. For example, Deep Throat has always baffled me as I've ALWAYS found it uncomfortable given my size so I always cringe when a lady tries it. Cheers

Truthfully, I wish that MSOG was an option for me to worry about. In a one hour appointment, by the time I pay an appropriate amount of time pleasuring the lady I'm lucky to squeeze in one shot on goal. But then again my fave things to do are DATY and kiss anyway. But on a longer encounter I might be interested in another session of passionate sex if the vibe and chemistry was right. There are MANY ladies that do specifically state MSOG in their ad's so I'd look for those in particular however, even if they don't have it listed just ask. Respectfully mention that you are a client that has the ability to enjoy MSOG and ask is that an option. As stated, communication is always key. Something to remember, even if a lady has MSOG listed there is always a YMMV factor. If as a client the first time around you just pounded away on her like a jackhammer (some ladies do not enjoy this, in fact a lot hate it) then she may be reluctant to let you have a second round of hammering away just to squeeze off another one.

The park is "Blow Me Down" on the west coast of the province. The way the fog rolls in to St. John's is pretty cool too with the high south side hills and signal hill forming the entrance to the harbour the fog rolls right in through the entrance similar to this picture: However the entire west coast of the province all along the Long Range Mountains is beautiful.

Savannah, you beautiful thing you! NL and Cerb are very fortunate to have a lady of your class and sexiness.

Thanks to Emily for her additional insight into my post. I value her perspective. I'm never too good to be told and I think that Emily has indeed given me some food for thought. I have pondered on her points and have come to a realization after a wonderful trip down memory lane (not that I needed Emily to twist my arm to take that trip). Most of my first encounters with companions were indeed amazing but in my case all of my "all time best" visits with companions were actually repeat visits. As pointed out YMMV always does play part in every encounter but common sense is not a common as we would hope. I guess seeing multiple reco's from the same client could convey the notion that, "god she must be great if that guy kept going back to see her so often". So given my new enlightened perspective I'll have to update some of my original reco's with a sneek peak behind how great it can become when you build that connection with a lady and visit with her numerous times. Emily, if I get labeled a shill I'm coming looking for you and not for the typical sensual reasons :)

Thanks Phaedrus for your detailed post in the newbie section. You've covered a lot but I just wanted to point out something from my own personal experience. I visited with a lady and after that "first" visit I was very impressed with my experience so I wrote that lady a recommendation. Because I had such a great first experience I visited with that lady again shortly after. My "second" visit was VERY different from my first and quite frankly blew my mind. The intensity and passion during that encounter was so far off the charts that it literally left my head spinning. I did not write a second recommendation even though my second visit was far better than the first. Now I could have written a recommendation however I'm not sure that additional recommendations from repeat clients will have a value to a Newbie or first time visitor to that lady. Additionally, I'm afraid that I might actually be doing her a disservice without realizing it. I think that if someone is looking for a lady for a first time visit then reading other first time recommendations might be more appropriate in helping to understand what to expect as a first time client. As I'm sure that everyone can appreciate there is a relationship and ease that develops between a companion and a client over multiple visits and a chemistry that is unlikely to be found on a first visit. That's only natural. I'm not sure that it would be fair as a repeat client to post a recommendation that might lead a first time client to unrealistically expect that my encounter will be his encounter. For better of worse that's just my perspective on how I approach it.

Me, I choose to post silly shit there from time to time. Like tonight I posted about my very bad hair colouring job. I do take a skim through some of the posts looking for some silly posts from members or perhaps some witty ads that might make me smile. I'm all for the relaxed funny banter mixed with some ads here and there. I think that if more members chose to make posts then it wouldn't seem so dominated by ads.

White Knight? I have no problem being dubbed that. I'm not on escort boards trying to impress other clients in the hopes that they'll deem me worthy to have an intimate encounter with them. Further I'm really not a fan of the "old boys club" mentality where guys sit around make comments and then slap each others back in a good job/way to go fashion. Some weaker men need that sort of stuff however and need that external validation and will jump on a band wagon to try to fulfill that need. Me I find that somewhat pathetic. While I agree that there exists in this business companions that I may not personally "click" with and have that special attraction I realize that it is only my perspective. I'm sure that there are others who would find that companions particular qualities and physical attributes desirable. I personally have visited with ladies who were/are very highly recommended and "reviewed" but I just did not click with some reason. As a result, those experiences were only ok (or in one case disappointing) but I don't feel that I should deem myself the authority and openly disparage that lady for what amounts to my issue. Do I believe that if a companion blatantly misrepresents herself, knowingly misleading clients should continue in this business unchecked? Definitely not and neither do other companions who are trying to squeeze out a living from this business. However, I'm sure if any of these expert "judges" of perfection on other boards were subjected to the same public scrutiny of their physical appearance openly by SP's they'd haul in their horns pretty quick and disappear. Realistically, paid companionship or not, most of us clients are lucky as hell to have "any" woman be willing to be intimate with us.

