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You should not fight your body's needs as this will lead to tons of problems. If you haven't had a full check up you should make an apointment with your doc to rule out anemia, thyroid issues, hypoglycemia or diabetes. Meanwhile, if you must, vitamin c (red peppers, orange juice) and theobromine (dark chocolate, minimum 70% and preferably raw) are your safest and most effective tools

Got my hair cut i feel pwetty!!!

Same thing. You ask a lady who does outcall if she is available to see you there at such and such hours

For those looking for a MA with great massaging skills, how long do you normally book your appointment and which of the two scenarios would you prefer? Scenario 1: the session has two times: first working the knots and tensions and second, a nice sensual erotik crescendo with a fireworks end Scenario 2: the session mixes and alternates constantly between the therapeutic style and the arousing style

Then, please refer to them as MA or masseuse or massage provider. Not RMT. See below:

Men educate yourselves! RMTs are NOT to be discussed in such disrespectful manner! What comes as a joke thrill and challenge to you is actually at her expense! It is plain sexual harassement and intent of assault (if you purposely nourish lascive thoughts to get your dong to "pop"). READ: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=240799&highlight=cyclo http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=142492&highlight=cyclo

I'm in the Center! King Edward-Rideau! Come from the East, from the North, the West and from the South 417 through Vanier Parkway!

I don't know if it is because I access it from my iPhone but the threads that are mostly about pictures are not very interesting because none of the pics open! As for the others, many I have wanted to read but as said earlier, it is time consuming so for me the list on my page is like a bookmark to get to some education material later ;-p

As a newbie to this hobby, I have yet to receive a recommandation. I respect that not everyone feels comfortable sharing so I'm not bothered by the fact that I have not gotten one from the clients I've seen so far. For massage therapy, 26 years into massage therapy, I didn't need it anymore, I know my worth and I can see and feel on my vanilla clients how the treatment went. However, since I converted to the hobby, I had to adjust to now do exactly what I was not supposed to do!!! As a result, I know a lot of ways to tantalize but I have yet to figure out if I am reading and decoding properly the specific body responses to that kind of touch. I find it funny to feel that conflicting mix of self assurance in my trade and debutante (well ok intermediary ;-) ) incertitude in the Arts of Pleasure. Especially given my new very experienced clientèle! As gentlemen describe in their reco these special moments with words such as epiphany, blissful, transcendental, etc., I can't quite figure yet where what I offer fit in there (and of course, I rather have direct feed back if its anything less than that!) nor how to improve my skills. What gives me the most pleasure is making someone "float" in bliss so I am eager to learn to achieve this in this new plane I engaged in!

Funny! I had not thought about offering a class on Lyla but if there is a need, I might just do that! I still teach semi privately to couples or small groups occasionally so if i get pm about it, I might advertise an event. Maybe even Someguy would want to participate and share his knowledge and tips?

An unexpected 100$ tip! I'm getting my overdue haircut!!!

I have yet to receive one from a client but i know i really enjoyed the favor when offered in my personal life. Though i find some people confessed being too intimidated to offer. They are scared i would judge their skills. Which is not the case. Sometimes it simply feels good to be touched. The only situation where i'm critical of a massage is when i pay a pro because i need it therapeutically and their work is disappointing. Aside from my students, only a handful of therapists I absolutely worship manage to give me what constitutes for me a good massage. But therapy aside, i'm a sucker for being massaged!

What about freakles?

Indeed, I have finally decided on a protocol! I'm going to start the tests Friday. Hopefully the results by Wednesday :-)

I was looking for a cheap one, but my eyes got hooked... Then, of course I looked at the others and well I'm allergic to rubber so that was out of the question and the cheapest one was made with back pack vinyl kind of ties... which would have teared my delicate skin in seconds... So.. really... there was no choice but to take my coup de coeur! I got myself a gorgeous as a MA, I don't quite see the rational there but I just thought it was gorgeous.... that I might wear over black leggings as a fashion statement lmao ;-p

It would help if we knew where out of town is.... Just saying ;-p

Sailors, when my milk come I will make sure to let you know and might plan a tour to Moncton! (Trying to induce right now)

I'm O so I would like to give but, being borderline anemic, they don't want to risk having to give me some back lol.

Thank you for your comments! I am still going to do more of the testing promised. This week was just crazy with the start of new fiscal year at income stabilizer day job. I like your suggestions. I should be able to do some testing later today. I was completely horrified that polyurethane was seeping so much given that we are always told that it is safe to use with oils!!!

