Rambler1980

Ok Tico Sue has all natural downstairs hair. I'm hoping you'll check her out and report back.

It's going to be pretty hard to ignore BP unless you are fine with very modest income until business builds. Advertise here on Lyla and you could put a massage ad on CL if you want to go without BP. It might help to share what problems you want to avoid this time.

She seems to work once a week or so. I usually search her name and her old ad will mention her upcoming plans.

I live near Katherine in Spryfield and I've recently posted about some possibly underage and sketchy providers in the Warning section, they live a few hundred metres from Katherine's location; so the street doesn't dictate the quality of the provider. Great people like Katherine can live in areas with bad reps. That said I'm a hypocrite, I've had 2 real sketchy scary experiences years ago from a single notorious street in Dartmouth and even though it was a long time ago I still don't go to that area regardless of temptation. I just can't shake that nervous feeling there.

I've not usually found it hard. First off I'd say 90% of the providers I've chosen to see in Halifax have been in my estimation independent. 1) If the provider is very mechanical, low-energy, feels like she's putting in a days work thats a tell tale sign. Or she is non-confident in what she is up for doing with you. 2) Usually can tell somewhat by the location. If it's her apartment is the bedroom setup for a woman or a woman+man, likewise in the bathroom. All lady products or is there some some AXE shampoo, etc. If it's a hotel ask her casually how much the room is per night, if she doesn't know she probably has a handler. 3) The providers I've liked are usually talkative and tell you a bit about themselves and build confidence that you are dealing only with them. 4) I sometimes ask if they have a boyfriend 5) All Asians have handlers, I've never seen an exception to that rule. If you see an Asian provider she's getting a cut and one or several others are getting a cut. I should also mention that a provider who has a BF doesn't mean she has a handler. I've dealt with several providers that had boyfriends, doesn't mean I met them or they handled the money (or that the BF's even knew).

Occasionally I like to do a facial finish. I've met providers that allowed facials but only rarely have encountered providers that really embraced the facial and didn't just quickly move to clean everything off. I don't know anyone at the moment offering it, does anyone have a recommendation? Even if they are quick to clean up, right now I don't know anyone at the moment and have the urge.

I'm tired of it. I am sure many providers get stood up by clients, but I'm sick and tired of getting stood up by providers I've made concrete plans with. I am sure I'll get a message in a few hours "Sorry baby, I fell asleep". Well you know what, I've worked for 30+ years and manage to meet all my clients on time using a simple $10 device called an alarm clock!! Maybe don't smoke a big fat blunt an hour before our appointment next time.

There's 2-3 women working out of apartment in Spryfield. Advertising as 19yo each and no restrictions. Checked them out, no restrictions=no protection sex is on the menu and they all looked way too young and couldn't / wouldn't show proof of age. I was looking for protected sex with a few "kinks" and with someone for sure of legal age, wasn't up for what they were offering.

Army Rations?! Just buy some boxes of KD and a couple tins of canned tuna or chicken. :-) Butane Stove, great idea. My winter setup is 2 rechargable led flashlights. 2 regular AAA led flashlights. Propane single burner. Propane radiant heater with a 30lb tank. Normal pantry of pasta, rice and canned food and several 10l jugs of water for toilet and drinking. I can keep the house above zero and warm the bedroom right up, enough meals for the family for 3-4 day's and enough light for same 3-4 days.

This time of year there's a lot of temporary new providers in the business just to make ends meet during Christmas. There's also a great deal of well reviewed providers who've been in the business a while. If you're new to the hobby, why risk it. Go with established providers for a bit until you've got your confidence.

If you mean Kylie Jane, she is 100% legit and a terrific provider. I am sure there's ton's of good reviews of her here.

Agreed. I think that applies with any partners SP or not. For the truly rough stuff I've done, it was with people: I'd developed trust with We shared a mutual desire for it We discussed limits, safety and intent before hand Certainly not a first meeting scenario. That said, I think bwnn is looking for the light weight stuff that many providers offer. Holding their neck, some playful slapping, pulling some hair. I haven't met a provider yet that wouldn't allow some slapping of their bottoms (I still ask first)

Most who advertise BDSM seem to be geared towards the woman being the dominant person, I think bwmm is looking to be the dominate partner. You are right about being careful though I've enjoyed experiences with a person who wanted to be choked with hands or a rope to the point of blacking out. It was loads of fun but something we worked up to and had some tricks to make sure I didn't mis-read her state, not something I would recommend trying day 1. Easy to go to far and hurt someone unless you have trust and experience.

