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Yes there are reasons why deposits won't work. I like the suggestions of a One strike rule, no show once and deposit required if you want to book again. That or pay cancellation fee to get off the list. Agreed that the goal is to protect these wonderful ladies so they can have a safe and viable business.

Maybe a deposit is the way to go. It's only fair - it's not like you can get that time back. I know some guys would freak at the thought, but I think it's reasonable.

I'm sad to hear it's been so slow. Hopefully spring and nice weather will pick things up. I wonder if the success of something like Brass Club downtown is part of the issue? I"m new in this game but there seem to be a LOT of massage providers around. Maybe that's not new? Do you think it's different clientele? I have not been to Barbs before so I'll make it a point to bring the boys around for our next night out. I sincerely hope things pick up soon.

The title needs to be edited - Lola is indeed at Brass. Follow her on twitter https://twitter.com/kittylolaa or just @kittylolaa This woman is drop dead gorgeous with a slim lovely figure with just the right curves. She has the most beautiful soft slightly tanned skin and a sweet infections smile. I had exchanged a few short messages with Lola on Twitter and I thought we had the start of a connection... that maybe there would be some chemistry. This sweet lady greeted me like a lover - with a warm hug and kiss that left no doubt that I was about to have a wonderful time. Connection, intimacy, responsiveness - these begin to describe Lola. I loved that she let the hour flow and happen naturally. We must have spent 10 full minutes simply getting to know each other and slowly disrobing each other - it was magical. Lola is also very well spoken and intelligent - we had a great conversation. That was followed by a slippery intimate shower together and then lots of fun exploring each other on the double massage table. As our time neared an end I was smothered by kisses and cuddles and then we ended with a warm intimate shower together. After our session I stopped by the nice bar at Brass and enjoyed a tasty sandwich and a beer (at a very reasonable price) as well as the company of the always lovely Jessica and met several of the other ladies. I had a truly wonderful time. Lola is highly recommended. Word is getting out about this lady, so you'd better book a day or two in advance at least.

A second phone would raise questions for me... I am interested in the apps mentioned. What should I look for in the app store?

Lol, Jayda huh. Thanks Kilt Boy. :) I'm going back just to find her, I didn't get her to the CR yet but just eye contact with her lit my fire.

Thank you Summer for starting this wonderful thread. I have read every single post and learned much. When you escorts are assisting a gentleman who wants to last longer, what sort of things do you think are effective? I would also like to say that the ladies I have been with have been the most warm, caring, and wonderful to me. I appreciate every one of you and what you do. I really do think it is a special kind of healing that many of you provide. For so many men suffering from various forms of E.D. or even simply a lack of confidence in the bedroom, you are amazing. Thank you.

One would think any prospective client who says this is probably not someone you want to see. I assume somebody would say because they are insecure, but I'm sure you get some that also strangely thing they should then get a discount. I'm betting somebody saying this is a big warning flag for many of you ladies.

The absolute best thing you can do is to read their ad and website carefully and completely. They almost always tell you how they would like to be contacted. I can also tell you that if you actually take the time to read their site and contact info, etc. and then behave accordingly you will be much more likely to get a response. :)

Boys night last night - started at the Lafayette and migrated across the street. We did the Lucky Ron show so we were there early and left about 10 PM ish. It was pretty dead. Maybe 10-12 punters in the place, and we were 4 of them. Two folks in our group spent time with a lady who goes by Vegas - tall thin brunette with lovely bolt-ons and a really beautiful lingerie set on in black and purple. The boys enjoyed their time in the CR with her. I think she is from the states and not a regular. I talked to and spent some CR time with Paris - a lovely young blonde with wonderful smooth skin, an amazing bum, and lovely natural breasts. Both ladies were sweet and chatted with us extensively. I hope it got busier after 10 PM, but when we left it was about 20 ladies and less customers than that. On our way out I was drooling over the tall curvy redhead with a hip tattoo but she was on stage and then busy with a couple of gents so I didn't get to talk to her. Anyone know her name?

Sounds very much like what I enjoy with some wonderful ladies. I'm newer to this so I have not had first hand experience with very many ladies yet, but I know one that I think will float your boat. https://twitter.com/myamilli She is dynamite. There does need to be some chemistry there for a really great experience, and I get that with Mya - but you might click better with a different lady. Best suggestion - call or contact Bras Club http://www.brassclub.ca/ and say exactly what you wrote. Jess will be able to make some suggestions, and if you want you can even wait until you meet a bunch of them and choose a lady you feel some chemistry with. Check out https://twitter.com/winniebrass https://twitter.com/kittylolaa and https://twitter.com/Harmonyy11114 for a few other options. There are plenty more - these are just some of the lovely ladies I've spoken to recently that might be the right lady for you. Not only are they sweet and intimate, but they are absolutely stunning. There are a bunch of great ladies at Brass Club and CMJ that would likely provide just what you are looking for. The ones that have #Intimate and #GFE in their profiles on the site or on twitter are usually a good place to start. After that - just talk to them. :) They are sweet ladies and if you are polite and respectful and just explain what you want as you did above, you'll find what you are looking for. :

There is one lady that specializes in that in Ottawa. She is on the Do Not Review list, so I won't link to her, but if you search tantric massage Ottawa her site is the top 3 results. I have not tried it yet, but Tantra is clearly her specialty.

