Bobby Keys

I met Scarlet for the first time for a simple 1/2 hour. Although it was a a short date, she managed to create the entire GFE in that time slot - from conversation, unwinding, touching, passion, though to cuddling, I felt we packed the full experience in to the limited time. I highly recommend Scarlett as an attractive, sexy, and easygoing provider of a wonderful GFE. I will likely repeat.

Slightly off topic, but if the strip climbs were open, this would rock it! Sizzy Rocket “Snells Like Sex”

This is who listened to and liked one of my tracks on SoundCloud - she has a couple awesome tracks too. I know it’s a little off-topic, but she’s hot, no? Seriously, knowing that she heard me and liked it was almost as good as hearing her cum. Seriously, it’s an ego thing, right? Part of the blast - part of the head-trip .... she’s good!

Economists, ecologists, etc. will be studying this for decades. How often do you get to make changes and see what happened. Don’t get too optimistic about climate results, however, we’ve been mucking that up for quite some time now.

I try not to stereotype, especially about ethic groups, as I am a little “ethnically ambiguous”, however an experience at one of these places a few years back felt like a brush with trafficking that I cannot ignore. I didn’t follow up or confirm, but the suspicion broke my heart a bit. Since then, I have gone Indy all the way. Frankly, indies tend to try to up-sell less, which always irked me anyway when I realized the rate required add-ons to be equivalent - and it especially ruins it for me to be negotiating it all in the middle of things, which I found to be the norm in these establishments. Even before the bad experience, I was prepared for the up-sell and only went when pickings were slim otherwise in my travel area. Never again.

Time Flies When You're Having Fun After a few months and a number of encounters, it seems like no time at all has passed, but Em and I are old friends catching up. By now, she definitely knows what I like and plays in to it, taking me to new heights as journey progresses. I look forward to each next visit with anticipation and have only been pleasantly surprised. Her Siren's Song draws me back, but I am not trapped, rather renewed.

I am not sure how much these help, but they don’t cost anything and won’t hurt, so what the heck! I’m in.

I love the analogy. Similarly, this industry ranges from “suit and tie required” to “McNuggets” and sometimes maitre d must turn away those not suitably attired. One thing that gives the clue about the “dress code” is the lines of communication provided. To many, providing a number or email directly invites using it before research. When only the website is provided and additional contact info given on the site after telling me the rules for engagement - I follow them to the “T”. If given three contact options in a ad, most of us pick the least effort path to instant gratification. This is especially important when the ad is placed next to “McNuggets” (On LL, for example) who is quite willing to accommodate “u avail?” and also has her number listed.

Just to be clear - I am a numbers guy. By saying “rates are low” there was no implication that we need not be careful. Rates are low BECAUSE so many people started being more careful in the 80’s. Prior to that, “care” was primarily focused on pregnancy. A lot of people got “religion” about protection when fear of death from HIV entered our collective consciousness. Now, legal changes allowing more open engagement in companionship, combined with retro viral drugs taking away the absolute death sentence seem to be shifting focus from care to competition. Only recently have I encountered providers using BBFS as an up-sell - even advertising it. I passed when offered. Mind you, it wouldn’t do anything for the provider if there was no market. My real sadness associated with this is that gay and bi men are showing disproportionate rates ... we don’t need another reason for the rest of the world to see us as toxic. Yes - play safe everyone!

Thanks for the heads up - here is a media report with the numbers ... 17 women and 67 men ... 84 - 20% women in 2019 ... for Nova Scotia https://www.google.ca/amp/s/ottawacitizen.com/news/local-news/ottawa-syphilis-cases-take-400-per-cent-jump-in-five-years/amp rates of syphilis, chlamydia and gonorrhoea are all up significantly, but rates still low - it’s the rate that f increase and lack of awareness that are largely of concern - most doctors have never seen them! https://www.google.ca/amp/s/ottawacitizen.com/news/local-news/ottawa-syphilis-cases-take-400-per-cent-jump-in-five-years/amp

This board follows my mother’s advice: “if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all” - it’s sound advice. BTW: The providers see your negativity - how sexy is that? The worst part of the “reviews” is that the folks who build up theirs rep try to use it as a power base to blackmail providers. “I’m big shit on TERB and you better make me happy or you’ll never work in this town again” - don’t be that guy. Nothing gets me off more than a chick that really seems in to me. That can be acting, I’m OK with that. If that’s not what I get, I move on - she’s just not that in to me... Just like real life ...

Agree 100% - I’ll add, why would I be more loyal to some random dude on the Internet than than someone I’ve been intimate with? I’m honestly more “hos before bros” on this one. Haven’t had this happen, but a link to website or ad and “yep that her - yep what’s written is true” are about as far as I’m comfortable with. Frankly, I like this board because I see guys actually care about the ladies. I like to think that I do. Maybe now you can just send them a link to this post, eh?

I love to keep the smell for afterward (natural or synthetic), but I n most instances, it’s not worth worrying if it will get me busted ... for that reason, I can’t let go and enjoy if I need to worry ... strong smells make me worry ...

Hey, what is the current url for Rules and FAQ? It seems the link at the start of new users section, from 2011 doesn’t work.

In response to opposition objections sited in the arrival: Why, exactly, would a church, school, or day care preclude? If we are to appease all who may be offended with overt sexuality, we are still, I’m some sense, requiring a sort of burka. "Whatever an individual's attitude towards sex work in general, most reasonable people would not approve of sex work being performed in the house next door or on the same street as a church, primary school or day care centre," Mr Higgins said.

