KittyCaterina

Why are you associating deposits with taking drugs as payment now? Nobody here said that they ask for deposits and take drugs as payment. I personally am drug free including marijuana. You keep going way off into left field and taking underhanded shots at providers who have a policy that you dislike.

Where did I ever say I was having issues here in Kingston? I have been here long enough and screen based on attitude and true phone number which has helped me reduce no shows to almost zero. I stated I used to have some no shows but that I don't eff around anymore. The struggle I communicated was regarding ladies who tour, which I rarely do because I have no need to, and the general issues SPs face. My Kingston client base is great. I did not ask for your advice. I don't need it. The thread was regarding an assumed conspiracy and providers were asked WHY SPs don't tour here often. So I answered and gave the same response that two other providers did in this thread. You guys wonder why providers stay quiet even when asked for their opinion and experience... It is because of clients like you who think they know better and try to shut us down. Just because I see a bunch of clients, does NOT mean I fully understand the emotions they go through when being scammed or robbed. So don't assume that just because you are a hobbiest that it means you understand what sexworkers experience when they have no shows or last minute cancelations, or worse. You are so full of yourself and have such an ego that you think I can learn from you, a client and that with my over 15 years experience I haven't been perfecting my business. I am doing quite well here and when I go to Mississauga I am FULLY booked. Even with the high expenses, I still come home with a nice chunk of profit. But... I only take a work trip twice per year. Those who tour more often have to sometimes take a financial hit due to cancelations. As I mentioned before, my duo partner had an overnight booking cancel just 30 minutes before and he was sufficiently screened. You say you don't have the answers for me? I didn't fucking ask you for answers did I? Mr. I Think I Know it All about what it is to work in a profession that I've never been employed in... I will repeat, nowhere did I say I was personally having issues with a bunch of no shows or give an invitation for advice from a client of all people. I was speaking in a general sense and using examples for what a nuisance a no show can be for the majority of sexworkers. Again, the subject of the thread was a client wondering why not many escorts come to Kingston anymore. As I am already based here and don't take deposits from home (said in my first post), my response did not include myself as an example. You can see from the client responses and likes supporting me along with my over 50 great reviews, I am doing a good job all on my own without needing your "expertise" and I deserve the stellar reputation I've earned. As for the member offering me a ride to Toronto that you have brought up like he is some Saint... If I can't rely on his hollow booking "attempts" WHY would I trust the offer for a ride to Toronto. If you think I'm going to prebook 2 1/2 days of clients only to have my ride there canceled last minute, you are crazy. Pretty funny that you are here thinking I need advice from you on screening and marketing, yet you think I should take the offer for and rely on a free ride to Toronto from a person who has only wasted my time and been extremely flakey? Yeah, great idea genius. Perfect example of unsolicited help offered that is a terrible idea to take.

You couldn't even write a review without making it about attempting to prove your point and taking shots at other escorts. Your review was less about the lovely sexworker you spent time with and more about how the opinion of one sexworker has supposedly validated your condescending beliefs.

You have no idea what I have been through regarding sexwork. Some in Ottawa may remember the young teenager on the newspaper's front page who was forced into prostitution at 15 and almost stabbed to death by a John... I think you are intelligent enough to understand what I'm getting at. You never know what someone has experienced. So do not assume I haven't had hardships and that it can't happen to a white girl in Canada. I stopped sexwork for a long time and came back once I was stable, healthy and educated. Who knows, in 5 years I could end up being your pet's veterinarian and requiring a cancelation fee from you. Maybe then you will think I deserve it because I'm no longer below your standards of a human being. So as kindly as I can say this, fuck you. Fuck you for the condescending spiel regarding my only hardships being make-up and a shower. You aren't a sexworker so quit yapping like you know what we endure. __________________ Just going to put this here re: expenses for a Mississauga trip. Hotel: During the summer any decent hotel that tolerates sexworkers is about $200+ per night So 3 nights is 600+ plus taxes and fees, an average of $800 and that is on the low end Train: $120+ each way, so 240 Uber to the train and back home: 20 each way Uber to Mississauga: 35+ each way, so 70 Food expenses are higher, cannot carry a bunch of homemade food on the train with their new luggage restrictions, so let's add 100 Am I close to 1500 yet? I'm not even done. So as unbelievable as it is to you, high expenses are now the reality of touring. ______________ PS. Where did I ever say I requested deposits while working from home here in Kingston? I don't. Only when touring. So much of your babble and many of your remarks regarding my Kingston work don't even fit my narrative. Maybe read or do your research before posting thinking you know everything about something you have zero personal experience in (being a sexworker.) And as I'm sure you would never book me anyways, I would never give consent to seeing you. You are anti-deposit but recommend we ask for a photo of our clients?! If a client doesn't trust us with a deposit, do you actually think they would trust us with a photo? C'mon On one hand you say we are in a BUSINESS yada yada, and before that you put sexworkers down and claim we don't deserve deposits or cancelation fees by comparing us with lawyers and doctors. You are doing a bunch of flip-flopping.

