Fresh start

I use to try and save money and plan ahead. Then I learned things can easily ruin those plans. My wife got sick and plans to have children fell through. Then I realized life can be a bitch. If I don't spend when I want before I know it may be too late. Then again I only buy something when I want it and pay cash. It's also rare I want or need something. Although working all the time and not having a social life you kinda don't feel guilty when you spend especially when you can afford it.

I'm curious does more click have a direct noticeable difference in business sense or is it just people who are curious.

I'm thinking the reason the ads get more clicks is its the provocativeness that draws people in. It's like omg she wants what? Wow she naughty, she must be so horny and wild! What else does she have to say. Since its not everyday a beautiful woman says this. In real life most guys aren't afraid to show they are horny. Although I don't see or hear woman express or show this much. Although these ads may seem to draw more attention I wonder if it draws more actual calls. For me personally I like to please a woman but seeing this ad may add more pressure into can I satisfy her? Also I'm not always into just raw dirty sex I want a sweet sensual time too sometimes so this may turn me off as well thinking she doesn't want this. I must say I really love ready creative ads. I read these ads all the time even when I'm not looking for an encounter. IMO the best ads to attract a client is the ones that give off the a bit on sense of personality. Then again I like to connect with the lady.

Having to stop in the middle of the road to let a family of geese cross the road, the baby one were so small and cute.

Funny you should mention this cause recently I had a similar situation were I was stiffed I completed a job for a lady and now she find it to expensive and want a discount.

I use to have a similar problem. I was on a certain prescription anti depressant which made in nearly impossible to achieve orgasm. Although the sexual desire was still there in full force. Truly a frustrating situation but what I leaned is I figured out what was the best sex for me was. I found that for me sex is about emotion just as much as the physical part. I needed to feel the passion. I even had a threesome with 2 very beautiful ladies but still could go because it was to pse, it was just raw sex without feeling any sexual emotion. If by chance you are taking some sort of medication that can cause this speak to your doctor he may be able to try a different type. Other than that you can try certain lubes like fire or ice to help add pleasure. Maybe a sex you if your interested in that sort of thing. Definitely try not to masturbate a few days and build it up. Best of luck

I apologize for this rant but I got to get it out. I was so upset and yet, I couldn't say anything without revelling my secret. I was driving with a full vehicle filled with my wife and in-laws. I'm not sure how the topic or conversation began but my wife said to her brother that he needed to get laid since he hadn't had sex in over a year and a half. Which I found hypocritical by her since she hasn't touched me in almost a year. Whatever I kept my mouth shut not to cause an argument. Then someone mentioned we should go to the strippers, then someone as a joke said will hire him a sp. well this is when the topic changed from how dirty and discussing this woman where. I immediately was offended by this false statement. I'm sorry but they woman who I've seen are way cleaner than his ex girlfriend. He had unprotected sex with his ex girlfriend while she was cheating and still had another boyfriend and the eventually did the same to him. I mean to have two kids both because you couldn't put a condom on what make you think she didn't do the same with the other boyfriends? Then to say he doesn't want pussy that everyone else had. Well by this point I was fuming because I couldn't say a word without looking to suspicious. Then someone mentioned std, so I though here my chance to ease the subject. This is where I said that is what condoms are for. It didn't help much as I was listening to all this negative remarks about some of the most wonderful ladies I've meet. So the only thing I could think if as no one was looking I braced my self and hit the brakes slightly hard swerving at the same time and made up a story of how this animal just darted across the road. I felt so bad not being able to say something. I would like to apologize to any lady that may of been offended. At the same time I've come to realize that it must really be hard for you lady to hear such bs and rude comments. This must happen frequently and I am truly sorry that people can judge you like this, especially from jerks who don't even know the precaution you girls take and the amount of time and effort you take to be clean for us gentleman. I am sorry all I could do was bite my tongue and couldn't defend you, without drawing to much suspicion to my secret. You woman are strong and please don't let any narrow minded persons get you down.

If understanding your needs or desire and taking the courage to do something about it is shameful then I don't know what isn't? The only person that can make you feel ashamed is yourself, because what other people may think, shouldn't matter. This is your life and you decide what you want to do.

For me it depends a lot on the mood I'm in. Sometimes I just want it sweet and passionate. Sometime I just need to be held, or other time I may just want the greatest orgasm ever. I also like to try new things. Not really into fetishes much but I do enjoy learning about.

