Kilt Boy

Here is an example from a dancer's perspective. This came up when I was discussing the topic with her. She was having a disagreement with a customer, so went to the woman at the desk to see how much time had elapsed. She said that her client claimed 3 songs, but she counted 4. She was told, "If you say it's 4, then it's 4." Even SHE was shocked by that attitude. However, she isn't a scammer. I suppose I understand how that works. If there is a paywall to even get upstairs that serves no purpose other than to extract money, then anyone else who is up there to make money will be given the benefit of the doubt. Otherwise, it hurts the business model. I mean, they obviously aren't taking $5 from me to help me out. I know that FOR SURE now.

I heard from a dancer that duos have been banned, at least for a while. Too many instances of patrons getting ripped off and management is tired of dealing with it.

Well, it's a mixed bag of good and bad. I'm not going to make the determination for you of what is good and what is bad. If you're shy, you wouldn't be wearing one to begin with. Every girl in the place is going to ask if you're wearing underwear. Come up with a clever comeback. The other patrons will think you're a little bit weird and that the only reason you're wearing it is for the easy access. They'll be wishing that they'd thought of that. Speaking of easy access, it is certainly true. I've spoken privately with some close friends about particular dancers and have found that the curiosity factor is often enough to get more action/activity than they have experienced. When alone in a booth, the dancer will more often than not ask questions about your chosen style of dress, ask if she can take a peek, or simply slip a hand or two up along your thighs to check for herself. I'll leave it to you how things progress after that. I'm no more attractive than other men in a strip club. It isn't because of the money because I've never tipped more than normal for any kind of additional attention. The kilt excites some girls a bit more. Having said that, sometimes things go too far. I have a line, and I know when and how to stop without hurting anyone's feelings. Just know that things can escalate very quickly with a naked and/or determined woman with only a thin layer of fabric between you. I've had to deal with many awkward situations where I've been offered certain activities or favours and had to turn them down. Some began without consent, mostly because it's all just right there. NOTE: You will likely be wearing a great big belt buckle with this thing. You can always twist the whole arrangement halfway around to make things more comfortable for her. It will also snag on fishnets and some other lacy materials. Safety first. Going on stage is not usually encouraged by the other patrons. I still remember the day one of my regulars exposed me to one whole side of the bar. She thought it was funny. Keep in mind that the guys in the club don't really care to see your junk, for the most part. The following warning is the real reason for writing this: Recently I was in a booth with a lovely young woman and things were progressing normally. She was facing away from me, twerking her sizable ass around in a very enticing manner. I had my arms up against the back of the booth and my head thrown back, just enjoying the feeling. Neither of us noticed that her activity had pushed my kilt up out of the way and when she sat down on my lap and started grinding, well it was a very near thing. We both noticed at the same time that something wasn't quite right and she froze in place. I gently grabbed her hips and slowly pushed her up and away from me as I slid back onto the bench. We both knew that it was simply a mistake, but we were done for the night.

Mark has finally retired as the lunchtime chef and his replacement Antonio started this week. I have not been impressed with the quality or portion sizes. I've never liked to see a big tub of french fries that are going to sit around for hours. Also, there is no ketchup. The side dishes are all about the same. I went across the street to pick up Indian food today instead. Sometimes free just isn't worth it. Maybe things will change. I guess time will tell.

You know you're a regular when a dancer tells you the details of her sex life and at what point she thought of you!

You know you're a regular when a gaggle of girls invite you to go to the deserted second stage to critique their new pole tricks because they'd rather be with you than sitting alone being ignored by the three old pervs on the floor.

I guess that with the few number of votes, this poll is pretty meaningless. HOWEVER, we do have a winner to announce. The best dancer of 2019 award goes to: COOKIE at Pigale's Go enjoy her every opportunity you have. You will not be disappointed. Please go see ANY/ALL of these ladies and mention that you saw her name in this list. Maybe we can get some more girls online. Go out to the clubs more often if you can. This time of year is the hardest. They've made it through Stacktember, Stacktober, Stackvember, and Stackcember when they mean to put it away for a long, cold winter. It doesn't have to be that way. Go down and warm up a girl on your lap for a while. If you want them to stick around, they need to survive.

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My god, it's just a money grabbing machine at night. One girl stopped me in an aisle and started to talk to me. After half a sentence, she told me that I'd have to tip her to continue talking. I laughed in her face and went back to a table of girls who were waiting for me. I paid the $5 fee to get upstairs and had the girls rotate in one after another. When management figured out what was going on, they tried to put a stop to it. I said, "fuck that" and left. They weren't even continuing the pretence of recording the booth and time. If the girl at the desk was missing, pay the DJ. They just want the money. A couple of girls were disappointed because a stupid $5 fee cost them a hundred dollars or more each. They said they'd pay the fee, but that wasn't the point of the exercise. I guess it'll be Pigale's or Playmate if I'm out late.