I love nipple play on me and it can range from soft to very hard with clamps. I know a lady that normally doesn't have overly sensitive nipples and doesn't get much satisfaction from nipple play however during her pregancy she found that her nipples appeared to be a direct link to her clit and she could easily orgasm with just nipple play alone. After the pregancy her nipples went back to their originial low sensitive levels.

I choose to enjoy the company of companions when I travel and typically I have a very tight window of opportunity to visit with someone on my trips so I tend to book well in advance to ensure that I get the time slot I desire. On a couple of occasions I've had circumstances change around the timing of my trip or my meetings and have had to cancel on some ladies. In all cases it was days in advance however I still offered to pay her cancellation fee if she had one. Reputation is everything for companions and clients and I would never risk mine over a few bucks. I've also cancelled related to illness but again days in advance and again offered to pay the cancellation fee. I have also been cancelled on by a few companions. Twice last minute, within an hour of the appointment. One was a no show, I was at her location and messaged her for the apt number and she went MIA. It turned out that her phone died and she didn't have her charger at her incall so she couldn't get back to me. The other time her period apparently surprised her last minute and she cancelled. In neither situation was I really out anything. Disappointed yes, but I still had my funds to book another day. I choose to give a lady two chances before I deem her a "flake" so I took the ladies at their word and did rebook with each. In both cases I did have a great time on my next visit, however with no additional compensation in terms of time or $. Only once have I actually been out anything and it was when I booked a lady who was only available to do outcall. I went ahead and arranged a hotel for the visit and checked in. 20 minutes before the date she messaged me and said she couldn't make it so there I was with a hotel room at $270 and nothing to do and despite my best efforts could not arrange another lady on short notice. That one stung a little, and to add insult to injury I later found out that she cancelled on me to see another client for a longer appt. I would never book with that SP again but in this business it's to be expected that shit will happen from time to time. I've also paid deposits to "well known" respected travelling ladies to secure my appointment and truthfully it doesn't bother me at all to do that for the right lady that I know is legit. An elite, super respected, travelling lady I know, visited St. John's (paid for flights and hotel, big bucks ) based on clients who booked her time in advance. When she arrived she had the majority of those clients cancel. She was left to hope that she manage to get enough last minute clients (difficult to conduct proper verification last minute) to make her trip break even. In my opinion that lady would have every right to expect those clients to pay a deposit in the future for another visit. By cancelling they have shown themselves as untrustworthy clients and they need to prove to that lady that they deserve to be trusted. Basically, companions share with each other info on no shows, cancellers and time wasters. Likewise, clients also share information on ladies who are flakes. Reputation is everything and why f**k around and screw yours up. A Friday morning, coffee time rambling from Chuck

Thanks for the discussion and info guys, contributions are important. I appreciate honesty and perspectives because it saves us all a lot of grief and regrets. However, just a reminder about posting information or opinions that could possibly be construed as a negative comment on a lady. Wouldn't want to see anyone get themselves in any hot water without realizing it. If you have concerns about a companion that is being discussed and wanted to shed some additional light on the service she chooses to provide with another member then perhaps PM the person and take the discussion private to avoid any problems. Cheers

When I started out I was a nervous wreck about going over my time with a lady. I was a serious clock watcher checking the time every few minutes and it did have an impact on the enjoyment of my encounter. Now right before I knock on the door for the lady I set my timer on my phone for 50 min (or 10 minutes less than my allotted time if my appointment is longer) and forget about it. I enjoy myself and when the timer goes off I know that I've got 10 minutes left to get myself together. I've learned that most dates tend to have a very similar progression and knowing how I operate I can usually time the encounter out to about 45-50 minutes of sexual play based on my own internal clock. Because "I" am a clock watcher I do prefer a lady to have a easily readable clock present for me to glance at every now and then but with the timer already set I know I'm safe and it takes the pressure off.

