Fresh start

To some like me age is just another number. Over the years I've notice that for some age seems to determine the value of respect you get. When I was a young boy my aunt would always say respect your elders which was good but I believe it is a two way street. Being only in my late 20 I am still young but I look even younger, I don't mind this at all and find it amusing at times. I often find myself treated differently because of it. A few examples are I often get under estimated. Being young and in charge of people who are older than I often creates a friction, they think I don't know anything but truth be told I would not be where I am if I didn't. Because I'm young often people try to lie or bullshit me which I find disrespectful, as a foreman subcontractor often argue to get out of work saying its not their job but when my boss is around a whole different story. When I went to buy my first car and in my name the seller was trying to sell me a used car when I wanted a new vehicle. He kept insisting for a person my age the best thing for me was a used car for my credit. Well last I checked the financing company does the credit check not this shmuck. What annoy me is when I often hear me young guys don't want to work, well excuse me but I work just as hard as them if not harder. Another saying that gets real old real fast it "when I was your age it was harder you're lucky" often referring to my salary which fine yes it is much higher then it was 25-30 years ago but so is cost of living. Food, gas, housing market all much higher than it was before heck I'm sure sp charged less. I understand time changes and things are different but does that really make anybody a betters or worse person cause of it? We should treat each other with the same amount of respect. Not judge by how young they look or anyway for that matter. Just like the saying goes never judge a book by its cover. I'm sure everyone has been guilty of this sometime in their lives. I remember my first cerb provider, i almost didn't meet her cause of her tattoo, was a little intimidating but she was very pretty. Thankfully I did cause she was so nice and friendly and I really enjoyed her company. Lesson learned, thanks Cleo. How does your looks affect what people think of you, I sure you've got at least a few stories.

I'm not sure what these google glasses look like or if they are easily identifiable but that just mean I get to hold their hand once I walk through the door and take of my glasses. Well I'm not that blind yet but could be a pain since I like to see clearly the person I'm with.

Myself I prefer that the person I'm with is honest it make a for a better time. When I say honest I mean they don't have to lie. For example if they enjoy something or not, doesn't it make it better if they are honest and tell you. If we start chatting I hope they are honest but hey I don't know I'm no mind reader. Being honest doesn't mean they have to disclose everything. If there uncomfortable or don't want to talk or do something just say so it won't hurt my feelings, I'm terrible at reading people so I prefer honesty. I can see thought some who prefer it the other way around. Like Cleo Catra said some client might not want to hear her problem, they just want to escape reality into their own fantasy. That totally in the hands of a provider, personal I would be more than happy to listen and offer my advice, but that just me. When it come to their ads I would hope what they say is honestly a reflection of themselves. Same goes for how the portray themselves but that a two way street, as a client I should be honest if the lady has questions for me. If a subject become to personal and feel like I don't want to talk about I'd just say it, what would be the point of lying.

Imo if one would start to become jealous that must mean there is an emotional attachment somehow. It may be time to re evaluate your situation. I know personal I like to see few providers which make more of a connection but if I feel that I am getting to attached I'll step back and see someone else for a while. why get emotionally attached if you know its not going to work, chances are someone just going to get hurt.

As embarrassing as this was for me I'll share a similar story which happened to me. A few years ago I hurt my bag at work and was on some medication and one of the side effect was it gave me a lot of gas. So I was at physiotherapy, with might I and I had a very hot physiotherapist. I was holding it in during the session, but the she did this move were applied to much pressure on my abdomen which cause me to let one out. Man I think my face turned red as a tomato, I was so embarrassed. Thankful I apologize and she was just laughing. Also I've been told woman don't fart they fluff.

A thank you note, Especially when you least expect it.

Now if only I can convince my insurance company that this is healing and no different than seeing a Rmt or other alternative healing specialist. Maybe they would cover it haha. Better yet if the government recognized it and became a tax write off lol. Think I'm dreaming too much.

Before my grandmother passed I couldn't get enough of here baking omg it didn't matter what she made I loved it especially her fresh out of the oven apple pie or her lemon cake I swear I can eat the whole damn things. Since I don't eat much sweets anymore I still like the occasional chocolate, plain milk chocolate. M&m are good to. Freshly baked chewy cookies I can't resist a nice fresh BBQ steak if I'm a restaurant and can smell it mmm I'll order that. Does woman count lol!