I'd like a little more info please. :) Is she intimate? Does she kiss? GFE? (within MA limits)

I had the great fortune to met Strawberry at CMJ today. She is a beautiful Asian lady with a warm and genuine personality. From the moment we met she made a connection with me. I was looking for connection, intimacy, and kissing, and from her hug and kiss upon meeting it was clear she is a great fit for me. She has the most wonderful skin, kissable lips, amazing natural breasts, and a nicely curvy bottom. What is most amazing is her personality and the wonderful feeling of connection and intimacy she brought to our short time together. While I am relatively new and had 2 sessions with other providers, I was not sure I would continue with the MA experience. I just hadn't made a connection with the right woman. Strawberry changed all of that - I'll be back, and soon! The facility at CMJ west is wonderful. My introduction and discussion with Alura really helped me make the right choice. The room is large with a huge shower that easily accommodates two, a massage table, and a large couch. Tastefully decorated, just the right level of warmth, smelled great, and had music playing at a comfortable volume. The only improvement to the facility I would suggest is music that is a bit more like a spa - more meditative - but that may just be my particular taste. Back to Strawberry - she is amazing. Part of me does not want to write this because I'd hate for her to get too busy - but she deserves the attention. Book with her gents and treat her well, she is a true gem. I had another session with Strawberry - this time a full hour. It was different being our second meeting, a bit more playful. This session I had an entire hour to play with her. The shower for two was delicious and fun. We lingered and had a soapy good time. After the shower, this time I wanted to start by giving her a massage and she agreed. I slowly massaged her flawless skin and thoroughly enjoyed watching and listening to her sweet sighs as she relaxed under my warm hands. After an extended session I took my turn, and it was my turn to sigh... and more. I left a very relaxed and happy man. Again. Her warmth, intimacy, and sensual energy left me completely satisfied. Thank you Strawberry

I completely agree. When meeting or communicating with a lady for the first time I will politely ask how she feels about kissing and how she feels about me massaging and exploring her body. I'm new to this and only visit MAs right now, but what is working is coming in to CMJ or Brass and having them allow me to meet several available ladies so I can ask these questions. Sometimes when you meet a lady in person her warm embrace and kiss answers those questions up front and you don't need to ask! I completely respect all of the ladies I have met, no matter their particular restrictions. (I don't like that word but I can't find a better one right now.) Overall I have been blown away at how warm, caring, and open these ladies have been. I marvel at the power they have to open themselves to sensation, to let their fears, hangups, and defenses down and let their sensual energy flow. It is a touch of the divine, and being wrapped in that energy by a sweet goddess is an amazing thing. XOXO

Welcome Robin! Thank you so much CheekyCutie, I had no idea about the chat room! I'll check it out.

Welcome Venus! I look forward to meeting you - this world could use more burlesque so I hope you achieve your goal!

Welcome Charlotte. Always a good sign when you start by joining the community. There is a great mix of good respectful gentlemen and ladies here to help. :)

Well it depends.. are you planning on full service providers or are you starting with erotic massage? I ask because I can't help with the full service thing, but as a newbie with my first few massage sessions under my belt (bad pun I know...) I can answer from that perspective. I've found a couple of great private clubs with stunning ladies here in Ottawa.

CMJ has Strawberry, a lovely lady of Chinese origin who I recommend. Check the recommendations forum - I put a recommendation there for Strawberry. https://twitter.com/strawbe613 Enjoy You absolutely should be a member of both CMJ and Brass. Both are great quality establishments with amazing ladies. Only joining one would be like limiting yourself to beer from only one brewery!

So glad I read this thread. I'm new to massage... well this kind of massage. Just did a full hour with an amazing lady (review coming up) Mya at Brass. Wow. As I told her - I'm more interested in her body than mine, and I really enjoyed massaging her. She seemed to appreciate it as well. Gentlemen - book a full hour with these gorgeous ladies so you have time to massage them. Ask them if that is permitted and/or enjoyed by them first of course, and be respectful and gentle, but there is nothing hotter than giving a goddess a relaxing and sensual massage.

I'm so glad I read this message before my session today! I'm new at this and have only had a couple of experiences, but neither one really were what I was looking for. This thread helped me identify what might be missing and how to identify the right MA to meet that need. I joined CMJ today, and Alura walked me through the options and what not, and I used what I learned here to ask for the kissing and intimacy that I really wanted. I met many beautiful girls but then I met Strawberry and she greeted me with a warm hug and a kiss - so sweet. I asked a couple of other girls their preferences on kissing, but it didn't matter much because Strawberry created such a connection with me in 30 seconds that I chose her with no hesitation, and boy am I glad I did! I didn't lunge in and stick my tongue down her throat of course, but there was lots of kissing and wow - there was lots of kissing and she was so intimate that it was amazing. If you are not sure who to go to, I'd suggest one of the good places like CMJ where they will bring plenty of beautiful girls to meet with you. Based on how they greeted me it was pretty clear who might like that sort of thing. For any I was unsure about I just politely asked how they felt about kissing and they answered plus I got to watch their body language as they did so. It was quite clear. :)

Saw this on BackPage http://ottawa.backpage.com/BodyRubs/club-harmony-new-private-members-club-now-hiring/41654378 Hiring MAs ... Anyone know the story? http://clubharmony.ca/ 417 is not bad for me, I'll go for the tour and report back.

I think that might me over the top for me at this point! I think I'll start with the basics and save something that level for a special occasion. Once I'm comfortable I think the next step will be a duo - a total fantasy for me.

Hi folks. new to the site and to the hobby. This site makes it a whole lot easier to get started- thank you all.