Saying that I could exchange places with a sexworker from a poorer country to see what they go through is ridiculous and a poor attempt at shutting me down. There will always be someone worse off and it does not invalidate a person's struggles. I could say similar to the clients who complain including you. We are in Canada and are discussing issues we face HERE. If my prices are too high, why would someone book me to begin with only to cancel? To teach me a lesson? Just don't fucking book me then. When I tour, say Mississauga for 2 and 1/2 days, my expenses can reach over $1500. A few one hour cancelations or 2 hour, 3 hour, even overnight cancelations can be detrimental to my profit ESPECIALLY without deposits. Yes, I can move onto the next client but that time slot is now gone. You can refuse to acknowledge this and be purposefully ignorant, but it doesn't change the truth. During my last Ottawa trip, my duo partner had an overnight booking cancel just 30 minutes prior to the booked time. It was awful. You say to just block or blacklist a no show right? Let me guess though since you mention anonymity... you disagree with SWs requiring real numbers and not text apps? So please tell me how we block a text app when the person can just create another? Unless we don't accept text apps, we have no recourse to block bad clients or no shows. When I work in Kingston, I take one client per day, so YES, a no show is a terrible thing. I spend at least two hours preparing, showering, doing my hair and makeup for my clients and for what when a no show happens? It is wasted time and income. And YES, I am constantly having to turn away bookings for my already booked client whether you want to believe it or not. I DO have acceptable rates and provide excellent services with going the extra mile, so whatever you are implying is BS. I'm sure the "part-time drama queen" was directed at me. How many hours per day I do this makes me no less of a sexworker that others are. Clients who react the way you did when sexworkers join in conversations regarding this line of work are red flags. It is your fault and it is why Kingston lacks new talent. If Kingston was a hotbed of great clients, you guys wouldn't be wondering why this and why that. The person who liked your post is a complete timewaster who has texted me multiple times to book (and I reply, we speak and try to figure out a date and time) only to text me a day later and brag about how he ended up seeing another lady and how great it was, so he can't afford to see me anymore. I began to wonder if he was even a real client. (And the beautiful ladies in question have higher rates than me)

One issue is that SPs who come from larger cities charge rates accordingly. They come to Kingston with those rates and realize that the majority of potential clients here are unwilling to pay above 280HR if that. Clients here are also generally very deposit UNFRIENDLY. Many touring SPs rely on deposits to ensure a certain amount of serious bookings before arrival. Hotels and travel whether it be gas or a train are very expensive nowadays. Cancelations can be very financially harmful and those unwilling to give a deposit are usually also unwilling to pay a cancelation fee if no deposit was given. When I tour, I require deposit. In Kingston I don't only because I am based here. My regulars are amazing. BUT, the amount of new clients who cancel or don't show that REFUSE my cancelation fee is really sad. Even some past regulars have done this after multiple cancelations when I get tired of it, and they all get blacklisted. I don't eff around anymore. My clients either respect me and my time, or they don't (good riddance) This weekend a young gorgeous SP was in town that I know and in 3 days she received TWO bookings. It is not the one or two Asian Agencies who are threatening new SPs. It is the fault of the clients here.

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Please read my above post. Although, spelling my name properly is a good start.

Thanks Karma. This is true. If you are using an app or don't follow my very clear and simple directions, I won't respond. Things like: Hi Hey How are you? You available? Rates and restrictions? Etc... Will not get you a response. If you text "Hey Kitty, I'm Palace from Lyla and I would like to see you on this day at this time for this long" you will get a response. If you are trying for a same day booking my website is clear that this is usually not available and I prefer prebookings. I VERY RARELY cancel and am always punctual as you can read in my many reviews. I am assuming we have not connected for one of the above reasons. Also, my name is Kitty Caterina not Katrina.

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No you and I have not met as far as I know.

You posted a short positive comment/review of her on another board. Good for her for fighting back and using this situation to her advantage.