Cleo Catra

I'm jealous, I want that to be MY name!! :D MEOW!

I think you need to be yourself in order to succeed in this business - but that doesn't need people need to know everything about me. The 'Cleo Catra' I project is an honest portrayal of me - she's a part of me. BUT, that's not my name...and I don't tell everyone everything about me. That would be too much like dating, and I'm NOT dating my clients. My clients know as much about me as they need to know to decide if they want to see me. Once they see me, they learn more, and decide if they'd like to come back. In every encounter, we learn more about each other...what sexual buttons to push, how to draw that orgasm out, how to tease, excite, play. And in the process, we talk and learn details about each other on a personal level, which heightens the intimacy of our time together. And I love that. However, if I had a fight with my best friend right before a client shows up, I'm not going to tell him the details of that fight. I might say 'You know girls, ugh! Always silly fights', then move on to our session. If I have giant bills looming and I'm stressed about money, I'm not going to go into details of how I didn't manage my finances well this month, but might say 'Budgets dont' always work!', then move on to our session. Etc. The man is coming to me for his own escape from reality, his own fantasy, his own sexual desire. For all I know, his wife may have broken down that morning because SHE had a fight with her best friend, so he's coming to me to escape - so the last thing I want to do is lay on the details of my own personal drama. I like being part of a fantasy, of having this world where I lay my personal dramas aside for an hour or two, and escape to this sexual, sensual world between the sheets.

Exactly!!! :D

Texting is accepted by many girls now, and for me, I like it because it's easy to answer a text no matter where I may be when I receive it. I'm rarely sitting at my incall, I may be out shopping/at the gym/having lunch, etc, and it's hard to answer a phone call and especially hard to answer calls such as 'what are your restrictions' when I'm out in those situations. But a text can be answered anywhere. Also, if we miss a phone call, we don't call back - but a text doesn't need to be answered instantly. One texting tip is to keep it quick, ask your questions in as few texts as possible, it can be frustrating when the phone goes off a dozen times in a few minutes when one or two texts would have sufficed. Not sure what you mean by 'ok to ask', but if you mean okay to ask availability/rates/etc, my answer is yes :)

Lots of orgasms. And yoga

Emily J is in the west and she's delicious :D http://sweetemilyj.com/ My lovely girlfriend SaraMQ is also in the west end but she's away for the next few days http://saramq.com/

Currently watching 'Side Effects'. Great movie, really interesting look at medications/the pill industry.

I'm currently reading 'The 100-Year-Old-Man Who Climbed Out the Window and Disappeared', a comedy novel originally written in Swedish by Jonas Jonasson. So far it's absolutely adorable, very enjoyable book.

Walking in to my house and having my entire furry family waiting at the door to greet me. Gawd I love these little monsters.

I offer outcalls, anywhere in Ottawa :)

Didn't mean to spoil the fun... But things like this would be best in a private chat room, or private group, so only people who want to be in on the fun can take part :)

Can this thread possibly be taken somewhere private? I know this is the BDSM section but it's still a public forum... And we're not all turned on by girls being called dirty whores and bitches.

I'm not ashamed in the slightest. WHen people ask me what I do for a living, I tell them, I'm an escort. My family knows, my friends know. When I tell someone what I do, and they think they can leer at me in response, they learn quickly that being an escort does NOT mean they can touch/grope/be inappropriate with me. I am a woman who loves what she does, and who knows that everything has it's context. As such, there ARE times when I won't say what I do, because I dont' want it to all become about me. For instance, at my sisters upcoming wedding, I will not tell people what I do. Because, unfortunately, if I did, I know there would be gossip/stares/sneers, and I would be mortified if I caused anything like that on my sisters day. Which unfortunately would happen if I was honest. Society forces me to be dishonest sometimes, but for the most part, I am welcomed and respected when I am able to be honest. My friends responded with shock, but quickly the shock turned to understanding, and in most cases, respect.

