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Ok.... That's a bit awkward..... Well, here's a song by Conway Twitty: On a serious note, hope she'll get the guidance she needs. It sucks and sadly not that unusual. Hopefully it will serve as a wake up call for her and all people impacted by her poor life choice.

I'm pretty sure most of us will agree with you, but we know not all ladies do this by choice or enjoy this line of work. Some are caught in a raw deal after hanging with the wrong people, money problems or other serious reasons. It's why I make sure to deal with indys or ladies with enough liberty to directly talk to. From there if she lies about her services and likes, it's on her. I understand the attraction and chemistry are not always present, but if she choose that line of work one should expect a bit more than a "phone in" session.

"Baywatch" is not just a horrible movie, but just plain obnoxious. Contains gross-out sex jokes only young teenagers would find "entertaining", even if clueless about the source material. The same could be said about "CHIPs" who used the same formula and had nothing to do with the popular TV series. With the first barely making a profit and the second that bombed hard, hope some producers are getting the message.

I'm fine with both as long what's underneath is nice with a fresh clean smell.

Also not a fan of piercings and walking "pin cushions". When I see a woman, it's for her warm skin and not the cold metal. As for tattoos, I'm relatively open minded. But I draw the line when I see something that looks like "gang tattoos" and when her arms are so covered I can't say if she's wearing a shirt or not. I always see it as a creative(and expensive) way to hide needle marks from a history of heavy drugs use.

Your welcome. And can pretty much say the same for many directors. Like a few years ago, I introduced my mother to Quentin Tarantino with Kill Bill. Before watching the movie, I explained her the rules of his movie universe with the language, cartoonish violence, Asian influences, nonlinear story telling and the insane amount of blood. With that knowledge she had far more enjoyment out of the movie was curious enough to see others like "Pulp Fiction" and "Django Unchained". If it wasn't for the soft introduction , she likely never would have appreciated the genre. The same with Kevin Smith movies. There many great little movie like "Clerks", Mallrats" and "Dogma". But if you start with "Tusk" or "Yoga Hosers" made for a very limited audience, you'll likely get a very bad first impression.

Considering the high level of hygiene involved, it's the kind of thing that mostly happen in the heat of the moment. I seen ladies into it , but they often prefer to see first hand what they're dealing with before putting it on the table.

Some people need to understand the difference between what's normal and what's not. It's like having someone saying he ended up in bed with a bar waitress after tipping her generously all evening, and you somehow believe this is customary. Life is full of surprises, and should be appreciated as such. If someone from the health, restauration or other industry wants to get personal and physical with you, there's nothing that stops you from a discreet and respectful relationship. But if you choose to deal with that person for this sole purpose, it will make it awkward for both on top of potential legal and personal problems. If you want a fwb/gf use POF or other dating websites. If you want something else, SP's and MA's are there for that purpose. Be a responsible adult and don't expect fairytales(or porno) scenarios from every encounters.

I seen something a bit similar with an SP telling me she couldn't orgasm because too numb from whatever drug she was on. Not really a plaisant experience.

I haven't seen that movie because I made my homework. This movie was directed by Darren Aronofsky, the man behind movies like "Black Swan", "Requiem for a dream" and "The Fountain"(to name a few). He's known for heavy symbolism and religious undertones, and from I read on this movie he cranked both to 11 for this one. The entire movie is an analogy for something else and I won't spoil it here. Like often the case with this type of f..ked up movies, it's hard to sell to a mainstream audience. So, the studio's marketing department got creative and pretty much sold it as an horror/mystery genre, creating mixed reviews from critics and moviegoers. Most fans of Darren Aronofsky's work enjoyed the movie. But if you went blind, your reaction to it is a bit normal. Every directors got their own visual style and ways to tell a story. Once you know who's behind a movie, it's often easier to know what you're getting yourself into. I'm not disagreeing with your assessment but just making the point on how a quick research can save you from a bad movie experience or provide a good heads up for what you're gonna see without spoiling it.

Oscar(1991) with Sylvester Stallone. His worst movie after Rhinestone(1984).

Here a better link: https://www.leolist.cc/personals/female-companions/south-eastern-ontario/ottawa_new_in_townaddictive_mouth_skills_come_play_with_me_20-2998628 A few things are fishy starting with the (802) Vermont(New Haven) area code. I find a bit odd there no traces of her working there or anywhere else. If those professionally made pictures were legit, one would think she would have used those closer to her home town. She's maybe real, but those kind of details raises many questions. Do what you want but I would be very cautious.

I agree with fwblus. It's hard to put a statistic on what's going on between two adults behind closed doors. Less than one percent will advertise or offer it on the first meeting/session. But after repeat visits the option is offered a little more than many want to admit to. In a perfect world it would be 0%. But between two adults with good attraction and chemistry it becomes none of our businesses. Your statistic is maybe in the ballpark, but we'll never know for sure.