Me, I LOVE kissing and actually prefer it to as BJ and have pulled ladies up from a BJ because I wanted to taste her lips so badly. Likewise, I've kissed ladies after DATY specifically because I wanted her to taste herself off my lips. I'm pretty much game for anything when it comes to sexual exploration. Some things I prefer more than others but all in all I'll try some pretty f**ked up stuff by most peoples standards. Some of the things that SP's and clients would excitedly engage in would make some others cringe. That's ok, we're all different and have different wants and needs. However, when it comes to sexual preferences I'll never say that there is a right or wrong. Some people have issues with some things (some rational, some irrational) but in a business/industry built on "pleasure" I'm not sure that anyone should be frowned upon for preferring not to engage in any act that they might happen to find unpleasant (for whatever reason). I rather not take a tit for tat perspective when it comes to sex. If a person prefers not to engage in a particular act, be it kissing after BJ or anything else I think that communication is the key between partners to avoid raised eyebrows or even hurt feelings.

Perhaps I'm old school but I miss a neatly trimmed bush and wish I could find one every now and then too. Best of luck in your search.

Hey, just a heads-up I saw their ad on BP and just as I do with all BP ladies I did a Google image search on some of their photos as well as a phone number search. Some pic's came up as fakes so that's not a great sign. They very well could be legit but anytime I come across fake pic's I usually stay away. It's not a great start to an SP experience knowing that they are already trying to dupe you. But hey if you're a TOFTT type guy let me know how you make out. Cheers.

Wow at $1300 an hour, Gege just discribed the MDE (medical doctor experience). Please turn your head and cough. At those rates you're better off to just fly one of our amazing CERB ladies to see you while you're there.

First when I started out and the whole process was quite foreign to me I liked to see the list of "services" so I knew what to expect from what was an entirely new experience. So I think newbies may like to see the listing to help them understand what's in-store for them. Now with more experience (and the help of CERB), I don't really care about it as I'm much more comfortable chatting with companions about my preferences for my encounter. As a rule I have an understanding about what's "included" in my experience and if there happens to be any specific request that I might have that's outside "the norm" of typical services I just ask the companion about it. We're all adults, and if we're adult enough to do it then we should be adult enough to talk about it. However, if a companion has a specific service that she chooses not to offer (greek, BBBJ, etc) I think it would be easier to list the "don't do" services to avoid unnecessary contacts by clients looking for this service. Just my thoughts.

Please excuse me as I explain this out. It might be confusing but I wrote it this way on purpose. "I" always want companions that I visit with to consider me to be a client that they enjoy their time with and look forward to my company beyond my envelope. Consequently, "Chuck" from time to time goes beyond perhaps the norm of the SP client interaction and sends the SP short messages out of the blue to let her know that he thought of her fondly and even for some ladies that "I" knows enjoy it he sends them some of his "erotic" musings as a prelude to the next visit. To a certain degree "I" do provide for them an illusion of what a "relationship" with my "Charles" persona would be like. He's suave, a consummate gentleman, fun loving, worldly, sexy, flirty, erotic and free with his wallet (some of my good traits). He's never moody, grumpy, stressed or an ass (some of my bad traits). "I" can be a handful but it's easy to like being with Chuck and he often gets messages from companions he visits with asking when he can come back to see them. Charles is desirable, and it shows, often he receives messages from companions that they miss his company and talking with him. Recently, I've begun to re-evaluate how "I" let "Charles" operate. I have an issue, I feel for people. As a result, I know that I'm susceptible to manipulation if the right person pulls on the right strings. I really struggle with walking away from someone in need and if I have to, it weighs on me heavily. For that reason the blurring of the lines is something that has started to bother me. When "Charles" is being asked by companions to come visit them that he 's missed, I sometimes feel bad about it when "I" have to say no or I decide that I would like to enjoy the company of a different companion. I treat the companions I see well physically, emotionally and financially. However on a number of occasions I've had companions contact me and say, "could you please come and see me, I could really use the money". Because of my nature, I feel bad. I'll admit I've taken the bait and helped some ladies out using my "playtime funds" even when I couldn't see them by offering to prepay for future dates that I know I won't collect on just so they wouldn't feel like I was giving them a hand out. Bottom line, slowly the line became blurred through intentional or unintentional reasons, drama entered into this supposed NSA, drama free enjoyment. Honestly, in the beginning I didn't sign up for it and quite frankly didn't realise that the "professionals" on the other end of my experience were real people and could sometimes let the line become blurred themselves. To ensure that this life and my real life don't intersect I've been forced to become harder and ensure that the lines go back to being clear again for my own sake. However, I'm still bothered by the fact that some ladies I've known will no doubt see this as a rejection of sorts. I rambled on I know but this was a little bit of clearing my head in addition to contributing to this thread.

