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A major hint is when the procurer won't allow you to talk directly to her on the phone. It's not a good sign. If you go to an incall location and the security is abnormally high, it should also be a hint something is not quite right. On this website and more precisely in the recommendations section, there plenty of independent and semi-independent ladies you can talk to directly. Contacting them should put your mind at ease.

I agree with you and my comment was in regard to services advertised vs service offered. Most ladies won't advertise services they won't deliver to all. In a perfect world it would be true. But in reality, not everyone can keep a poker face when dealing with someone they don't feel comfortable with. The attraction and chemistry will strongly affect the service. I agree some are quite good in offering consistency to everyone. But with providers of different ages, experiences and motivations, nobody can expect the same professionalism from all.

First, welcome to the board. Second, only a fraction of lobbyists/clients who are members of message boards like this and post reviews. I never claimed a profile here and multiple reviews was essential. It simply provide a bit more information and can be helpful for people with less experiences. I agree with you that no feedback can be a good thing and some ladies do request to not be reviewed to remain low key. Thank you for your input. Additional Comments: I don't think YMMV(Your Mileage May Vary) applies here. The term normally refers to the intensity and longevity of the session and not really the content. If she doesn't feel motivated by your presence, she'll do what she promised in a minimalistic way. It will be brief and superficial. And if she likes you, it will become an intense GFE session.

Go in the Ottawa recommendations where all the reviews are. I'm sure you'll find one of those mobile ladies and the feedback you need. http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=125

Sounds like they confuse an expanded massage with a Chinese buffet. LOL

I've been seeing SP's and MA's for close to 25 years and the deception tactics didn't evolved much. Things changed in term of communication and ad sources, but the good old tricks of the trade are still used. In the days of the newspapers, some ladies told me how more than half a column would belong to a single agency or group. And also how providers would claim having 30+ ladies on call when the reality was often less than 10, forcing a lot of creativity in term of descriptions to meet every needs. With internet, personal websites, apps and specialized message boards, the process seem a bit more transparent. But in reality, very little changed. We still need to ask the right question and have the strength to walk away if something looks wrong.

A Lyla membership shouldn't be instantly considered a certificate of authenticity or a guarantee of satisfaction. We regularly see profiles come and go with fake reviews and promises. The MOD does a good job in keeping the place clean and answering complaints. But sometimes a few bad apples fall between the cracks. Ladies with multiple reviews from long time regulars are quite reliable. But we should remain cautious with those only reviewed by a few newcomers. Whatever the source, we should ask questions and look for red flags.

This sounds like a "middleman" problem. A common problem when dealing with ladies using procurers. They don't write their own ads and don't have full control on what's written about them. To avoid this, I like to talk directly with the lady on the phone to make sure her description and services matches the ad. If the management doesn't allow direct communication, you should avoid. And if she tells you something on the phone and it's the opposite in person , then shame on her.

If you took the time to go through the discussions about massages and escorts, you'll find plenty of ladies and reviews who offer both options. Some even provide links to specific threads about themselves or the agencies/clubs they work at. By being vague about what you're looking for, it makes it a bit hard to offer specifics. You should maybe start by scrolling the ads section and follow the links to read existing comments. It should be a good first step. http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=315

Correct me if I'm wrong, but an out of context review should be a major turn-off. What I mean, is when someone reviews an MA with flexible services, but end up revealing things that should have remained private between them. If she keeps the extras for regulars only, it's likely to avoid attracting a certain clientele. When a lobbyist spills the beans on a message board, it creates a reputation and expectations she doesn't really want and can be misleading to new clients. Unless she advertises extra services or FS, I never mention it in a review. More respectful for her and for anyone into her services.

Also looking forward to the second season of "Westworld" in April. The series is a reboot of the 1973 sci-fi movie and contain a few references to the source material. It's not for everyone as it contains a fair amount of extreme violence, gore, nudity and harsh language. The storytelling is also nonlinear, something that may confuse some. But it's done very well and the payoff is far better than the way it was done in "Lost". It was made by the same writers and creative team, but they learned from their mistakes. The first episodes are a bit slow because of the world building and exposition. But after the rules of the universe are established and main characters are introduced, the pace get quicker with plenty of twists, reveals and well made action scenes. They didn't cut any corners in term of production value, casting and writing. If can stomach series like "Game of Thrones" and enjoy sci-fi movies like "Blade Runner" and "Terminator", you'll certainly enjoy this.