I think I should explain a bit better. Its one thing to be a gentleman or romantic but I've see those that change there like and interest completely when their SO is around. me personally I don't care if you've got different opinions or ideas than me, be yourself, be comfortable for who you are. I've got 4 brother in-laws and I've known them for 15 years some for longer since we were friends before. An example I'm giving is when they meet a woman, their interest and normal behavior change completely. I understand that people change a little but what I don't comprehend is it is only around them that this happens. which make me wonder do these woman even know who they are dating. I often feel bad for these woman because its almost as if they never get to meet the person I've known for so long. I have one brother in law who loves to tell joke and be a goofball and make people laugh but when we is around his wife he is totally different as if he is afraid to show her, his true self. So I was wondering if this is common practice amongst other men? even if woman do this with there SO? Me personally I'm not going to change who I am for a woman or anybody else. Pretend to have the same interest, likes or unlikes doesn't mean we cant discuss them or do certain things. lets pretend my SO wanted to go to the ballet because she enjoys it. I would certainly go with her not to pretend to enjoy ballet or pretend I have an interest in it as her. I would go because I love her and to accompany her. ladies what would you prefer him lying about liking it, or him going because he want to go to be with you? I suppose either way he doing it for you, the question I suppose would be, do you want him to be honest about it?

As someone who has experienced both, I must say there is a huge difference in service and atmosphere. when I see an RMT it is for relieving tense muscle and aches due to stress or physically abusing myself with laboursome work. I often come out even more sore than when I came in but the mobility is gained. Its very professional done and I cannot understand how someone could get confused or just ignorant and behave in a sexual manor when there is nothing sexual about it. now when attending a spa who provides this sexual encounter it may have a lot of therapeutic effects but (no offence to the ladies) the massage is not the same. yes its relaxing and loosens the muscle a bit but not nearly as much as an RMT. however they sure know how to make me rise if you know what I mean. I guess what I'm trying to say is they provide two separate services and one should never be confused by the other. I think some people may of watched one too many porn movies. It is sad to say but perhaps RMT may need to voice record their session in order to protect themselves. This could even be used as evidence when some horny prick decide to sexually assault by make this types of propositions. great point cyclo!

It's not that bad, you're hotter in the bedroom:) Additional Comments: Lmao! sorry Joyful but I have a feeling have the married woman on earth may argue theirs are worse lol. maybe you wife's can organize one for us. lol

I was wondering I've seen lots of guys change when around significant others or just even around a beautiful lady. Their voices become softer and sweeter, even speech pattern changes. Not to mention the amount of bs that comes out. It's one thing to be a gentleman but to change who you are or act like a different person, I don't comprehend the point or purpose. So do you do this? Why? Do you not feel guilty that you are lying to her and yourself? Ladies' what your opinion on this. Do ladies' do this to sometime?

I'm kinda like il re I only have a wedding band. Even though it unique and looks good I cannot wear it most of the time cause of work so I never really growned accustom to it. I'll take it out when I want to remember the good and happy moments we've shared.

Turns out this was just the beginning of things to come. What a 4 hour job tuned into a 8 hour job. One which I had to cut red brick which stained my new white muscle shirt. I don't normally wear my new or good close but since it was going to be so hot I opted to wear it. Not only was my shirt red, my hair looked like Ronald mcfucking Donald and I looked like a boiled lobster with all the red dust. Then when I get home and shower I scribed myself until I screamed and realized underneath the red dust was a bad sunburn on my shoulders.

Great I may never enter a strip club again, in fear of that image occurring!

Pissing off a bee's nest while about 50 feet in the air on a lift and no where to run. Luckily I didn't get stung. Not exactly what I was expecting when I took the vent off.

Well I just jumped up a few more points lol The hilarious part is someone got there music on and this song was playing. Lmao

It seem like there is alot of mixed opinion on here both from providers and gentleman. I would do it myself but no clue how, especially on an iphone perhaps some one could set up a poll and we could see where majority stands. I would suggest something like this. I am a gentlemen who think its acceptable to negotiate I am a provider who think its acceptable to negotiate I am a gentleman who doesn't think it is appropriate to negotiate I am a provider who doesn't think it is appropriate to negotiate Keepng in mind strictly in this industry. On that note as a person who does small general contracts on the side, I personal do not allow negotiating with prices. Granted its often time + material since my profit is my salary as I do the work myself or with a few helpers. So I don't leave room for negotiation if they believe it to high or unfair they can ask someone else. They may not get better quality of work then again they might. Although I am a liscense and experience tradesman. Where as many people who are cheaper aren't not saying all but some. So lets be adults and put up a vote without resorting to immature bashing wish can offensive and hurtful to some. So who can step up and create a poll!

I know you say not to questions anybody's intelligence but, you one smart pussy cat:) well said!

I honestly carry a travel pack with me in my vehicle so right before I go up I use it. But then again I'm usually breathless when they open the door lol!

Does number 3 come after number 2 before you get dressed?

A nice refreshing ice cold drink, daiquiri perhaps smoothies with crushed ice are some of my fav's.

Why stop at the chest when you could use them on the nipples:)