I'm throwing this out there cause I don't know what to do. I am currently married 5 years been together for 15years now we were highschool sweethearts, we were each others first. My wife is ill and has been for the last 2 years. We don't know what it is if its curable permanent or if she is dying. All i now that its killing me to watch her suffer and it hasn't gotten better. Now we are no longer intament, sleep in different rooms we don't even cuddle. My dilemma is, do i crush her heart and tell I see sp to satisfy my needs, probably end our marriage, or do I keep it my secret to save her the pain and continue seeing sp?
What would u do if you were me?
If u were my wife would u want to now?
Any advice?