As some who has had several anxiety attacks do to severe stress/worries I've learned a few simple things that helped me. Talk about it with someone. If you get to flustered with to many thought due to worrying trying writing it down. Make a list of different outcomes pro/con Try and take a break and get your mind thinking about something else. By doing something you really enjoy. Exercise is really good keeps the body from getting to tense and also send endorphin to the brain which help relieve stress. Go to bed start fresh the next day. Stop and get in touch of your body what are you feeling. Are you breathing regularly? Take deep breaths. These are some technique I've used and it help me.

My dog has an underwear fetish so be carful ladies lol. No but seriously the little brat will pick up any clothes especially my underwear wihile I'm taking a shower. He loves it when I have to chase him around the living room to get them back. Not sure my neighbours like it too much when I forget the curtains are open and all they see is me naked running around. Don't bother giving him shit cause he'll just run up to you and give you his sad puppy dog face and then he will give you a hug. Yup you heard me my dog give me hugs he runs to my face puts his snout on my neck and then rest his head for a second or two on my shoulder then he starts licking my face. Of course I can't stay mad at him the big suck knows it.

Knowing I made someone else laugh, smile or even brightening their day up!

Sorry this sounds intriguing but I have no clue what this is. Could someone explain?

To be honest its usually a 50/50 it depends what it is. If she changes a hairstyle I usually notice. It has to be something out of the ordinary. If she were to get her nails done weekly I probably wouldn't notice it. I do try my best to notice cause it seem to be meaningful to the woman.

I like all sort of accents. But I must confess I'm fairly bilingual French/English so on a few occasion I've met French woman and don't tell them I can speak French just to listen to their sexy accent:) it's not my fault they don't ask lol!

I felt the same way, hence my cerb name. That feeling of emptiness would just get worse and worse, eating everything inside. You are a stronger man than me, to go so long with that emptiness inside you. A combination of loss after loss and that emptiness inside building up left me severely depressed and suicidal. With professional help I learn to get over the grief and came to realize that the emptiness was a lack of intimacy. Companion is the right word cause to be honest sex had nothing to do with it. Guys may think I'm insane but I've had wild threesomes and nothing felt the same. Only real relief is when it's intimate and meaningful to me, did it ever help. To confess I've been on dates just to be held and to connect. For that I used to be a shame, but not anymore, why should I be ashamed for something I need to live? So your not alone feeling empty, and stay strong there is nothing worse than to watch someone die slowly, just cherish every moment like it may be their last.

My dear this is definitely not something to be ashamed of. To do what you do to support you and your child and to be able to spend time and have a good relationship with her. This tell me you are a great mom better than most I've seen and there is no one who can says otherwise without lying through their teeth.

Lol at least sp are honest about screwing you, and you leave happy.

I cannot seem to figure out how to take certain quotes on an iPhone so please bare with me. Samantha thank you so much for sharing a side I could not. I agree, the path leading to this industry can taint one decision to become a provider. Also yes this choice of career has its challenges and is often a short career which can take a toll on a woman. I too would like anyone getting into the industry understand the risks challenges and what it takes. Like almost any career choice you should take the time to fully understand what you are about to embark into. For sure, you cannot predict what will happen, but I would definitely suggest they consult a well established person like you. For I am only capable of providing moral support and for them to know I accept you no matter what you're career is as long as you stay safe. (Drug free would be stressed a lot by me) no offence to anyone but I'm a firmly against drugs, it changes a person so much. To many others who value discretion, of course being discreet doesn't make it shameful it make our life's easier without having to justify ourself to probably people who could not understand or perhaps simply because you don't want to change your relationship with them. This doesn't make us ashamed, well me I'm not. I do not know what it's like outside this community since I haven't seen many woman. But if this is the best I am very lucky then, cause from those I've met or those I've spoken to online have been nothing less than extraordinary. RG I think my message got cut off but you took the words right out of my mouth I couldn't not of said it better. You don't see it as prostitution, and you seek companionship, I hope there is more gents like us that see it that way. Don't get me wrong I enjoy sex but the company is way more meaningful to me. To the ladies I've seen and know me, you've helped me so much emotional and psychologically and I'm grateful. These woman have been extraordinary, amazingly smart and understanding, there is even one who helped me get through personal issues and has been exceptionally supportive.