As RG mentioned the Samsung Note is a great phone/tablet hybrid and no offence RG a better option for women who usually carry a purse to put it in. (I like phones that will fit in my pocket) Generally the larger screen is preferable for surfing purposes. However, perhaps I'm old school but I never could get used to the touch keyboard on iphones or the BB Z10. I had a Z10 and gave it to my sister and went and got a Q10 when they were released. The screen is smaller but I can't give up the BB physical keyboard. I liked the best of both worlds of the BB Torch being full screen with a slide out keyboard but the operating system was just not robust enough to deal with the volume of data today's apps and internet requires. Finally, I experienced one too many lock-ups and had to change. I hate change! LOL

I thought that to have albums as a male member, only the albums needed to be private and not the whole profile. I didn't think that my whole profile was private. Can some one take a look at my profile and see if it's all private? I understand that some guys might want to keep everything private for discretion purposes however I know that some SP's only choose to friend clients that they've actually met. Using this information can help other SP's who are contacted by a client for an encounter determine if the client is legit and safe in a quick way. There might be a new SP that joins CERB then starts getting requests for dates and as someone new might be overwhelmed by the response that "NEW" SP's get when they start. Having some way to quickly wade through the clients to find the good serious ones quickly is a positive. I know that some SP's have done this as part of their verification process. Identify an SP who only friends people that she has met then if a request comes in for a date from a new client then quickly check the SP's friends list to see if she knows the client and has friended him. It's just one additional level of comfort that the new SP can have.

Cleo, I think for your purpose July/August might be better. However I will add that if you're looking at that time of the year you'll want to book plenty of time in advance like May as here on the Island rental cars are in extreme shortage in the Summer months. Also many of the better camping locations get booked up as well. Just an FYI, if you fly into St. John's it's a 7 hour highway drive to Gros Morne. Maybe you'll want to convince a friend to join you on your excursion for company.

I personally would prefer that CERB remain the same positive community that it is. I have gotten memberships on other boards and quite frankly got PO'd with the garbage so stick with CERB. I don't use/rely on reco's to decide if I want to see a lady. I have my own mind and through communication with said lady I can quickly determine if she's someone I want to see all on my own (usually I can tell by her posts on discussion threads like this one). I try to write reco's with a dual purpose approach, one as a positive recognition for the lady that she did a good job of providing me with a positive experience and also because I know that some clients particularly newbies nervously trying to decide on a first SP might use them.(FYI many newbies are nervous and fall prey to stereotypes of the industry that positive reco's can serve to waylay, hence they book that lady knowing that others have seen that lady and have had "safe" positive experiences) Realistically, (maybe it shouldn't be but) the YMMV factor is HUGE from one client to another so there is almost certain that my experience (as a dream client LOL) will not be your experience. Therefore everyone should always read Reco's/reviews with a grain of salt. Humans with different personalities will all interact differently, a lady with a sharp tongue might be described as bitchy in a negative review by a meek client however I might happen to enjoy her wit and meet her comment for comment. His experience might be soured mine might be fun filled but I happen to enjoy challenging ladies while he might be uncomfortable with a ladies expression of self. My humble thought's are that allowing even tempered/moderated negativity on the board will result in boundaries being pushed resulting in an overall tone shift from clients and companions as equals in positive board participation over time.

Booking a hotel for some playtime then having the lady cancel late yesterday. Then making arrangements for another lady who cancelled a few minutes ago, actually 10min after I checked in to the room. Sucks! Three times a charm? LOL I need to stick to "professionals" with incalls.

LOL, Cleo you're a brave one! The answer is that in early October the weather will be generally dry and the temp will be in the range from 10 to 15 degrees getting cooler in the nights. Fall in NL including the Avalon Peninsula is usually nice and moderate. With a good sleeping bag you should not have a problem and I've done it many times. I've taken the time to do "vacation at home" trips here and have pretty much seen everything there is to offer here. If you're strictly visiting for nature experiences the fall will be ok for a visit. However, (and I hate to say this because it might delay your visit) I think if you're looking for a more "full/complete" NL experience I'd look at July or August when most of the "touristy/cultural" stuff is open and in full swing. For example in October many tour boat operators that Malika mentioned will have stopped for the season. Will you be renting a car when you get here, because NL is huge in terms of driving distances to different top visit worthy locations.