Rambler1980

One of the biggest compliments I get is when they ask me to stay, I've had it happen a number of times. Start to get dressed and they pull me back or tell me not to rush away. Feels very nice to have the person being paid ask you to stay and talk or cozy up in bed for a bit longer.

Agreed. Although I am a hypocrite for wanting less nudity in the general discussion areas so I can sneak on the site from work. 🙂

For Lyla to grow it needs to provide utility to it's users. That's the same for any web site. When Backpage closed there was a reason LeoList took over instead of Lyla. Lyla is not a good platform for advertising for providers. It could be and should be. That generates traffic and revenue. It's also restrictive, lots of rules. Say what you will (and I support rules) but it discourages discussion. Whatever solutions (if any) are brought forward to increase member usage if it involves more rules it's probably the wrong solution, if it involves less it's probably the right solution.

I cut-n-pasted directly from the rules available at the top of the site (see my screen shot) , so they need to clean up the rules perhaps and make it uniform? Regardless, the nudity makes it difficult to check the site easily from work, that is my real complaint that keeps me from using it as much as I might otherwise.

Ok here's some complaints about the site (these might also be complaints about the old site too). Don't get me wrong it's a free resource and I intend to continue using it. But someone asked for specific complaints so these are mine The reputation points are messed up and meaningless. There's no way to correlate how the points are generated especially for migrated users. The reviews section needs to be organized like the old one was, I can't find reviews easily anymore Why doesn't it remember the forum I was last in when I login The activity streams are confusing and I can't seem to set one up for just the forums I'm interested in Members signature banners have naughty pictures in them so often I don't dare take a peek from work which reduces my participation The advertisements area needs to be organized like a classifieds site not a user forum. It's the wrong tool for the job. The search defaults to the whole site not the forum I'm in I find mobile use frustrating and avoid it Why can't I edit old posts after someone else posts. This isn't a legal document it's a user forum, just let me edit old posts The rules state No posting nude photos or photos depicting sexual acts. Yes this site is adult but we do not allow porn How come nudes are all over the place in banners? Jessica Rain above is an example (sorry Jessica you are just one among many). This gets back to having to watch over my shoulder anytime I'm on the site. Can't use from work at all no matter how I resize the window The rules also state no advertising in general discussion forums but some of the providers banners are huge and all ad. Just posting a simple 1 line reply puts a massive ad smack in the middle of a discussion forum When I get a message under mobile it's near impossible to click and view it. I am totally unsure how to view it. Gave up on mobile in fact. See the image below. Why isn't each forum on a separate line with a bullet point. The bold lets me know there's unread content but why is "massage" tucked over to the right of "escort discussion" instead of on it's own line Why is the giant link to "Escorts-Canada" below every section of forums. If it's a paid promotion thing its being done wrong because Ontario only has the link clicked 400 times vs 1400 for Nova Scotia because the Ontario section pushes it so out of sight with all the areas it has.

Check out this ad. https://www.kijiji.ca/v-health-beauty/dartmouth/massage-body-rub/1398020105?enableSearchNavigationFlag=true Not sure it's the same person but her name is Jen. No promises if this is an erotic massage.

I think you should remove the pricing, violates the rules and also doesn't match the prices I was quoted. Prices can vary depending on person, time of day, time of month, services or any number of variables. Let the lady quote prices to those who ask.

How come when I search for "Massage" on Kijiji it doesn't find this ad, but if I search for "Asia" it does? Wierd

That was what I was figuring might be a common number. For a long time once a month was probably the number for me, but I found in the last couple years it's been more frequent, perhaps just the right providers or that I have more free income.

Just wondering how often most people here on lyla see providers? I vary from once every 2 weeks to occasionally several times in 1 week. Money is always a factor as is chemistry and schedule.

I don't reveal much for details when I post but mainly because my experience with a provider and yours could be totally different in terms of what we get up to. She might do things with me that she won't with you or visa versa or charge us different rates. Nothing worse than having some chemistry with a provider and she goes a little above and beyond and then after telling everyone the details she's suddenly expected to go above and beyond for every customer that reads the review. Likewise people PM and ask how much did I pay. Just ask her what her rates are, don't ask me. With a provider I'm regular with it's pretty common to have a special price or get more services for a given rate or get a grand-fathered rate when she changes her prices. These ladies are independent workers with bills to pay not Walmart I am not going to help you get the lowest rock bottom price. P.S. Sorry, pretty off topic from the original post. MsManda is awesome, but I think that's well established! 🙂

Sorry but if anyone I'm showering with decides to make it COLD shower, they can expect a spanking. Hmmm....1/2 the providers I know would probably like a spanking. Well anyway it won't be a good time, lets just say that. lol

I think showering with the provider can be great fun, isn't really something I gravitate towards but have done so on a few occasions. I think just ask and you might find it easy to arrange. My main issue is we usually end up all soapy and having fun but then there's the break between the shower and getting towelled off and then the room feels cold because you just showered and it seems like we have to restart everything back in bed. I know some providers have pretty elaborate face makeup routines and I doubt they'd agree to shower with you just for fear of their makeup.

First off, just a personal thing but I never liked the term "Fun Bags". But Alicia says she's 5' 7", 44E and 120lbs? One of those numbers might be false, that doesn't agree with my understanding of physics. She does have large breasts though, if that's something you are chasing then she seems like a good pick. Her Leolist map location looks like it might be in the Albro Lake/Pinecrest area so use some caution.

$25 was their cost and I feel $40 would be a reasonable price to be charged

The real thieves are those charging $83 for an oil change that with labor+supplies+overhead would be in the $25 range cost to them. $40 would have been a reasonable price for them to charge you.

As a client I must say while I miss backpage sometimes but Leolist has worked out fine for me and the filters make it a winner overall. Backapge was "free" but not really free if you bumped your ads as most people did and require bitcoins which came with their own expenses to acquire. Leolist is not expensive and allows a credit card unless things changed. Plus backpage had done that silly social media link thing that it required which was just a farce. At this point I don't really see many more fakes on Leolist than their were on backpage. Both had a lot of fake ads. As to time wasters and those looking for bare back, I can't comment on that except I am sure they are a pain to deal with.

I feel the number of releases and everything in between is relevant. I don't feel like if I paid them for an hour that means that if I wanted they should give me a 60 minute BJ. Or they should expect me to be thrusting away for 60 minutes. It's all to be negotiated as to what the hour entails. I agree it should be a full hour if that's what's been arranged. Anything special you want including msog should be discussed before hand to make sure everyones agreed.

I am not a user of either of those. I'll setup accounts but once that's done, what are the steps to find providers via those platforms?

Checked it out. Very few listings for the cities I was headed to (and clicked a bunch of other cities with very few listings too). There's got to be a way escorts are advertising in NY and Philly, just need to find it 🙂

I disagree with the statement "Most", some will but it is simply not true here in Halifax that "Most" will ask. Personally a provider would have to be VERY well known on Lyla for me to do a deposit first unless I'd met them. I have no problem with deposits, emt's and stuff for people I know but sending money to a provider I haven't met is a tall order. I've been scammed before in various ways and someone asking for money upfront has a high likelihood of being a scam with no recourse for me to get my money back.

Leolist won't let you sign up? Whats the issue you are having?

https://www.leolist.cc/d/Addictivebarbie

New York and Philadelphia are the main cities I have upcoming trips for. I know some asian massage places in both cities but would like the option of having a woman come to my hotel.

Anyone have any experience crossing the border at the Halifax airport since Cannabis was legalized? Just wondering how in-depth the questioning was and if anyone was denied for cannabis use and if so what was your experience?