Drink prices have increased again. It is now $10 for a pitcher of domestic beer. It's $12 at Pigale's, but I think they might be a little bit bigger, too.

I kind of have to agree with Cookie of Pigale's on this list. I've experienced her a couple of times, and she is a real firecracker. Carmella at BF is going to be my second entry. I've said it before, that she is simply perfect: looks, attitude, performance. I know a lot of ladies who are good dancers and have become really good friends. It's hard to separate that from what I consider a good dancer. My last addition is going to have to be Seven from BF. She is a lot of fun up close and personal, and she just stuns me when on stage.

Tease became Casino Cabaret. It may not all have happened in the last year, but certainly since the last time we had a vote.

We didn't do this last year and a lot has changed in the landscape in the intervening period. 2 clubs have closed, one has burnt down and been rebuilt. Lots of dancers have moved on and new ones emerged. Please put in your vote(s) here for the best dancer in the last year. Note the club she works at, or the club you see her at the most. Feel free to discuss your choices. The criteria for your choices are up to you. Maximum of 3 votes. If you put in more, only the top 3 are counted. I'll give this a couple of weeks and tally up the results on January 12th.

Carmella seems to start later in the day, 4-5. Destiny has been pretty regular during the day lately, and Cindy just started so it's hard to say. Daytime so far. These are all weekday sightings, as well.

A new young woman on the scene is Cindy. She is very slim and has a pixie grin that made me melt. She is about a month into the business and has a very good head on her shoulders. Very personable and easy to talk to. I found her an enjoyable companion both upstairs and down. I really, really like her and will repeat often. She had a lot of questions about the clubs and dancing in general that I hope I answered fully, and she took my advice and direction readily.

I spent some quality time with a lovely young black girl named Destiny. Classic name. She was smooth in all the right places and really great to talk with. No rush and pleasant. In the CR room, she held my interest for quite a while. Will repeat. I also met up with Camella again. She doesn't talk much, she's too busy. However, she is professional and to the point. She also has a wicked sense of humour. Her ass fits perfectly in my hands. Her breasts, also. She has a tiny little frame (4'10") and her hair is fine and silky. Her skin is perfect with interesting tattoos to enjoy along the way. She is a languid mover and very sensual. Will repeat every chance I get. Perfect.

I'm glad she's leaving, but sorry to see her go. She has been a favourite for many years. We'd discussed her future plans and I hope they all work out for her. DOUBLY sorry to have missed seeing Foxy again.

I saw Carmella today. Yotally woth the long wait.

No Nut November is over and Destroy Dick December begins. What are you doing to celebrate?

Okay, it's been about a year now that the locks have been busted on all of the downstairs toilet stalls. Not a problem, I just use the upstairs ones on the rare occasion that I need to. Unless I can't get up there ... without a girl and a Laurier. Plus, this is getting fucking ridiculous.

The line may have just been a backup of people waiting to go through the metal detector and get patted down. There were maybe 6-10 people ahead of me and it took less than 5 minutes to get in.

There is a cover charge to go up with a lady, and he was just probably enforcing that. He also probably gets a portion of that money.

After a long, long day at work yesterday (Saturday), I thought I'd go have a beer before heading home. I'd been at work for 23 hours babysitting computers and needed a bit of human interaction. I guess I'm just not used to the late night/early morning vibe there as I am usually a daytime visitor. There was a line on the stairs to get in, which was something new for me, but gave me hope for a different experience. When I finally got inside, the place seemed pretty packed. My regular table was available, but because I just wanted a quick beer I headed to the bar. I was accosted by 3 of my regulars who were surprised to see me at 1am. We chatted for a bit and I decided to spend a bit more money than I had planned. There was a lineup to use the cash machine. It would have taken less time to go down the block to my regular bank to make a withdrawal (with no added fees) than to wait in line for the downstairs ATM, but the bouncer said that I'd have to take my jacket to leave and pay again when I came back if I could even get back in. I decided to use the machine upstairs. I was told that there was no admission upstairs without a girl, and even if I just wanted to use the machine it would cost me $5 to get to it. After a long look in the bouncer's face, I said to him, "So ... Pigale's then? Okay. Bye." The look on his face was priceless. I know he doesn't make the rules and his is a REALLY shitty job, but come on. Why make it so hard for me to spend money there?

Started No Nut November today. It's going to be a long month. However, next month is Destroy Dick December, so it kind of makes up for it.

$300 is pretty standard. If you figure you get 20x 3 minute songs in an hour, you're spending a hundred dollars less. I won't say you're saving a hundred dollars because you're still spending $300. If you know the girl well, you might get a better deal. Ask her and see.