Does anybody else find this to be probably the worst possible time to discuss finishing options?
Personally, I find it just absolutely kills whatever energy and mood I had going. It takes me right out of the massage/sensual state of mind. I've also found that the actual massage time spent on my stomach tends to be much, much shorter because we don't know what's going to happen after the flip, so the flip comes much sooner to ensure we don't run into overtime. I also find they have me at a severe disadvantage and am likely to be upsold.
I'm curious why this is common?
I personally always want to establish things before the massage starts. Allows for a much more focused, uninterrupted experience.
Or does somebody feel differently?