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Yeah, got caught up in "taking one for the team", screw the team, let's see how quickly laws change when men only visit with established providers and other providers can't enter the business any more. Give me some basic rights and maybe I'll take risks in the future. Doesn't matter what precautions you take with an unknown provider you can always get screwed (or not in this case :D)

You probably already have it, but if a multi hundred $ vaccine makes you feel better then it's your choice. I do regret not getting the vaccine before I started, but I don't really see the point now, and most women are either vaccinated or already have hpv as well these days. Women were given the vaccine long before men for whatever reason, even though it's just as likely to cause penile cancer and throat cancer in men. Edit: Whoops, didn't realize you are a provider, yeah it's good to have in that situation, but it's kind of a time sensitive thing, and even the dangerous strands apparently clear the body a lot of the time without any problems. At this point regular screening will probably provide a lot more peace of mind than a vaccine, unless the vaccine somehow prevents infecting others even if you already have hpv. The good news is the next generation will hopefully have less cancer to worry about, well at least the women will. Hopefully they have already smartened up and realized that men have just as much right to be cancer free as well, but when I was in highschool the vaccine was provided free for girls and wasn't available for guys.

Classic cash and dash, obvious excuse about leaving something in the car...I'm an idiot. Not like there is much I can do, even hesitant to name any names as she knows where I live now. I guess it might be as good a time as any to move though. I've had this happen before and I just kept it to myself out of fear, that's what these people are counting on. Really tired of having no rights as a client, thinking I'm done with all but well reviewed providers.

When I first started I was using tineye to check for fake photos. Eventually I discovered that I can just right click an image and hit search google for image. Google seems to return a lot more results. I've recently run the images from 3 ads through google and came back with the images linked to various ads with differing names/#'s around the world. Tineye didn't catch any of these, and the common theme seems to be that the ads google finds have since been removed. So what do you think, is google too sensitive, or is tineye too lax?

The question is, why are Kacey Mae's photos plastered all over different ads, in different parts of the world, with different names and phone #'s. How many red flags do you need?

I wasn't ;)

Correct size, lube in tip, squeeze out air. Not saying you don't follow these rules, but I'd bet over 50% of breakages result from one of those steps not followed.

Just got word that there is a new world's thinnest condom in town, and this time it appears to be made for larger sizes: https://luckybloke.com/products/buy-unique-non-latex-condoms-reviews#reviews 0.015mm thickness, slightly taking the crown from Asian brands like Sagami and Okamoto. I wouldn't know what the Asian ones are like though because their large is too small (and I'm not all that big...honest! :p). For comparison Trojan Bareskins are around 0.045mm, 3x as thick. Price is pretty steep though at over 2$ US a condom, and if anyone has a line on a Canadian distributor I'm all ears. Think I'm going to grab a pack either way, you only live once :) Edit: Ugh, just realized they are probably too large at 60 mm width. This has to be some sort of cosmic joke, what kind of buffoons manufacture condoms and don't go after the majority of the market...

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I've been reading some reviews of a provider on a different website, and they allow you to post rates over there. Out of the few people who did post an hourly rate it varied wildly by ~120$. They were all good reviews, but the practice of charging different clients different rates is somewhat of a turnoff. It implies that she is willing to negotiate...extensively, even though the word around here seems to be that it's disrespectful to try and negotiate rates. Apparently not disrespectful enough to turn those clients away. I could see some evidence for these reviewers just trolling, but why post a good review only to lie about the rate? Would it be disrespectful to let the provider know that I know of the rates she has offered others, or is it better just to walk away? Additional Comments: Hmm, nevermind. I guess it could have been some sort of holiday special rate as well.

Oh no! I guess you're not a "true" girlfriend experience :D This is why expectations can be a problem, everyone has their own safe limits, and GFE doesn't mean anything in particular other than a less emotionally detached session.

It doesn't have to be a bad thing. However it is common practice among a certain type of provider that builds a bad reputation, or runs a scam, and changes their name on the fly. As clients we have to weigh the cost/benefit of certain behaviors, and how visiting with sp's that behave in certain ways may pose a risk to our safety. What are some of the legitimate reasons for changing a name? It's difficult for me to understand the motivation to change it, as a good reputation is often tied to any particular name.

I know this thread is old, but better late than never. I assume this is the same Kim that I just posted a reco for here: https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=251515

Typically when browsing ads on backpage, I'll use the "search google for images" feature by right clicking an image. Sometimes the image has nothing to do with escort ads, and in those cases you know it's at least 90% likely to be fake. Other times though the image will just pop up in many different places across Canada and the U.S., often with a different name in the ad. I've typically avoided these so far, because it doesn't seem likely that a girl would travel so often/far, and it's questionable why she would change her name unless she has a bad reputation. Is there something I'm missing here guys and gals? I'd hate to filter people out unfairly. What other red flags do fellow hobbyist's tend to look out for?

