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I know what the point is ☺️ I'm just noticing the passion behind that point and the "stick-to-it"ness that is powering you all to go on and on about. It's kinda scary on one hand but on the other hand, it is showing up as a need to not only make a point but to make it so. And that will not happen. For one, the world of this 'hobby' has had a power shift since the US laws came into effect and have made everything in this industry operate differently. But I see the loss of power as a worry to some. Most are happy to carry on as they had no need to control the women who populate this industry. But others... There is even a history behind it and is described by a telling of the story behind "the league of extraordinary gentlemen" in Seattle. That was uncovered a couple years ago when investigating the reason for large numbers of men entering and exiting an apartment unit. It broke down not just the investigation and resulting charges but the activities and behaviours of members of a review board. If you want a study in psychology that could just be it. Maybe that is not where you are coming from... but it sure looks like. Sorry 😞

Babe you can't tell people what to do. You are a bit obsessed with this case and should maybe contact the girl who is giving you this obsession and take it up with her. Also advertising websites don't give you the option to choose an age range, so you have to choose one. Maybe you can find her real age in a current ad? Also... maybe she left the business, had to find someone to update the site if she doesn't know how etc.when she came back. If you want to avoid teenagers that's easy. Ask them how old they are 🤭 The mindset of that age group (if you can remember yourself at that age) is that even 20 is old so if they are trying to seem to older than they are then the younger they are the less far they will reach. Like maybe is 16 then 18 will seem old for them. If 17 then they might say 20.😉

Before I knew that was a thing, I would receive them. But just with the same Hi, Rates, Available? that can easily come through text. I realized there is a setting that you can say yes or no to. You can accept them and they will be sent to your email or you can say No. Since it's no better than simple texts I chose No. So since I didn't know about that option for inquiries, then of course I didn't even know to check email for inquiries. I never replied. I would have no idea what days or time they were talking about or what city etc. And I rarely check my email anyways. That's why I don't do email contact. I tried it buy no one will follow my instructions to guarantee them an answer 😕

No. A companion should not be required to change her age yearly. Specifically because some do notice. It is something that could be used to stalk or steal identity. I mean when is she going to change it without giving away information she may want to keep private. Keep in mind that the places where she advertises have more information than you have. That is where the identity theft 💯 could come in. It's the birthdate that makes that theft possible. It's the last piece needed to steal an identity. As for ppl who watch, knowing, they can also be suspect. 🕵️‍♂️ If a SW changes her age yearly, then she may pick a date that is not her real birthday, but if she forgets it the next year, these 'watchers' will find a way to sully her name for lying or something else because she didn't change it in time. Just like companies can keep a slogan or product picture around for years (maybe the colour is no longer available) but it still works, well, that's how they make money. Because of the nature of this business, real ages or one chosen, are not as important as some ppl claim. This business is about looks, presentation and involves interpersonal skills as well as physical skills. So if the age of the SW is so important (instead of a range of age, meaning difference between 20yo and 30yo and 40yo) then maybe you should try asking for ID. Good luck with that. But finding more ways to strike specific SW off your list is at best a good way to keep your options limited and at worse, a good way to not get laid Officially her exact age is no ones business. And just like in real life, women lie about their age. It's been going on for years. It's their prerogative 😉

So maybe it's time to make a hard push for VIPFavours. I already direct from my website for my schedule. I will try on my twitter and other places. In person too. I guess I got some work to do...

okay so someone else has confirmed this. Apparently my page stays open but there is still a misdirect. (I guess similar to what happens on that blue board). It's a nuisance and a distraction. It also means the money I spend there is not exactly taken into consideration since they make no apologies for taking my money then allowing it to be over-ride with a big paying misdirect to a website. Oh yay... Just like you all, its a matter of taking money without letting you know how unimportant you are as the next person could be more money. Hmmm

I read a person who peruses a popular advertising venue (LL - Leolist) has been experiencing a re-direct when he's on that site. Is this true? I tried to re-create it and I failed. I want to know as that means people are being taken away from the place I pay to advertise. Does that make any sense?