Many ladies offer incalls out of their homes, and follow safety protocols, so I don't see why they shouldn't do this. I know some women who have happily been doing it for years. As for gentlemen inviting SPs to their home, I have been trusted to do so on many occasions. There have been multiple circumstances: sometimes it's with a gentlemen I have met previously at my incall, so he's built up the trust; sometimes it's with a new client, but we've emailed back and forth significantly, so he's built up the comfort level; and, I've even been invited to someone's home for our very first meeting after our first communication. I delete the address information as soon as I'm gone, so even if I'm invited back, I need the info again. I don't keep my clients personal information (unless I'm asked to, which has happened). And I do of course have a safety call who knows where I am, and when I should leave. Now, I once was invited to a man's home during our first text conversation. He wanted me to go to his home, in the outskirts of Ottawa, for a home-cooked meal. I denied this request. Going to a secluded area, for a meal cooked by a man I'd never met = RED FLAGS. I told him I was happy to join him for dinner if he came to me, and we went to a restaurant. He declined. Which made me feel happy I had said no. When you've been in the business a while, and I'm also assuming when you've been a hobbiest for a while, your gut does a fairly good job of telling you when you should say yes, or when you should say no. Mine hasn't led me astray yet!

Me-OWWWW! With my real name, mine would be 'LANA MAXIM'. How hot is that? Almost makes me want to change my name on here, ow ow! With 'Cleo Catra' it's Kara Nekkid. Meh, not too stoked on that one.

Many ladies are quite happy to accomodate 45-minute sessions, even if not posted on their websites. I personally don't list every possible timeframe on my site but do have rates for other durations ready for when the timeframe is requested

I'm a little sad to read something like this, because I've had clients try and do the same thing to me - and they are clients I unfortunately no longer see. I had a gentleman see me a handful of times, and every time it would be at least at 40 minutes before our session would end. And it would only end because I finally said we're way past our time. The last few times, I pointed this out, and said perhaps we should start booking longer sessions. The last time he contacted me, I finally said, great, I'd love to see you, but only if we book for 45-minutes as our sessions always go longer than 30 minutes. He accused me of 'upselling', and I haven't seen him since. I wasn't upselling - he KNEW he took more than the paid time, and when I finally asked to be paid for the time he actually took, he walked away. It was unfortunate, because I enjoyed my time with him. But I refused to be taken advantage of...and I truly hate hearing about other girls being taken advantage of in the same way. Sometimes sessions go a little longer, and we all (well hopefully we all!) understand it can happen.... but if you know you need more than 30 minutes, you should be booking more than 30 minutes. It will make the time more enjoyable for both of you, and ensure that lady is getting the rate she deserves.

They do have two locations on Bank St actually :) VIP and Luna South (sometimes I think they just refer to it as 'Bank St' rather than Luna South though) are both near Bank and Alta Vista

While I haven't been lucky enough to experience it myself, I know that Alexxandria at ALO gives a fantastic massage - I am fairly certain she has RMT training but I'm not 100% sure http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=122443&highlight=alexxandria http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=132856 She is also gorgeous, petite, and has an adorable accent :)

As a little little girl in the 80s, I had mad crushes on two very different musicians... Donnie Wahlberg - And Sebastian Bach: In the 90s, bring on Beverly Hills, 90210 (still one of my favourite shows), and my bad-boy of the moment became Luke Perry... For the last decade or so, my biggest celebrity crush has been this hilarious and charming man with a smile that makes my face go red: PAUL RUDD Just look at that smirk! Additional Comments: And of course, I could never forget the woman I've loved right from Who's the Boss, Charmed, and right up until now...Alyssa Milano

Red never works out well for my skin tone...I'm a big fan of black, I have tons of those. White is nice too but I don't seem to have any...purrhaps I should get some. An option not listed, but that is also one of my faves and I have more than a few pairs, is PINK. H-h-hot pink. Love it.

Panties...no, didn't see those...might have seen something else though.... :lovers:

I had a blast, first time there in years and I think I may have to make an appearance at the next one too :) HUGE thanks to Old Dog, you are so awesome in so many ways! And thanks to my handsome date as well, I wouldn't have been there if it wasn't for him ;)

The WelcomeInn in the east end, right by the St Laurent shopping centre, has a day rate. Or at least it used to, I haven't stayed there in quite some time but they definitely did have it at some point. I believe the Comfort Inn right by it does as well. Neither are anything spectacular but I've stayed in both and they're fine.

Thank you everyone! This pussycat feels so loved! :D