Cleo Catra

Good for you for saying no. Most people, myself included, likely wouldn't have been as strong, and smart. Thanks for sharing.

In the bathroom at your favorite bar :D

or both? ;)

Well MEOW lady!!! :D

HAHAHAHAHAHAhAaHHAAHAHA the OMG cat is the best!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I don't know about the others, but I'm not debating the idea that recos alone on here should be the only info. What I'm saying is, if there's something about an experience that didn't sit well and you want to provide feedback, do it in person, not on a thread on a board that she may not even read. Feedback is best given in person, if you genuinely want the person to take it into consideration.

This makes purrfect sense to me. I dont' require it, so yes, showers are included in our time. But if I did decide to start requiring it, I think it makes sense for it to be off the clock.

It really seems like you're beating a dead horse here. It doesn't seem like anyone wants to go back to the original topic - and for me, in addition to my previous comments, I think the reason is this: you're not asking for 'turn-offs'. You're asking specifically for things SPs have 'done wrong', and for people to share. No one wants to shit-talk ladies here. Period. Now if you want to discuss things that would turn you off when seeing a lady, like bad breath, dirty bathrooms, etc, I'm sure people will chime in - I know threads about those very things exist on this board. But to come on and ask people to share negative experiences on this board is going to do nothing but breed more negativity.

hahaha now that one is more for the boys I think ;)

I love it when my big kitty walks past me and rubs his big fluffy tail on my leg as he goes. Seriously, makes me smile like crazy every time :D

stop giving away my secrets there Phaedrus or zombie kittah may be coming for you next!

eeeeeeeeeeeeek!

Can I just say that this is the BEST THREAD EVER??!!! And this photo - AMAZING!!!!! For those who don't know, the tattoo down my left leg is of zombies. YAY ZOMBIE CAT!!! HELLO FRIEND!!!!

Couldn't agree more. However, what you're not listening to, is a group of successful business owners, like myself and the other girls in here, who are saying we DO this, but it's more effective by giving feedback directly to the business owners, rather than broadcasting it to current and potential customers.

What if me and all of those ladies you mentioned were eating crackers in bed, together.... :D

I would like to say that I'm the complete opposite. If I did something that someone was upset about, I would SO much rather have them tell me, so I could try and fix the situation with them, and so I can work on it. If I logged in and found a review saying my place was a mess, I would probably end up in tears. It would hurt me, and I would be staring at my screen wondering 'why couldn't he have said something'. Obviously not everyone feels the same, as you point out ladies in your experience were opposite. But I point out my feelings on it to demonstrate that, just because it was one way with one lady, doesn't mean everyone is going to feel the same way. I think reading the reviews and evaluating the lady can assist in this. I would assume that, if a gentleman from cerb came to see me, or Meg for instance, and they'd read our posts and reviews, I would hope that, if something questionable came up, he would know that he could tell us, rather than walk away thinking 'WOW and she was so well-reviewed this shocked me' or whatever. Because if someone said to me 'Hey Cleo, I had a great time, but I have to tell you - you should clean your bathroom more. I didn't really feel comfortable taking a shower in that tub' - I would not freak out, instead, I'd appreciate it and probably thank the gentleman in a very nice way for telling me.

Well I can see where you're coming from, I think you're making a lot of assumptions. Just because a lady did some bad things, does NOT mean overall that she runs her business badly, or that she's going to freak out if you give her constructive criticism. As I believe Meg suggested, you can send her an email, if you'd rather not do it in person. There are many reasons the lady may have done these things, and yes, including the possibility that she genuinely doesn't give a fuck about her business. But if everyone simply decided to tell their friends, or post negative things about her on a board, rather than tell her, a woman who may have genuinely been clueless about the things she was doing wrong could be put out of business. A good friend of mine will never, ever complain in a restaurant. Ever. She'll eat the food she was incorrectly brought and then leave, never to return. And she'll bitch about it to other people. The first thing they say - why didn't you TELL THEM. The services we provide are in no way comparable to a restaurant, obviously, however, in any customer service situation, there are certain things that both the customer and the service provider are responsible for. And the reaction you receive could surprise you - in your case, she might have laughed and said 'whatever', in which case, you'd be right - she doesn't care about her business. But, she may have realized what she'd done wrong, apologized, and fixed it. One thing I've learned in life is: you're NEVER right about people. Everyone can surprise you.

I completely agree with this. Even if you found her on cerb, that doesn't mean the 'no negative' has to supercede everything. If something is wrong, tell her - just be polite. I understand completley that telling any lady, no matter how politely, that she had body odour/her house was a mess/she was rude, is not going to be fun. However, this IS the only way she may change these behaviours. And honestly, I personally think that every lady was probably well aware of these issues already, so a gentle, polite reminder may have kick-started her to finally do something about it. My bathroom at home is never that clean (my incall is spotless though!), because I was just lazy about it. A friend coming down the stairs and saying EW was all it took for me to get my butt up there and start scrubbing.

thanks sweetheart! Additional Comments: SO CUTE!

Juicy. Juicy lips....mmmmmmm

eeeeeeeeeeek just saw this now! brought a smile to my face on an evening I'm not feeling great - thank you!

D is for deep. Deep and delicious :D

We'll just have to start again! I'll start - A - aroma. I love love love the smell of sex :D

VAGINA!! Oh, how I love, love love the smell of my own vagina (go ahead and think I'm weird, I don't care!)