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I’ve been seeing Emily for a few years now. She is absolutely wonderful and I’ve enjoyed every visit with her. She is funny, witty, engaging and quick to laugh. She sets a very relaxing and inviting environment. She is very sexy, very comfortable and confident. Emily always sees to it that I get the most out of our time together be it a bit more calm and relaxed or with higher intensity. I always know in advance that I will have a great time with her. She is always ready on time and greets me with the most inviting smile. Her incall is easy to get to and very private.

If they are well established local providers then they have worked hard at establishing that good reputation and have no interest in losing a reputation that takes a while to get. They are far more interested in protecting themselves then anything else.

I agree that you should find a reputable provider. Read... And reread their webpage. I've found that communicating what you're looking for prior to a first visit can ensure that everyone is on the same page during the visit. Prevents too many ackward moments and disappointments. This may be your first time but they know exactly how to put you at ease and make you feel comfortable! :)

I've seen Jezebel a few times now. Enough times to see a pattern in all my visits. Jezebel always greets me in a very warm, friendly way. She is also always in a great mood and very focused on ensuring that I have a perfect time in her company. I tend to prefer lighthearted fun during my visits and Jezebel's easy going nature makes that possible every time I go see her. As much as her pictures on her website are amazing, she is even sexier in person. Her tall lean body feels incredible, her touch is soft when it needs to be and strong when the mood is more intense. She has an awesome way of being energetic for the more heated moments and being tender and gentle when it's time to relax and bask. I know before arriving that I will have a great time with her. Jezebel is very professional in her communication and setting up a visit with her is always a breeze. She is always ready on time and her incall is modern, clean and easily accessed. I should mention that I am a woman. Clearly Jezebel enjoys female clients and it shows in the things we do together! :) I would definitely say that if a woman is reading this recommendation to consider contacting Jezebel for a visit. You will not regret it! My husband and I have also spent time with Jezebel. She is very confortable with couples. Her playful and relaxed personality sets the tone for a very good time with her. Jezebel makes sure that we get to do all the different things we talk about before meeting. The big grin on my husband's face at the end our visits is a clear indication of the great time he has. We both do! Bottom line, Jezebel is professional, playful and sexy, always in a great mood and very focused on ensuring that I/we have the most enjoyable time with her.

This is the only board I participate in because I do like the tone and civility here. I would like that the recommendations remain the same way. I'm not really interested in reading reviews that are negative and most importantly one-sided. Negative reviews that are only from one side help no one. As a client if I ever had an encounter that was not what I was expecting I would not automatically assume it's the escort fault. Chemistry is not always a given. What works for me in an encounter may not work for another client and vice versa. But I also think that a bit of loosening up of some of the rules would also be perfectly alright. We are all adults here! More nudity or less restrictive use of certain words would be fine by me.

I'm not an SP but rather a female client so I can't help you from your work perspective but I can certainly understand how much of a pain it can be to have PCOS!! My problem is booking a session without knowing if my period will start. I'm now in my late 40s and I must say that my cycles are somewhat more regular but I still have pretty bad pelvic pain. It kind of sucks!

At a personal level he may very well disagree with C-36. But I'm not convinced the Liberals want to bring this up unless they are forced to by a court ruling. The optics of pot and prostitution changes would provide too much "material" for conservative groups in the future... Which is quite frankly sad. :( Many people who don't know about this industry probably lump it all together. They do not see the difference between trafficking, minors, abuse and client/sex worker relationships that many of us know to be wonderful experiences with mutual respect. Many could not ever imagine that a woman would freely choose to work as a sex worker and independently run her business.

I completely agree and feel very strongly that C-36 needs to go but the talk right now is more about pot. Not sure the liberals like the optics of being both pro pot and pro prostitution. I can imagine the ads from the conservatives in the next election.

I'm shy by nature and not at all flirtatious so I tend to not be good at all at staring at men. However, since I discovered (maybe it's more appropriate to say figured out!) that I'm also attracted to women, I've noticed that I'm much better at staring/smiling at women. But never in a creepy weird way of course!

Not sure about the demand for male sex workers. But clearly it's much lower than the demand for women! I'm The only one I know of is Robin Drake who advertises quite abit here.... I can confirm that he's a really great guy! ;)

I use my real name (first and last) as well as my regular cell phone but I do have an email address I only use to communicate with the SP I see. In my case it's not to hid anything from my husband, he knows everything but I'd hate for my kids to grab my phone and see something. I'm a pretty trusting person and I always see the same person, she is established and has a great reputation so for me to tell her my full name and talk about myself is really not a big deal. In the end we both make the choice of revealing what we want to or not to each other. I've also told her some things that I probably would not tell my best girlfriends for fear of being judged by them but yet I'm very comfortable telling her.

