Fresh start

Lying in bed hoping cerb might help me fall asleep:( Not really working! Maybe I should try Cleo method:) That why you don't wait until you have no more clothes before doing laundry;) lol

That can be arranged what time you going to bed, I'll call you:) Lmao!

The sound of her breathing softly as her breath hits the back of my neck with her arms around me. But since I sleep alone well sometimes my dog sleeps with me I hear her snore its kinda cute and funny.

I'm like a kid toys are fun to play with haha. A few years back me and my wife at time tried to spice it up with toys we've tried cock rings which was for her pleasure the tried vibrating cock rings which was very effective then we tried the we vibe which was ok depending on what position we were in cause wrong position would be hard on the pelvic area and for me it sometime hurt if it wasn't lined up but it also seem to depend on my wife's mood also. As for woman's toy I like anything that the woman gets off on haha. For myself I must say after having a wonderful lady treat me to a prostate massage well holy fuck did it ever intensify my orgasm. So I went out and bought a vibrating one. Being a guy I figured hey if it does the work for me the better. Turned out to be not the greatest choice. I eventualy did a bit of researche and bought a new one better made and formed properly to hit the prostate and it works wonders. May have to repaint the ceiling lol jk!

So it doesn't bother or effect you if I clients goes somewhere else? I assumed the loss of client or potential income would upset or disappoint some. For those I take a break from and enjoyed our time together I certainly do plan on returning but stepping back provides necessary time to not become attached. I believe it unfair for me or the provider to become attached to someone when the feelings aren't mutual.

My advice to you is find an sp you like and ask her to take the lead. Like Cleo said all sp should be good but you must let them know. Maybe even tell them what you like. Also both peachy and Cleo will make you fell comfortable they are both sweethearts.

I know some guys want variety or enjoy sleeping with many different woman but I have my own reason. This is something I've felt conscious about for a long time now. I enjoy seeing the same woman several times but I always tend to see someone else in fear and to prevent myself of getting to attached. I mean some to me have gone beyond a sp/client relationship. I feel that I can discuss anything with them, some offered valued advice in time of need. I must admit before cerb I had fallen for one who may have led me on to much but still it happened and being so vulnerable at the time I was devastated, so I tend to back away before any feelings develop. I do feel a slight guilt that I'm betraying the woman I've seen by seeing someone different, which I understand this is supposed to be no strings attached and I know and doesn't bother me in the slightest that they are not exclusive and it is their job. When asked for a reference I feel bad giving a name, like how is the lady going to feel about giving a reference about me? How about you why do you see different woman. Ladies does this bother you? Does this make you think any less of yourself?

Just wanted to remind everybody with the hot days we've been having its not acceptable to leave pets, babies or even helpless elderly in a car while you run errands. Leaving a small crack in the window doesn't allow sufficient air circulation to keep it cool enough to stay in a car for long periods of time with out a/c. Yesterday I went to The hardware store and some inconsiderate person left there dog in the car with a crack in the window. So when I got in the store I kindly asked a clerk if they could kindly make an announcement over the intercom. The girl wasn't sure she could do that so she contacted her manager meanwhile I continued on my way to pick up what I needed. I was about 15-20min in the store never heard an announcement. So when I arrived back outside the dog was still in the car. I noticed that the door was left unlocked and I opened the door then proceeded to tie the dog to the vehicle and gave it some water and left a note on the windshield of the car. I stated if you hadn't left your door unlocked I would have left you a Brocken window instead of this reminder not to leave your dog inside a car on a hot sunny day. I heard on the news that in ottawa you can contact the animal humane society and they would come and help the animal. Since I was on the Quebec side I wasn't sure who to call and beside how long would it of taken them so I took matters in my own hands. Probably wasn't the best idea since the owner could have came out causing a confrontation which for me, I try to avoid those type of situation but I did what I thought was the best idea at that time.

So I saw now you see me last night in theatres and must say I really enjoyed it. Lots of twist, some witty one liners and sarcastic jokes. Well worth seeing!

Thanks for all your input guys and ladies, I must admit I've learned something today. I was under the assumption that the whole cumshot was just hyped up in porno and some woman do enjoy it. I was under the impression it was all part of the fantasy. Thanks:) Now is there something specific you like about it, I'm sure guys may have there own different body reactions beside cumming during orgasm? In my experience, I've found that when someone else is in control of my orgasm its much more intense especially after I cum and they don't stop right away they go on a few seconds afterwards. Rather than me controlling it I stop after orgasm and when I can't take it no more.

Think its safe to say almost all men love seeing a lady during orgasm. Whether watching her moan and squirm, even some who squirt. So I've never that of it the other way, understanding give a man an orgasm is usually part of the job but is this a turn on? What do you woman like about? I've been reading some of the threads on here cof/cob/cim and understand that some men enjoy this. I personally never done intentionally done that. Do woman enjoy this or is it more of a tolerance and allow this to please the man? What's your thoughts?