Not a Netflix series, but I finished watching the first season of "Star Trek: Discovery" and truly enjoyed it. It's definitely an odd entry in the franchise and the two part pilot episodes didn't really represent what the new series was all about. It instead presented the main protagonist and the events that triggered the plot for the series itself. It's a well written story with plenty of references to the original series and plenty of new material. The "Discovery" name is a bit misleading as it's more about war and violence than to "Boldly go where no man has gone before". But, very good quality visual effects, plenty of plot twists and turns and a good cliffhanger ending to keep fans interested for more to come with season two. If a "Star Trek" fan and can survive the first episodes, you'll certainly enjoy it.

The stories were well know by many Ontario and Federal Conservatives. Some even claimed former NHL player Eric Lindros was the source of the rumours. Whatever happened, Patrick Brown would have gained by staying low key for awhile and settle it quietly. But he instead decided to go out swinging and by airing the party's old dirty laundry. For anyone on the outside, the meltdown is certainly entertaining. But for those in the middle of it is like watching a captain sink his own ship. As for the young women who came forward, I hope others will corroborate their stories. Looking forward to more updates on this.

The way I read it, it can be interpreted both ways. And things are not really different the other way around. I rather get a message saying the session has been postponed than meeting her and learn she's sick or having her period as an excuse to limit her services. If she cancels at the last minute it certainly sucks. But if she does hours or a day before, I'm not gonna complain about it unless it's not the first time she cancels for odd reasons.

Not sure about that one. If you're gonna "call sick" just as an excuse to cancel, it's normally because you don't want to see her in the first place. If it's legit and not done at the last minute, she will certainly understand and have no problems rebooking once you feel better.

In the context of FS, a hug should be natural. If a provider tries to weasel out of it, this should raise concerns and prompt an honest discussion before taking care of business. If for a massage, the choice of a handshake or hug should set the tone on the type of service offered. Even if not an RMT, a therapist who greets a new client with a handshake makes it clear she will remain professional and to not expect more. Well, that's the way I see it.

Not sure this is the best place for medical advices. If you got bad(or annoying) side effects, those should be discussed with your doctor. Yes, some people may have experience similar problems, but not everyone react the same to medications. What works for them may not go well with pre-existing conditions or other medication you may also take. Better have this discussion with your doctor and pharmacist.

Not sure "trust" is really the key. It's good to a certain extent, but can also unwillingly pressure you into more risky things like unsafe sexual practices or potentially dangerous substances. In my opinion , imagination, communication and the willingness to think out of the box are a better path to long term pleasure. A few months ago, I shared an experience where conventional sex with an SP was forgettable. But because she had a great body, I suggested an experience where we could take advantage of it while making sexual pleasure a secondary goal and the result was a nothing short of amazing for both of us. Thanks to the internet, there no shortage of kinks to explore. And no need to go in the weird or the gross to make things interesting. That's the way I see it.

A toaster. My old one just died on me. LOL

Would be more helpful if you provided a link to her ad.

You can afford many ladies, but not a smartphone or a notebook??? LOL

In long term arrangements I seen a bit of monotony when one or both don't want to venture into something a bit different. Also noticed some who tend to take things for granted and will be less shy about their bad habits like smoking and texting. And finally, being a bit too comfortable can sometimes lead to taking risks.

There certainly a few, but not sure anyone with a clean conscience would recommend them. Once you start playing in that territory, it's normally a downhill slope to a life of misery. It's certainly not my cup of tea. If you want to take your life and drag someone else in that direction, don't expect much help from me or anyone else.

For the same reasons we mostly deal with the same contractors or workshops after receiving good services. Some may argue dealing with an SP or MA is not the same, but in many ways it is. In both cases, you check for their services, references, reviews and hire them if you like what you see. If your not completely satisfied, you got to repeat the process to find someone better. Both have their good and bad: Seeing someone new is always an adventure. Sometimes the payback is awesome and on occasions a complete nightmare. In a repeat, there far less unknowns. The experience is more predictable and safe. The little downside is the possible monotony when dealing with providers who never venture out of their comfort zone. But when dealing with someone opened to try new things, you can live a completely new experiences and never get bored. If you got a good imagination and see a lady opened to it, a repeat will always beat the risks of starting from scratch.

To share the sentiment of the others, BP is NOT all fake. There no perfect sources. More the amount of ads, the more fake/misleading you'll find. And while message boards like Lyla are more reliable, a profile here doesn't make it a 100% endorsement. Quite regularly, problem ladies lose their membership after multiple complaints from hobbyists. If a profile is quite fresh and doesn't contain reviews from long time members, I would recommend to wait and look at more established providers. Whatever the source, just take a few minutes to do your homework.