I've been seeing Emily on a rather regular and frequent basis for over a year now. I truly have enjoyed every one of my visits with her. Emily is always in a great mood, always warm and always so sexy. On the one hand I really like the familiarity that comes with seeing Emily on a regular basis because she knows me well now and knows the things I like to do during my time with her. There is something I really enjoy about knowing how I will be greeted when Emily answers the door and knowing that I will have a great time with her. I am by nature somewhat shy and reserved when meeting people so I enjoy the relaxed friendliness that comes with regular visits. On the other hand I completely enjoy that we try new things and Emily always keeps it fresh and satisfying. She totally knows how to get things going and certainly knows how to get me going! For me it's the best of both worlds: A friendly, comfortable and carefree visit with a very sexy woman who knows how to make my time with her very hot. I would also add that Emily is very professional and truly provides a safe, judgment free space where it is very easy to forget about the outside world. I certainly intend on continuing my regular visits with Emily.

I wasn't going to answer this question when I read it last night but I feel like I want to now. It's one thing to ask questions like how married clients justify seeing escorts because we answer about ourselves but to ask how to be a good escort smacks of complete arrogance when asked by a client. Of course we all have preferences on physical attributes and type of encounters we like but our preferences do not determine the basis to what constitutes a good escort. The "being a good client" thread is useful, especially to newbies, because it allows us to understand how these types of encounter work. There is not a lot of talk about all of this is the outside world. Knowing how to be good client helps booking time with an escort, which leads to sex and other fun stuff which means that we leave the incall with a big goofy grin of happiness! There are no negative downsides to that! This is a business so obviously good business practices are required to be successful just like any other business but it also a very unique business that involves humans sharing very intimate moments. It's not like ordering a pizza and the mere fact that comparison was made is wrong at many levels. I think that as clients if we do our research and communicate well we will find a good match. There are no contractual agreements here, we can ask to visit again or not ask and the escort can say yes or no. Additional Comments: I wasn't going to answer this question when I read it last night but I feel like I want to now. It's one thing to ask questions like how married clients justify seeing escorts because we answer about ourselves but to ask how to be a good escort smacks of complete arrogance when asked by a client. Of course we all have preferences on physical attributes and type of encounters we like but our preferences do not determine the basis to what constitutes a good escort. The "being a good client" thread is useful, especially to newbies, because it allows us to understand how these types of encounter work. There is not a lot of talk about all of this is the outside world. Knowing how to be good client helps booking time with an escort, which leads to sex and other fun stuff which means that we leave the incall with a big goofy grin of happiness! There are no negative downsides to that! This is a business so obviously good business practices are required to be successful just like any other business but it also a very unique business that involves humans sharing very intimate moments. It's not like ordering a pizza and the mere fact that you even said that is wrong at so many levels. I think that as clients if we do our research and communicate well we will find a good match. There are no contractual agreements here, we can ask to visit again or not ask and the escort can say yes or no.

Interesting topic. :) Up until my 40s I didn't think of myself a bi or bi curious. I went to an all girls high school and can't recall being attracted or curious about other girls, not even in the gym locker! I do remember having many dreams about having sex with women during both my pregnancies but I chalked that up to crazy pregnancy hormones. In my 40s the thought of being with a woman started to pop up in my head much more. At first it was here and there but that increased with time. It was also kind of fun because I would tell my husband some "stories" about being with a woman... He really liked story time! As the thoughts became more frequent I also became more miserable. I kept thinking that I was missing out on something important. Now that I see an escort on a regular basis I'm far happier in my head and I figured things out for myself. I really have no desire to be in love with a woman but I am clearly very attracted to a woman's body. My biggest problem now is that I'm so much happier knowing who I am but I can't really talk about it because I'm not sure most of my friends would accept that I see an escort.

I believe that sex is a need not a want. In a very basic way we need sex to survive as a species, we all come from sex. It is a need just like breathing and eating, granted we can survive way longer without sex than oxygen. You may not die from not having sex but I think that for many people not having sexual release or intimate physical contact with another person would negatively affect them. Celibacy is not a natural state for humans. Catholic priest have struggled with this. I'm pretty sure that all priests that have had sex with young boys knew very well that what they were doing was wrong at many levels but the urges were too strong. I know that we are talking about sex not masturbation here but I sometimes read the no fapping thread on Reddit. I can't understand why (mostly) young men would take on the challenge to not masturbate. For many they can do it for 6-7 days then can't take it anymore and feel awful that they have failed. Start again and fail again. Not sure how good that it for self esteem. Of course you'd be horny even if there were no women in the world. Heterosexual men in prisons have no contact with women and engage in sex with other inmates. They probably would never have considered sex with a man in the outside world but prison doesn't take away the need for sex or physical contact. So if no women were around men would never wake up with "morning wood"? That would be sad! ;) On a side note, you make many reference to men, I get it, you're a guy but don't forget that women are sexual too. :) We get horny, we masturbate and we want sex because we are human.

But is it wrong ...I go by the premise that there is the reasonable expectation that a marriage involves sex. If a person is not getting sex at home then seeing an escort is probably a very valid way of having sex. No commitment, no emotions but sexual satisfaction. I think that is better than become frustrated and resentful of a spouse for no longer having the same level of needs.