This is a hard one, I really appreciate both. Clothes leaves a lot to the imagination, and when done right its extremely sexy. It's a big turn on. Although, when they are less dress it show me what I'm missing hehe. I think one of the my biggest turn on is the smile on a lady. I understand for privacy reason it's hard to be able to just show a smile cause it can give away one identity but its so beautiful. I also think eyes can be so alluring. So clothed or not they each got there perks.

Technology today had changed a lot in the past couple of decades. Most of us have growned dependant to it some probably couldn't live without. Wether its computer, cell phones, other electronics, cosmetics anything you can't live without what is it? Personally my iphone would be one of those things. Use for work Email Internet Main way I go on cerb. Banking As dumb as it sounds my heated/cooling leather car seats. First vehicle I've had that had them but I absolutely love it. No more frozen ass cheeks in the winter or burnt legs or other skin in the summer. What's yours?

Woke up this morning and had freshly homemade blueberry and raspberry pancakes my favourite with some fresh fruit Mmm was so good.

I thought it could be funny or entertaining if we shared locations were we had or attempted to have sex thinking it was a good idea but didn't really turn out too well. For example I once was with a woman in a steamy hot tub. We started making out and then decided to have sex. Boy that was a mistake, after a while I got so hot from all the heat and movement I got light headed and almost passed out. I kinda fell back almost hitting my head on the side of the tube. Another time I was skinny dipping with a woman in the lake at the cottage when other people arrived well we stayed almost 1h 1/2 in the water naked before they left and we could quickly get out and grab our clothes. Needless to say by that time I was lucky I could still find my penis I was so cold.

Let me see if I understand. Sex is a positive energy and my cock is often firm so does that qualify as a firm believer in positive energy? Cause maybe I should listen to that head more often:) lol

My sincere sympathy, I know the feeling. I hope you someday soon you'll find the right person to mend that heart back together again. In the mean time try to do thing you enjoy, pamper yourself. Oh and chocolate ice cream hmmm.

Let me know which beach you go to, sex on the beach sounds like fun! Although I may have to put some sun screen on my bum it could be fun you do me I do you. Hehe I do enjoy summer it always seems to brighten the mood a bit seeing a nice beautiful day and the sun shinning. I love swimming and camping, hopefully will get a chance to do more of that this year around. Oh I also love jet skiing so much fun. Only thing I dislike about summer is working outside when its too hot.

Laying in bed rubbing my wiener, so long and warm you just want to cuddle with it. Geeez, stop the dirty thoughts I'm talking about my wiener dog she my little baby.

Ok ladies fair warning if this is how you answer the door all bets are off I'm getting the hell outa there. Guys I don't recommend you do this either. http://m.youtube.com/#/watch?v=xUjR3OcPyM4&desktop_uri=%2Fwatch%3Fv%3DxUjR3OcPyM4

Forgot to mention the best part of woman havin tattoo is you can stare at them all you want and say you were just looking at her tattoo without appearing to be a perv. Haha!

Oh yes I love it when the ladies legs are wrapped around me:) especially during orgasm Mmm!

That a hard one, it really depends on the mood I'm in, also the style of sex we're having. If we're in a steamy passionate mood and can't stop making out I enjoy missionary. But it also depends on the lady cause lets face nothing more sexy than hearing her scream my name with a sexy accent! Lol ok now I may be dreaming, but I do enjoy it much more when the lady is enjoyer herself.

I want to thank you all for your advice and support its really appreciated. Even though I've exhausted most of my options, call me naive but I still have hope. Talking to her and explaining how I feel was one of the first things I've tried. Not sure if her sickness has diminished her comprehension or caring. Unfortunately it has changed her to the point where she is almost a different person. As for couples therapy it has help me be more understanding and forgiving towards her but unfortunately it requires both of our efforts and to no avail wether its due to her sickness she cannot seem to commit and to learn to forgive and forget the painful memories we share. The loss of an unborn child and to abort a second due to her unknown illness has been tough on the both of us but I think perhaps she is not healed from that yet and the fact her illness is still unknown. My biggest help through this ordeal has been therapy by a professional and hobbying. Not sure which has been more costly but both equally important in getting through. So many benefits in this hobby, mind, body and spirit. I get the touching, caressing and intimacy I need which help wonders mentally. Lets face orgasm is awesome and great for the body and spirit. It's just too bad only one is covered by insurance and is tax deductible. Thanks you ladies you make my life that much easier and better without these key components I would be able to cope. Forever great full

I never disliked a woman with tattoo but was a little intimidated by the one with lots of ink. Not sure why that was but it all changed when I meet one of the sweetest and nicest woman, who wore her ink proudly. She was a puuurfect kitty cat. ;) As for the tattoo its awesome to look at and explore the details in person hehe