Jump to content

TorontoMelanieJolliet

Senior Member (100+ Posts)
  • Content Count

    322
  • Joined

  • Last visited

  • Days Won

    1

Everything posted by TorontoMelanieJolliet

  1. Have you been busy? (during 'getting ready to leave' conversation) How am I supposed to answer that? Really!? That's like 'Do you have a bf?'
  2. The only info i can offer is if dealership sweetens the deal with something like a extended warranty (maybe covers the years you will be paying the loan), ask if they are going to charge you for it. I didn't find that out until after signing and taking papers home to read them. The cost to extend the warranty until payment in full is like an extra 8 months payment. I can't figure out how that works out, it still could be okay since warranty was originally some amt of km or years, whichever comes first. It kind of makes sense to be covered until car is paid in full, but I would have appreciated the opportunity to figure out the benefits for myself, before signing, and not feel like they tricked me.
  3. When guys tell a new girl (in town) that she is too rich for their blood, (when she is really not) just to try to get her to lower her rates overall when visiting that town .... what they fail to realize is that if they (collectively) can't 'afford' her, then she will move on ... and not look back. So the turn-off for me is that guys think I must be stupid
  4. Being comfortable with someone is not a reason to be lax. And being diligent does not prevent the transmission of sti. But being careful, aware and educated does go a long way in keeping those nasty bugs away. People should be fearless in their approach to their own sexual health and insist on all necessary testing, as they should not have to disclose every minute detail in order for that to happen. Sometimes the doctors just have to trust the patient, and as a patient, you have to understand that doctors are only going on what you are telling them (as a poster above stated). If you neglect to tell all the details, then tell the doctor to trust your judgement! As for sti that involve the community health dept, the health dept is in touch with you to make sure that you are not creating an epidemic. If you act responsibly (accept treatment) and let your partners know they should be tested, then the health dept is not going to advertise your sti to the world, or anybody in your household. Apparently if they need to call you, they don't leave a message except like a code word to call them back, for your privacy. So don't be afraid to get testing if you have an SO, they will not know anything unless you tell them.
  5. I requested an address that will receive from couriers (from BP) and so far it has not been provided (in other words no response on that). The address I have is a P.O. Box and couriers will not deliver to a P.O. Box. I sent mine regular mail. From mailing to receiving credits on my acct took exactly one week
  6. If you prefer, it IS possible to purchase Credits on BP without using Bitcoin. If anyone is interested please PM me and I will give you my number to text me. I will provide the info. I finally got around to doing it but I didn't want to tell anyone until I could see for myself if it works. It does! It involves moneyorder in US funds to BP itself. I am so happy as I don't have to purchase paysafe or deal with bitcoin.
  7. I was a dancer for 15+ years. If a dancer doesn't come out and offer extras to you, don't ask! It's demeaning, and irritating. And will put you on the blacklist for the rest of the night as the 'clean' dancers will talk and stay away because you are obviously not interested in buying any dances and they will be uninterested in entertaining you for free when there are other people in the club who will buy dances... the whole reason they are there is to earn a living... from dances!
  8. I think it's time in Canada's History for an 'open-minded' Prime Minister! Yay Justin! And GO JAYS!
  9. Is Whiskey's really that close to steeles and 404? Inside toronto you could go downtown to Brass Rail or Filmore's, or to Caddy's in Scarborough. Or even The Secret East in pickering. ....nevermind, this is a really old thread
  10. I like it. It will apparently be staying until 2016. But I recently heard it has been taking a beating. Something about people having sex on it??? I can't find a news article on it. Maybe I heard it wrong? Has anyone heard about that? Or maybe I heard 'sex' but they said something like 'selfies' which would make more sense.
  11. I will have to go back through this thread and re-read. It contains good advice and suggestions that are a new way of seeing things, that I also, could use right now. Thank you everyone
  12. How about DO get comfortable and be open. It allows for discussion, if necessary, about the personal things you will be doing together. And staying (sexually) safe through the time spent together. I have been in relationships where being intimate was the 'no talking' zone. And now I realize that was the wrong way to do things. I am much more open now. And if I have a question, I am comfortable enough to ask it. And it has resulted in much more fun for me. And my guy too!
  13. I see some time has passed now from your first experience. I hope it has been continuing to go well for you Adrianna. And I hope you have been meeting some nice people too. :)
