LillithAstera

Thank you very much! I will definitely reach out to you in the near future. I'm more than certain that I will have some questions coming up lol

So I took the plunge and posted an ad last night on leolist. I notice a lot of responses asking for a menu.... I don't like the idea of a menu, to me it feels impersonal and like I'm a burger with a side of fries lol So how would I describe that I just want a natural encounter and to go with the flow. I definitely have some hard limits for safety sake since I'm new. No bbbj, no dfk, no kink, no cars, no greek .... I kind of just want things to evolve naturally as what I might be ok with one person, could be different from the next and I guess I want to provide a more sensual encounter rather than checking off a list? Is this too convoluted? I thought maybe what I was preferring was a GFE but when I research GFE, I'm not sure I quite fit... however I'm considering guidelines like a 2hr min encounter that starts in a public setting and moves to a private location after maybe a HH? I'm just rather nervous and I really rely on my personality and "innocent" charm rather than just jumping to action. I've been reading other ads and I haven't really come across my idea yet... maybe that's a good thing? Thoughts and advice much appreciated. Also; what are everyone's feelings on dental dams? I've never used one before but I did purchase some along with my flavored condoms. My first client is later this evening and I'm really really happy with the level of communication and respect so far. Provided everything I asked for, no problems. I'm looking forward to it but I think this was just pure luck that I found someone who seems to instantly have good chemistry with me.

I will definitely be screening. I know why it's important and I seem to have a typo in my OP that might indicate otherwise but I just more want to know how exactly to deal with any push back (examples of particular phrases and wording that I could use). I'm certain I will come across some men who will try to hassle me about asking for their ID by asking the same of me, which obviously, I would not want to do. I just also want to be able to handle those situations in a professional manner. Whether I see them or not, I'd rather not respond rashly. Technically you gave me something I can say, although I'm not sure it was intentional lol I checked out the section for my city on this site and it seems it is not used much at all so I'm certain I won't get much business from Lyla itself. I'll definitely still try posting an ad anyways. I will check out VIP favours tonight though. Thank you for your kind response! =^_^=

Ok so I'll give a bit of background first. Many years ago, I tried to get into the business with a friend and we did a terrible job of screening clients which got me into some trouble and caused me a lot of apprehension about trying again but this time I'd like to do it right. I've read all the screening tips but my question is: how much info does an SP give a client in return? More so thinking about identity questions. IF I'm asking for ID and a valid phone number, how do you deal with clients who want the same? I have a texting app to keep my business endeavours off my personal number, do clients try to look that stuff up too? Since I'm new(ish), I don't have a reputation yet or any way to confirm that I'm trustworthy and I'm worried that would deter decent clients. My other question is for advice on where to advertise for Southern Ontario? I hear leolist has a bad rep. Really sorry if this is in the wrong spot or already asked... I've been reading the site for a while and did my best to research before posting.