Wow, I really only have good things to say about this woman. She is incredibly beautiful, and she seemed to enjoy our time together nearly as much as I did. She is punctual, attentive, open minded (though safe of course), and really gets into the moment, providing a very memorable experience. Spend some time with Kim, you won't regret it! Ad link: http://halifax.backpage.ca/FemaleEscorts/kim-outcall-only-1-rated-guarenteed-fun-perfect-sizeand-apple-bottom-call-now/2681168

I don't think any of us are putting everyone who says "Leaving soon" in the same basket. As far as whether or not you are a less reliable sp I guess that depends on what your intentions are. It sounds like your intentions are not to mislead people, so I don't see any problem with that. In contrast, if you choose visit an area knowing that your aren't going to meet a deadline, and choose to be dishonest about your leaving date, that's when it starts to become a problem. Established providers aren't really the target of this thread from what I've seen though. We are really discussing a select few backpage providers that have no rep, have no intention of developing a rep, and post that they are "leaving soon" while continuing to work an area for a month or 2. These are often the same types of providers that will post fake photos, and find a new set of fake photos when their bad rep starts to catch up with them.

It's dishonest, but as Melanie says sometimes desperation can prevent people from thinking straight/considering other options. There is no excuse for dishonesty, but there are plenty of justifications. Putting myself in an sp's shoes I'd probably have a list of other things to try before misleading people. Temporarily offering a special rate, getting a secondary job to supplement income, taking out a loan. Plenty of other valid options that would bring in more $ without turning people off, but some people choose to justify dishonesty because they believe the world owes them something, that they deserve a better lot in life and they're willing to do anything to get it.

Fleshlights are a go to for me, realistic silicone dildos when I'm feeling extra kinky. Hitachis/Magic Wands can be good to, even for men, just apply them at the top base of your gizmo and push inward ;) If sp's are reusing toys with clients I would hope the toys are made of a material that can be sterilized (glass, metal, silicone, etc). Many toys made of the cheaper material are porous and cannot be properly sterilized. There may also be condom incompatibilities with some toy materials, so even if you cover them a chemical reaction can occur that voids the use of the condom. You never really know, so it's probably best to stick with materials that can be sterilized and cover them with a condom just to be extra safe.

To be perfectly honest, there is nothing wrong with feeling love and connection for someone, this doesn't mean you have to cling to them like glue. You can't pay for connection/friendship, it either happens or it doesn't. I've probably met ~20 different sp's so far, most were just casual encounters in which I respect them as acquaintances, but 3 of them I do care about on a deeper level that could be described as love, mostly because they seem to express the same feelings back. This doesn't mean that I'm texting them/bothering them when they aren't working, though In some cases I've told them that I'd always be there if they needed support, it's just an element that makes spending time with them that much more meaningful. I know it can be difficult for some to reconcile these feelings of love and affection with the type of short term encounters that we enjoy. Society has after all tried to hammer it into our heads that love for someone of the opposite sex should automatically = commitment, marriage, kids, and more likely than not years of drudgery and unhappiness ;) So break the mold, don't ever be ashamed of expressing love/affection for someone whether you are an sp or client. I personally prefer sp's who I have developed a connection with. Some sp's prefer to keep emotional distance, and I respect that, but it's just not my cup of tea. I prefer that people are honest about this choice though, unfortunately some people do try to fake affection/love as part of the gig, but it often falls apart as disingenuous over time. I also know of an sp that has dropped out of sight without warning, and she is one of those that I feel love for. In any case though, I'm sure she has her reasons, and I hope she is doing well.

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I've visited with Lorena many times when she travels to my area. She has a great personality, a wonderful accent and provides a very relaxing massage. I definitely recommend her company!

Had a great time with Vicky. She is friendly, has a sweet french accent, and provides a wonderful massage. I definitely plan to repeat.

Always a great experience with Barbie. She is upfront about what she does and doesn't do on her website, and she is a genuinely nice person to be around. She provides a fantastic massage experience.

Hmm, I think we are glossing over an important point here. The question isn't whether or not you look good with or without makeup, nor is it about what the majority of clients prefer. The question is, are you advertising wearing makeup or not? If you are advertising photos wearing makeup, then you should strive to deliver what you are advertising. If you are advertising photos without makeup, then you should strive to deliver what you are advertising. This doesn't apply to all situations, some providers don't post face pics for example, and this way there are no expectations. At the end of the day, what you are advertising to us is what we believe we are getting. I think you look fine without makeup, as many women do, if you are advertising without makeup and some guys are getting upset about that, then they really aren't worth your time. I have personally encountered a mature 40-50 year old sp in the past that chose to heavily apply makeup in her ad and then showed up with none of it on. Of course her advertised age also matched the makeup she had applied at the time, rather than her actual face, needless to say I did not repeat.

On the one hand that could bring in guys who feel they are being charitable, on the other hand it can turn a lot of guys off who don't want to feel like she isn't really into it, and just needs the money.