I got introduced to the concept of polyamory only last year. If I had been 20 years ago, that would probably have allowed to save my marriage. I had a beautiful relationship with my super handsome loving intelligent sensitive husband, best friend awesome communication. But I was not attracted to him, well, my hypersensitive olfactory sense could not stand his pheromones. He, however, was very attracted to me. I was a model when we met. Somehow, subconsciously, i created tons of poor adaptation mechanisms: repeat vag infections, weight gain, vulvodynia... I wanted to be faithful to him and it made me feel terribly inadequate as a woman and as a wife. I even thought I was frigid. I started to drink wine in order to sort of get myself in the mood. Yet it was so seldom that I can tell you at what time and in which position we conceived, a child that I lost. Thankfully. One should never be thankful to loose a child but if I had not miscarried, we would have stayed together. And become more and more miserable. Our friendship was suffering. My belief at the time was "love supercede anything, love is more important then sex". Until one day, unexpectedly, i got the whole sex attraction butterfly etc while I was working on a paper for univerity with a collegue (ugly as f*). That was really unsetteling. I negociated permission with husband to try to seek sex outside our marriage. We arranged an evening where I went out with colleague and he had an escort comes at home. I guess I was so "starved", too young, too endoctrined in my faith principles and because the experience confirmed for him, I was the one regardless of the hardships of our sexuality, I decided to leave him. After 7 years together, I divorced not only a person but a life I loved, a step family I adored, financial security, dreams and projects our companionship had formed. And I knew I was moving into a relationship that would die. (it did within 3 months). Hubby proposed for me to come back. It took all my courage to refuse. It was best for both. Given what we knew of life and what we did not know about other options... A year later he remarried, had 2 kids and the entire story we had tried really hard to build together. I have been mostly alone for the following 18 years. When I was introduced to polyamory last year, it strucked me that it could have been our relationship salvation. Yet, I was then still very judging of people "cheating", either by having lovers or seeing escorts. Until 6 months ago when I opened my mind to kinks and discovered my inclination for ANR. My views started to change. And since I made the switch to become MA, I discovered a world of psychological and emotional pain and suffering I had not realized existed. Because something has not been addressed yet. It was discussed earlier about the don't ask don't tell and the openly agreed upon outsourcing of sex. But something was not addressed. The jail relationship model. Some men are litterally micro-managed by hypercontrolling wives (and it certainly isn't a kink they'd chosen) who will not have sex with them but won't allow them to satisfy their need (and btw sex is a fundamental need see Maslow, the modality to satisfy that need is called a referential need aka hunger=fundamental need to be feed, referential need is pizza or steak). Multi-millionaires men find themselves scraping change to be able to save up until they can afford an Escort. In the past, I considered that it was a lack of courage or spine to not divorce; but I came to realize that it is not that simple. In many cases, there are children involved and these men love their children and were threatened to not be able to see them if they even thought of divorcing. Or, sometimes, life and companionship was cordial or friendly and the financial loss would be tremendous to recover from in the last leg of a professional career making it a big deterrant. If you marry with someone because over all it is a very happy relationship, even if the sex is in the vanilla and just enough category, you evaluate that if things remain the same, you will have a happy life. But when one of the two changes the rules like, being less available sexually, or experiencing an increase of libido, without proposing acceptable accomodation to meet the partner's need, yet requires or threatens retaliation should the partner seeks a way to meet his need, the dilemma becomes very individual and I have come to think one cannot judge how someone will try to meet their needs especially if trying to be as gentle on the whole system as possible. I don't judge anymore. I give unconditional Love. I tap in that very special kind of Love in my work as a MA. I accept unconditionally the human being who entrusts me to help with alleviating his or her need. Massage is a selfless act and gift. I cannot judge anymore. I only Love.

As promise phase 2 of my condom experiment. Protocol I sucked on the condoms to put some saliva enzymes on them. (Except latex) I filled the condoms with water and let them hang for about 10 hours. Then i tied them and squeezed them until burst. None of them leaked any water. As for the pressure, their resistence were much better than after 7 hours holding coconut oil. Latex: Could not get it to break until I removed all the loose part and then squeezing, i had to sort of snap the membrane with my other hand to finally have it burst. Polyurethane: it gave up before the latex but still put up a good fight Polyisoprene: Once more it showed that pressure is not its strong suit... It snaped burst twice faster than the others but only maybe once longer than the coconut one. That may be why it has a much larger reservoir than the others... Conclusions: despite the lack of really objective measures, it appeared obvious that condoms resisted better or a lot better to destruction tests if they had not been submitted to oil. In phase 3, I plan to do a modified coconut test exposure to the polyisoprene with 4 polyisoprene subjects. The objective will be to identify if air exposure weakens the polyisoprene. We know that it does not leak either water or coconut oil. Compare to the others, the external surface was very dry by the end of the experiment. Could it affects its elasticity, making it more vulnerable to burst? Or maybe because dryer, I was getting a better grasp making the squeezing more effective? For that test, one subject will be filled with oil and tied while the other subject will carry oil and will be immersed in coconut oil. Special attention will be given to the tying to make both as similar as possible For the second test, one subject will be inflated with a bicycle pump until it burst. The second subject will be inflated after having soaked in coconut oil for 15 min. Stay tune!

I changed my name and all my threads now have my new name automatically. However links in text still have my old one so I changed them manually. Make a search *youroldname* to find them and fix them.... HTH