  14. Of course tips are welcome. They let someone know that they put their best foot forward and it was appreciated. After the session of course. Giving before is a sign that more is expected and kind of puts an expectation on the escort. So it's not really a tip so much as it is to get more than she is willing/comfortable with. But for someone like me, gifts are kinda a touchy way to say thank you. Gifts are reminders. And part of these interactions is to not be too involved outside of the interaction. I would not use gift because of that reminder. So when receiving a gift, it would seem that to display that gift for the next interaction is what is expected. And in that case it is not really a gift so much as a prop for someone else's enjoyment. So it would be tucked away until the next time. So that would be fine then because it would allow me to wash the prop for safe use next time. But then sometimes with gifts, people get territorial, so it cannot be used for pics or for others. Not a really good way to express 'thank you' (for me anyways). But that is just me Additional Comments: I see that some have a good understanding :)
  15. when i found one of mine re-directed i just used the automatic re-post feature. for 4 days, 4$. But i don't know how to use that 1$ feature except to post once for free, then post again before 24 hrs is up to get access to the 1$ feature.
  16. disposable dixie cups for mouthwash are great too and no clean up afterwards ;) And because it's summer, unscented anti-perspirant (spray type of course) Also I wish everyone found bar soap disgusting like you do, roamingguy, as I find a few will still use my bar soap that i use for my body, instead of the many bottles of body wash i have supplied specifically for use by many different persons (I even have signs posted lol) And I even wash the bottles daily. I'm kinda uptight that way
  17. I realize people only look at the pictures too :) I was thinking about putting my information that i want them to see across my photos, just like when someone puts their name and number across the photo to keep others from stealing it. I will do it so it gets read. Haven't tried it yet but am seriously thinking about it
  18. I was going to talk about anti-acids. Kind of related in that 'area' of the body. If you are taking anti-acids, it actually reduces you natural defenses to fend off what might be normal things (like bacteria and such) in your stomach. And could cause you to become sick. Stomach acid is there and is useful for keeping us well (as i believe it does a good job killing the offenders) and if you take ANTI-acids that will reduce your ability to stay well when confronting a bacteria (or whatever) when your stomach is in a normal state. And thank you for advice about pinworms. I never thought of that. Do you think 'covered' activities for that are ok? like a dental dam?
  19. I have seen this as a complaint from many men. But I have to ask.... How does any man know that she doesn't wash afterwards if they should have left already? Or are they talking about when they have someone visit them?
  20. other ladies comments will not reduce transmission of sti if your gums have been irritated. It was a HEALTH CARE WORKER that said brush at least an hour before encounter. Otherwise, use mouthwash and/or chew gum before if you are worried about bad breath. If your breath gets that bad that mouthwash or gum won't do anything, then start flossing (as a daily routine) and seeing your dentist more often. Or you are could be having digestive problems. So a clean mouth won't do anything for that. But it is nice to know that some people will brush to start an appt and could be irritating their gums or make them bleed, which makes even kissing a higher risk activity.
  21. Here are two about love (that I find inspirational): 'You never love the same way twice' 'Love is like gravity, you have to let yourself fall'
  22. I read from someone who had spoken to a relative that is in health care, that brushing teeth before encounter should be a no-no because of the risk of bleeding gums that will allow a possible unwanted bacteria into your body. So it would be like an open cut. It is advisable to brush your teeth and wait at least an hour before encounter and then after brushing and before encounter, use mouthwash if you like. Good advice I think because I always knew you shouldn't brush to soon before but was not sure of the time lapse that would keep you safe. Does anyone else have advice about grooming etc that will you keep you as safe as possible?
  23. you know what? now that you asked that, i think i kind of do. Now that I am aware what that is, i can look back and see 'traits' of people who I now know considered themselves 'hobbyists' and they seem to have things in common. I find those 'traits' to be the centre of the uncomfortable experiences i sometimes have, like alot of pressure and being judged, harshly lol And they never seem to truely let go and be natural. It's like an order of things must take place, and length of time spent on each activity etc. So yeah, I don't like the term if someone were to actually come out and say that is what they were, I would get tense and stressed.
×
×
  • Create New...