Might I suggest you retweet your twitter post about this. Then it will show up in notifications of all your followers. And they can see it.

I was here exploring an idea, trying to learn something, figure out a strategy and make adjustments. All you are doing is tryna tell me what to do. Thanks for your consideration. Happy Holidays

Its never worth it to keep occupation that causes issues. I mean everybody loves what they do and they get to do it till they die or retire. Ppl who don't want to do something that involves work get to do other things. I'm sure that paying rent or mortgage is not a problem for them. So yeah you are right, nurses can leave their professions, Starbucks employees who are required to smile, smile smile and be overly cheerful, can find a job digging for coal, doctors don't have to have bedside manner they can just poke you and do tests and get reception to call you if you have to come in again. And hookers can ignore hi, rates and the great chat-inducing, how are you?

I think I have figured out what emotional labour is. The biggest part of emotional labour in this field is done during the inquiry stage. And there are expectations. It's not just about answering questions. The expectations are that even though that information is available in ad or on website, the inquirer still wants the attention of the girl. Nurses get burnt out. The claim was it was the hours. But they are realizing that it is the emotional labour that fills every one of those hours that lead to burn out. In this job, the meeting means an end to the emotional labour. The expectations are done now. But it's the inquiries that lead to the most emotional labour being expended. Which could be why some/most refuse to engage with what is TimeWasters. The amount of patience to deal with them drains your goodwill towards ppl who deserve it. Even so, a serious inquiry will not drain the well when it comes to emotions that you have to portray to meet the expectations of an inquirer. Proof: on these forums lots of girls have said they will not answer 'hi' or 'rates' etc, Some will not deal with arrogance, or explicitness. And consumers of their services will often complain when they don't get the expected answers to their questions. Or she didn't seem nice enough or had a quick enough reply. So emotional labour is expended and expected. (hence why some girls say they like this guy or that. The amount of emotional labour expected to be expended is considerably less. Now he is a favourite)

You will find that your time with me is un-rushed and relaxed. I provide a good atmosphere that is welcoming and comfortable. A dance, I find, is always a welcome ice-breaker, so I offer that if you are so inclined. It is important to me to make sure you are having fun and you enjoy our time together. I am accepting pre-booked appts now for the duration of my stay. Same Day appts also available. As well as Short Notice appts (with minimum 1 hours advance notice).

You will find that your time with me is un-rushed and relaxed. I provide a good atmosphere that is welcoming and comfortable. A dance, I find, is always a welcome ice-breaker, so I offer that if you are so inclined. It is important to me to make sure you are having fun and you enjoy our time together. I am accepting pre-booked appts now for the duration of my stay. Same Day appts also available. As well as Short Notice appts (with minimum 1 hours advance notice).

You sent a PM ... and the only way to reach her is email? That means she wants to be contacted by email I'm thinking... so PM is not the way the she wants to be contacted and you chose that way to contact her?

This girl is not unfamiliar if you have read these types of forums. She is feisty for sure 😉 So this article should not be a big surprise.. but it made me go "oooohhhh" and giggle a few times 🤭 https://torontosun.com/news/crime/law-student-and-escort-faces-good-character-hearing