The passionate "I may die if I don't have sex with you right now" early phase of a relationship is wonderful but not sustainable. Later It becomes the " I'm tired and not necessarily horny but grandma took the kids to lunch at McDonald's" phase and that is where couples need to make decisions about their sex life. If too many small opportunities are not use to have sex it may be hard to get that back with time. Just my 2 cents!

I am very comfortable with my husband seeing an SP precisely because rules are in place and emotional attachment is not involved. We currently go see an escort together but I have no problems with him seeing her, or even someone else, without me. It's sex not love! He tells me that right now he doesn't want to but that may change in the future and if it does it's ok!

Although at first I was the only one visiting her we do now see her (and her male partner) on a fairly regular basis. It was not part of the original plan but we both enjoy it very much. I quite enjoy seeing my husband with her and because I know the boundaries that come with seeing an escort, I'm not at all worried that this will go further. She is not a threat to my relationship with my husband because it is purely physical and not emotional. I love when he tells me how good it felt or how sexy he finds her. Keeping a sex life active and fresh after many years is one of the toughest things to do in a relationship... Seeing them actually helps us keep it fresh. It may seem odd or even completely baffling to some but I feel emotionally closer to my husband after he has been with her. You may be young but you've made me think about things ;). I've never really thought about it but I'm not sure that in all cases seeing an escort is infidelity. Some men are lazy at working on their marriage, 3 hockey leagues a week and not doing your family chores is not conducive to maintaining a healthy sex life with a tired partner. Those men may complain that "the wife" doesn't like sex or that the worse thing for a sex life is marriage when in reality they just need to step up, do their share and be there. I would have far less sympathy if that man decided to see an escort. But I also happen to believe that in a marriage there is a reasonable expectation that sex will be a part of the equation. There are many very good, loving and caring husbands out there that are not getting what they need sex wise from their wives. I know many women in their 40s and 50s that have lost interest in sex. It almost becomes a chore. It is no longer important to them. Having different sex drives is quite hard on a relationship as it can easily lead to frustration and resentment. Also, what if a man had a particular "thing" he really wants to try but knows that his wife wants nothing to do with that. He brings it up casually and quickly realizes that she thinks that it's not "normal", or it's gross. This can easily start consuming this man's thoughts. This is what was happening to me. I kept thinking about being with a woman and it was always on my mind. I'm not sure that in these cases seeing an escort is infidelity. Perhaps getting his physical needs met elsewhere makes him more happy on the home front. Sex and love are 2 very different things. You're right that human are fallible and the lines can get murky. I guess I've never really thought about it for myself. To me it is very very clear in my head. Seeing an escort is never about love. Of course because we are not emotionless robots I do care for her and I hope she is happy in her work life and personal life. I think that if a person seeing an escort develops more feelings they should probably step back and reevaluate the situation.

In my case it's a bit different than others on this board. I'm a woman seeing a female escort. I discovered in my 40s that I wanted to experience being with a woman. I have no desire to be in love with a woman but I wanted to experience sex with a woman. I've been with my husband for almost 30 years and I'm still very much in love with him but obviously he wasn't able to satisfy the curiosity I had to be with a woman! I tell him every time I go visit her. He is very happy that I'm fulfilling this need I have in a way that is not threatening to our relationship. He also very much enjoys when I tell him all the details after! Obviously every relationship is unique but what I do know is that every relationship is work. Work and family pressure, kids, aging parents. It all adds up. I'm pretty sure that many relationships have been saved by a man visiting an escort. Spouses can certainly remain in love and care very much for each other but have different views on the frequency or type of sex they want to have. In my view seeing an escort is better for the relationship than having an affair where emotions can develop, jealousy can cause problems. I'm not sure that the majority of women see it my way. At least not the women of my generation and older. Just my 2 cents!

I tend to be very punctual and aware of time in my daily life. I always see the same escort and book for the same amount of time. At first I always checked the clock to make sure I did not exceed my time. I guess I wanted her to know that I respected her time. After talking about how it stressed me to check the clock we decided that she would keep track of time and let me know when it was almost up. Not managing time makes for a much more enjoyable visit for me. I still check once in a while... It's my nature! I'm just curious to know if, inmost cases, is it the client or the escort that keeps track of time?

I can totally relate! I decided to book a hotel for my first visit. I am a woman seeing a female escort. My first time with an escort was also my first time with a woman which was stressful enough for me that I felt that going to a hotel was better than adding the stress of going to her incall. The 2nd time I saw her was at her incall but I was far less nervous so it was fine. Now I always go to the incall.

I think the first time I got a hug without a kiss. I was nervous so I can't completely recall. I do know that I did not initiate the hug but It did put me at ease and relax abit. Now that I visit regularly we always hug and kiss when I arrive. Also a hug and kiss at the end. A handshake would seem too cold.

Hi, I'm not sure if this is what you're thinking about but Sweet Emily J and her partner Robin work as a couple and offer MMFF sessions. They are both very nice, laid back and very professional. Emily is also perfect if your girlfriend doesn't have any experience with another woman because she has a great ability to make you feel very comfortable and relaxed. I've seen Emily many times alone and my husband and I have seen Emily and Robin many times, we always have a great time with them.