I think we can replace the word "discrimination" with hypocrisy. And that works for men and women. I never visited a male stripper club. But from what I heard, what's tolerated there would get a man booted out quickly from a conventional strip club. For some reasons, many women seem to lose self-control when part of a group, but then lecture you because you watch porn on the internet. And while many men pretend they never pay for sex , they got no problems giving "gifts" to a mistress or pay for extras in the back room of a strip club. To each their own I suppose. And like I already mentioned, the information doesn't need to given straight. There's plenty of ways to tell someone you seek alternative relationships. And if the person opens about her own kinks, you can gradually bring it to the conversation.

Being a hobbyist doesn't change anything, but the type of relationships a man seeks does. And certainly to someone who tries to be a matchmaker. There's ways to say things without screaming out loud they meet escorts. In my case, I just said I was seeing "friends with benefits". If I pay or not or whatever the arrangement is not really her business, but at least she had an idea of what type of man I was without going too deep. The way I see it, other than the money there's not much difference between being seeing an SP of a FWB. How much he wants to sugarcoat this aspect of his life is up to him.

Being loyal to her lady friends doesn't mean telling them deep secret about someone else. And certainly not when they don't need the information. Also, the great thing about being stuck in the "friend zone" is having nothing to lose. If she's a blabbermouth and dismisses a lobbyist without knowing what it's all about, it should be more than enough reasons to rethink your friendship. Better know this sooner than much later.

Hopefully it's her decision. All we can do wish her the best of luck. If it's worthwhile or not, we'll hopefully know in a few months.

I don't consider your experience a contradiction. There some sad stories with happy endings and some not so much. In your case, she opened about her problems and took steps to clean herself up. If she stays away from the environment that got her there, she'll likely live a good life. In the case of dmsdms, allowing her to consume in his hotel room and leaving her alone uncertain about her condition was pretty careless. This could have ended tragically on top of causing serious legal problems. If he wants to help her, he can meet her off the clock for a coffee and recommend her to seek help. If she doesn't, the best is to leave her alone until she finds the proper motivation to do so. Helping someone doesn't mean allowing her to hijack your existence. Just point her in the right direction and hope she'll get the message.

If that woman values her friendship with a man, she won't share that information with her lady friends. I understand the goal is not to use this as a way to stop the unwanted matchmaking, but unnecessarily kicking the can down the road is also not a solution. If that friendship is gonna last, that information will eventually come to light. Better sooner than later. If he doesn't want to share that aspect of his life, he better come up with something else with equal impact. In my case, I didn't told her I was seeing SP's but shared the fact I was meeting women online and on phone-chat for FWB relationships. Even if a bit different, it can be seen as better or worst depending on how you look at it. If he wants to go that route , I doubt the end result will be different.

Considering you're pretty much trapped in the "friend zone" and the topic of her boyfriends seems to dominate your conversations, you got not much to lose by sharing that aspect of your life. It may surprise her at first, but if she's as open minded and mature as you say, she'll likely ask questions to know more about it. And once she'll understand what you actually like, she could potentially introduce you to different type of women even if the results may not be better. I know, I've been in a similar situation. But as she'll know what type of man you are, she'll likely just stop trying to find someone for you. That's my two cents.

This used to be true, but I certainly hope the world evolved since. Bars, restaurants and strip clubs are not the gold mines those used to be. If you think big breasts compensate for the shitty service, I'm happy for you. But not sure everyone shares that opinion.

I find a bit shallow to judge and tip only in regard to the bra size. While it may help a little, the service, friendliness and attitude should be prioritized. If her personality sucks, the novelty of the big tits will wear off quickly. And even if it provides a bit of extra income, it doesn't mean it's gonna cover possible complications down the road or reconstructive surgery once she'll retire. Profitable to some, doesn't mean profitable to all. Up to the ladies to see if the benefits outweigh the risks.

Like you I prefer small natural breasts but open to all sizes if natural and on a curvy or a BBW. I also agree large breasts are still quite popular in the adult industry. But it's not as dominant as it used to be. In the 70's, 80's and 90's, "boob jobs" and large breasts were more than a trend but pretty much a rite of passage to work in the adult industry. Small chested performers existed, but if you asked anyone to name some of that era, few would pop to mind. But today, I can easily name a dozen making more than a decent living with A or B cups. I'm not dismissing any opinions, I just wanted to know if big breasts(natural or not)are still as dominant in the industry as it used to be and the answer seems to be "no".

If you deal with someone with an addiction problem, the best you can do is to politely point her in the right direction and not allow her to consume in your presence. You took a very huge gamble by allowing her to smoke in your hotel room and also by leaving her alone there. She or a procurer could have robbed or trashed the place. And if she would have ODed, you would be neck deep in problems. Having sympathy for someone doesn't mean you can't tell her NO. Better show her the door than having to answer questions on why a dead or comatose woman was found in your hotel room.

More than often, it's not about the breast size but how they're displayed. I seen many waitresses with B cups getting similar tips and attention from simply wearing a push-up bra and tank top.