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7 hours ago, SussexCowboy79 said:

After my first experience of inviting a SP (please do correct me if I’m wrong, the polite way to refer to escort or companion) I am very uneasy about inviting someone into my home after the negative experience thst happened the first time. I’m an older gentleman in my 60’s , I live alone out in the bush my eyes have began to fail me and I am no longer safely able to drive to go to the SP’s home and I wish I could but I just cannot afford to rent a motel just to be able to feel comfortable spending time chatting and enjoying the company of a beautiful SP.  That being said maybe I should just give up ? I want to be able to feel relaxed, and enjoy my time and not be worried or constantly on edge waiting for something terrible to happen. I’m a harmless old fella and just don’t want to be labeled an easy target to these dishonest SP that I have been learning about ! Any suggestions fellow members may have on how can screen a SP, types of questions to ask? Signs to look out for Red flags ect ! would really help this out fella out. Thank you in advance for reading my letter and have a wonderful evening stay safe . 

Hey Sussex, 

My suggestion would be to post on here about looking for an SP willing to do home visits and of the SP's that provide a reply I would look for their recommendations and reviews. If you can find a well known and respected provider I'm sure you can find someone suitable for you. 

Now normally we don't allow posts "Looking for someone" only asking for advice etc, but as your circumstance is a little outside the norm I'm happy to allow it if it will help you moving forward. 

I am currently reviewing all comments made in this thread and going to discuss changes with the Devs to improve anything discussed here. I can't guarantee it will be done right away as please keep in mind we are limited by the tools the site has available to them as this isn't a custom build. We'll do our best to improve movement through the site and the mobile experience. 

In order to save Gentleman4U from having to explain to anyone if they message asking him for the name: If you message @Gentleman4U for the details pertaining to the provider he saw, I will give you a temporary Ban. This topic is only staying active for discussion purposes about extending time on either end. Not for who he saw. 

Hey Everyone, 

Some very good points have been made in this thread so although the offering of "Providing the MA's information" behind the scenes to circumvent our policies would normally constitute removing this thread I'm going to leave it up. For others to discuss the topic as I believe it is relevant to the industry and useful. 

@Gentleman4U Please do not provide anyone the name of the provider in question via Private Message, this would go against our policies, your thread is staying up for it's valuable information and constructive discussions but providing this information would be seen as "Negative" and is against our policies. 

7 hours ago, Scottnotpaul said:

I was there last week and saw Chloe. Well worth the rate. I will absolutely repeat. 

You should give them a recommendation then :).

On 10/23/2018 at 7:59 AM, Greenteal said:

  I mentioned this before but the thread has been deleted since.

Would be nice to get the return of the Do Not Recommend(DNR) & Do Not Discuss(DND) List. It disappeared after the facelift.

 Thank you.

 

The list is there in the Rules section, no one has requested to be on it since implementing it. 

13 hours ago, aloneinhfx said:

No reputable SP will ask for deposit. If they do... walk away and find another. More than likely they are a scammer trying to rip ppl off.

Hey Aloneinhfx, 

I have to say you're quite mistaken, the problem is most reputable SPs will ask for a deposit which is good, but scammers then appear reputable by doing so. If they're new or not reviewed, or verified on multiple sites. I would not provide a deposit. 

So you're given an hour to edit any post you make now. After that you require myself to edit the post. Please link to the post and tell me what you need to edit specially if it's regarding a name I'm happy to correct the issue. 

Ok I will have the devs look into this. 

1 hour ago, clearbluesky15 said:

Was reading through, and wondering if this is current with respet to the current website.

The new site seems pretty easy, when folks like your stuff, there's points :).

 

I am curious why on my profile, when I look under "reputation activity" there's "nothing yet"... I wonder what goes there.

I looked around and the FAQs seem to talk more about the old website.

Hey ClearBlueSky15, 

I just looked at your profile and you do have 1104 points, everyone starts with 1000. When I liked your post it went up to 1105. Are you saying that you can't see this number on your own profile? 

Hey Everyone, 

Just so you're aware "CerbMod" is now the main mod for Lyla, although "Mod" is still around and helping me with moderation if you need anything it's best to directly message myself "CerbMod" as "Mod" will just pass it on to me in any event. 