I don’t care about the add-on at all. I care about: - location (gotta be reasonably convenient). I like when the “approximate location” is used, or area of the city mentioned. I don’t want to waste my time or the providers on “yea, I’m not driving all the way out there”. - I wish the “near me” feature worked better. - My price Range (can’t do the deal if I can’t afford it no matter how attracted I am) I like when rates are available to the filter. I especially don’t like interacting with a provider and having to demur because I don’t want to pay out of my range. If i am really interested, I will look at links in the ad to get that info. I usually don’t reply to “msg me for rates”, even though the times I have, they have been OK for me. - age (too young makes my e feel like a creep - I like grown ups) - personality - this is where the pictures and text come in - I need enough of both to understand what I am getting myself in to - at least “on paper”. - if I’m looking for “now”, time posted, which is where the available badge sounds good, but I don’t trusts that it means anything more than “I paid a premium”, because I don’t expect SWs to update actual availability in real time - TMI.

Love the handle. I dig the sexy nerdy thing! Welcome!

Which makes me inclined to stay and continue participating 🙂 Each of us has a perspective, I am glad to take in those of others and share mine. Thanks for clarifying. Back to the topic at hand: This platform has undergone some of the minimal aesthetic updates and widgets necessary to not be a dinosaur (TERB), but is largely focused in filling the same market need. What made this work in the past? How has the introduction of new platforms changed the value add of the platform for SPs and clients? How is the industry changing in response to the availability of other platforms? And ultimately, how can this platform better serve its market and thus positively affect relevance? These are existential questions.

Understood. For the record, my motivation to be here was getting lit up hard. I imagine this is not an uncommon motivation for taking the plunge. Whether I stick around has everything to do with the tone of the community. I have no problem with spirited discussion, but am not here to be talked down to simply because I have not made it a point to document or brag about my encounters previously. True, I came to post a recommendation, but also hoped be able to actually talk about this taboo. So far, I have found one person willing to interact, and each interaction so far has left me feeling a little smaller. If I leave this as a last post, will it be seen as proof that I was what you say, or will the irony not be lost?

New here, but was also surprised at the slow pace. However, those who do take the time to participate actually have something to say, so I still find it useful. Just not the instant and continual dopamine pump of Twitter. Twitter is a public open forum, whereas this is more closed. LeoList is a one way SP->client ad channel. Each has its uses. i see three general categories - “full pro”, (website, twitter, Lyla profile), “pro”, and “semi-pro”. - web site, Twitter, pro photos, etc. often scheduled. - regular leolist presence, without some or all of the above - more often available immediately. - comes and goes, works from home (no separate incall), often responds to immediate requests. Infrequent poster. Really. Only the first and second tier even think about this forum, and only the top tier will see it as “necessary” to participate or be “well reviewed”. The rest tend to respond better to the much maligned “you avail?” requests and it’s variants, which is why tier1 providers see it so much too, despite not responding. Personally, I think current change is as much driven by LeoList interaction as Twitter.

One of my my favorite memories of this is a wonderful redhead a few years back that came all over my face in 69, then next thing I know, she’s licking my face - wasn’t expecting the squirt and sure wasn’t expecting to be cleaned up that way!

Just a little perspective. I am new to these boards, but have been engaging in this hobby off and on for over 30 years. While all providers except the newest have more experience from their end by the numbers, there are few that go back that far. Some of my personal hesitance to deposits is probably just latent mistrust based on experiences with agencies and yes, street corners (put you money in your shoe). I also do what I say I will do and am just starting to book ladies that require prior day booking. I will say that it is worth it! I will also say that I HAVE been “no showed” numerous times on outcall from agencies - again all in the past, and largely US big cities. It’s also a bummer to wait for hours in your hotel room wondering, calling to no answer ... to late to do anything else ... The good news is old dogs can, indeed learn new tricks. If / when I book with a deposit, I will need to feel that I can really trust the provider. It really is a two way street. Now that I am clued in to this forum’s recommendations, I am more likely to be able to trust an established, well reviewed provider.

“Truth in Advertising” I had the pleasure of seeing SweetEmilyJ three times so far and have been wanting to shout her name from a mountaintop, so giving her a good review seems easier. The reason I say “Truth in Advertising” is because she lays it all out there for you on her very well put together website and blog. If anything she is understated when talking about herself and her abilities - including the part about blowing my mind - check - smoking crater where my mind was. I reread the main page of her site preparing for our third encounter, which was a bit longer, and it really amazed me how each word rang true. I was originally drawn by where I could tell her head was from the gallery and blog. Again, i was pleasantly surprised at how dead on accurate all the subtle inference was. The location is discrete and nice, she greets me waiting for her and is always ready on time and in immaculate mood and grooming. I strongly suggest following her guidance to do the same, she really is appreciative and makes it known. I could spend more time echoing past recommendations which now sound familiar, but have already said enough when I say, one more time. “Truth in Advertising”

Coffee, apples, milk, cream, .... groceries ...

Absolutely right that it is guys showing off for guys. I’ll bet you 10:1 there was At least two in the truck. Think of it as a form of chest beating. He was telling his buddies how virile he thinks he is at your expense. if he was alone, I am lost - I don’t do it myself and there has always been another present when I have witnessed this behavior, so always assumed they were being assholes to show off. My apologies for some other members of my gender who still drag their nuckles.