My experience is that many/most that have been in the business will allow some of that (fake choking, pushing their head in a pillow, pulling on hair, bending them over a table, etc). If you want a provider that provides truly rough sex (firm slaps, spankings, restraints, gagging, real breath play) that's harder to find and very very much YMMV in my experience. I've lucked out and sometimes found people (no longer working) who really were into it and we had a lot of fun. For myself if I'm with someone who likes it rough I get into it, but I don't look for it in a provider.

Lakeside Inn in Dartmouth maybe. or there's a hotel off Dutch Village Rd in Halifax (not sure name), seems like they would. Are you a provider?

Never let the dream die Tico. :-)

Seen her and she is awesome! Don't have a lot to add, she's amazing to look at and warm and friendly. Great service. Her ad is gone right now but she said she's working again soon.

Agree 1000%. My only exception is Asian ads. I know the Asian person I see will be of the same approximate build as the photos but that's about it. Asian ads are universally fake pics.

If you know the pics aren't her what makes you interested in trying her?

I had a friend in a bondage situation and she was up on her knees all tied up. I was doing all kinds of stuff to her, feathers, straps, flails, cold, candles, breath play, she was blindfolded and never knew what was coming next or where. I finally got down under her vagina planning to use a dildo on her and she was literally dripping long thin sticky drops she was so wet, the bed had a little wet spot under her. I took photos of her/it I was so impressed with myself. We haven't achieved that level since but I still call that my greatest sexual moment.

Pet peeve is this type of text exchange (MsSexy is a made up name and this is a paraphrase of multiple conversations). Me: Hello MsSexy, what are your rates {4 hrs later} MsSexy: Hey Me: Hi, what were your in call rates and where are you located approx. {20 min later} MsSexy: I'm on ANYSTREET Me: Ok great, what were your rates and are you available around 8pm? {20 min later} MsSexy: I'm available now baby, coming over? Me: No just getting off work, I was thinking around 8pm and what are your rates? {20 min later} MsSexy: I need 20 minutes notice {WTF, It's 5pm now, I'm giving you about 3hrs notice and what are your rates!!!} I would usually give up at this point. Me: Just to check can I go down on you and is it BBBJ? MsSexy: No fluids in my mouth Me: Ok so no BBBJ then? MsSexy: I play only if clean {Ugh not sure what that means, I guess maybe BBBJ just no CIM} Me: Can I go down on you? MsSexy: DATY $50, CBJ $25, BBBJ $50, GFE $75, COB $20, COF $70, MSOG $50, etc etc etc... endless options *sigh, an everything is extra person * or Me: I'm nearly there, what room? MsSexy: Just having a smoke Me: I'm parked downstairs what room? {5 min later} MsSexy: Just a couple min hun {10 min later} Me: Almost ready? MsSexy: Almost baby, my taxi is almost there {WTF?} or the person that has all the time in the world for themselves but they try and compress the 30 minutes of fun-time I paid for into 15min. 8:00pm MsSexy: Wanna smoke first? 8:00pm Me: No, I don't smoke 8:00pm MsSexy: I gotta have a smoke, do you mind? 8:00pm Me: No, go ahead 8:10pm {10 minutes later sexy times start} 8:15pm MsSexy: Oh Yeah, I can't wait for you to cum baby, Oh Yeah 8:20pm MsSexy: Cum for me baby, cum for me 8:25pm MsSexy: You need to cum for me baby. 8:26pm MsSexy: You need to cum baby, we're almost out of time. {Wtf, we only started 15min ago?}

Getting multiple PM's asking for her name. I am not intending to share it, nor continue seeing her. She's on a downward spiral already and me dragging her name into the muck isn't going to make it any better for her. My two ex-drug using, ex-provider friends turned their lives around and used their time in the biz to get themselves into a better situation financially and a better life, I hope this person can achieve that same outcome in her own time.

I've known a couple service providers who had a previous history with drugs and either got off them prior or during the time they were providers. I really respect those ladies and they went through hard times and made themselves better people and they look better, treat others better and ARE better people for getting off the drugs. It was a hard road and they should be proud of themselves for beating it. I've also now recently seen the reverse and didn't even realize. A provider I've known for some time and enjoyed her vibrance and high energy picked up a BF that introduced her to hard drugs and I think abuses and pimps her. Over a course of 6 months she's gone from talking about her future plans and loving sex to being glazed over, has cigarette burns around her body and now most recently doing crack 3 times right in front of my during a visit. Such a shame. I don't know her well enough to try and involve myself in her life but I hope she can get off the drugs, ditch people that are dragging her down and get her life back.

Her ad was up just recently. I see one from the 25th on BP

My technique during an uncertain massage to "break the ice" and quickly find out if more is available is while face down being massaged, gently touch the ladies calf. If she avoids the touch and moves away I assume the massage is a straight massage and progress no further. If she accepts caressing her leg it's for sure a happy ending situation and the person has always brought up tips either then or later.