Basically, no matter what your business model, it's just rude. As a woman, it's just rude. And "lots of DfK" is just weird and not exactly manly. That's just how it comes across. Some men got it and some men don't. If someone were to ask about kissing that would be way different than "lots of DFK". I mean really... what does "lots of" mean anyways? The OP wants his checklist met. He is seeking a certain type of girl and business model. Also bbj with cim is usually considered in a pornstar-like session. And he just added it to his list. He made no distinction that is might be part of different experience. So all that, from a total stranger, is demanding and disrespectful (cuz she may offer those things but he has put her on the defensive by being demanding and not allowing her to basically defend herself, yes it's that kinda feeling those demands put on a girl, it's THAT bad) and puts someone in the position to be angry, offended and totally want to not meet that person, ever. She may offer those things anyways.. but you still have to ask nicely. More flies with honey than vinegar. Dude is probably used to communicating with "handlers" or "trained" girls who don't exactly view "tricks" in a much better light either. So they are made to get together for these things. Thing is a guy like this will upset a girl who is not his match, want to fight about it when instead he should have just moved on. Deleting and blocking can be done, but just wait for the app number to come through so he can finish it by pretending he is someone else... you all don't understand. But OP, after reading through these responses, should now see that is method of demanding things is not welcomed by everybody and should seek out certain girls who will accept this. But I still have a feeling he doesn't really care about what is said here. I believe he was on a mission 😕 You walk into McDonald's. McDonald's does things to make the customer experience comfortable. They take pride in offering these little things. But you want to make sure you get those little things. So you make a list and make the demand. Each demand gets the employee a little more miffed as each demand was available to you already, you would have seen, if you just enjoyed the experience. But you demanded it, and employee has to try to convince you that it is already going to be a part of your experience. It's more work, it creates a chasm between you and the employee and your whole experience today at McDonald's. And you have insulted the practices that are in place, to make your experience the best. And that's on you, not McDonalds.

But some people don't care about passion and only want the checklist. Humanising also is not important. For some the whole experience is one where they get to pretend that SW has a number of clients and does their bidding all day long. They think that when they see a SW they are doing her a favour (by actually paying, what they want of course) so she does what he wants out of obligation. That is why there are different business models. Since most of the girls who contribute here do NOT enjoy or offer on that business level, this post is really shocking. But on other sites it is normal. These type of customers are normal on those sites. Seems some people want to change the direction of this site, so they can participate more or influence, as influencing (from clients) became less of a thing since FOSTA/SESTA (which POTUS signed to appease his base). People want to take the power back. It is reflective of the times. Just look south for the mood... and follow it here. It spills over...

One turn on for me: Using markers to draw Toad from Mario Kart 😂 as long as he doesn't call me horseface... 🤭... that would be a turn-off

I think some training is in order. 🏏 When answering inquiries make the distinction between being an escort 👄🍌🍆 and being a massage attendant 🤲☯️☮️. One simple thing to know/impart is that escort will charge more for their services while massage attendants will not charge as much (one reason being that the health risk is less). But people have to remember that each still has expenses as well as needing to make enough to cover bills/rent etc. If they start asking for escort services acknowledge that. If they are looking for massage services acknowledge that too. Training involves teaching people the names for things so they can learn to make the distinction. And remember: the law allows service providers to do their business. The law only is concerned about the buyers and that is only if they are looking to buy from girls/boys/etc who are being exploited ❌. No need to allow people to be so comfortable that locker room talk is welcome 🤐. Still need to use intelligent conversation to promote understanding. Discretion is useful and sensible but clarification can be a benefit. And it keeps you safe. 🙏

Really? Not even hers but anybodies. But if you read to next page it's actually a fetish and she is not the only one. And continue reading page after that to find out what some have feared... except it is sold for aphrodisiacs 🤭 woman makes shrine of used condoms

I am impressed by your thoughtful response and understanding. kudos! (that is not emotional labour, but an honest observance) ☺️

This is not a tech question but it kinda is. Sometimes, when I'm getting lots of nonsense texts i will start searching numbers before I answer. I found this, something I have never seen before, associated with a number. A different search informed that the number was a landline so i searched further and found this really weird thing. In Google search too. I am confounded 😕 Can someone guess what might be going on with this discovery?

How much of it is expected in this field? How much is delivered? Do you understand the true value of emotional labour? How important is it to you? Should you pay extra for it? Can you expect it when the rate seems to include an attitude/atmosphere that is always friendly and strives to be fulfilling every time? (example: with a rate that barely seems to cover expenses, one would assume that emotional labour is NOT part of the package) Clear Definition of emotional labor (according to this author)

... or have a good work ethic and are serious about their biz and the quality. Face it...some ppl can't help but do a good job. They don't always do things based on a goal to be recognized but more because of pride in themselves