As a hobbyist or a provider, in today's society this industry has many bad labels. I have to confess before I decided to enter this so called " immoral, dirty and unsafe" (just a few example of labels) I was on the fence. I made one of the biggest mistake someone can make I assumed that most of the stereotype were true. Over the course of my short time hobbying (about a year) I've growned to realize most of which society says about this industry is false or if there is some truth it in rare occasion. I remember my first incall I went to, I was terrified. I kept thinking it was a trap. Going to get jumped or even arrested. I just didn't know what to expect. In my head I kept thinking this is wrong. Why, probably cause society says it is. After my encounter with my First Lady I started questioning why its wrong. I mean we are both consenting adults. We take precautions for our safety. These providers are probably the cleanest ladies you can meet. Extreamly nice, ordinary regular people like me just trying to make a honest living. I say honest cause lets face it there not hurting anyone, stealing and some even pay taxes. So I don't see the problem. So I started questioning, other stuff I heard and still its all been a load of crap. They sleep with married men, well who fault is that, certainly not theirs, married men do have choices if they can't think for themselves then they shouldn't be married. Crack whores/Drug users (pardon the expression), I'm sure there may be some but I haven't meet any yet. Bottom line they are human people just like us, they're kind,compassionate,understanding. Most I've meet are smarter and more Intelectual than me, well educated. Some are aunts, sisters even mothers. So why is it society has painted them into such a bad picture? One thing I can say for sure is, as long as the woman chose this profession they have my support and respect. They've provided me with certain physical, emotional and mental needs that brought me back to a balanced stable life. I may not go out and tell people that I'm a hobbyist because many would not understand, but I'm can say for sure I'm not ashamed to be a hobbyist. So how about you? Are you ashamed to be a hobbyist or provider? I ask before answering I ask this question, what if your brother or sister or even your son or daughter provided they are of age wanted to become a hobbyist or provider, would you support them? I know I would, if you follow certain safety precautions this is just as safe as most other jobs or hobbies. Thanks for opening my eyes to a different lifestyle.

You're so kind, my favourite quality I see in you. You may have to feed him some chewed up worms. Lol

I understand the point of the thread and it a good one, a good reminder and a subtle way to do so. I guess for me the grey area is, although she didn't name a person but I'm sure that person now knows who they are and may feel ashamed of it and embarrassed. I guess being bullied most of my life I've grown to have a soft spot for people being singled out or bullied. Even though this may not be the case, I feel its fairly close the line. Just for the sake of argument ill play devil advocate, how do we know that this individual doesn't have an underlining medical condition causing him to sweat profoundly. Or maybe severely allergic to deodorant or other product. Someone who is diabetic and has low blood sugar can cause a fruity smell from their breath. There are other medical condition that can cause severe Bo even certain medications. I guess it would be wiser to tell this person privetly, yes the truth can hurt but far less then being embarrassed in front of a group of people, perhaps even friends.

I agree with you, these threads are important. Hygiene is important to be at a high level when visiting a provider. No disrespect and please correct me if I'm wrong, but by stating you personal know and have seen a gentleman in this thread has questionable hygiene, is it not wrong and against this site policies? This person may be offended.

Waking up in the morning with all sore muscle from intense workout last night.

I've been told enough lies in my life that I prefer the truth. I don't see the difference from someone calling me stupid or someone saying I have the biggest dick in the world, they're both bs statements. Honesty is the best compliment you can give me even if its constructive criticism. It's like giving someone false hope. Stick to sincere and honesty for me please much more meaningful. If I want to role play ill ask for that service.

I rarely wear cologne since I wear scented antiperspirant along with scented body wash and clean clothes that usual smell like gain washing soap.(smells amazing). On special occasion I wear Calvin Klein or Swiss army old Christmas gifts that seem to last a lifetime hehe. Although I do remember wearing Swiss army to a rendezvous with a ma once and she couldn't stop sniffing me lol it drove her wild.