So to recap, yes it's fine to contact "Mod" but if you need something done, or changed, he'll be passing on to  myself "CerbMod" so save him the time and contact me directly. 

Moved to appropriate section, please be aware of where you're posting from now on.

Thanks for bringing this to our attention we'll look into this right away. 

Keep in mind if you're located or viewing from the U.S then they won't be visible. 

17 hours ago, chechman said:

Hi all,

Sorry if this has already been brought up but is anyone having troubles seeing the pics on LL or is it just me?

Hey Chechman, 
Can you give me the browser and system you're on and whether all pictures aren't showing or just in certain situations? I'll inform the LeoList team. 

13 hours ago, Nicolette Vaughn said:

I’m late on this thread but what about private albums?

If I'm not mistaken you can already do that in the album settings. You can mark it so that you have to give them permission to see the album. 

When you make the album at the bottom of the description section is a tab called "Privacy" if you click on it you can select one of the following three options: Me Only, Everyone, or Private - I want to choose who can see it. 

You'll want the one that you can choose who can see it. 

18 hours ago, Phaedrus said:

+1 on this. I really dislike having to put the provider's ethnicity in there. Fortunately you can skip it if you're adding to an existing reco thread.

We'll look into this. 

57 minutes ago, jg24 said:

What happen to the chat

It was moved to it's own page. 

We will be testing a few layout changes over the coming weeks, if you like something or dislike something - please use this thread to share your opinions. In this thread if you do have a negative opinion on something please express it in a polite and as professional a manner as possible. As we not only need your feedback we respect it so please be respectful with any negative feedback - it will be allowed in this thread. 

For now the changes we have made are: 

Moved the chatbox to its own page called "Chatbox" - will look into renaming this ads - as the page also has a list of the 30 most recent ad posts. 

Added a list of hot topics on the forum page. 

4 minutes ago, clearbluesky15 said:

One thing that would be handy for me would be a way to "set my region"... so that when I visited, I could more quickly get to reviews and announcements for my province/area.

We're definitely looking into this, unfortunately there are limitations with the Invision community software, that either we live with or have to code ourselves to get around. 

On 8/27/2018 at 8:48 PM, Prufrock Cummings said:

I liked the old base page where you could see newest members (so you could click and say 'hi'), top posters, hottest threads etc.  

We have just added the "Go To Unread" which will take you to the first unread comment :). 

On 9/20/2018 at 7:14 PM, TiffanyLynne said:

Is our Twitter feed suppose to show up or just a link?

Just a link. 

2 hours ago, Midwestman said:

Would someone be kind of enough to give me steps to secure a cheap burner phone in Nova Scotia?

Where to buy a phone? Can it prepopoulated with a phone card? Will be able to text? Do I need to “register”with a phone network, or does it just work?

Hey Midwestman, 

I may not be of help as I don't live in Nova Scotia, but do you have "Pay as you go" phones there? those are in theory burners, as when you buy them you do not have to setup an account. You just call in to activate it with the free time that comes with it - then you can buy time cards, or use a credit card to add packages to it. At no time does a name need to be linked to it. 

You can get them at Bestbuy here in Ontario, among almost any other electronic store. Usually for $50-$100.

11 hours ago, Phaedrus said:

Is this new, or something I'd just completely failed to notice previously?

Everyone: to save you making the same mistake I did, cerbmod's talking about the main Lyla page, just under the chatbox... not the general discussions forum page.

Hey Phaedrus, 
No it's not there, it's been there the whole time but previously if you clicked it the first 4 pages were all Pinned posts, which made it useless in my opinion. I've corrected that, now it's another convenient way to see what's new :). 

Hey Everyone, 
If you're looking for an easy way to see a list of Fresh topics/posts - using the "Fluid" View(3 dots with 3 lines beside them) - button located just above the "General Discussions" section. Will now show topics based on Recent activity - not their pinned status - this makes it extremely useful to just hop on to the site and see quickly what was posted last etc. 

I hope this helps make browsing the site a little more enjoyable. 

Over the coming week or so I'll be playing around with the layout of the menus etc. trying to find the most optimal way to showcase the information. Nothing I do is guaranteed to be permanent so please feel free to voice your opinions if you dislike something.