somewhiteguy

I have a couple of questions about this whole shindig. I'm new to this whole thing and have spent some time looking through BP for escorts that fit my tastes. I've found a few, but what happens next? What is the protocol for setting up a session? I've texted a few but don't really receive any answers other than rate/services/location. Is it expected that they'll take a few days to reply? Can I expect to have a few questions answered by text? There seems to be some not-so-obvious taboos. I'm not interested in negotiating prices, but I want to ask about specifics yet no one has answered my questions. Also what can I expect from visiting an SP? Is it like show up, chat for a few minutes to talk about expectations, then the time starts and after the time cleanup with a shower or something? One of the ladies I contacted told me her location for incalls is a hotel. What's the protocol for that? Do I confirm with her the time, book the hotel room on my own, and then give her the number and expect her to show up? What if she doesn't? Or does she provide the hotel room number? What kind of tone should I expect when texting? Are ladies generally willing to hold a bit of a conversation or should it be short and sweet? Is there some 'inner-circle' type deal where no one explicitly talks about the situation at hand for legal reasons and it's all implied or is it not taboo to be more frank? What can I ask of an SP? Can I ask for a picture of her face? Can I ask for a topless picture? What if my fetish is for a specific kind of breast shape? Can I ask for a picture of her holding a paper with something written on it I specify? Is it expected that I give some kind of identifying feature for safety reasons or is just "I'll be there in an hour" good enough? Thanks to anyone who provides an answer, I'm interesting in hiring an escort but the rituals people seem to be used to aren't very obvious.